Ep 69: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

It's your host Arlette and we are here with another episode of Pop the Balloon or Find Love and we've got some single men lined up. Make some noise guys. All right, so we're going to be bringing out some single ladies one by one. When she comes around this corner, if she's your type, you like what you see,

you like what you hear, do not pop your balloon. However, if there's anything that you're really not feeling, you cannot see yourself dating this woman, go ahead and pop your balloon, and I'll go over to each of you

and see why you ended up popping. Are you guys ready?

Yes. Yes, okay, okay. Well, with that being said, let's go ahead and bring out our first single lady. Hello, welcome in. Hi, everybody. What's your name? My name is Ana. Ana, how old are you?

I'm 37. And where are you from? I'm from St. Louis, Missouri, but I live here. Okay, nice, and what do you do? I am a licensed cosmetologist, and I do a little freelance image consulting on the side. Yes, okay. So what are some things you like to do for fun?

Um, I like to do a lot of stuff for fun. Anything that allows me to dress up and look cute. I like to eat. I like to try new things to cook, try new restaurants. Um, I like to be at home, so I like to bake cookies, take a bath, watch a series or something like that. So any and everything. Okay, and what do you look for in a man? I'm gonna try to keep the list short. Okay.

I look for someone encouraging, a God-fearing man. And when I say that, I don't mean you have to know every scripture, but be able to pray. Pray for me, pray for our family. Someone respectful, someone that has self-control. I don't like a heavy drinker, so.

Yeah.

Uh-oh.

Yeah, so that's what I look for in a man. Someone that's consistent. I value integrity, I value somebody that's gonna be themselves in front of me

and when they go home. Perfect, okay.

And now what are some of your deal breakers?

Deal breakers. Children under four, if you smoke cigarettes, anything of the opposite of what I just listed. So if you don't have a relationship with God, that's pretty much it. Just having self-control as a man, be able to lead. Okay, so we did get a pop balloon. Let's go on over there see why he ended up popping. Okay, let's start here with your name and age. My name is Jeremy Roy. My age is 34. And Jeremy, what do you do? Right now I work at the biggest

distribution in Arizona. I work for Function Foods out here in Arizona. So it's a big warehouse distribution. We distribute all foods to different products in different big stores. And why did you end up popping your balloon?

Because she said she don't like a heavy drinker. I just got done drinking. Thank

you for being honest. Was you drinking heavy here?

I was drinking heavy here and before I got here.

It's hot. It's too hot to be drinking. See?

That's a no. If you can drink in this heat.

No. Okay.

Now is he someone that's your type?

Um, not really. He's handsome, but I'm not a fan of the outfit, which I'm not picky about that because that can be changed, but it just that's what you chose to wear so no thank you. Yes I appreciate that. No worries. Let's head on back this way. All right so we do still have quite a few guys with their balloons on pop so let me hand you a pic. I didn't think it was gonna go this way. Okay so hold on to that and I'm gonna have you pop. Let's go with two balloons. Okay we'll charge this to our lady not to my heart because I would not pop on nobody based off what you're wearing. So I'm gonna just go with my jitters. I'm sorry, y'all.

Okay, one more. All right, let's start with the first one you popped.

We can have your name and age.

Lawrence, 45.

And Lawrence, what do you do?

I'm a retired military and I'm a government contractor.

Nice, thank you for your service.

So why was your balloon unpopped? Oh, she looked good. I love the outfit, love the shoes, love the height. Yeah.

Thank you. 4'11".

Yeah. That's pretty much it.

Okay. And now why'd you end up popping his balloon? I don't really have a good reason. I just popped because I had to go between all the people. I don't know. Maybe it was the hat. Maybe I wanted to see what kind of hair you had or if you have any under there. But that was probably all, just the hat. Yes, ma'am. Are you bald?

I am. See, I like bald. All right, thank you. Yes, go on over here. You're her name and age?

James Joffrey, I'm 37. security guard and a podcast host at Just Acting Up Show. And where was your balloon unpopped? I like how she presented herself, how she carried herself. She speaks very articulate, lovely woman, A-Queen. Other than that, yeah, just wanted to hear what she had to say.

Okay, nice.

And why gender poppin' heads?

You have beautiful eyes. I just really didn't like the outfit. I feel like it could have been better, which I normally don't pop off clothes because that can be adjusted. That's what I do. I dress people. So yeah, but I just have to go off of right now. So yes, I love your eyes. Thank you, love.

All right, let's head back this way. We are down to four unpopped balloons. Go

ahead and ask our remaining guys a question. Okay, um, where do you reside? Do you have kids and are you in a career that you love? Can I do a three? Okay, let's go over here then. Name and age first. Okay, my name is Adam. I'm 42, no 43. And I live in Casa Grande.

And what do you do? Oh, case manager for the state.

Do you love that? Or is that something you just do to pass you?

It's actually pretty interesting because you get to really help people. And then you go to people's house and you actually see like really how people live and you know trying to make sure that because I work with kids so trying to make sure that the kids that environment is going to be safe for the kids. So it's really important so I love the job.

Do they have kids? No. Okay, what's going on over here? Your name and age first?

Bryson Lawson, 43. I'm a fashion consultant. Also, I'm a fashion stylist. And I'm an education specialist. I love what I do. Fashion first.

I have a son, he's 11, Bryce. My joy.

You said, what was the last question? Where are you from? Where I'm from. Do you reside here? I don't reside here. I reside right now in Orlando, Florida. Okay. Okay. What's going over here? Your name and age first. My name is Andrico Gibson. I'm 38. What was the question? Do you have any kids? What do you do and where do you live? I got two kids, eight and eleven, two boys. I live in Houston, Texas. I'm the CEO of the famous Wingspot Midwest Coney Connection in Houston.

And I act and stuff like that, but nothing major.

Cool.

Thank you.

And last but not least, your name and age and the answer to her questions.

My name's Rasheed Silvera, I'm 45. I live in Tampa, Florida. I got two kids, 21 in college, 6 and stay in Georgia. What do you do? Commercial roofing inspector. I've been doing that for 12 years. Then I design and I build restaurants, so I get hands-on with it and I own two Airbnb properties.

All right, is that time? You do have to pop one more balloon. Okay, can I say what I, my answer mine

just in case you wanna pop on me?

Just in case.

Okay, so I have two children. Well, two young adults. I have a 21 year old daughter. She lives on her own. Shout out to the Allure Collective, best birthday in Phoenix. and then I have a 17 year old son, he's a senior. Okay. Yes, I'm a licensed cosmetologist, y'all already know that, and I live here in Arizona,

but I'm from St. Louis.

Okay, nice.

All right.

Ooh.

Okay, let's go see what he ended up popping.

All right, why did you pop your balloon?

I live in Houston, I ain't, traveling ain't bad, but you know, you live way out here in

Phoenix. It's too hot for you, huh?

It's hot as hell.

Yeah, I get it.

I get it.

OK.

You're beautiful, though.

Thank you.

I appreciate you.

Yeah, you're beautiful.

So it was just the distance for you.

It's just the distance. I mean, I don't know. 21-year-old, too.

How old are you? Oh, we the same age, okay. You're 21 years old. You're beautiful though. Thank you. And now is he someone that's your type? Yes, he's handsome. I like the way he's dressed. Oh, thank you.

I like dress shoes though, but it's a personal preference.

It's last minute.

Yeah, it's personal preference. I get it.

All right, thank you.

Thank you.

