ഫാമിലിയായിട്ട് സർവീസ് ന് വിളിക്കുന്നവരുണ്ട് | RJ GADDAFI | MALE PROSTITUTE | PODCAST | MALAYALAM

In Kerala history, this is the first time we are featuring a male prostitute in a podcast.

We fix a rate for each fantasy. If we want to do something, we do it. Do you have celebrity encounters? Do celebrities call you often? We have celebrity encounters in Kerala and Tamil Nadu. Not only here, we call from all over the country.

We go and meet them. But when we meet them in person, we are like their camera man, or assistant or a make-up man. That's how they treat us. How do celebrities connect with you? Which age group of people come to you for enquiries?

More than 40. Some people ask their able to do it. They will ask their husbands, if they can come. Sometimes, they call us as family. Some group. We both will say, you come with us.

That's how the inquiries are increasing. Families call us more. If they are middle class, they call us from 15,000 to 20,000. If they are rich, 25,000 to 20,000. If it's a little more, it's 25,000 to 50,000. So, you don't get tired of having sex?

Other people might have that. My life is full of bad days. It's like that in my life. Everyone does the same thing. They make some money, set up a business, and leave it. They give us videos.

We upload the videos on the website and we get the payment how much is the payment? per month 50 to 1 from 50,000 to 1 lakh in my knowledge, there are many people in Kerala but no one shows their face

I have studied that if you have money you will have 4 people with you that is what I have studied in my life I was in my friends house for a few days they used to help me with their house and property and financed me a little

So I had to save them That's why I chose this option How much can you earn in a month? I can earn up to 2 lakhs Can you lead a happy life with these 2 lakhs? I mean emotionally. a male prostitute. For the first time in Kerala's history, we are featuring a male prostitute

in a podcast. Hi, you guys are watching Portrayals by Gaddafi. Before we start this podcast, we would like to say that the life of the person who is portrayed in this podcast

is his own life. We would like to say that we should not be influenced or motivated by it. Namaskaram. Due to some security reasons and privacy reasons,

we are not revealing your name or face. I know that the person sitting in front of me is a male prostitute. We have heard the story of female prostitutes in a place like Kerala. We have heard about their story of female prostitutes in a place like Kerala. We have heard about their lives through various media outlets. How is the life of a male prostitute? Are people like you very popular in Kerala?

How is the life of a G.Colla here? Not only in Kerala, but in all places. Tamil Nadu, Bangalore, Mumbai. Not just Kerala, but in all places. I go to places where they call me. I meet them.

I listen to their opinions. I listen to their feelings. Normally, everyone has feelings. I have a lot of experiences with their feelings. When I go to a place and meet a person. They are like... Their life is the same outside, but when they are in a bedroom, their character and personality are different.

So you reveal their sexual fantasies in a very comfortable way. Yes, I do. Let me ask you something. Why did you choose this profession? Was it a choice or a part of your life? Or did you bring it to this profession because of your life situation? What do you have to say?

No. I chose this profession because of my life situation. I didn't choose this at the beginning. I had a lot of offers. I was told that I would get paid. I was told that I would get paid.

I didn't choose it then. Later, I chose it because of the situation in my life. When we talk about a male prostitute, there is a higher chance of being judged. There is a chance of being mocked, there is a chance of being removed,

there is a chance of being isolated. Were you not afraid when you were selected? Some people might make fun of you, or try to change you, or try to isolate you. Were you ever afraid of this? I have been isolated in many places. Some people who I know isolated me. They asked me who gave me a house, who is going to keep me here.

When I rented a house here, I had a neighbor who knew me. They asked me who gave me a house, who is going to keep me here. I had some who knew me. They asked me who gave me a house and I had some issues. Then I had to leave my home country.

Now I am not in my home country, I am out of it. So why were there other options in your hands? But you didn't have the will to decide that this profession is enough. Actually I am talking about myself. I am not that qualified. I had some problems. I when people referred me, I thought I was a good guy and I changed according to my family situation. Did you ever regret it?

No, I didn't feel like that at first. Now I am happy. Do you have celebrity encounters? Do you have celebrity encounters? Do you have celebrity encounters? Do you have celebrity encounters? Do you have celebrity encounters? Yes, we have celebrity encounters in Tamil Nadu and Kerala. Not only here, we have celebrity encounters in all places. We have celebrity encounters in all places.

