
From Breaking Down to Bouncing Back - Sneha Sachdeva Gets Real | Hashtag Unmute | Ep 5 | MOST WAITED
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What is this scene about names? Whose name is this scene?
Audio recording by Dr. Madel.
Are you recording that? There were two broken houses. I was tempted. That face wasn't good. Where I saw fame and money, it turned upside down.
Don't ruin your own house. Tell me your relationship status. Okay, should I tell you? I am going on a second. You told me the first one. Now, tell me the highest paid collab. There was a brand,
I directly ****ed with that. Very soon, I made a wrong decision in my age. Whatever it was, I took it. Hi guys, welcome back to a new episode of Hashtag Unmute. So, today's guest is very special. You guys have left so many comments for her. So, we had to invite her.
So, please welcome Sneha Sachdeva. Hi Sneha, how are you? Hello, how are you? I am good. There are so many comments on our videos, only for your name. There are polls going on, vote for Sneha Sachdeva. We have made a new channel. So many people have DMed us to call you by your name.
I will have to go where my audience says. As soon as you messaged me and sent me the screenshot that vote for Sneha, I thought I have to come here.
What is this scene of name?
Whose name scene this? Name it.
You know everything. You tell me.
Your name is Chavi right? You are Chavi since childhood. Your parents gave you the name Chavi. Your document name is also Chavi. Now I will call you Gunnu. My real name is Ronak Sachdeva.
My mom had given me a very boyish name. My name is Ronak since childhood. Which no one knows. Ronak Sachdeva. And my social media name is Sneha Sachdeva. I've said that in my vlogs too.
But everyone asks me on social media, Who is this Ronak? Oh, it's me only. Moving on to our first segment. So our first segment is Unfiltered Origins. This is perfect for you because it's a raw segment.
It's a real show. So say whatever you want to say. So let's start Sneha with your creator journey. How did you become a creator? Did you have a plan to become a creator or it just happened suddenly? My creator journey wasn't that easy. There is a story behind every story.
I have so many interesting stories to share with you. If I sit and share them, it will be morning. But I can't finish the stories in my life. So, literally, the creator journey... I have been a pedagogue since childhood. I was in that pedagogue journey. My milkman brother has been feeding milk at home since 12 years.
He didn't know that I have a third daughter. He didn't know that I have a third daughter. They had never seen me. Because I was always in my room, studying, and this was my routine. So when I crossed 11th and 12th, there was a time of COVID. So during COVID, I saw that TikTok was going viral. So I saw TikTok and a friend of mine told me that I should try it too
Her name was Pallavi Ram So she said try it, I said no I can't do it, I'll go crazy She said no you try it, I said okay And I'm telling you literally, I uploaded my first video, it's still on my Tik Tok page And my first video crossed 31 million 31 million, it was my first TikTok video
and I was shocked, I was like what is this? and I was trolled a lot because of that it went viral, I don't know why I don't know how to keep a phone I am a new creator so I kept my phone in front of me and I was lip syncing I am a new creator, so I put my phone in front of me and did lip-sync.
I was very thin. I still watch my videos and I laugh a lot. But after that, when I saw those things, I was very trolled. Because of that, I crossed 31 million followers. Because of TikTok, my Instagram followers increased. So, this is how my journey started.
Gradually, I uploaded more videos on TikTok. I won't say this, but I must have uploaded a maximum of 100 videos on TikTok. So, I had around 3-4 lakh followers on TikTok. And from there, I got a lot of good following on Instagram. So, I started my creator journey in that way. Then, when did I come to YouTube from Instagram?
I used to do pranks on vlogs. I did pranks and then I started vlogs. Slowly I switched to content and now I am here. So how did your family support you? You were a very educated girl and now you are on social media. Didn't your mom say anything?
I am telling you honestly, my mom was very strict in this matter. Because she believed that she will become a doctor. You will become a doctor. No one else can. So I said, okay I am a doctor. I gave an exam to clear NEET. Although I didn't clear it.
But still I gave an exam to clear NEET. My marks were a little less, so I could qualify for NEET. So I dropped for a year. At that time, I started this TikTok journey. That one year either changed my life to Doctor or here. So I don't even know when the twists and turns came and I reached here. But after that my family didn't tell me that I will have to quit my studies.
I had to do it. No matter what, I did it. I said, yes mom, let's do one thing. I will do BSc in forensic science. Forget about doctorate and doctorate, I will do forensic science. It has more scope.
