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This is the reason why Acacep feels separated from Vicky Karisma. Their marriage has been broken since October 2021, due to repeated disputes until the separation in January 2024. Maybe it's hard for me to find a partner in the future, because I will always see him, whatever it is. Back then, when I got married, I wanted a house, I wanted this and that.

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But after having the house but no family, I'm sad. Finally, I said, no, I'm sure, it's not my decision. Finally, with this, I can't do it anymore.

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so the conversation gets deeper with a woman who's solo you in Australia, you're working, my brother so let's make a disclaimer first, guys, I and Aca have known each other for a long time we were in a film project, which is Cartini

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until 10 years ago, yes?

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10 years ago, then he always paired me up with a woman with a woman, I don't know if you all know because it became gossip, he was married too I'm sure. Everyone knows. It's going to be gossip. Because she's already married. She's already engaged. And then it turns out that she's in a relationship. At that time she was close to a man. Who else?

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Don't be wrong. A man who was finally married. Right? Married.

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After Kartini, she immediately got married. But I'm really lazy to ask why.

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We can meet again. I'm not asking that. I just want to ask, is it hard to go through the process that... I actually know, off the record, we've talked about it, right? There are so many things that smell like miscommunication, which eventually became a fight, right? While you're in Australia, which is...

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Actually, it's not miscommunication, it's a hassle. I've never been in a hassle, so I've never communicated.

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Then how do you try to pull back yourself one by one again, to unite yourself again, one by one. I heard it's a toba prayer, right?

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It doesn't connect there, right? That's actually because... Actually, it's a bit strange. In March 2024, why did I get that movie? Because at that time I wanted a settlement for a house. Then I...

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I've settled, so I'm back to point zero. Like saving money, all kinds of things. Then I back to zero, right? The savings, all kinds of things. Yes. Then I prayed to God, God, I want to work again, I want to make more money. Please give me a job that can give me strength to you, besides giving me blessings. Finally, I got the film Kodrat.

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I got the film Kodrat exactly 10 minutes after I prayed. Just 10 minutes, I prayed. It was only 10 minutes, Mas Den. After the Asar prayer, I got a call from Charles Gozali, he said, Aca, we were in a meeting, five of us, one table, and suddenly your name popped up,

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for the role of Aziza.

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It's like a medical script.

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I was like, what? I'll send you the script to you, and when I read it, I was like, yes, I want to do it. So that was in March. In April, two weeks later, I was in Jakarta for reading. So it was really like a movie. After that, in the movie, they taught me how to pray, right?

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Then the downfall of the marriage, July. After returning from shooting a 55-day film.

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That's really helpful, right?

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After that, I was having a hard time, not directly difficult, right? Not directly talented at that time, right? So the last one was December 2024, I just put in the draft, right? December 13th.

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So from July to December, it's actually, well, it's fine, it's fine, it's fine, but it's like different. The hardest part is at that point? The last six months, because there is no communication, in my opinion, that's the hardest.

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Do you feel empty? I don't know if I'm empty or not, because it's really hard for both of us. Because you already have a baby, and you decided to move to Australia. I was also surprised when you decided to move to Australia. Why did you move to Australia? You still often play movies in Indonesia. Because from the beginning of the marriage, we immediately moved days of reception, we moved there in the honeymoon. Yes.

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It was like that. Because the agreement was, at that time, when I was proposed, I was 9 months... So the distance I was proposed was March, 9 months long distance, and in December I got married.

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So the commitment was long distance, after that December, get married. So the commitment is indeed long distance, after that, move in, come with me.

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Follow your husband. But actually you want to work in Indonesia to develop your career, right? Develop my career and indeed the fortune, actually, we don't know where the fortune comes from. And indeed in Indonesia or in Jakarta, there are still a lot of movies. But it's comfortable when you first moved to Australia. Where was Australia at that time?

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In Sydney.

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In Sydney, comfortable? Yes.

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At first?

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Comfortable. Excited, right? Excited, comfortable. And surprisingly, I like to be in an environment that not many people know. For me, it's more free. More free to decide what we want to do, where we want to go.