How do celebrities connect with you? We have a website for that. We have a website for that. We have a website for that. We have a website for that. and other websites. This is how they contact us. At the beginning, they don't ask if we can meet them.

They speak to us in a friendly manner. We don't know why they are speaking to us. One day, we will have a full chat. After that, they ask if we can stay with them for a day,

if we can go shopping or a picnic. They ask about our payment. We select them after asking them. When actors or celebrities in movies call you, they are very careful about their privacy. How do they keep their privacy and call you?

They have their own privacy. They call us at their own places. But when we call them in front of others, we are like their camera man, or their assistant, or their make-up man. That's how they take us with them.

When people outside see us, they might not have any doubts. Since they are in the film industry, they will see a lot of contacts. That's how we go with them. Who fixes your rate? How is it? Since it is in the film industry, they will have to make a lot of contacts. That is how we go with them.

Who fixes your rate? Is it you or the clients who fix your rate? No, we fix our rate. There are many people like us in this field. I am not the only one in this field. There are a few people I know.

We ask them about their rate. They will They say, this is the rate for you. I fix the rate according to that. How does the rate come? The middle class people know is around 15,000 to 20,000. If it is a rich class, it is around 25,000 to 50,000. So, people in Kerala are willing to pay 15,000 to 20,000?

Yes, there are people who are willing to pay 15,000 to 20,000. There are also people who pay 15,000 to 25,000. How many clients do you see in a month? 2 or 3 clients. Sometimes 5. Usually 2 or 3 clients. I have not gone above 5 clients and not gone below 2 clients.

What are the precautions you take in You have to take care of your health and safety. What do you do for those precautions? We do blood tests once a month. We do BDRL, SCD, etc. We check for any problems. We also check for food, diet, exercise, and workout.

We maintain all those things. We do tests every month. We check if there is any problem, then we check the food, diet, exercise, workout, we maintain everything properly. We do tests every month. To ensure that there is no problem, we consult a doctor and take the medicine called PrEP. The doctor has given us some tips, like how to follow it, how to check your safety when you go to the spot, we have an idea and we follow it. So when you call celebrities, they ask strictly?

Yes, they ask for the recent blood test report. Specifically, they ask for the HIV, VDRL, STD report. We say that we need the recent report. We show it to them. We ask the recent doctor's and they will fix it. How many years have you been in this field?

Two years. How many people have lost their body count? Body count? There are people who call continuously. Some people call in 3-4 months. I think there are around 60-70 people. We don't know much about the life of a prostitute.

We have heard stories about female prostitutes in movies. We know about it. We don't know much about the know how a male prostitute's life is like, or how a day is like. How is your life going? How is your normal life?

Do you discuss this with people? How is your normal life? How can we say this? Normally, it is like everyone else. Then, we do this a little more. We grow.

We should be a little bit. We try to be more glamorous in front of others. Whether it is in our body, face or in our dressing. We try to do things that are not attractive to others. Our lifestyle is like that. We try to grow our body grows a little more than others. So, personal sex life and professional sex life are two different things. How do you see these two different?

Well, there are different types of sex. Each person has a different fantasy. They say that they want it to be like this, sex should be like this. They tell their stories. So, we ask if we can stay here like that. So, we fix a rate for each fantasy.

If we want it to be like this, we do this and that. But they say, we have to stop the amount thing with this. When we are together, we say about the amount. We will give you whatever you ask for. But we would ask you to cooperate with us.

Okay.

Do you ever get bored of having sex? Normally, it happens. We don't get money when we are professionals. So I have never felt that way. You don't like it? I have never felt that way. I have a need for finance.

I have never felt that way. Have you ever had a bad experience from clients? Yes, I have. Sometimes, I go to a place and they don't have a hygienist. Before I go, I watch videos and ask for details. Sometimes, I go there and they don't have a cleanliness or a body smell. I have escaped from that situation.

I don't want to see them anymore. Then I ask them what happened. They said that I came back and left. I told them that I was not able to come back. They said that hygiene is important. But I felt like this when I came back.

So I fixed a date and left. How do you approach clients? Do you have an agency? No, we don't have an agency. We have a Facebook page. Through some websites, Do you have an agency? No, we don't have an agency.