You make me wanna walk backwards too. All right, so we've got three guys left. Go ahead and ask them another question. Ask them another question. So hypothetically, if we were dating for a while, let's say like three months, and we build up a rapport of talking all the time, and maybe we go one day or something without talking, or I don't answer, how do you go about communicating something you don't like?

Let's start there and head back this way.

All right, we'll start over here. You said, how do I go about communicating something I don't like? Yes, like especially if we like been dating for a while, not like something fresh, because of course you don't really have much to say.

So if me and you been dating and we talking for a couple months, and you go missing.

Not go missing or maybe something is off, like I text back or it'll take me longer to respond. Oh you gotta turn that location on anyway so you already gonna have that location on

I'm already gonna know where you at. Okay so that's how you resolve communication. I'm gonna get a little clingy with it you know what I mean. We go to dating for a couple while I'm gonna like you, you like me you know. So you'll know the algorithm that's cool. All right, and what about over here? As far as you going ghost, I be in my own world sometimes. I'm just like you. And that might be my biggest problem too. So but you going ghost won't be a problem. You know, as long as we communicate,

I would just text you and just make sure I check on you, see if everything good.

And what about over here?

I really don't think it's a big deal, because people get busy. So you need to be able to understand that. Because I would love the same thing coming from her. I'm not getting frustrated because I didn't answer the text message right away. So I think it's a give and take. So that's really important.

So I wouldn't mind.

Thank you. So I am now going to have you pop one balloon. All right, so why was your balloon unpopped?

I like the way she dressed. It's pretty nice. It's not too revealing and it's really, really good.

I like the style. you and why don't a pop in his I just like their answers better um yeah I don't have any complaints okay thank you all right we are down to two guys guys any questions

for our lady here you're ready okay yeah we'll start here we'll be over there

soon um on a sad day, like you were saying, like not communicating, going to ghost, what do you do to bring yourself up?

Firstly, I'm going to pray for sure. I'm probably already doing that. I'm listening to gospel. Pray, listening to gospel, doing stuff with my kids. That's what brings me joy. Hanging out with my daughter and figuring out what she got going on. She's pretty well known so being in her business is my fun. But yeah just pretty

much praying. Like I said I like to sit at home. I bake cookies all the time so yeah I figure it out. Okay, thank you. I don't have too many sad days though to be

honest. That's good. All right any questions here? Yeah see I feel life is

all about life and you got got your own passport? Yes. OK. See, that's really all I want to know. We're going to hit the highway. Same way we flew out here, we're going to fly somewhere else.

All right.

OK, sounds good. Well, let's head on back this way. All right, Anah, I am going to have you pop one more balloon. You got one that's gonna help you determine between the two of them? Yes. Okay, go for it. Okay, so what is love to you? Like, how would you define what makes you feel love?

Not like, oh, what's my love language, but what are you longing for?

Like, this is what I needed a woman to make me do this or make me feel this way.

Okay.

Well, one, I love love. I got Drake love. That's number one. But like, as far as like just feeling love, like communication, that's my biggest thing. Like that's not a love language, but that's just number one key of all. So, like I said, I got Drake love. So, I definitely have it for you.

Okay.

Okay.

All right.

And what about over here?

Love for me, love is more about loyalty with me. I done had a lot of people use, abuse me, you know what I mean? Like take advantage of me. So now I'm looking for more loyalty, you know what I mean? Don't hit the safe. Don't be all with the

foolishness. What you say you do against my don't hit the safe? Don't hit the safe.

What do you do? You contracting? Yeah, I'm contracting. All right, it's that time now. Go ahead and pop one balloon.

Harlett.

I know, everybody said it's tough.

That's your cousin? Well tell me something about him then, because you know.

He said that's his cousin?

Yes.

Yeah, that's my cousin.

We are cousins. Yeah. You're a great man. But this is a competition. It, that's my cousin. They're cousins. Yeah, great man. But it's a competition. We fighting for a woman right now.

Well, both of y'all square up, and whoever win the fight.

Whoever win the fight.

I can't fight.

I definitely can't fight. I can't fight.

So you're not a fighter.

All right, so why was your balloon unpopped? Listen, she is gorgeous. Thank you.

You my type. You match my fly.

Absolutely.

I know.

You said you design clothes and stuff.

We probably could have put some outfits together.

You got everything going for yourself, and I like what you got going on. Keep on pushing, though.

Thank you.

I appreciate you so much.

Absolutely.

Absolutely. Nice.

Thank you. I'm gonna have you join us on up here. Come on up. I'll have you stand over here.

All right, so any final question between the two of you before we determine if there's a match?

No?

No.

I got a question, do you have a problem traveling? I don't have a problem traveling,

but I'm probably gonna pop, so.

You gonna pop?

Yeah.

Okay.

What, cool, all right.

Why did you want to pop? Just because I feel like I was a little shaky on the career. I don't know. I've been with a lot of people that are flashy and on the go like that and it kind of just didn't work out a little. All right, so you had your balloon till the end. Why so?

Oh, she said about the career. It just is what it is. You know, I like what I like. I did a lot of time in the feds. I'm here where I'm at. I'm 13 years at a commercial roofing company. I own my own business. I feel like you gotta live life to the fullest.

Okay, thank you.

Well, I'll have you head on back, please.

You're stressing, I do like the suit. All right, well, unfortunately, that is all the balloons popped,

but thank you so noise for her guys. All right, let's bring out our next single lady.

Hello, welcome in.

What's your name?

Andrea.

Andrea, how old are you?

I'm 42. And where are you from? I am from California. California, okay. Los Angeles area. Nice, what do you do? I am in the entertainment business. I've been I am in upper management, excuse me,

not the entertainment business. I'm also a business owner. I do consulting for business credit grants. I'm a boutique owner as well and I'm in the process of opening another business as well. Nice and what are some things I could do for fun? For fun I love a brunch, I love to travel. I've been I manifested traveling so I've been traveling a lot this year. Okay and now what are some things you look for in a man? In a man I need the man to be healed, I need him to be God-fearing. I need him to be able to

communicate and to be transparent. Okay and now what are some deal-breakers? Some deal-breakers is not being transparent and not being able to communicate and articulate if there's an issue. Okay all right so we did get some

pop balloons. Let's head on over there see why they ended up popping. Start over here. Your name and age? My name is Adam. I'm 43. The reason why I ended up popping the balloon was the traveling parts, right? I love to travel but most of the time like when women talk about traveling is more as the men doing all the buying. So I'm yes I was a little bit concerned about that fact. So that's it. But you look good.

I love the dress. I love the shoes. And the smile is fantastic.

So great.

OK.

So is he someone that's your type?

Not typically, no.

And why not?

I don't really think the hair is that neat. Um, but you are handsome, but typically not my type.

Thank you.

Let's head down over here.

Your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon?

My name's Jeremy Roy, I'm age 34. I pop my balloon because I'm just trying to see if you taller than me. And right now I just can't see that. So that's the reason why I pop my balloon.

And how tall are you if I can ask? I'm 5'6". I'm 5'10". And now is he someone that's your type? No. Okay, why not? I mean, there's nothing against the short kings because my ex-husband was actually shorter than me, but no, just not.

Thank you.

Let's go on here.

Your name and age.

My name's Andrico. She's gorgeous, you know what I'm saying? I was looking on, you so tall though. Like I feel little over here. And I ain't never been with nobody taller than me, so I ain't know how that would look. But you beautiful.