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Then be yourself, don't have to be busy. Actually, I'm not that busy. Actually, but here there is still a career and there is still a lot to explore, skills, have to be productive, because we have to go forward, invest or all kinds of things, so I'm still active. Actually, the career is also a bit of a drag for me.

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Because the offer never stopped. I'm pregnant, I still have an offer for a movie, the story is that he's pregnant.

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So, yes.

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Your acting is good.

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No, because there is luck, the luck is really big.

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The X factor in the world of entertainment is quite. You're an asset. In the film industry, you're an asset Amen And if we lose you, it's a pity If we, as people in the film industry, lose you, it's a pity There aren't many female film actors who become an asset

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And we don't have many female actors, male actors in Indonesia who can reach that level. You reached that level far from the journey. It's far from the journey because I've been in the industry for 21 years, and I've been in the film industry for 16 years. I've seen quite a lot of your profiles.

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Unfortunately, it was different back then. I just thought of it. We're speaking a little bit, a little bit

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But he used to speak a lot, Kartini But not with me, I just saw him speaking with Aishika Speaking with Kadian Actually, you are more relaxed talking to me

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Because you are my friend, right? Because you already have a partner

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Oh, so you're relaxed

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Yes, I also want to respect

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Just don't mess with her

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Oh my god

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Because Arca is actually a loud person Loud and A person who always Well-tongued Hiding Huh?

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She covers up everything that is bitter and maybe Not good for the future That's why I don't want to ask too much about it Because a lot of people have asked From the comment section Ask her me, why are you separated? I don't think I'll ask that,

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because I think you just want to keep it for yourself.

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Yes, yes.

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Just want to keep it. But how do you evaluate your 8-year marriage to move forward? That's the question.

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Interesting.

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Yes.

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So just know more about what we really want to prioritize in life, and I just found out, I prioritize my child so much, Bridgia, in terms of his mental well-being, his life, at school, where he lives, I'm very concerned about that. So I will fight for it until the end. If for example, his comfort is like what, I will follow. That's what might be hard for me to find a partner in the future.

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Because whatever it is, I will always see him. Whatever it is.

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Yes, the priority is to become a Bridgetta.

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Bridgetta.

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Bridgetta, become a Bridgetta. That's what your love is now. Because your love there is gone. But do you like to be confused? This is fun, I want to talk about this. Do you like to be confused?

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Suddenly, love was there, right? Then it's gone. Actually, it's not gone. Actually, if we think about it, even if we are separated, every time we see him, we still want to see him happy.

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And that's love.

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Okay, that's love. We, for example, I don't feel any resentment, or resentment, or hatred.nger, or hate at all. Not at all. Not even a bit. Because, in my opinion, I have already been sincere about what happened, and accepted the fate that God has given me,

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that this is how it should be. Actually, my idealism is, for a perfectionist Virgo like me, a family must have a family my family is always there. Always there, forever. I love them. But, God gave me this experience,

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and I realized that I can't deny what's in front of me. But, in these two relationships, there must be two people who want to be together. I can't try to do it alone. Especially for women. I think love is very important.

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Because it makes us both can understand each other, rely on each other, can trust each other. Especially my job is far away, so I think communication is important.

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Who should start, do you think?

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The man or the woman?

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It's always me, that's the problem.

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Is a man's awareness important in a relationship?

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I think being a good partner

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is full of compromise, but the important thing is that being a good partner starts from us first. We start from each other.

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But it starts from us first, if both of us can have the same view. It starts from me first, but the other one is also me first.

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We fight each other. It can't fight with each other. It can't be just one person. And this one is passive, right?

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The point is, love can't be lost. If it's gone, it's passive.

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That's what I'm confused about.

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Why can love be lost? Because I often do podcasts. There are some, like the last podcast we did, the love is gone. Where did the 5 years go? I asked her she didn't know the answer

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in the trace back, it turns out to be respect it turns out to be a time for both it turns out to be intimate intimacy, that's necessary if the intimacy is decreasing respect is also decreasing

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there's no communication either,

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that's why it's not allowed.

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So the most affected by all of this is the woman?