We have Facebook and other websites. They just message me and talk to me. If I see a good profile, I just chat with them. They chat back to me. Some people can tell just by looking at the profile. Now everyone knows about it. Some people can tell by looking at the profile.

Now everyone knows about it. When they see the profile, they get it. They have a mindset. When they talk to me, they get it. Do you visit only Kerala or other states like Dubai? No, I have called Dubai and chatted with them.

I asked if I could meet them when I come here. But I have not been there. I have been to Kerala, Tamil Nadu, Mumbai, Delhi, Bangalore. I have been to many places and chatted with them. I have called everywhere. Not just Kerala, but everywhere.

Don't you feel scared? When you go to a stranger, to a stranger you don't know, and you go to a place alone. At first, I was scared. But now I'm used to it.

Now I'm not scared. I used to be scared in the beginning. Now I'm not scared anymore. Has anyone revealed this to your family? No, no one has told me about it. Have you ever faced such a scenario?

Yes, I have thought about it. If I have to tell my family about it, I have an idea how to react. I have done it, thinking react to that. I did it to see how it would come. Sometimes we have bad days, we are not okay emotionally, we have commitments for 10 days,

what do you do in such emotional days? Even if you are not mentally okay, you go and... No, sometimes others have such days. My life is full of bad days. It is like day in my life. I have some problems because I get paid. I have done some business before and got cheated. I have had to leave my country. I have not felt like that because of the amount they give me. Maybe others might feel that way, but I haven't felt that way. You mentioned that you are acting in porn as well as prostitution.

How did you start acting in porn? I started in porn. So you started from porn? Yes. I was in Porn at first. So you started with Porn? Yes, I started with Porn. Many people approached me after watching Porn. I asked them how they got to know me.

They said they had seen my videos and they knew me. That's how they contacted me. How did you start with Porn? How did you start? I was a model for a company.

Inner's. Thirupur Kottan. I saw the modeling of that company in the Jetty advertisement and some companies contacted me. When you were acting in Pondal, you must have known that it would circulate to people. Were you not afraid that it would reach people you know? I was afraid of that.

I was also afraid that I would have to react to the family because of some problems. But when I was in my business, I had some friends who helped me. I didn't have the support of my family. I had the support who helped me. I didn't have any support from my family. I had support from my friends. So I didn't think about my family at that time. I was saving my friends who helped me.

So I chose this because I wanted to save my family. Have you ever seen any of your cousins or family members who were caught in cousins or family members? I have never been caught. But I have been told that I have been caught. I have seen your photos. I have not been caught because I was a model before.

I have been caught in bold shootings. It has been published in many websites. People can get to know about it. So, it is not a model. It should be like that. But, I have not received any such questions.

Maybe, some people know about it. But, no one has asked me about it. We have seen in movies, that the hero loves prostitutes. They say that in Parimalajan's films? Yes, I have that experience.

When I go to a place, they tell me that they like me, that we can get married or live together, that they can solve my problems. They say that. But even now, there are a few friends who are going in a good understanding.

They have a good contact with me after coming to this field. Even now, it is going on like a love. Do you have love for your clients? I have not felt love like that, but I talk like I love someone. I talk like I like someone, or at least I call them. But...

Do you have an emotional attachment towards someone? No, I don't have an emotional attachment. But I have a good love for everyone. I have never felt that way emotionally. Do you ever want to get married? Or do you want of changing your profession?

I have an idea to change my profession. I don't want to stay in this profession for long. But I am looking for a good option to change my profession. How is it? When you are leading a life as a porn actor, are you happy? How do you seek happiness?

I am happy. I am happy. I am happy. I think that we can only have sex with people we like. What is your psychology? How do you control your sexual pleasure?

No, no.

We can only have sex with people we like. We don't feel like doing it with people we don't like. Since they are paying us well, we can satisfy them. I can't say this openly, but there are some things that we can't do. If we are a fan of someone, we can do that.

If we are not a fan, we can't do that. So we tell them, this is not possible, this is possible. They discuss it in advance. They ask us what we can do. We ask them and choose. But they don't force you to do certain things when you are paid.