I think one of these gentlemen gonna be lucky.

And is he someone that's your type?

No.

Okay.

And why not?

Just physically not there initially, cause I don't really know him like that, but just initially. Initially off of it no. Okay yeah no no issue yeah no issue. You saying I'm fat or something? What you saying? I definitely did not. You licked that in my stomach. I actually was doing a whole up and down. I'm trying to figure out what you want. You guys did a whole up and down for me when I came in.

You beautiful though. Thank you. Thank you. Let's head over here. Your name and age? Lawrence Fortify. And Lawrence, why'd you end up popping your balloon?

It's just initial attraction. I wanted to stick around and kind of listen to it a little bit but I was like, nah, let me just go ahead and pop.

Okay, okay.

And now is he someone that's your type?

No. All right, and why. We did get another one back over here. Your name and age and white agenda popping up below.

Name, Bryson Lawson, 43. It was just a commute. I was like, I would come. You're beautiful, first of all. That's just number one. I know I'll come to Cali one time and I probably wouldn't come back again.

So just a commute, that's all. Okay, I get it. And is he someone that's your type?

Well, yeah, he's handsome.

Okay.

Yeah, maybe.

Thank you.

You're welcome.

Thank you.

All right, we are down to two balloons.

Go ahead and ask our remaining guys a question. If I was to ask your ex to describe you in three words, what would they say?

Okay, if she were to ask your ex to describe you in three words, what would they say? Name and age first.

James Joffrey, 37. Oh, sorry.

Actor, host of Just Acting Up show.

So what would your, the three things your exes would say about you?

Three things my ex would say about me loving caring very nurturing

And yeah a leader

Your name and age and answer to her question, hey, how you doing Rashid severa 45, Orlando, Florida And what my exes say about me the truth Shoot only your sister around him. Well, he's something serious. That's what she'll say.

Okay.

So why'd you end up popping your balloon?

Oh, cause the grass ain't always green on the other side. I messed up, we'll show that.

All right, so is he someone that's your type?

No.

Okay, and why not?

It's kind of flashy with the chains.

Yeah, thank you.

Back this way, so his balloon is still unpopped.

Is he someone that's your type?

No.

No, okay, and why not?

Probably just physically, I'm not attracted to him initially. I mean, you are handsome, you have beautiful eyes, but no.

It's all good, thank you.

Me?

You're very lovely.

Thank you.

You want me to go ahead and pop then?

I can pop.

Yeah.

Oh, you want to do it on us?

You want to pop the balloon?

Sure, I'm happy.

Oh, here, well, enchante.

There you go.

Thank you. Why was your balloon unpopped? She's lovely. The dress, everything, the way you carry yourself, articulate. Older women, it's kind of like my Achilles heel. But yeah, just a lovely woman. I love the way you carry yourself.

And yeah, hope you find somebody that's really truly for you.

Thank you.

Thank you.

OK, let's head back this way. Well, unfortunately, that is all the balloons popped. But thank you so much for coming on. I'll take the mic.

Let's go ahead and give it up for her guys.

Okay, let's bring out our next single lady.

Hello, welcome in. What's your name?

Leila.

Leila? Leila. Leila?

Leila.

Leila, how old are you?

35.

35, okay, where are you from?

Connecticut.

Connecticut, what do you do?

I am a registered medical assistant and I instruct it as well.

Okay, very nice.

What are some things you like to do for fun? Oh, I love to travel. Clearly I'm here. I love like just taekwondo. Me and my son do it together. And just you know just with friends. Okay. Nice. And what do you look for in a man? Oh, God-fearing. I would definitely say someone who loves to travel as well. Someone who is very just caring

and just very like emotionally intelligent.

Someone who loves to be themselves.

Really.

And now what are some deal breakers? Oh, deal breakers, not emotionally intelligent. I would definitely say someone who is not in tune with themselves. If you don't like to travel, I'm not for you.

Yeah, that's pretty much it.

Okay, sounds good. So we did get some pop balloons. Let's go on over there and see why they ended up popping. Okay. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

My name is Adam. I'm 43. The reason why I popped the balloon was I love the outfits. Thanks. Yes, it's really nice. Thank you. but yes, it's really nice. But you're not really my type. So that's the reason.

That's fine.

Okay, thank you.

Thank you. You're handsome.

And so what makes her not really your type?

I like them a little bit dark skin. Yeah. Oh, okay.

Darker skin, yes.

That's fine, thank you.

Is he someone that's your type? He's very handsome. I mean, minus his shoes. I love the getup. You know, you have a beautiful smile. I think you're very handsome. Yeah. But I'm just not a fan of the shoes.

Thank you.

Let's go in here. Your name and age and white agenda popping your balloon.

Bryson, 43. Just not like physical attraction. That was it. Other than that, you're beautiful. I like your eyes. You're a beautiful woman. Just physically just not my type. Thank you. Other than that, good with me.

Thanks. And now is he someone that's your type? He's very handsome. Yeah, he's cute. Okay. It's the glasses for me. You're cute. Okay. Yeah. Let's go and hear your name and age and

wedge gender popping your balloon. Jeremy Roy. My name is Jeremy Roy, my age is 34, and I pop my balloon just because you say you know how to do Taekwondo and I don't need no woman beating me up because I can't fight that good. So that kind of like to the left, but besides that, you beautiful. I like the poetic, just the braids you got going on and you light skin, so that's a big

win. But other than that, that's the only thing I just don't want to fight. Alright. Can I tell you why I do it? Yes, for sure. Okay, so I do it because it's good with self-discipline. Okay. Okay, it gets my mind together. It's not because I want to beat you up, but it's because I need it for self-control. Okay, I got that. Just keep that in mind. I get that. Alright. And is he someone that's your type? He's cute. I think he has a very nice

as a style. Okay, you're just a little short than what I'm used to, but you look cute. Thank you. Okay. Let's head down over here. Your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon?

Lawrence 45. I popped my balloon simply because of just an initial attraction. I think you look good. I think you're a lovely girl. You got really good energy. The whole nine yards, but you look just like somebody in my family.

Yeah.

Somebody in your family?

I hope she's beautiful.

She is. She is.

She is, but I had to pop. So yeah, that was my reason.

I hear you. Thank you. I appreciate it. He reminds me of an uncle. I'm not even gonna hold you. My grandfather is really big on hats, so I do feel like I love your hat. Thank you. But yeah, you have a nice sense of style.

I do appreciate that, but you do look more older

than what I'm used to, so yeah.

Yes, ma'am.

I appreciate that.

Thank you.

Let's head down here.

Your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon? Rashid, 45. When she initially came out, it looked like her chin is connected to her neck. So I'm like, it looked like a cartoon figure. So I'm like, I ain't doing that. Initial is attraction. I like you, I want your chin to go like that.

Go for it. Okay, but coming from somebody with all fake jewelry, I'm sorry. It'll never be that. But thank you, I do appreciate your constructive criticism.

Thank you.

Is he someone that's your type?

No. No.

Way too flashy.

I'm sorry.

Thank you. Say that.

All right, we did get a pop back over here.

Your name and age,

and why did you end up popping your balloon? My name is Andrico Gibson, I'm 38. You're pretty. Thank you. I'm a sucker for light skin so you know. Thank you. I felt like you was about to ride my man on the left like you look you thought about it so I know you got it in you. No. You saw I saw I saw the yeah. No. No. But you kept that type, whatever you do?

It's the composure.

