Anak Ini Baru Pertama Kali Makan Pizza, Sara Tak Kuat Menahan Tangis | Bicara Sara Wijayanto

Everyone has a story. Some are full of struggle, some are full of hope. And all of them can be an inspiration. Here we will hear the real story of people who dare to stand, fight and share.

Because life is not just about talking, but about the meaning behind every story. Speak from the heart, with me me, Sara Wijayanto. Before we start, I want to thank you for the beautiful set from Grandom which has been a special support for Bicara Sarawijayanto. Today, I have a special guest. Two fighters who strengthen each other in life.

Let's welcome Dewi Putri and her father.

Hello. Hello.

Let me help you.

Thank you.

Can you sit?

Thank you.

You're welcome.

I'm calling you guys as my older sister. This is Pita. What's your name? I'm Dewi, her younger sister.

Oh, you're her younger sister. I'm her older sister. So, you's your name? I'm Dewi, her younger sister. Oh, you're her younger sister. I'm her older sister.

So, you're a princess? Yes. Oh, Dewi Putri. How are you, sir? Let me ask her so she looks pretty in the camera.

Is it comfortable? Yes.

What grade are you and Dewi in?

Grade 6. Grade 6 in elementary school? Yes. She's about to enter junior high school.

She's about to enter junior high school. How old is she in sixth grade?

Twelve.

Twelve years old.

Twelve years old.

You can sit in the middle.

She's about to be twelve.

Twelve years old?

She's in her first year of high school.

Are you happy to come here?

Very happy. Do you like it here? I love it here. How do you feel when you're invited? Sometimes I'm doubtful. But I'm happy. Because I'm happy to be invited to this event. How about you, Putri? I'm happy.

I'm doubtful. It's my first time seeing it. Why are you doubtful? Because it's my first time. Oh, it's your first time? Guys, this is the first time Sarawijaya is talking. Interviewing Dewi and Putri.

Dewi and Putri, you're in 6th grade. Are you excited about school? Yes. Where's your spirit? My spirit? Where do you go to school?

SDN 381.

So, it's a public school?

Yes, it's a public school.

Can you tell us how it feels to go to school every day? I mean, you're limited, but you're still excited and happy.

I'm excited to go to school, I can meet my friends. Sometimes, there are people who bully me, but I... But? But I say, it's okay, what if you become me?

What if you become me?

Oh, so...

I like to be bullied. I'm like this because of God's creation. because of God's will.

So there are some who like to be bullied at school?

Yes, but I let it go. Oh, you let it go. What is it called, if Dewi and Putri, including those who like it, I mean, if there is, if I used to be lazy to do homework, what about you?

Don't be fooled, okay?

I, if there is homework, I work, if there is no, I memorize, memorize what has been discussed at school. The spirit of the school, both the same, do you have the same hobby? I like to draw, especially when I'm at school You're so passionate about school Do you have the same hobby? No, we're different What's the difference?

I like to play racquetball What's that?

It's badminton

Really? You play racquetball? I like to draw

We have the same bag You play racket? I like to draw and draw Same as us?

Oh yeah

What do you use to draw? I usually use a pencil or crayon Are you ever annoyed when someone wants something and you don't want it?

Have you ever fought?

Yes, we have.

What do you want to ask if you fight?

About...

There's a will.

There's a will.

Oh, yes.

So...

The will... So, the one who wants to draw, I want to... Play badminton. Yes. Sometimes, me and my brother make a bet.

What kind of bet? We make a bet like this. If I can't finish drawing in 10 minutes, I'll draw a badminton. So we won't fight.

That's so cute.

What do you usually ride when you go to school? Motorbike Motorbike? How do you ride it? So, my dad is in the front I'm in the back

You're used to it, right?

Yes, I'm used to it Before, I used to it, right? Yes, I'm used to it. Before, I was afraid of the motorcycle. But you're single. I'm afraid of being single. Because the road is narrow. Oh, yes.