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Men are also pitiful, men are also pitiful, really. If for example, the woman is also, let's say, every man, for example, has a desire to, oh I miss you, let's have a date, for example, has a desire to say, I miss you, let's do this, let's do that, but Martin said, tired or what?

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Well, it actually started from there, right?

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Then on the other hand,

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heating the stove, if I may, is important, right?

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So you can't be tired, you know, you can't feel that with him, you've tried to get rid of his gang and make him need you. You should welcome his vulnerability. You should be loved. Communicative and want to express. I'm like that too. But I'm a bit of person, and I want to express my feelings.

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I'm like that, but I'm a bit of a chatterbox. I'm like, you're like this, you're like that.

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How do you talk to people?

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I'm just transparent, I'm an honest person. I don't have a filter when I talk. Even if there's a problem, I have to solve it. For people of the same gender, maybe it's okay.

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Okay.

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But for a little introvert, or someone who doesn't want to... There are people who don't want to object to each other. Eventually he...

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Chose to back off.

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Chose to back off. Or no, he didn't want to discuss that day, he had to wait three days first.

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Okay. I don't want to discuss that day, I have to wait 3 days first Okay Well, that's for us who like

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Gelisah

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This is Gelisah

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You're Gelisah

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Yes

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Yes, I understand

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You can already talk about it Without having to ask specific questions

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This is a question from a netizen

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Uh-huh

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He said, what makes you strong? You don't have to read it there

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Oh yeah What makes an strong and calm? I have a mentality that I don't like to feel defeated. I don't like to feel defeated in my struggle. Whether it's life, or the shooting process. I always want to try. I can do it. I'm a person who likes to cook.

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I'm a fighter.

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So, I think, the strength came from our attitude every day, trying to be able to fight until the best, the best for that day. So yesterday was the end of the point of exhaustion, right? Of course, of course. But people don't know much, and we don't know much about it, and you know what's going on, we just take the outside. Your lowest point is just there, right?

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But it's crazy, I'm still a promo, a promo for a movie. So can you imagine, from the December process, it was already in the news. Alhamdulillah, from the religious court, no one leaked it or anything. December. Then in May, we just got engaged.

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Five months later, I was in the middle of a promo. I kept meeting the media, meeting the artists,

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meeting at locations, locations, shooting, wherever.

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Then, no one knew. I kept it to myself, I shot 3 films in 5 months, I kept it to myself. Then finally, May 2019, May 2025, when the trial was in progress, I went to the trial place, took a taxi. As much as I don't want anyone, even family, this is my own decision, I just go alone. I decided it myself, so I went alone to trial myself, to the Jakarta Central Court. I once thought, is there a reporter? What if there is, how do I get off the taxi?

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What's the answer?

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Yes, and if I'm pushed by the mic, what do I answer?

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There is none.

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Well, I you prepared the answer yet? I want to know.

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Because all artists are like that.

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Of course he has prepared.

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Minimalism, minimalism.

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Do you know what he prepared the answer for?

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Just pray.

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So funny.

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Standard.

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How do you read? Just pray. Just like that. That's common. Yes, yes, yes. It's so funny.

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But even though there is, I wear a mask and black glasses. Even though someone sees it, there are students wearing a seragam, read it, read it. I said, oh my God, there are people who see it. But no one is leaking. No one is leaking, it's clean. I was in Sidang, there were two witnesses, my friend was there. He took me there, and I met him at a restaurant nearby.

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After that, we agreed to get in the car, parked near the court of the Central Government, it's small, right? So I was sad there. Then when they called my name, I wore a mask and glasses. Someone saw me, I was like, I'm dead. But no, that's just it. I was surprised, what did I come there for?

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So there are schoolchildren who saw me. Then they must be inside who know the instruments humans inside

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no one is surprised inside inside good judge you are you are a public figure

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artist because my name is Jelita.

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Oh, yes. Not Aca.

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So, he made sure first, right? You're the one who sings, right?

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Huh?

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Yes, sir. It's so funny. Sir. But the point is, he didn't mean to be mean to you.