And it's easy to fool mom. So I said, okay. My mom was very innocent. scope I was very excited to go for 10 days But from the 11th day, I got bored I said I am not coming I told all the Sirs I mean literally I told all the Sirs Sir listen to me
You have to become famous They said how? I said I have so many followers I will make you famous But you will put my attendance in college They said I will see you famous but you will put my attendance in college He said son I will see
I said done sir Literally I made a deal that now you see I will make you famous but you will put my attendance I said okay I bunked college from next day I used to get up for college but
I am going to bunk and make videos I am going to bunk and literally make videos You didn't tell at home? He didn't know I used to come back classes and go home to make videos. You didn't know at home? She didn't know. I used to come back at 5 in the evening. Because college used to get over by that time and I used to reach home. So I made videos like this.
But one day my mom had to find out. Because when I started making videos on YouTube, my second video went viral. Those views mattered a lot to me. Because on the first video, I had 50-60k views But in the second video, I had 4 lakh views And within a day, I crossed 2-3 lakh views
So my mom found out That I was like this And I told her, listen to me mom, this is how you earn money Mom said, money? What will I do with this money? I don't want it Just study
I told her, if I get get bad marks, then stop me, but if I don't get good marks, then let me manage. She said, you can manage, but don't throw it on studies. I said, done. I used to take notes from people and get better marks than them. And then they used to tease me that they won't give me notes but then I had some situations
like I had to drop out of college after the second year I couldn't complete my entire journey but it was fun to see that and to live that journey
out of nowhere can I ask you a question?
if you feel like it, ask because people have said a lot that we don't ask the truth. So why didn't you ask me first? Why didn't you ask me the truth? We'll talk about it later. If you tell me that you're not comfortable with me talking about this, I won't be able to put that thing without your consent.
So what was your first collaboration? Brand collaboration.
If I tell you my first collaboration, there are two types of collaborations, maybe I should tell you. One is barter and the other is paid collaboration. And if I talk about barter collaboration, you can't imagine,
Daniel Wellington, the brand of watch, he was the first person I bartered with. It was the first barter and with them. It was my first collab with them. But, it was amazing. They sent me a watch worth around 25,000. Today, that watch... Don't remind me where it is. But still, that watch was one of my most favourite watches.
And when they sent me that watch, I didn't even complete their criteria I didn't even know how to do it because their criteria were very different I couldn't do it because new creators don't understand everything but I tried to complete their criteria and I got that watch and if I talk about paid collaboration paid collaboration according to. I did a paid collaboration on YouTube. I don't remember the brand name but I got 5000 rupees at that time and it was very shocking for me because at that time
5000 rupees was equivalent to 50 lakhs. That was the time. Now the generation is growing very fast. Now the value of money is less. But when you start from there and when it comes to you, then those things are next level. You don't know what it feels like. When you get an earning from this channel, you'll feel what it is.
This is a different kind of happiness. You told us the first, now us about the highest paid collab. There was a brand and I charged 15 lakhs for it. There were some deliverables like 6 reels and stories. But I had to complete it in 3 months. I took 15 lakhs payment from them and that was my highest paid
After that, many people came and went, took and did something But I don't remember the actual payment but the highest paid was this one Tell me your monthly income, I have so much money I don't even know my monthly income. Tell me the average. I get a bad look. Don't tell me the amount.
Tell me the value of something. Like a car or a phone. If I tell you, it's in lakhs. But leave the amount. Tell me, there was a phase in your life when you were in a good social media life.
Because of which you lost a lot of image and I think it was a bad phase in your life. How did you deal with it? If I look at myself, even a small problem happens in life It happens like this, isolate yourself, cry, I don't understand So I think what happened with you, I can't even imagine So how did you deal with it? And I think you were not that old
You are still not that old So how did you deal with it? Dealing is not easy Nothing is easy But you have to put yourself in a situation Every situation has been different in my life
Suddenly at a young age I made a wrong decision Whatever it was, I should have taken it It was the right decision for me Maybe I took that decision would be the right decision for me at that time. Maybe. Now I took that decision, then that phase started.
But whatever was happening, the gameplay, whatever was going on, but if I remember that, I might cry now. Then this podcast won't be able to be made. Don't cry. But if I talk about moving on, If I say now, then yes, I have moved on, I have moved on.