So I'm looking for ideas. Oh, please give her a big hand, guys. This is a lot of spirit. Dewi and Putri are so passionate!

And what is your favorite school subject?

I like Indonesian because it's easy.

Indonesian language?

Oh, and you, Putri? P.G.O.K. Sports Studies. Oh, this one likes sports, guys. This one likes sports, guys. This one likes to draw, to draw. But she's very enthusiastic about school.

I'm so happy to see you guys are so enthusiastic about school. And you have your own hobbies.

And you guys fight sometimes, right? Sometimes. I mean, Dewi and Putri, you know.

But I fight for a short time. Because if I fight for a long time, I'm afraid of the enemy. In Islam, you can't fight for a long time.

So I apologize. I'm sorry

Sorry We're wrong We're wrong Please forgive me if I'm wrong

That's how it is, guys If you fight, you can't do it for a long time If you're forgiven, you have to apologize And that's it Give a round of applause Putri and Dewi! I learned a lot from you guys today.

Okay, I heard that... Dewi and Putri have different dreams.

Is that true?

Yes.

What are your dreams, Dewi?

I want to be an artist and a doctor.

Wow, you want to be an artist and a doctor. What about you, Putri? I want to be an artist and a doctor. Wow, you want to be an artist and a doctor. What about you, Putri?

I want to be a scientist and a doctor.

You want to be a scientist?

How did you come up with the idea of being a scientist?

Because I want to study things that aren't studied by everyone.

Oh, like what?

Like... Asteroids. What kind of artist? Like an asteroid.

You're perfect for me.

My grandfather was called the Indonesian UFO. UFO is a flying saucer from outer space. So, an asteroid is in outer space, right?

What do you want to be when you grow up if you were to be an artist, what would you be?

I would be an artist...

I mean, a singer or something like that.

I would like to be a singer like Ria Richis.

Oh, like Ria Richis.

But do you like to sing?

I like to sing sometimes.

Oh, so you like to sing together?

I like to sing. What song do you like to sing? Yes, sometimes. So, you like to sing together? What song do you like?

I like the song... What?

Kalawatan. That's amazing. I'm sorry, sir.

Is your mother still alive? No, she's not. After the pandemic? Yes, after the pandemic in 2019 and 2020, the cause was not the corona. So, I kept thinking about it.

So, I went to Lambung. I went to Lambung to get there. But, at that time, I only stayed there for a week.

Okay.

So, now you take care of the kids?

My father is alone. I'm the one who takes care of them. Sometimes Adei and Mama help me.

Mama is still here. Do you have siblings?

Yes. How many children do you have? Three.

One is a boy, two and three.

Oh, there's another one.

No, this is the last one.

Oh, this is the last one. Oh, this is the smallest one. I'm sorry to ask this, when you were a kid, was it hard to hear what people said or what was going on

in your family or in your environment?

Yes, it was hard. In the environment, outside, how could I? I wanted to survive I was wondering how they could survive in the environment. How could they survive with their children like this? I said, this is from God. As parents, we can't just let it go.

This is our flesh and blood. We have to try. Before, we tried to go there, to get medical help. But we couldn't. So I said, it's okay, I'll accept it. It's our responsibility as parents.

We have to be responsible for our children. They have to grow up. So when you first checked her pregnancy, you already knew his condition? Back then, it wasn't explained like this. But the USGS said he was pregnant. But it was dangerous.

But not in detail?

Not in detail.

Not in detail? Not in detail. Not in detail. Maybe when I was born, my parents and children, I had two choices. My mother and my children.

My mother and my children. You said you had been operated before.

Yes, I had.

What was the name of the operation? The first operation was to make a colon. In front of the leg. But it was a colon. It was in 2014. The leg was chipped.

In 2017, he had a leg amputation. There were four of them. But only three of them came out.

One was in the back.

Inside.

He was sick.