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I just wanted to make sure. I said, yes, sir. Oh, you're in Domus Lydia, Australia. So that's why the dialogue was there. Then the witness talked, I talked. Then Hakim said,

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If you've knocked on my head is already knocked, after that I can't be removed again, what is my decision. Can, Mbak Aca, if you want to go out, take a breath, think first, five minutes, it's okay, I'll wait. But that's really, Mbak Aca won't regret it.

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Finally, there it is. Wah, that.

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You go out first?

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No, I'm there, sad it was. Wow, that's... You went out first? No, I was there. You were inside? Sad, crying. Finally, I said, no, I'm sure, it's my decision. Finally, with this, dek, dek, dek. Well, it can't be done anymore.

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Just like in the movies, right?

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Can you imagine your life turned out to be a real movie, Ca? I was shooting a movie about that. Is that true?

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It's true.

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When I heard the news, I was one of the people who were heartbroken. Because I felt you are a very nice woman. I'm sure your partner is also a nice guy. But I'm a typical person who doesn't like to see the person I love separated. Because both of're both suffering. It's not good to be alone.

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So, because of that process, I was sad when I was in that state. I mean, it's not like I was like, ah, it's hard, or, oh, I can't do it, or anything. But it's like, oh, this is it. The feeling that I never imagined in my life.

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But I felt like this. Decided, read, and then I was alone. I mean, there's a law enforcement, but it's empty over there. There's no one. That's where it's saddest. When you started, you were calm.

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Because there were a lot of activities. But when you got to that point, you knew...

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I was out of it.

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You couldn't go back. But were you relieved?

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I was relieved when I got out of the DC. I was relieved.

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You were about to premiere your film.

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I was relieved. When I got out of DC, I realized God was going to be a Oh, you're going to be a I went out there and I found out that God was going to make my way smoother. So, that's the trial. I mean, once, after that, Ma'am, come back later, because the evidence is enough. Oh, really?

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Oh, yes, come back again, just wait one hour, then come back straight to the top. So, the trial that should be postponed, for example, next week or for example, Monday, it comes on Monday, then it's postponed to the day of the week, usually like that. Smooth, like a toll road.

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So I was like, what's wrong with God? I prayed not because I wanted to be a knife to God, no, actually, I prayed in the prayer of repentance, I prayed that I, it will be reunited. But I mean, the best, I say, whatever it is, God, the best, right?

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But we as wives still hope our children have a father. Oh, really?

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So, like, oh, what about God? Just give it up, I'm the best. But it turned out to be smooth, like there was no way, right? So finally when I got out of it, well, this is the best one.

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The mental battle was really crazy. The mental battle was terrible. Especially when the moment was broken.

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Wow, it's like a movie. Oh my God, this is crazy. So my emotional savings as an actor, if I have a chance to be in a movie, I will save it.

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You want to be saved? Emotional savings? Wow, that's easy.

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I'm giving it all.

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Roll, action.

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I'm crying.

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But, why did it leak? Who leaked it?

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No one leaked it. The one that's clear, in my opinion is because it can be accessed and after there is a co-parenting hashtag

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Oh, after the trial, you wrote the co-parenting?

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No, not after the trial, the trial was on 19th May That was August I wrote the co-parenting on 7th

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Oh, after the trial, right? Yes 3 months after the divorce. Yes. 3 months after the divorce. Yes, 3 months after the divorce, but people didn't know.

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Because the divorce papers were out.

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Yes, they were out.

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So it was a lot of people.

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Not a lot of people, more like, because we were separated for 3 months, the period of divorce was over, and I also felt like that he is free, I am also free. I'm afraid that there will be a TikTok video where people will be afraid of being slandered.

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So I think I need to straighten it out. Straighten it out, even though you are also very avoid explaining everything.

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Yes, I don't want to. That's why I yesterday, actually in August, Bri was at school. I just came back from shooting in Bangkok at that time. At school in Australia, I picked her up. Because we only do the transaction

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at school. So in the morning, her father drove her to the airport to work abroad. In the afternoon, I picked her up. She stayed at my house., I pick her up in the afternoon, she lives in my house, right? When I picked her up, she was just talking about her friend, she said in English, her friend

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said, there is a video I uploaded on Instagram, she said on the stage, I said this, Mommy, my friend cannot say your name, she said, my friend Wilomina say, your name, Acha Sepca separates Triasa and then I was like I laughed at this video, I laughed, Aca separates finally, because I made that video, I uploaded it on August 7th after that I hashtag co-parenting, I just thought of it myself

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yes, so it's like a code, a code, yes

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so like, I don't need to

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girls really like to play codes, why are women?