I have moved on. But I mean, many people think that you are in a relationship. But no, I am not in a relationship. I am saying that moving on means that you have moved on from a bad phase
to a good phase of your life. Where you were stuck, where you were stuck for a long time, thinking that new things are happening, it's not happening, we can't do it. But you have come to a good phase where you are happy. Which tells your body type, your face, that you are happy. And our face itself tells that we are not happy. So I have moved on in that situation. And if I say that
how was that phase, then that phase will probably be in my worst phase of life. And I can't forget that in my life. Some days will be like this, that even today if I remember, I might cry remembering those things. That why did this happen? And what did I do? but sometimes karma comes or anything can happen
or maybe it was written in my life I don't know but the only thing I can say is you are very strong Thank you, thank you so much in fact my audience made me strong to be honest
family support my family supported me a lot. They told me one thing, and I want to tell this to everyone, that you have to tell 100 times to hide one lie. And this dialogue of mine became very famous. This dialogue of mine became so famous.
I came and literally said that you have to lie 100 times to hide one lie. So, you know, it will keep going on. Now you will hide that. If there is any other situation, you will keep hiding that. And you will get stuck in your own lies. But if you speak the truth, you'll keep speaking the truth,
you'll have answers and you'll never get stuck. Because you're honest.
True.
Every coin has two sides. Because I believe 99% of the audience supports you, but 1% are trollers.
Absolutely.
They say the opposite, they hate you. Even if you're doing something good, they take it out on you. So how do you deal with that? If I talk about celebrities, which celebrity has never been trolled? Whether you do good or bad.
If you're doing good and even if you make a small mistake, you'll still get trolled. So when these things can happen with celebrities, open their comment section, who doesn still get trolled. So when these things can happen with celebrities, open their comment section, you can't control it. So we are nothing. But still, see, if I say today, comment paid today. Comment for 10 rupees and then see the comment section. I am saying, maybe someone will comment paid. Right now, comments are free.
People have access. Come on, whoever wants to take out the trash, whose trash is it? I might have a fight with you. Wait, today. Wait, today I will comment with a fake ID.
I have a fight with you. I will write today. So, these things are too much. And this is wrong. But then I thought, no. They say that when you are upset with something, do one thing, always.
Get up and leave. Leave quietly. The lack that the other person will have, why did she leave? And why didn't she say anything? He will eat her the most and he will spoil his bond with his own will
you didn't tell him to do it so always remember that going and abusing him saying bad things to him is useless nothing will happen with these things but if you go from there
then you will see why he will message her himself or whatever she will do with whom ever you will see why he will message her or whatever she will do. You'll see the situation with everyone. But these things will happen. And you can try this.
Trolling is happening between you. Many people called me for trolling. But to be honest, these things will continue. But I'll say this 100% that there are a lot of positive people who comment and then if I talk about negative people, some negative people teach something I will not say that all comments are negative or anything
I have seen some comments that are not written in a negative way they try to write it in a positive way that maybe our point of view a positive way so that the other person understands our point of view. And I like that. I won't say that he is wrong. Maybe he wrote a point that I lack and I need to improve. So I improve that. Tell me one more thing.
You have three sisters, right? So, like I have a sister, I also have a lot of fights. And she is 8 years older than me. Still I have a sister who is also a fighter. She is 8 years older than me. But still I fight a lot. Like I started YouTube and she taunts me everyday. If I don't answer a single call, she will be famous.
You are actually famous. When you started, did you ever get taunted by your sisters? Oh, I have been still teaching me taunts. I'll tell you, what happened was, when I was starting my journey, my sister found it very interesting, my elder sister,
so she also tried to get into it. And I used to say, no problem, do it. But at that time, I used to get jealous. Your followers are more, don't act too much. Don't show your attitude. I used to say, your followers are more, don't act too much. Don't show too much attitude. She used to say that. And even today, I don't do it for my younger sister. My elder sister is in Goa.
I do it for my younger sister. She'll be on the reel with me. Please collab with her. Please increase my followers. Do it, at least you can do this much. She'll collab with everyone else.
She won't. You can do this much. Others will get roses all over the world. Not me. See, you can have a bus on your van. How does mom feel about Klaut? Because I think everyone knows her. I have seen so many of her videos. I can relate to her. Like in your vlog she is saying,
eat food, eat parathas. So I can relate to her. Everyone has this in their house. How does mom feel feel about clout? She is going somewhere, meeting someone, knowing someone by your name, how does she feel? My mom goes to Guruji's satsang daily. She believes in Guruji a lot.