He was sick when he was sitting.

That's why you should... You should take care of your son. When I was in jail, I used to go to my son's mother's house. He complained to her. He said, just cut your own leg. I was scared.

Because it was uncomfortable. He had that kind of leg. Alhamdulillah, in 2017, there was an operation in Bandung. The leg was amputated. All of it was removed.

That's amazing, sir. But I... How do I say this? How did you get the strength to carry on with this. I see from the children that they are cheerful. They are still motivated to carry on with their lives.

How do you go about your daily life? What makes me motivated is to see this child who is always motivated. The motivation to carry on with life is of the child. The spirit of the child is the motivation. I see the child like this. I am always motivated. I always want to support my child.

My child's ability. People are tired and weary. But I see my children are always happy.

Dewi and Putri, what do you love about your father? You call him father, right? Father. Oh, father. What do you love about your father?

I love him very much. What do you love about him? Like... Like... There's no limit... No limits. No limits.

No limits. I noticed that Dewi and Putri... look older than their actual age. So, maybe Dewi and Putri...

are the ones who remind you, right? Yes, that's right. Sometimes I drop them and they cheer me up. For example, when I'm too lazy to take them to school, they encourage me to go to school. They say, don't be lazy, you'll be lazy yourself.

Even though I'm sick, I take them to school. But now, there's no one who can do it. There are some who can, but they're still hesitant to take her to school. They don't have the experience.

Dewi and Putri, when you're older, what do you want to give to your father when you grow up?

I want to live a long life. I want to live a long life for my father. I want to live a long life for my father. How do you feel about your children?

I don't think about them. I think about them when I'm there. But I'm happy. I'm happy that my daughter was sent far away. Alhamdulillah. How did you think about giving your you a gift.

I want to make you proud. If I can't do that...

Don't cry. Don't cry.

If you can't do that, just tell me? Don't cry.

If you can't, tell me.

Don't cry. Be brave.

Be brave.

You can do it.

Be brave.

You're still brave.

Because I love father so much. So you want to give him the best gift. You want to make him happy. That's right. But I just met you.

I feel your spirit and I'm so proud of you.

Today I learned from Dewi and Putri. I know you, I feel your spirit and I'm so proud of you.

And today I learned from Dewi and Putri, about the spirit of life.

Yes, about the spirit of life and have dreams and want to make parents happy.

Yes? Yes? Why are you sad? Can I ask for a tissue? I miss you, Mama.

I miss you, Mama. Aw.

I miss you, Mama. Aw.

I miss you, Mama.

I can't lose you, Mama. I can't lose you, Dad.

Aw, yes. Anyway, we... I'm here to pray for you. I hope one day you can give your dad a gift.

Yes.

You miss your mom, right?

If you had a mom, what would you say to her? Mom, I want to say to your mom? Mom, I want to pray for you. If you're still here, thank you for being there for me. I hope you'll be happy there.

Amen.

Don't be sad again.

Yes. I have to be strong. Be strong. But if we're to be strong. Be strong. But if we are sad sometimes, it's okay.

Yes.

Right? You taught us. You can be angry.

But what do you do after that? Apologize.

Apologize.

We cry.

But after that, we... We rise again. We rise again. We apologize to ourselves. To ourselves. To ourselves. and rise again Apologize to yourself to be able to rise again and be more enthusiastic

I learned from you guys and I will never forget this day

I met Dewi and Putri

I have to be more enthusiastic even though I don't have a mom but I still have a dad, grandma, brother, and grandpa. So I feel like I'm alone. It's okay, because mom is still in my heart. I can't see her in my eyes.

Mom is still in my heart. I can't see her in my eyes. But... But... We don't know if the spirits exist in the real world. But we don't want to see. I have an incident.

When I was... If I'm not mistaken, it was on Eid, I was at my mom's grave. I cried when I saw my mom's grave. I don't know why I cried, but I didn't want to. You didn't want to cry, but I don't want to cry. You don't want to cry, but you two are sure that... I can't see my mom's face.