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I mean, not codes, so yes, I don't need to explain, yes, I'm already separated.

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Yes, but don't ask again.

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Don't ask again.

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Yes, let this be between me and him, because we are still co-parenting. Is it difficult if you want to do something like that? Alhamdulillah, it's pretty easy. Because he's a good father, he's a great father. So he can take care of his child while working. That's what I really admire. So all this time, for example, he took care of me for 7 weeks, I was on leave for 11 weeks.

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And coincidentally, my job, I went to Jakarta and came back only for 6-7 weeks for shooting a film. Reading. Up to a month or more.

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Yes, one and a half months. One and a half months. But I had a long break, 10-11 weeks, waiting for another job, right? I was called, and then I had to go to work. So, I was in the care of Indri for quite a long time. 11 weeks, 12 weeks, 3 weeks.

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But in Australia?

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In Australia, I always took care of him.

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You bought a house there, right? So, you don't have any plans to go back to Indonesia? To live in Indonesia again?

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Actually, to buy a house,

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the houses here have already been sold.

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So, you have to sell everything there? Please don't

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The logic is if you want to move to Indonesia, you have to sell everything there

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Yes If not, you have to save the money What was the reason for moving to Indonesia? The reason was that there was something else, something more fundamental, something more important

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But you work here Oh, I mean I work here If I work here, there is an apartment, but there is. If I work here, there's actually an apartment. But there's no house. But you don't want Bri to come here?

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Bri was already in school at that time. When we were... She was already in school here. When I was shooting, I always went to school. I was in Kemang, SPH.

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Then I also went to ACS in Cilangkap.

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ACS?

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ACS in Cilangkap. ACS? ACS. That's the one from China, right?

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Yes, yes.

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Singapore, right?

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Yes, that's where he went to school.

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He was very famous, right?

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He went to school there for 5 months.

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My wife, my wife talked a lot about that school.

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Yes, that's what the school is good.

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Okay.

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Then, because the bridge is not Indonesian, right? I'm not sure if I'm Tiger Mom, I mean not Tiger Mom, what is it called? Ambimom, Ambitious Mom. Perfect Mom. Because she wants me to work, and you go to school. So that she can have something to work on. Yes, but the planning is not that simple.

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I mean, I'm not sure if I'm Tiger Mom, you go to school. I want her to have something that she can work on. But what is your biggest plan after all this? My big plan is actually now just to maintain the continuity of this house. I mean, as a single mother, I can provide my child and give him a decent place to live. And a place for me to be a mother. I mean, I can accompany him until he grows up, actually.

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With a stable financial. And because I'm also, thank God, there was an offer yesterday, I, two of my friends, investors, and we both made a production house. So we are developing a production house. So I want to, in the end, I can work in a hybrid. I don't have to be the one playing in front of the screen,

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but I'm just preparing. As a producer. Creative producer, creative director. Okay, so that's your biggest hope, right? So you don't have any further, like a couple?

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No, just step by step.

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Okay, if I give you one challenge, because you love challenges. One day if you meet a guy, do you still want to have a married life in the future or not? Yes.

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Yes, okay.

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What can't happen anymore?

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Wow.

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This is a good one.

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From your side. I want to keep my husband wherever he goes. I want to be with him.

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Possessive, huh?

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Not possessive, more like, let's go, what do you want to do? Let's go together, and I'll accompany you. Because it turns out, the couple's way of spending their lives, in my opinion, is better together.

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Don't work on something different. Work together. Because that way we can talk a lot, spend time together. And I think in a relationship or a marriage, the important thing is that this couple, the child, will eventually follow.

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We are both children, right? Finally it becomes like this, separated. I mean, like this, these are two children, right?

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But between this, no exchange of thoughts.