I saw it though, but before you should've, I saw something red start happening in your eyes.

Okay, okay. Thanks.

Is he someone that's your type? Yeah, he's very handsome. I'm not even gonna hold you.

Thank you.

Definitely my type. I love the outfit. I could definitely see, you know, you cute.

I'm sorry you popped your balloon.

I'm pretty sure you pretty too.

You like you pop off zero to a hundred though.

No, no. I'm a sweetheart.

Is you, okay.

I'm a lover, not a fighter.

Nice meeting you.

But you as well.

Thank you.

You got one unpopped balloon over here. Your name and age and why do you still have your balloon unpopped? James Joffrey on, 37.

She seemed really cool, really sweet, really down to earth person. I just wanted to hear more what you have to say. And that's just me as a person. I like to hear people out and see who they are as a person. But you seem like a really beautiful and cool person.

Thank you.

I appreciate that. And is he someone that's your type? He's very handsome. I do appreciate you coming out

For the shoes for the outfit. I do not appreciate but you look very handsome

It's not something that I would never pop on because I do feel like the outfit does not you know

Characterize your character. So yeah, I love to hear more

Ask each other some questions go ahead. Okay. Where are you from?

Houston, Texas.

Okay.

What part of Houston?

I'm from all around. I move around a lot. What place do you do for work? I'm an actor, part co-host of Just Acting Up show and security guard.

I do a lot of things.

How old are you?

37. You're 35 correct? Yeah. Why the face? What's going on? I'm gonna be honest. I'm gonna have to pop. Only because I feel like where I'm at in life I know what I want to do. I'm very solidified in who I am. I'm not like a every type of weird, like, oh, where is the bird going type of female. So yeah.

That's the only place, but you are handsome. Thank you for coming out. You guys look awesome.

You guys are cute.

You wanna pop the balloon?

You wanna do it?

Yes, I'm so sorry.

Yeah, just pop the balloon.

There you go.

Appreciate it. All right. Thank you. Thank you. All right. Well, unfortunately, that is all the balloons popped. But thank you so much for coming on.

I'll take the mic.

Yes, absolutely.

Give it up for her, guys.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Thank you. Hello, welcome in. What's your name? My name is Moniel, but you can call me Moni. Moni, how old are you? I'm 35. 35, okay, and where are you from? Louisiana. Louisiana, and what do you do? I'm a licensed clinical social worker. Okay, what are some things you like to do for fun? I love to travel, but outside of traveling, I love working out. I go to the gym five days a week. I enjoy reading, journaling, listening to music, being adventurous in my solitude. Okay and what are some

things you look for in a man? I want my man to be God-fearing, someone that I can be equally yoked with, someone that's trustworthy, patient who can handle me delicately, someone to protect me and support me, someone that's romantic, someone that...

You got this.

Someone that has a great sense of humor, someone that enjoys working out, someone that's intentional, disciplined, emotionally mature, and knows how to communicate effectively. Alright, now what are some of your deal breakers? So it would be the opposite of what I just mentioned, but to add to that I would say too busy, inconsistent, insecure, lack ambition, a liar, and a cheater. Alright, so we did get some pop balloons.

Let's go on over there, see why they ended up popping. Your name and age, and why did you end up popping your balloon?

Bryson, 43. The only reason I pop when you said patience. And we being honest, right? So that's something I'm working on, my patience, because it's just something I'm definitely working on with myself, my patience and my attitude. So I ain't no mean person, but patience with people.

You know what I'm saying? So, but other than that, you're beautiful. I love everything about you, honestly.

And is he someone that's your type?

Yes, he is.

That's good.

Did get another pop down over here.

Your name and age and why did you end up popping your blue?

Was she 45? Your name and age and what age ended up popping up below? She's 45. She's beautiful and everything. It's just her list was a little long. It sounded like she was trying to look for Superman. And I ain't met nobody perfect. I ain't met a man or a woman perfect yet. So that list was a little too long for me.

Okay, got it. And is he someone that's your type? Not in particular, no. Not initial attraction, no. But to respond to you, no one's perfect. And I worked hard to get where I'm at now and I know what I want in a man and I'm not settling. So those are the things that I want.

Appreciate it.

Thank you.

Let's head on back this way. All right, so we are down to five unpopped balloons. So let me hand you a pick. Hang on to that. And I'm gonna have you pop one balloon.

Yeah, stare me down.

Okay. All right, your name and age and why was your balloon unpopped?

My name is Lawrence, 45 years old, and my balloon was unpopped because you're fine as hell. Ain't no other way to say it. You're dark chocolate, you're from Louisiana, Southern girl. I love everything about it.

Yeah.

Thank you.

All right. And why'd you end up popping his? Just initial attraction and I'm not too fond of the goals. I got white teeth baby. They come out? They come out. Okay. Okay let's head on back. We are down to four guys. Go ahead and ask our remaining men a question. Okay so my first question is do you guys believe in God and do you have a relationship with him and what does that look like? Okay name and age first and then answer to her question. my name is Adam. I'm 43. I believe in God. I think we have like a relationship.

So when I want to make decision in life, I talk to him, you know, and then most of the time he give me the answer that I need. Oh yeah, I find it really important to really be honest with what you want in life and God will see it and will make it happen.

Okay, thank you.

Your name and age in answer to her question.

My name is Jeremy Roy, my age 34 and yes I believe in God. I'm 34 for a reason so with that just being alone I believe in God coming from where I come from so yes I definitely believe in God. Okay'm 34 for a reason. So with that, just being alone, I believe in God coming from where I come from. So yes, I definitely believe in God.

Okay, there was more to it.

What does that look like?

Well, right now in my life, I say it's more than everything because all the trauma that I came from to where I'm at now and all the aspects that I did in my life right now is great right now. So everything, I feel like God put that in front of me for a reason. So I feel like that we got a great relationship. So I feel like it looked real good at this point.

Your name and age and answer to your questions.

My name is Andrico Gibson. Do I believe in God? Yes, most definitely. I used to be in the street, so what I'm saying? You really just gotta trust him. A lot of people ain't never experienced him, so they don't know that he real. I'm not one of those, you know, I'm spiritual,

but I'm not holier than thou, if that makes sense. I do read my Bible, I do pray every day. I don't read the Bible all the time, but I do read it.

I read the Proverbs, you know, every other day, you know? So, that's it. Thank you. Your name and age and answer to our question. James, age 37. Without question. I wouldn't have got here without God, to be honest with you. I wake up every day and I pray, say my affirmations before I go to sleep. I got friends that I pray with. They even call me to pray with them.

So, the actual question, yes.

Okay, thank you. All right.

I'm back and I'm going to have you pop one balloon.

All right, so why was your balloon unpopped? Beautiful, lovely, beautiful chocolate chip. I don't believe that dark school women get enough love like they should. And I want to hear what you say. And you just, the way you carry yourself, and you sound like you got goals and goal driven, and that's what I am.

So whoever you find that loves you correctly, hope they love you correctly, and practice good habits with you.

Thank you.

I appreciate that. And where'd you end up popping Hezbollah? It is the initial attraction and the height. It's all good, 5'7". I just got in the gym yesterday, I be working out girl,

these cuts girl. What's up homie? You good.

But you look really nice.

You too.

All right, let's head back this way. So we are down to three guys with their balloons unpopped. Go ahead and ask them a question. Okay, when was your last relationship? Are you healed from your last relationship?

And are you intentionally dating to marry? Intentionally dating to marry? Let's start here.