I believe in Guruji. She goes there everyday. She says, no one knows my name, Sneha. Everyone says, Sneha's mom is here. She says, wherever I go, people say, Sneha's mom is here. Sneha's mom, come and dance. I feel so good that everyone knows me by your name.
And my street, it's famous, it's Sneha's house. It's here. So I enjoy it so much that if a porter or anyone was coming, if someone was standing nearby, I would ask them to ask about Sneha's house is here. So we say, it's so much fun that if a porter or anyone was coming and you were standing somewhere around you would say, ask for Sneha's house. So they reach there by asking for it.
But I genuinely like that mom is feeling proud of it and what else do you have?
Okay, now you tell me one thing.
One recording has gone viral.
Okay.
It's a very angry recording. Hmm. recording has gone viral. Okay. It's a very angry recording. Tell us a little truth about it. A lot of recordings have gone viral but you are asking about that recording. Okay, like that boy's recording right? Right. Okay, so if you ask why was he angry, many people have asked me, in fact you know his name, so why was he angry? So according to me, it is justified to be angry and it is also necessary. Now I will tell you, if I explain a situation to you, then try to understand it.
So now you understand that you are a boy, you are the already, you were married, now you are married but you have a girl in your life, she is the girl, now she is the girl you are attracted to, you fell in love with her or got attracted to her in any way you decided that I want this girl, I will leave my wife I will break my marriage, the situation which has happened in actual that you, that boy, broke your married life
left your wife or whatever it was and planned to marry this girl girl who came in your life she is the same girl but when you made her your fiancee you said that you will marry her but this girl cheated you
the one you left everything behind that girl cheated you with a third person now will will get angry or what will be your reaction, I want to ask you I will get angry, you will get angry, you will want
that the girl for whom I left everything that girl left me, now she left me, who is the reason for that so that reason which was of a third person that now she has ruined So that reason was that third person, that he ruined it, took my girl, whatever you understand, that where I saw fame and money, that turned upside down.
That I saw that here is money and here is fame. If she would have been sensible, she would have said go and look after your family. She would never say, leave me, go and look after your family, don't ruin your own house. She says these things. But what was said? Wherever you see, you turn there. Don't worry, whatever happens, it will be seen. Do it. These situations are genuine. You are saying that you are unfiltered, so I am also unfiltered.
Now you said that I will marry her, now they have decided to marry each other, now you are angry that what happened, I left everything behind, now she is marrying someone else, where she saw fame, where she saw money, but he was already married, with whom she is getting married, so now I will open her eyes, I have opened my eyes. I will open her eyes too, who is in a betrayal. So you came to me.
You came to me and told me that it's time to open my eyes. Maybe before that I had really closed my eyes. I was living a different life, whether she was out all night or whatever. I am in such a darkness, whether it was a night out or whatever. I was in a dark place, where everything was mine.
You'd say, this is my best friend, so it's only mine. And I'm that girl who has a lot of love. I'm a fun loving girl. I am like this. So now this is the situation that you came and opened my eyes.
And I will not believe you for the first time. I recorded that thing. Just to show that is it true or not. I want to ask.
I am not believe you. But when you send me proof of that thing, when you make me do a conference with a third person on those things, who knows my personal things, that, do you know this? Do you know this thing of mine?
So that is very wrong. Do you understand? Do you have any personal things that you share with your partner, but a third person or someone else knows about it, then that situation was very wrong. So, actually, not one house, but two were destroyed. Because one already left everything, family, everything.
And the other one, the one who was in front of me, he also broke that. That, I have already had it and now you will also go through the same so the reason is in front of you but I will not consider it as a reason because I can call it my family's coin I don't blame the other person
you came from wherever you are you showed money, maybe you didn't show it you showed fame, maybe you didn whatever you are, you might have seen money, you might have seen fame, you might have not seen it, it is possible that you might have fallen in love, I won't say that it is possible that you might have fallen in love with someone else. Whatever the situation might have been, but still, a game play happened with me. My life has become a game, that whatever I used to believe, whatever I used to think, I was left with the belief that everything is set and everything is going well.
Now I should focus on my health, my wealth and my work. That's it. I think only about that and nothing else. I think I should proceed with a good life. But I didn't understand that my life was so good, how will it reach anywhere in a minute. I never thought that my life would reach a point where I would have to start from zero again. But that was also a part of life.
Still, I had two broken homes. We didn't have that clarity. Oh, you didn't?