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Every time I go to my wife, I never look for my child first.

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My wife first, right? That's it, it has to be like that.

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So she learns to see her parents, right? That's what it means, right right? It should be like that. Yes, it means a lot of emptiness.

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What is this?

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Yes, a lot of emptiness.

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Yes, I understand.

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This is a psychologist.

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Yes, evaluate yourself. If it's a matter of economics, you're just not making it a bad thing, right? No, honestly, now I... Back then, when I got married, I wanted a house, this and that.

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But after I had the house, but I didn't have a family, I was sad.

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You're sad again, what's wrong with you?

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So it's like, oh, it turns out that's not the important thing. It turns out that the important thing is... Home is where the heart is. So where we love, where we can see people we love happy and can communicate continuously with people we love, that's where the family is. and family, the sense of family, with a lot of money or a car, it can't be considered as belonging.

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The heart, right? So the heart is the house. If the heart is empty, the house must be sold.

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What?

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After this, you watch it again.

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I can't imagine talking here

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You're a philosophist too Aca is a philosophist too Okay, Aca said she wants to do slow living What do you mean by slow living? I don't know what slow living is

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Because since I was 15-16 years old, I've been working all the time And working all the time doesn't mean I don't have a holiday umur 15-16 tahun kan aku udah kerja terus dan kerja terusnya bukan berarti jadinya kerja gak ada libur ya tapi pokoknya selalu ngerjain film. Film itu kan tenggang waktu ngerjainnya agak lama, 2 bulan, 3 bulan. Jadi dari aku 16 tahun bayangin abis itu kepotong kuliah 4 tahun, terus lulus kuliah langsung udah begitu lagi dari umur 20 tahun, 21 tahun, sampai um of 27 before marriage. Like that.

31:25

So I think I was in the movie. I think, for example, I worked in the movie for 21 years, now I'm 36 years old. It means half of my life I spent on set, right? In the movie set. So it's like, it turns out that living without doing anything in the thing, Oh, I can do my own hobbies,

31:47

I can cook for myself and my family, I can clean my own house. Since I lived in Australia, I've been cleaning my own house, washing my own clothes, everything is done by myself.

31:58

I take care of my own child, I can do it by myself, I work here.

32:05

You have two worlds, right?

32:07

Yes, it's fun.

32:09

Then why did you break up? I'm so angry, I swear. I'm sorry, I never answered. But I was still angry that day. I felt like my life was just a mess. It turned out to be true.

32:23

I'm so angry. Then I don't want to say that this is a bad news, it turns out to be true, I'm really angry and I don't want to ask because I know if I ask, it will only make you more down and I know the timing is not right and I just keep quiet, how many months ago was that?

32:34

thank you

32:34

I never asked, right?

32:35

never

32:36

I don't want to ask, I just keep quiet because I know later if Acap wants to tell a story, he can tell a story. Cak, there is one thing that I think is important. Is there anything that you are afraid of happening in your life? I'm afraid if, for example, I hope there is no one I love who feels sick physically. I mean, don't let anyone get sick.

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If someone gets sick and suddenly there is a debt or no money, that's the saddest thing, actually. So, don't let the economy be unstable, don't let us get sick, or for example, the closest family, hopefully healthy. That's what I think more.

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And the important thing is the children, mentally. I pray to God, physical, mental, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical, physical I can't always be by his side, right? Because my son is still young. Oh, because of your son, right? Because of the divorce and also because of the fact that my son is still young. Our age gap is 27 years, not 28 years. Will we always be with him?

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I want to know, Cak. I want to know my mother's mind. My mother used to be separated from my father. When they were separated, did a ever feel guilty towards your son? Like, sorry, I didn't succeed. Actually, we never directly said that. We always apologized and we've apologized to him.

34:38

We've even apologized to him.

34:42

Really?

34:43

Did he understand? How old is he?

34:45

He's 8 years old. Oh, he's an adult. I explained it in a mother's language, not a gambling why the divorce was told. But yes, about that, about love, giving people a chance to change. I mean, family, but parents, I mean, parents are still there. Confused to find the words. Yes, I'm really confused.

35:05

Go on, go on.