You're all gonna start with me? Okay. I ain't been in a real relationship in probably like five years because I was married, you know what I mean? So I really wanted some time to focus on me.

And God really built a lot through that, you know, I mean? So I really wanted some time to focus on me.

And God really built a lot through that, you know, build my businesses and things of that sort. So I know who I am and what I want now and what I'm not settling for.

What else did you say?

Are you healed?

Yeah, I'm healed for sure. Yeah, I love myself. I'm having fun, life good.

And are you intentionally dating to marry? I am. I'm on this show. Okay. And I feel like, you know, I'm here.

Okay. Thank you.

All right. What about over here?

My last relationship, real relationship, was probably about nine years ago. I was only in love with one woman. Besides that, can't no woman break me, so I've been healed. Am I dating for marriage? Of course, because I want to see what marriage looks like, come from where we don't see too many people married. So yes, I'm definitely

dating to marry the right woman at this point in my life.

Okay, thank you. And last but not least.

So the last relationship was about a year ago. And when it comes to getting married, I don't believe in that at all. I don't wanna get married. I don't see the points right now. And in this country, I don't see like, why would I do that? Cause when you have assets, you will lose them.

And I'm not trying to do that. Sorry. I think, again, getting married and the assets, when you have things, you might actually, you will lose it, really, if you get divorced. And we already know women get divorced all the time. They do that.

So I feel that it's really important for me not to get to that route, you know,

because I don't want to lose what I have.

Okay.

Well, it is time to pop a balloon.

I figured.

All right. So why did you have your balloon unpopped? I like the skin. Again, I like dark skin women. So great. The

outfit is nice. The shoes are just fantastic. I love that. Thank you. So I love that.

Okay. And obviously, I kind of know why you popped, but if you want to get into that a little more.

Yeah. So you are my type, but the reason that I popped because I do want to get married I mean that that is your beliefs but I do want to get married so that's why I popped.

Okay, understandable. Thank you. All right we are down to two guys. Guys any

questions for our lady? Whoever's ready. Oh hold on hold on. Let's go on over here. Go ahead. What did you say you do for a living? I'm a licensed clinical social worker.

Okay. And where do you reside?

In Louisiana. What part?

The outskirts of Baton Rouge.

Are you from the Rouge?

The outskirts.

Okay, don't act like that now.

And where are you from?

I'm from Michigan, but I reside in Houston, Texas.

Okay.

Yeah.

Okay. Can I ask a question?

You have kids?

I got two kids. I got a eight year old and an 11 year old, both boys.

How many baby moms?

Only one, I ain't doing all that.

Okay, what's the relationship like?

Like with the kids or the baby mom?

The mom.

We cool, we all right. Okay. I'm gonna make sure that money come every month, you know? That's all they care about for real. I love you, too. I still got love.

All right, we'll be back.

Any questions here?

Yes, I just want to know, do you have any kids?

I do. I have a daughter.

She's 10.

Okay, and do you plan on getting, how long,

what do you see yourself at in three years? Opening my own private practice and just traveling the world.

Okay.

Okay, you're good.

Yeah.

And do you have any kids?

Yes, I got one.

Okay.

A 12 year old boy.

Okay.

I think he has another question.

I held the balloon because you said something about people being busy. You said you don't like people that's too busy. What is that? What do you mean by that?

So it's okay if you're busy, but as far as not communicating, that's what I'm not okay with.

Like you text me and I don't text back to tomorrow?

Yeah. Or don't text back at all.

My agenda popping.

I'm gonna tell you the truth. Like I own a restaurant, I do a lot of stuff. So it ain't that I won't get back to you, I'm just saying I ain't in nothing serious right now. So even my mama, like I call her the next day, two days later like, yo, what's going on? You know, they'll blow me up if it's serious, but they know I got a lot going on. You beautiful. And I'm like, I heard, I want to hear more. You so chock, like you kind of stole my heart for real up here, but you know, I just had to be real.

I'm bad at that.

I'm trying to work on it too.

Okay. So I just have a question. So if we were pursuing each other and I text you

how long would you respond? Like how long it would take you to respond? I had to give you my phone, you'd be mad at me like, because I got a lot going on. Like when I really own like one of the, not boastfully, I own one of the number one winning spots in Houston. So it's always somebody coming in or it's a lot going on. Then we do movies on the side. I ain't come up here to boast, but my phone always ringing. So sometimes I just turn on silent and sit in my house and don't want to talk to nobody.

Okay.

So if you're actively pursuing someone, how long would you take to respond to that person?

I don't know. I got to get in that space. So that's why I'm up here trying to get in that space. I'm not in that space. So I don't know yet, you know.

Okay. I don't want to lie to you, because you'd be like, man, he's spending me, or he with somebody else. You know, I don't know what you think. You want me to hold that balloon?

What you was thinking?

No, I was just asking. I was just trying to see, are you just not going to respond

at all if you're actively dating?

I don't, sometimes.

Yeah, he is. I don't got no questions. Okay, let me bring you up here with us. Let's all come on up here. I'll be standing on this side of me, you'll stand there. Okay, so I know you said you don't have any questions. Do you have any further questions?

What is one thing you're working on

within yourself right now I'd probably say patience. My patience is kind of, you know what I mean, up and down. Sometimes I have patience, most of the time I don't have patience. So right now I'm working on my patience. That's what I say I'm working on right now.

Okay. Okay, good.

All right, well let me ask my final question then. Is it a yes for you for her? It's definitely a match for me. Is it a yes for you for him? No, I'm sorry. All right, why is it a no? I know everyone is a work in progress but I just need someone that's more on my level and with the patience I know I can be a handful at times so I just need someone to be patient with me.

And I don't want to work your nerves. I don't want to get on your nerves.

So.

You're good.

Thank you. I'll have you head on back.

All right. Well, that's all the balloons popped, unfortunately. Thank you so much for coming on. Let's give it up for her guys.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Thank you. All right, let's bring out our next single lady. Hello, welcome in. What's your name? Sequoia.

Sequoia, how old are you?

I'm 37. And where are you from? The DMV area. DMV, okay, what do you do? Government contractor and an esthetician. Okay, and now what are some things you like to do for fun?

I'm a karaoke queen.

I like to roller skate. I like anything that goes fast, just ski, ATVs, traveling, wineries, museums, all the above.

All right. And what do you look for in a man?

A man that's secure, a man that speaks with intention, shows action, a man that knows what he wants and doesn't play any games, is honest. Yeah. All right and what are some deal-breakers? I wish I could have woulda. Oh. So a man that just talk, talk, talk, no action. Okay. Yeah. A liar, doesn't lie about everything. Little white lies, I don't do liars. Okay. Yeah. So that sums it up.

So we have not got any pop balloons, so let me go ahead and hand you a pick.

Hang on to that and I'm going to have you pop three balloons.

Three.

Whenever you're ready, go right ahead.

Okay.

Okay, two more. And one more. Okay, you can stay down over there. We'll start there. Stand right here. All right, your name and age and why was your balloon unpopped?

James, 37. My balloon was unpopped because she's very attractive, beautiful. You said karaoke queen, karaoke king over here, So I take that. So I take that you can sing a little bit I'm saying okay

Nine all around to see you're lovely you're beautiful. Thank you. What you got to say appreciate it Yeah, and now why agenda poppin his balloon? Um, you have beautiful eyes. I would just say the height. Yeah Over here your name and age,

and why was your balloon unpopped?