They don't say that you will only be committed if you do certain things. No, when we go there, they will ask us what we can do and what we cannot do. They will tell us in the first day. We have experience in this. Some people may not get the feeling that we are doing it, so they will tell them in the beginning, if they can do it, if it's okay, if it's okay, then they can continue, if not, then they can stop.

Okay, so we have a lot of miscommunications regarding porn here, even among our kids. So, when you guys are shooting porn videos, do you guys get that pleasure? Or do you just pretend to get pleasure

to get an impact in the video and act like you are getting it? Do you get that pleasure or do you just pretend to act to get the impact of the video? Sometimes we act, sometimes we act seriously. We don't do this by compelling anyone. Everyone does it with love. Sometimes we feel and do it.

Sometimes they plan a script and tell us what kind of script we need. Then we have to act. Some videos might be fake. Not all original. Some might be real. Some might be fake.

There are many videos like that. Ok. Where do you shoot porn videos? In places like Kerala? Have you ever had any bad experiences while shooting in places like this? No, I have not had any bad experiences.

This is happening everywhere. Not just here, but everywhere. When you are shooting, is it in hotel rooms? Sometimes in hotels, sometimes in their homes. They call me to the places they like. Mostly in hotels, sometimes I do it in their homes.

How do you plan your future life? How do you plan to move forward in life? I have some problems, so I have to do this for a few days and then stop it. That's my idea. I am keeping it that way. There are many people in this field.

Everyone does the same thing. They make some money, set up a business, and leave it. I have 3-4 friends in Mumbai. They make some money in this field, start their own business,

and then leave. I also do this for a few days and then stop it. You said that you have a payment when you go to G-code. You said that you have to pay this much. How is the payment during the Pond Lobby? How is the remuneration?

Some companies will fix an amount and say that they will give this much. They won't give us videos. They will give us videos only to watch. They won't give us this much, but not videos. They will give us videos only to watch, but not videos. Some people will not give payment, but will give videos.

We will upload the videos on some websites, and we will get the payment from there. How much is the payment? Per month, it is from 50,000 to 1 lakh. 50,000 to 1 lakh you will get when you apply for the job.

When you upload it, 50,000 to 1 lakh will be received when you act in porn. Do you get the benefit of uploading it? Yes, that is what I am saying. That is the benefit. Yes, that is the benefit. Some people will not give BD, they will give payment. What is the payment?

That is also the same. It may be 50, 60, 70, 80, 1. Are there many actors who act in porn like you? Yes, there are many actors. But in my knowledge, there are many in Kerala, but no one shows their faces. But I think that in Tamil Nadu and Kerala,

the first one to show their face and act was me. Before that, I saw it in Mumbai and Bangalore. They came with their faces. The rest mostly came with their faces covered. Before that, I saw them in Mumbai and Bangalore. Most of them came with their faces covered. But in my opinion, I was the first one to come here with my face covered. When I first came here, I was the first one to come here with my face covered.

When you act in porn films, it is a common thing for men and women in the same way. So, there is a chance for us to meet someone we know, get to know them and contact them. So, have you ever seen someone you know or studied with you and messaged or called them?

Yes, I have. Some people ask me, they ask me if I am the one they saw. I have told them that I am the one who is saying this. Some people ask me if I am the one who is saying this. Some people say no, I am not.

Some people say yes, I am the one who is saying this. So, when you are saying yes, you are not any back-to-back discussions? No. If I had made a couple of videos, I would have said no. There are a lot of videos. If I see a lie, it will come out one day. So, why would I lie? I would say no and then I would accept it.

What was their response? Some of them didn't talk to me about it. Some people did. Did you feel sad when you saw people who were close to you, who had a career in this field, and stopped because of you?

Yes. Didn't you feel sad? I had a feeling. I didn't have any good qualities because of them. They can only say anything and do anything. They can't help me to reach the next stage in my life.

I never think about them. I have a lot of team who helped me. I have a few friends and families. It doesn't matter how my life is. but I have to save those who have helped me. That's why I chose this. When you go to the gigolo, which age group do you usually get inquiries from?

More than 40. Then 20-25 is very less More than 40 Is it more than 40? Yes, more than 40 Mostly 38-39

More than 40 Are the people who are married or not married? Some are married and some are not In a society, some people are a family The husband says Some people are not are a family. Some people's husbands are in a situation where they can't do it.