35:07

Yes, but in my opinion, it turns out that being a parent is just that.

35:15

I want the child to always accompany the child. I think that is the hardest part for you, right? Because until, so we are from December to May, we never live together, right? Well, then Bri, until the decision, she never knew how her parents were actually. August, September, October, this October, this October, right? Early October, or September before, oh sorry, sorry, September before his birthday. September before his birthday, he just knew,

35:53

if for example, oh this is really done, mom, like that. When he said, Mom, my birthday, can we not, this is our dad's birthday, or dad's dad's mom's birthday, like that. can we celebrate my birthday at your house? I said, well, how?

36:08

you said no he understood

36:10

so on his birthday, he had a high fever suddenly he got sick his body temperature was 38.9 after that, there was no other way to make our birthday together except to celebrate it at my house that's why V except for serving at my house.

36:26

That's why Vicky finally came to my house and she was finally there. There's a mother and a father on the anniversary, even though she's sick. And I really support the co-parenting model like this.

36:38

Because at the end of the day, parents have to suppress their egos, be good for the sake of the kids. This child is not asked to be born, right? Yes, that's right. This is because of you two. You have to be able to swallow your egos.

36:50

And I really respect that. Yes, we can be separated. But what we have, there is a fruit from our previous love, we have to keep it.

37:02

Even though we don't have to be together. So that tears will flow in the film, tears of joy. Yes, watch it later, November 27. What is this film about? A film about how a child who is a gangster, He was in the second grade in Sydney, Australia.

37:21

So the shooting was near my house at that time. Then he went to Sydney and he had a toxic relationship with his partner, with his girlfriend. Then he finally found his faith again.

37:37

Because he was far from his family.

37:39

You're the son-in-law?

37:40

Yes, I'm the son-in-law.

37:42

The moment is just right, right? The moment is just right. perfect it was easy to play if it's acting, it's great it should be a cartoon

37:50

it's the same

37:52

no, it's not me, it's not us

37:54

it's not

37:56

it's not, it's the tension it's hard to walk what is it, the road

38:02

the road of the song

38:04

that's it, I'm going to the stage.

38:06

This is a request from someone who wants to hear you sing. Sing, right? Many people miss you singing. But do you still want to continue your career as a singer?

38:14

This is releasing at the end of May, besides the movie, there's also a soundtrack.

38:19

You're the one singing?

38:19

I'm the one singing. for the first time, come back in music and it was just cheated by the producer actually, there is no plan to be a diva maybe cheaper

38:28

yes, right?

38:30

it's so funny when will you get an expensive voice? the price of bundling, right? a little bit, please maybe the ref, Aermata Mualaf so that Gus can promote it

38:42

the song is sad because

38:44

try it, Sembari Nangis as a close-up I love ya. We are just calling this promo. I'm sad because of the song. Try it. Smirnoff is here.

38:45

I swear I forgot the song.

38:46

It's okay.

38:47

Check Google or your phone. It's okay. Check it first.

38:50

Oh yeah.

38:51

Here it is.

38:52

Water of the eyes is a wisdom in my life journey. I'm a little bit sad. I'm a little bit sad.

38:55

I'm a little bit sad. I have chosen you and will never turn away from you.

39:21

Yeah, that's it.

39:23

Wow, this is a sad movie. Yeah, it's it. Wow, this is a sad movie.

39:25

Yeah, right.

39:26

Sad, right?

39:27

The movie is sad.

39:28

How sad is this movie?

39:29

80%

39:31

Because...

39:32

We're going to be in trouble. Okay, we'll watch Ayer Matam Walaf later. Don't forget, 27th of November.

39:38

Thank you so much.

39:39

Thank you so much. Mas Densu. I hope you're always blessed in your journey to be a single parent. I always pray for you.

39:49

Thank you so much. Always. Thank you so much, Olive. Just remember, you were always in love.

39:56

I'm waiting for Aca's happy times. Later, I will find what is best for his life, together with love.

40:03

That's what the cameraman is just upset

40:05

Hahaha

40:07

Thank you, it's done Thank you, it's done

40:09

Unfortunately, I didn't realize

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