Lawrence, 45. It was unpopped because I like the height, feet. I like everything about you.

Thank you.

You got the D8 on your wrist.

Thank you.

Locks, yeah. Appreciate it.

Pretty smile.

Thank you. And why'd you end up popping his balloon? The gold? They come out, baby. Oh, okay.

Yeah, they come out.

In the bed. Wow.

Just a little trim, you know. Okay.

Yeah, that's about it.

Okay.

Thank you. And then one more back over here.

Your name and age and why was your balloon unpopped?

My name's Jeremy Roy. And I ain't pop my balloon because we look good together. You got on purple. We do? I thought this was blue. No, this is purple.

You're up here playing.

But that's the reason why my balloon was on.

And she look good.

She beautiful.

Thank you.

So, yeah, that's the reason why my balloon was on pop.

Okay, and why'd you end up popping his? He a little about skinny. I know what they say. Some people beef against, I was reminded. No, okay thank you. All right let's head back this way we are down to four unpopped balloons go ahead and ask our remaining guys a question. Where is everybody from? Do you have kids? How many? And how's the relationship with the mother of the kid?

Okay, name and age first and answer to her questions.

My name is Adam. I'm 43. When you say where everybody's from, what do you mean?

Where do you live?

Okay, I live in Casa Grande.

Where's that?

Arizona.

Okay. And do you have kids?

Oh, no kid.

Okay. And do you have kids? Oh, no kid. Okay.

Let's go on over here. Name and agent answer to her questions.

I'm Bryson Lawson. I'm from the Polk County area that's between Orlando and Tampa, little small city. But right now I reside in Orlando and I have a son. He's 11. And to answer your question

with his mother. We co-parenting.

Okay. That's good enough.

Name and agent, answer your question. My name is Andrico Gibson. I'm 38 and I have an 8 and 11 year old, both boys.

Same mother?

Same mama, yeah.

Okay. That's good.

I think you said how was the relationship?

Oh yeah, how was the relationship?

With the baby mama? With the mother of my child and me?

Yes. with the mother of my child on me, children. We cool, we cool, we make it work. Cool, cool, or just cool?

We cool.

Okay.

I'ma be too cool, you know?

No.

Okay.

Okay.

Put that over here. Name and age and answer to our questions.

Okay, Rasheed Silver, 45. I reside in Tampa, Florida. I do have two kids, one's in college, a track star, in Georgia right now. Another one is in Georgia. She's six years old. That was another situation, but we do have a relationship, but she's married,

and that was like a situation we really can't, we really just got ourselves into a mix about, we co-parent, have a little daughter, love her to death.

Okay.

Mm-hmm. Sounds good. Thank you.

Alright, let's head on back and I'm now gonna have you pop one balloon.

One balloon. Mm-hmm.

Alright, so why was your balloon unpopped?

Why was mine unpopped? She looked good, she all right.

Okay, all right.

Why'd you end up popping his? The six year old.

Yeah, I have a 10 year old, so.

Yeah.

Okay, that's cool.

All right, so we are now down to three guys.

Go ahead and ask them another question.

If you're having a bad day, what is something that automatically makes you smile? Whether that's doing something for yourself

or somebody doing it for you. Okay, we might as well start here.

Good question. I think for me, you're just going to like a room and be by myself for like 10 minute,

and I can calm myself down.

Okay.

Yeah.

So a long time.

Mm-hmm.

A long time.

Okay.

Okay.

What about here? Bryson, 43. I'm a Pisces, so I'm a dreamer. So I really ain't even living in that world. So getting mad, of course we all have bad days, but I'm definitely, I just, I'm gonna go by the water and just relax and that's how,

that's gonna make, right, I'm a water smith, exactly. So that's gonna calm me down out the gate, so.

And what about here?

If I'm mad, I'm mad, I just go, you know, do some self care, go get a massage or something, you know, forget about everything, you know, do some self-care. Go get a massage or something, you know. Forget about everything, turn your phone off.

That's it.

Okay, I like massages.

Wake back up, like massages.

Okay, say less, we got something in common.

Spa day.

Spa day.

Okay, I'm gonna have you pop another balloon.

All right, so why was your balloon unpopped?

I was finna throw this thing down so she know I was not finna pop the balloon. Look at her like, yeah, beautiful, you know. Thank you. Just beautiful hands down. I love everything about you, honestly.

Thank you.

Appreciate it. So much.

Bark like you want it.

Huh?

Bark like you want it.

Bark?

Like roof roof? No. Roof. Oh my god.

Roof.

Oh my god.

All right.

All right.

So why'd you end up popping his balloon?

I had a recent experience with a water sign, and I just not.

I ain't gonna take all water signs for the same water sign.

Oh, baby, no.

I ain't one of them.

I'm't. I ain't one of them. I'm good. Yeah.

Okay, we are down to two guys, or two remaining guys.

Any questions for our lady here?

You ready?

Okay, let's head down here.

All right, go ahead.

Yeah, you was asking all the questions and telling this man to bark, so I got a few questions myself.

Where do you reside and what do you do? I said that when I first came out, you wasn't listening. A lot of it happened.

I'm in the DMV area. You know what that is?

DC, Maryland, Virginia.

Okay, I got some partners out there, but what do you do for a living?

Government contract and esthetician.

Oh, you're an esthetician, too? Yeah, I like to go to those, get my face together. You real far, you on the other side of the world from Houston. I mean, it's like a plane ticket. So you would travel?

Yeah, for now.

Okay, that's all I have to ask.

Let's head back this way. Any questions?

I think I was going to ask the same question where she lives. And she said Virginia, right? No, DMV. DMV, okay. Another question. So, let's say you wanna plan a date for your man. What, how is it gonna look like?

A date that I plan for my man, what it's gonna look like? Yes, just a simple date.

It will be a surprise, but it depends on what you like. look like? Yes. Well first of all, it's a simple date. It would be a surprise but It depends on what you like like I'll have to get to know you but Maybe a dinner maybe a spa date

And then I'll have the house set up after we come back

Great answer. I love the spa date. I love that

Thank you It is time to pop Go ahead and pop one of these remaining guys' balloons. Okay. All right, so why was your balloon unpopped? I think she's really pretty. I love the way she

dresses. It's kind of simple, but you know, really classy. And you have the dreadlocks, that kind of do so, you know.

Thank you.

You're welcome.

Okay, and why'd you end up popping his?

Cause I want him.

Oh!

Say less, let me have you scoot that way for me.

Let me have you join us up here. Come on up.

You'll stand right over here. All right, any final questions between the two of you? I have one. What we doing tonight?

Put me on the spot, huh? I do got one. You got a relationship with God?

What's your relationship like with God?

Oh yeah, I definitely do. That's what I meant to say when I came out. I gotta ask that. Definitely, I was raised a Jehovah witness, I did Christians, but I have a own personal relationship

with God.

Do you? I have my own personal relationship with God. Yes. Hey man, I'm so like, I'll take one.

Let me go ahead and ask my final question. Is it a yes for you for her?

Most definitely.

And is it a yes for you for him? We got a match! I'll take the mic. Make some noise for them guys.

Y'all go on off.

Go on off, go on off.

Make some noise guys. All right, let's bring out our next single lady. Hello, welcome in. What's your name? Rachel McGee. Rachel, how old are you? 34. And where are you from? I'm from Grand Rapids, Michigan. OK. And what do you do? I'm a real estate broker. And I run a team of agents.