Why? You keep your mom in your heart. You can't see her in your eyes, but you can see her in your heart.

I want to ask you now. I'm crying too.

I'm sad.

Okay. Now, the happy one. I want to ask.

Do you have a favorite food?

Yes.

What do you like?

I like... But each of them? Yes, you can. What do you like? I like fruits and cookies. You like fruits and cookies. What about you?

Chocolate.

Chocolate? Even if it hurts my teeth. I'm a hero Is there any food that you really want to try? Yes What is it?

Pizza What about Dewi? Pizza Have you ever eaten pizza?

No

No?

Okay, wait a minute

I have pizza for you two! Thank you!

Try it. I'll get it later.

Pizza.

One for you.

Thank you. You're welcome.

Here.

Try it.

How is it? It's good. How does is it? It's good. How does it taste? It's good. I just tried it.

Are you happy?

Yes.

Have you ever eaten pizza? No.

No? I will send you a lot of pizza.

Is it good?

Yes.

Have you ever eaten pizza?

No.

No, right? How do you know about pizza? I saw it on TV or TikTok. Besides pizza, is there anything else you want to try? Something you've never tried before? What is it?

Wait a minute.

Oh, she said wait a minute.

But is there? Yes. Yes? Fried potatoes.

Oh, fried potatoes.

What else?

That's it. Just two.

Oh, just two.

Is the pizza good?

It's good.

Do you like it? I like it.

If Dewi and Putri make you happy, what would it be?

Dad's smile.

Dad's smile?

Yes. When Dad smiles, it feels like he's really excited. When Dad smiles, it feels like he's so excited. When I see you smile, I feel so excited.

Is there anything else that makes you happy?

When I see you smile. When you smile at me.

So, when you see me happy,

that makes you happy too?

I feel very excited! Oh, you're very excited? To continue living.

To continue living and you have dreams to become artists, right? You want to become artists, right? You want to become artists and both of you want to become doctors, right? And I want to ask you one more thing. Are you happy to have each other?

Yes, we are. I have a friend now. Because I can't go anywhere at home. So I have a brother.

So you two don't see this as a limitation, right? Yes. So you don't see this as a limitation, but rather as a motivation to live and work. And an advantage. Dewi and Putri are so mature. But now you're working now? I'm not working now, but I'm self-taught. I can't leave my children,

I have to make a living. So, I'm just staying at home. I'm a farmer.

But you're doing everything you can to make sure no one leaves you behind. Do you have any friends? Do you have any friends at home?

At school.

Or at school? At school. At school, a little. So you're all alone at home? There's Rika, Rahel, Alini, Nagam, Kasih. That's it? 5 people?

It's okay, we're better with small circle. But you have friends who play with you, right?

Yes, but I don't talk much.

Oh, you talk a lot?

So if he doesn't gossip, what do you do? I don't gossip.

So you're friendly

But if you play together

If for example one...

Just the two of us

Huh?

Just the two of us

Oh, okay

I have a toy I always make toys for my brother And I also make toys for my brother Sometimes I like to play with my brother

Oh, yes, you have a younger brother. How old is he?

He's a year and a half old. He's my younger brother's son. Oh, younger brother's son. He's my nephew. Oh, so you're his cousin.

Okay.

So, they... They can walk in sync, right?

They always sit on the wheelchair, right?

Yes, always on a wheelchair? Yes.

How long did you practice?

I had to walk for 3 months.

But now I can use a cane.

Oh, you can use a cane now.

You couldn't before?

Is it hard to practice?

It's hard.

Sometimes I feel dizzy, but I can get up again. Because I want to walk, I, to run like other people. I want to run like other people.

Wow, so you want to run like other people. That's why you're so motivated to practice walking. Not on a wheelchair anymore. This left foot has control over you. This one on the right is you. The one on the left is me.