You said you are a fun loving girl.
Tell me your relationship status right now. Okay, should I tell you? Yes, please. Tell me the truth first. I'm not telling you. Should I tell you?
Okay, so... To be honest, I'm single right now.
Okay.
But.
But.
But.
I am single. You don't have any wedding plans?
I do.
When will you do it?
Soon.
Will you invite us?
Of course.
Will you come or should I tell you first? Sure.
Are you sure you won't fight?
No.
She is saying that she is fighting.
No.
We can't come.
We will come.
So, soon. Soon. Tell me the definite one. Definite soon. Yes. Super soon.
Okay.
Now tell me about your future projects. You have told me about marriage. One project. Not a project but yes. Is it a project? No, no.
You have made a joke out of my life. No. But yes, you are married. Is it a project? You have made my life a joke. So, what are the future projects? What are you doing that your audience can expect? Any song, any web series? Look, to be honest, I agree that since 2025 has started, a lot of different things are coming out. And what we have seen from the front, that Air India crashing,
India-Pakistan issues, many things were already going on. So now I have decided in 2025, to roam around, enjoy, you never know
how uncertain life is, what is happening, I am not able to understand anything. Whether you are a small kid or a big adult, people say that this was a disease and it's gone. But now, we don't need a reason for a disease. You have a weird disease.
So, I haven't told this to anyone in my vlog. I have done my first international trip, not the first, I mean I have done it before. I have been to India 2-3 times a year ago. But the best trip I had was when I went to Dubai in April for 15 days. I was in Dubai for 15 days, that was the best time of my life.
I mean, I experienced so many luxuries there. How is Dubai? It's amazing. I mean, I can go to Dubai repeatedly. There are so many things that you miss every time. For example, I wanted to do skydiving this time. I missed it. Now I want to go back. I want to do skydiving. Get me to do it from somewhere. So, it's like that.
So, now I am going on a second international trip or maybe this year's second international trip I am going to Vietnam Phu Quoc and maybe Malaysia I am planning to go to Malaysia so whatever is happening
I don't want to travel alone I want to travel with my mom because what she did for us maybe someone else will do it for us what our parents do for us no one can do anything bigger than that in your life. So I made her passport specially for me.
That you are going. Mom said, are you sure? I won't be scared on the flight. Mom had a phobia that if I sit on a flight, I won't be able to breathe properly. I told her not to worry, everything will be fine. It was my mom's first international flight. She might say, I'll travel to Malaysia twice.
It was my dream. The car was on one car, a house and everything. But if you lose your 20s, you will think that you have all this but you don't have the courage to travel. True. Because this is the age when you can travel and earn money. And when you are fully engaged in your work, then there should be a time when you leave your work and travel. When you come back after refreshing your mind, you can find something different.
There is a different content, different things, and a different energy. Different content, different things. You get a different energy. So, it's very important to refresh yourself. According to me. Okay. I have one last question for this segment.
Your creator friends. As far as I've heard, okay, in this community it's very difficult to make friends. Okay. But, I've seen your videos.
Like I think you have been with Deepika. And we feel very good to see her. So tell your creator friends, who all have been made in this journey, on whom you can rely. If I talk about my creator friends,
I talk about reliability. To be honest, if we talk about unfiltered, everyone is like this. They say, it's true, no matter how much you say it in front of people, but you can understand what people are saying behind your back. But I'm not talking about Deepika.
I'm clearing this first. I'm not talking about Deepika I am clearing this first, I am not talking about Deepika I am talking about my creative friends who are your friends but not your friends Did you feel bad? Yes, I felt bad But the person who came out of that situation, what should he feel bad about? He has understood that you don't have anyone of your own
So that's why, it's better to do your own work. It's better to go to hell. This should be the logic. But yes, if I talk about something, I have made some relationships after this journey, on which I can rely properly.
That she won't cheat on me. No matter what, this girl won't cheat on me. And I won't even specify their their names because it will hurt my reputation I don't want people to know who I am with or what I am doing because it affects my work and reputation and that reputation is a very bad thing if it gets hurt, it is very bad
but I have some friends whom I will close my eyes and say that this won't happen. And I have learnt that from my life, even though I have learnt it at a very young age. But I have learnt that, brother, trust and be with good people, be in a positive environment. You will always grow. But if you stay with bad people, the same whispers, you won't be able to move forward in life. You will always be stuck there.