They ask their husbands if they can come. Some people's wives are in a situation where they can't do it. Mostly, it is above 40. More than 40. It's above 40, right? Yes, it's above 40. Do you feel a weirdness when you call your wife and husband together as a family?

Or do you go back and forth only as a client? No, I felt that way in the beginning. Sometimes, we call them as a family. Some groups. We both say, you should them as family. Some groups call us and ask us to come with them. In the beginning, I felt a bit weird.

I was like, why is it like this? When I went to the last, I saw that the number of enquiries was increasing. Families call us more. Now, it is like a fashion. Many families call us.

Now, it is like this. Almost, everyone is above 40. Everyone has ethics in their profession. Many families come here. Now, there are more than 40 families. Every profession has its own ethics. In my profession, I have compromised many ethics. What are the ethics that you follow? Or what are the things that you think won't compromise? In this field, I don't look at the compromise.

I look at the hygiene. That's all I look at. I don't look at anything else. I also look at the age. I mostly select people above 30. I don't go below that.

Sometimes, I select people between 25 and 26. I select very rarely. Mostly, I select 30-40 clients. As we said earlier, you have 1-2 days in a month. You have 3-4 clients maximum in a month. What do you do in the remaining days?

I am working as a trainer in a gym. Oh, okay. Sometimes I do that. Oh, okay. In Kerala itself? Yes, in Kerala itself? Yes, in Kerala itself. So, after you leave this profession, how do you plan to lead your life? I have a business that I am looking after.

It has almost started. I am following it now. I will do this for a few days and then I will set it up and stop it. That's how I am doing it. Have you ever had a plan to leave your profession and lead a life of your own? No, I don't have such plans. I just want to go on my own. I have seen many families like that. I have some experience. I don't want to live a family life anymore. I want to live my life as it is.

You have met a lot of people, around 100 people, right? What is the biggest lesson you have learnt in life? I don't know. Everyone has a different mindset.

I have learnt that if you have money, you will have friends. I have studied that there is no problem. I had a lot of friends when I had money. I didn't have any problems then. I did some business and some people cheated me. When I went to that place, everyone who was with me left me.

That is the reason why I chose this field. I knew that if I had money, everyone would be with me. So I chose this profession because I knew that money would make me successful. Now I am behind that. Is money the most valuable thing in life? Yes.

What about emotions? In my experience, I don't have any emotional value. If I have money, I have value everywhere. Have you ever regretted anything you did? Or have you ever thought of quitting this profession? No, I have never thought of it.

I had it in the beginning, but later on I never thought of it. At what point in your life did you feel that this is enough for you?

I was not very educated. What was the point in leading your life? I was not very educated.

I did some business in the beginning and then I left. I had to leave my home country. After that I did some other business. When I was doing well, some people who were in my business cheated me. After that, I was cheated and I started to get a family package. I bought a visa agency worth 30 lakhs to send me to UK. I couldn't give that money, so some friends helped me by financing their house. I was helped by some people from the finance department. When I found out that I was cheated there, my family and friends left me.

I was alone at that time. I didn't know what to do in life. I was thinking about suicide and was wandering around. Some friends told me to take care of me. I was at my friends' house for a few days. They helped me financially with their house and property.

I chose this profession because I wanted to save them. I didn't have a good qualification and I had some problems. I came to this profession because I wanted to do this. I am doing this because I saved them a little. So I don't want to go like this for a long time. I will go for a few days, solve their problems,

I am looking for a business, then I will go for it. I am thinking like that. How much can you do for a month's migration? I can get up to 2 lakhs. With 2 lakhs. With these 2 lakhs, I can get an average of 1 lakh, sometimes 2 lakhs, sometimes half.

Can you lead a happy life with these 2 lakhs? I mean emotionally. Emotionally, I am not happy. People outside say that I am happy. But. But I have a lot of emotional problems. My lifestyle is like that. I have not felt happy. It has been a long time since I felt happy. Some clients we call have emotional bondings. Yes, they ask me why I chose this.

When I tell them about me, they say they have helped me a lot. Thank you so much for the time. I never say that the people who make it a model or be influenced. I am just wishing you to reach a point of time where you can enjoy life beyond money. I sincerely wish you to reach that point of time. Thank you so much for the time.

Thank you so much for the time.

Thank you.