I mentor them, train them up to be successful.

Nice, nice.

What are some things you like to do for fun?

I like to cook, bake, hike, travel, go to restaurants, do things I've never done.

OK. Go to restaurants, do things I've never done. Okay. And what are some things you look for in a man?

Consistency.

Someone who,

Oh.

Someone who knows who they are. Someone who is confident in themselves. Okay, and now what are some of your deal breakers? Deal breakers is someone who can't hold an intellectual conversation and maybe surface level, someone who's not consistent and doesn't like to explore.

Okay, all right, so we did get a pop balloon. Let's go on over there and see why he ended up popping.

Your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon?

My name is Jeremy Roy, I'm 34 years old. I popped my balloon because I can't be consistent with you because I'm already trying to be consistent with the last female that popped the balloon on me. So I can't be consistent with you if I'm trying to chase another female that popped the balloon on me. So I want to be honest.

But you're beautiful though. I just, I want the other one. That's the reason why. Oh, okay, all right.

Now is he someone that's your type?

He's a handsome man.

Yeah, handsome man.

Thank you, I appreciate that.

And I'm glad you're loyal to whoever you're talking about.

I'm talking about the chocolate woman.

Oh, okay.

Thank you.

Thank you.

All right, let's head back this way. five unpopped balloons. Let me hand you a pick. There you go. And I'm gonna have you pop just one balloon.

Okay.

Ummm.

Oof.

Sorry.

It's all good.

Alright. So, your name and age and why was your balloon unpopped?

James, 37. Um, just wanted to hear what you have to say. A very articulate, lovely, leather brown dress. Thank you.

Yeah, and just wanted to hear more about you, see who you are.

Okay, okay.

And why'd you end up popping his?

Uh, just I guess initial attraction. Yeah.

Okay.

Alright, thank you. And I'm back this way.

Alright, we are down to four guys. Go ahead and ask our remaining men a question. OK, so what does your just overall, what does your daily life look like? Like, just wake up, go to bed, kind of in between.

OK, let's start there and head back this way. So what does your daily life look like?

Name and age first, and ask your question.

My name is Rasheed, 45. My days looks like telephone calls, emails. I opened this new business where I'm actually designing and building, creating restaurants and doing new restaurant designs. And plus I still work a full time job. So it's very hectic with what I'm doing. So sometimes it's just a busy day but you definitely are beautiful me definitely need somebody to come in and take that take some take some stress off name and age and answer to her question Lawrence I'm 45 years old when I my how

my days start I normally start off with prayer in the morning so I sit on side of my bed I talk to God all right that's my quiet time once I get done with that I get dressed then I go to my. All right, that's my quiet time. Once I get done with that, I get dressed, then I go to my good government job. Yep, get off from my good government job, I go home, I relax, decompress for the day,

talk to my kids and that's it.

Okay.

Name and age and answer to her question.

Bryson Lawson, 43. It's a hectic day every day for me, but I make time for what I want to like we all do. That's a great answer.

It is.

Yes.

We make time for what we want.

Absolutely.

Name an agent, answer her question.

My name is Adam. I'm 43. So in the morning, most of the time I try to go to the gym, like at 4 a.m. because that's when I wake up, 4 or 5. I just walk out and I start work at 8. So emails, phone calls, you know, court reports. And then when I get off at 5, I just come home,

relax a little bit, watch TV, just unwind. And you know, go to bed.

All right, I'm gonna have you pop one balloon.

Okay, okay, okay, okay.

Sorry. I'm giving you this one.

I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

Jesus.

All right, so what was your balloon unpopped?

Look at him. You're incredible like Nick Cannon. What can I say? That's all I got to say. Yeah, you're a loss. I'm going to tell you.

Yeah, it's your loss, baby.

And why did you end up popping his balloon? So, honestly, I kind of feel like you look like Cedric the Entertainer a little bit. Never heard that one before. Yeah, so I don't know. It's just kind of, I don't want to take you serious. And you know. Oh, I'm a funny guy.

You seem funny too.

You seem funny.

Thank you.

Yeah, you seem fun.

Alrighty, so we are now down to three on Pop Balloons. Go ahead and ask them another question.

Okay, what does, what morals do you bring to the table or take pride in as far as your qualities or morals?

Okay, let's start here first.

I think for me it's really just being there for people you love, you know, family, friends, I think they're really important, you know, and it's one of the great qualities to be able to help people that are close to you and they can count on you.

And I think that's my goal and that's what I do.

What about over here?

Bryson again, my son. That's my pride and joy, being a father. I know he watching me at all times, so just being respectful to my son and bringing certain people around my son and just installing great things.

I come from a great father, shout out daddy. But just being a father, that's one of the most beautiful things.

That's the most respectful thing I have.

Let's head down over here. And what about here?

Rashid, my thing would be loyalty. And just being a man of your word. I dealt with, I was homeless a couple years, like a long time ago. And I dealt with these ARABs, and they never signed a lease for me. And they just said, how much you gonna pay me? I said, I'll give you $1,000 a month. I said, you ain't gonna sign no paperwork? He said, nah. But the point I'm making is they taught me

after so many years that you gotta be a man of your word. And we never signed no paperwork and we built a relationship. But a lot of our people, we don't, we gotta do this, we gotta do that, we gotta. So it's a lot of your word and respect and loyalty. Love that.

Okay.

All right, it's that time again. I'm going to have you pop one more balloon.

Okay, okay, okay, okay.

Oh.

Sorry.

All right, so why was your balloon unpopped?

She's just a nice looking woman.

Thank you.

Okay, and why'd you end up popping his? I loved your answers. Beautiful, perfect. I just like a little bit more subtle when it comes to attire. That's pretty much it. Love your jewelry but I just like subtle. Okay. Thank you. Okay, we are now down to two guys. Guys, any questions for our lady?

Whoever's ready.

You ready?

I wanna piggyback on your question. The question you asked, what's your most respectable thing about yourself?

I feel like I'm super respectful. Yep, and open-minded. So, yeah, I mean, that's my biggest thing, all the way around. I respect everybody and anybody, and I'm very kind to anybody. So, yeah, I don't disrespect or it's pretty much it.

Any kids?

I do.

How many?

I have an eight-year-old and a 13-year-old at home.

Okay. Okay.

That's all.

Good?

Yeah.

Okay.

Any questions here?

Hmm. Okay, any questions here?

Oh, I was thinking about one question, I think I forgot, but let me ask you another one, right? Let's say you're dating somebody, okay? And he lose his job. How long does he have before he find a job and you're leaving him?

Like how long does he have?

Dating someone? So I wouldn't put a timestamp on the dating because loses his job, I guess it would depend on how ambitious he is, if he's focused and going after it or if he's just sitting around like,

hey, I'll just let some time go by. My dating, I can't really say a timeframe, maybe a few months, I mean, or whatever the market suggests. But depending on how long we got in the relationship as well is kind of an in-depth answer. But my husband, we good.

Like whatever you need to do, whatever I need to do.

Okay, that's good. That's kind of a...

Yeah, go ahead. Go ahead and tell her what, when she said husband,

what that means for you.

Oh, the husband part? Oh, I'm not trying to get married.

Oh, okay.

Yes, so that's a no-no for me. Like from the get-go. I'm trying to get buried. Okay, so it's not happening.

Perfect.

Thank you.

Okay.

Well, I'm still leaving it up to you though.

Whose balloon are you going to pop?

I don't like this.