Putri. I'm moving this. I'm moving this. This is the one moving. That's why you have to learn to be consistent. To be compact.

To work together.

To work together.

So, you've been doing this for three months straight?

Yes, we've been doing this for six months, nine months.

We've been doing it smoothly, and now we're training at home. How long have you been doing this? I mean, from the first time you learned to today.

Nine months. Oh, it's been a long time, 9 months. Oh, it's been 9 months. Wow, that's pretty fast. 9 months and you can work together.

What do you use at school? We use special wheels to make the tables.

Each of us has one. We make it and design it from the hospital. My brother's hand is on the right, and my sister's on the right hand side. So it's on the side.

The sign is on the side. So it's not a triangle. It's on the side.

So it's made specifically.

Yes, it's designed specifically.

For her.

But if you can already work together and have a good relationship,

you can go anywhere, right?

Now, it's just a step by step.

Yes, but I saw you were already very good. But you said you wanted to have a big surgery, right? When was the last time you had a major surgery?

The last time was in 2017. The result was that the child couldn't be separated. The organs were interlocked. Even though it was forced, it wouldn't close. Even though it was a single uterus, it will be the same. Even if you have one korban, it won't be closed.

Dewi and Putri, can I ask you another question? Yes, go ahead.

If you were born without a mother, what would you do?

If I were born without my mother, I would feel happy but lonely.

What about you, Dewi?

I wouldn't have anyone to play with.

So you two are really complementing each other. Yes. God gave you two, Dewi and Putri, to complement each other.

So what did you say?

Yes, each of you has a corn. But the police is a union of hearts. So each of you has a cor. But the police is a union of hearts. So each of us has our own talent. The final result is... ...apart from the organs that are connected... ...it's also the vital organs.

But maybe that's why... ...Putri and Dewi...

...be became one. So sometimes the sad ones can be together. But I'm curious about women. I'm still thinking about it. Do women have a womb? Maybe in the future. As we grow older, we need to know our parents.

If there are women, are there any wombs? Because there is only one womb. Oh, there is only one womb.

Maybe we should go to the doctor.

We should go to the doctor. We should go with the time.

Yes, to see what the condition is like. And maybe there will be a good way for everyone, yes? Dewi and Putri, yes?

How do you feel now? Exciting! Exciting to talk! Oh, talk, talk, this is the first time, right? Yes, like talking to Besti Wow, like talking to Besti

I'm not far from you guys How old are you guys? 12 yearsesti I'm not far from you guys How old are you?

12

I'm 14

Dewi, Putri

Do you have a prayer or hope for each of you? Prayer or hope? I hope I can walk and play with my friends. In the future, I want to make my dad proud. So that I can walk. So if I can walk, I can help my father. Help your father.

With parents, we have to respect and appreciate them.

What about you, sir? Hearing the girls, what I've noticed is that the daughters is in you.

Praise be to God, I am also a son.

What are your hopes for the future? I hope my children will always be healthy.

I hope their dreams she wants to achieve will come true.

That's it.

I hope the dreams she wants to achieve will come true.

Please give a round of applause for Dewi Putri. Dewi, Putri, thank you for coming to talk to Sarabji Nyayanto. I learned a lot today about strength. Thank you. I learned a lot today about strength and I learned from you about sorry, like if we get angry, we can get angry, but after that we have to apologize And with all your limitations, you still have the spirit

and want to try to achieve anything to make your parents proud. Thank you, Putri and Dewi.

Thank you so much.

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I'm so tired

We'll play again later Okay?

We'll play again later We'll draw together But I can't play badminton

It's okay, we'll just draw

I like drawing Oh, you like drawing If you draw together, it's okay But not for Minto

Thank you

Don't cry again The beauty will disappear

Thank you The limit never limits the dream As long as there is the courage to take a step forward I hope the story of Dewi and Putri can be an inspiration for all of us and always be grateful and always be motivated to live

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