Alright, so why was your balloon unpopped?

I just wanted to learn a little bit more about her. So I was taking my time.

Obviously, I kind of know why you popped, but if you want to get into it a little more. Yeah, I definitely want to be married at some point. I'm not in a rush, but I would like to be married. I don't want to die alone.

Understandable, but getting married is not the only way to be with somebody. You can be in a committed relationship and be with somebody for the long run, actually.

I believe in partnership, absolutely, but the way that I want to live, I believe in marriage.

Okay.

So we do still have an unpopped balloon over here. Now is he someone that's your type?

Yeah, actually he's the first one I've seen.

Oh!

Yeah, yeah.

All right.

Mm, mm.

Sure.

Well, let me bring you up here with us.

Let's all come up here.

Let's all come up.

I'll have you scoot that way for me. I'll have you stand here.

All right, y'all. What's your relationship like with your father? My father actually just passed away.

I'm sorry.

Yeah, so he, I don't have one at this point, but we had a great relationship. We talked pretty much every day, FaceTime every day.

That's what's up. That's what's up.

No, that was my most important question.

Are you good?

Any other questions? Yeah, I do have a question. So what do you need like at this point in a relationship or what can someone bring to the table for you? Just a little peace of mind. That's it. Everything else I can handle

Just so you know, everybody need a long time like my friend said earlier. That's all I ever need just a little bit of space But that's mainly other than that When I say a little bit I'm talking about a little bit Not a lot. Just a little bit. Just let me breathe for for like 30 minutes let me sit in the driveway and call it a day

just for a second. Let me ask my final question then is it a yes for you for her? It's definitely a yes. Okay and is it a yes for you for him? Yes ma'am. We got a match! I'll take the mic. All right, y'all can go on up. Get your lady. Make some noise for them, guys. Okay, let's bring out our next single lady.

Hello, welcome in.

What's your name?

My name is Salisa.

Salisa, how old are you?

I am 37.

And what do you do?

I am a full-time architect and interior design student. I have an LLC in cleaning and staging, and I also have a luxury purse brand that reflects

my personal style and journey.

OK, nice.

And where are you from? I am from Los Angeles, but the Midwest raised me.

Okay. All right. And what are some things you look for? Sorry, what do you like to do for fun? Um, well, I like to travel. I'm a creative person, so I like to design things. I also like to spend time with my family and friends. I like to relax sometimes. And most of all, just have a great time.

Okay, and what do you look for in a man? I look for a provider, someone that has a personal relationship with God. Also someone that is a leader, a protector,

and also a provider.

Okay, and now what are some deal breakers? My deal breakers, I would say a man that has kids, younger kids, someone that's not goal oriented, someone that doesn't believe in the Lord, and someone that is not ambitious.

Okay, all right, sounds good. So we did get some pop balloons. Let's go on over there and see why they ended up popping.

Your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon?

My name is Adam. I'm 43. The reason, it was something else, and then you said something about the provider. I don't know what it means because I was thinking that relationship is a partnership. It's a give and take. It's not just one person providing to somebody.

So the provider label was a little bit, you know, yes.

Okay, and for me, I'm just the old-school girl and I just feel like at the end of the day a man is supposed to provide. I'm gonna do my part as his lady and I'm gonna meet him halfway but for the most part I want him to have that mentality so respect, respect it. Understood, thank you. And is he someone that's your type? Honestly, no. You're handsome, but the shoes I don't like,

the scarf and the hair, I can't. It looks like you need a haircut.

Point taken.

Let's go over here.

Your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon?

I'm Lawrence and I'm 45. I popped my balloon because I don't like the outfit. It's a little bit too little, a little bit too much. I don't know what's going on with it. So that's one of the reasons why I popped. Other reason why, so you said goal-oriented and ambitious.

I ain't got no goals. I'm 45, I'm grown, I got a good job, I'm retired already, so I don't really need to have any more goals. I be in the wind.

So, yeah.

Understandable.

And is he someone that's your type? No, honestly, again, handsome man, but I don't like the golds. I don't like the ear, the earrings, but you have a beautiful smile. Thank you. Yes, besides the gold. But other than that, very well dressed, very well

spoken. Thank you. You're welcome.

Head down over here. You're a naming agent. Why did you end up popping your

balloon? Rashid45, I enjoyed everything you said, especially about the design. And I'm into the same field. Creativity, I'm into the same field. I know being creative makes a lot of money, so I know she can really turn up, you know, find that she can help out, do her thing. But the part about the kid was the only thing that lost me. I have a six year old, so.

Okay, got it.

And is he someone that's your type? Yeah, he's very handsome. You came dressed to impress. I love everything about what's going on, but it is the kids thing. Like, I just don't want to have to deal with younger kids just because I have

kids myself, but they're no longer little kids. My youngest is 18.

Yeah.

So...

Okay.

Sounds good.

Sounds good. Thank you.

Thank you.

All right. We are down to two men with their balloon unpopped. Go ahead and ask our remaining guys a question.

Okay, what do you feel like your purpose is in life?

Okay.

Name and age and what do you feel like

is your purpose in life?

My name is Jeremy Roy, my age is 34. I feel like my purpose in life is to make sure that I, I got one child, so make sure that he grew up as a gentleman, you know, and not just a man, a gentleman. So that's my purpose in life. I got one child and that's my main focus in life right now is to make sure that he's better than what I used to be when I was a kid.

So, my child.

Your name and age and answer to her question.

James, 37. My purpose in life, acting is my main goal and I also want to give back to the community when I do make it to that level. To be honest with you, I do feel I might waste your time because I do have a little girl. And it'll be like you starting over.

I just want to be honest with you,

I don't want to be disrespectful and pop the balloon.

Exactly.

So sweetheart, you're beautiful, you're lovely.

Love the way you carry yourself and everything else. I dig it, but I just don't want you to feel like you'll be taking a step back with my child. I respect that. Thank you.

You want me to pop it?

Yes. I didn't get that.

I didn't... I never got it. Yes, you can pop it. There you go.

Oh, thank you. There you go, girl. Go ahead, get your pop on.

My pleasure.

We got to get it now.

You got to hold it. Okay, we're gonna do it like this. There we go. There we go. Thank you.

Alright, now apart from the child, is he someone that's your type? Honestly, I have to be honest about how I feel, but again, handsome man, but I just don't like how you put your outfit together. I'm not a fan of the pumas with the dress pants and the dress shirt, but I feel like you tried your best. So.

It's all good. No, sporty, you know, come comfortable.

It's all good.

I got J's too, you know, just didn't want to wear. Well, no, it's not about the J's or anything.

It's just, I just don't like the shoes with the pants.

I got you.

I'm just being silly. All right, let's head on back this way. So is he someone that's your type?

So, no.

I just gotta be honest. And why not?

And it's really because of the height difference. I like to wear heels when I go out

and you're a little shorter than me, so.

I climb the tree.

I understand, I understand. But you are handsome, you have a nice smile. I love how you came, well dressed.

I appreciate it.

So you're gonna pop his as well?

Yes.

All right, so why was your balloon unpopped?

Cause she looked like Cash Doll.

Oh, okay, well thank you.

I definitely was interested, and she a grown woman. And she said the Midwest raised her, so. That's right. The Midwest raised me, so.

Exactly, so you know.

I definitely was trying to see, yeah.

And she act like Cash Doll, too. I wanted to see if she act like Cash Doll.

Okay.

Yeah.

All right, well thank you.

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