So that's why your friends should be positive towards you. That let's go out, let's do this and that. Listen, he did this, he did that. So those things shouldn't happen.
True.
Agree? Agree. I don't talk much.
No, not at all. At least? Agree. I don't talk too much. No, no.
Not at all.
At least give me some names.
If I talk about names, so I have a brother, I mean the one who is close to my heart, the owner of Fusion Car, Gaurav and Tarun. Amazing. I mean when I met them for the first time mili, unhone mujhe is tariqe se treat kya ki aao ji aao, aao ji aao, betlo, matlab unke nature mein yaar ki amazing yaar, matlab main gayi aur main na, matlab mereko nahi pata tha ki mera koi plan nahi tha mujhe I just went and saw. I didn't have any idea how it will be, what will happen, whatever.
But when I met them, my mind changed. My perspective of the world changed. Everything is achieved gradually if you want. They told me one thing, come and drive. I am not saying business or anything. You have to make a video tomorrow, come and drive. She didn't want to say business. She said I can make a video tomorrow. I said come and drive. I said, now the car will leave the showroom.
Now, until I drive, the car will not leave the showroom. I will not drive and see. She said, sure. I said, I trusted you blindly. That day and today, if we are talking on the phone, I can't disconnect the call before 1.5 hours. Really, we are like Chugal Khuranti.
Basically, I have an amazing bond with him. He is a very good brother, who will explain me what is right and wrong, who is right for me and who is wrong for me. Stay away from this and stay right with that. He teaches me those things.
Guidance is very important.
It is very important. And the thing is that his wife is also there. I talk to her for 5 minutes in the morning. I will open my WhatsApp message and it will be 3 o'clock. How are you. So this is the bond.
So this bond is so good with the whole family. Now it has become a family relation. Please don't cast an evil eye. No evil eyes. And the second bond is Yashika Mcovers. Yashika Mcovers and her sister Vandana Sehgal, everyone's real name is
Malaki. Everyone's real name is Malaki. No one is telling the real name. You tell the real name.
I have only one.
So, actually bond with her is very good. And if I talk about her, her nature is amazing. She guides me like a big sister. I'll say, sister, this is done. Why do you take tension?
She is very sweet. I have worked with her.
Have you?
I have worked with her twice for a makeup brand. She talks so well but she is very busy. She is very busy. But she me, everyone has a different nature. If I am working with you, I will have a different nature. Because being professional, you have to talk like that. You can't be friendly with everyone.
But if I talk about her, at the age of 43, she is of kiddish nature, she is 43 years old. No one can recognise that she is 43. But her nature, her kiddish nature, if you sit to listen to her story, she has told me her Paris, what country, Paris and what all I didn't go through She threw eggs at me She did all this
and at this age So it's good to not lose your childhood No matter how old you get But if you lose your childhood phase then you can assume that everything is over
Nothing is left, just keep thinking and then you'll be fine for life tell me something, like what's going on on social media this hookup culture and situation shift, what's your take on this? to be honest, I don't understand these things
what is this situation shift, I've heard new words benching, situation shift we're going to hear from you in the next segment this benching, situation shape, hookups and all. I am not that old now but I don't know in our generation, this wasn't the case. For me, there were only two words. Relationship or single. Relationship or married. Or breakup.
We might have heard these things. But for me, these are different words. Situation ship. My sister, Kashish, told me that my friend told me
that we have a nano ship. What do you call it. My friend was saying that I have a nano ship relationship. I was like what is that? Because now she is in that generation and I am in the new generation. She was saying like this. I was like what is that?
She was saying that there is no commitment between us. I am with her and with her and with her. I said say it straightly. Why are you saying this? What is this situation? But I will never promote this because this is not right. It's not right for the coming generation as well.
And I don't think this is a game. People have made a joke of life. If you don't like it, leave it. If you try this, you don't like it, leave it. But you have to marry the one who is a virgin so those are senseless things
so that shouldn't happen and in fact the words that these gen z people are saying are not right according to me, they are not right at all and what will you say? Is it right? No, it's not right at all, I don't believe in such things
but everyone is saying the same thing are you getting bored? Not at all. I am in shock after listening to you. Why should you be in shock? So we have heard your life story, your journey. Your story is so inspiring and motivating.
So what message would you like to give to the young girls of today's generation? The young generation is living a fairy tale life. They are living a fairy tale life. They are seeing LV. Like I am talking about influencers. I am an influencer. If I am buying something or I am doing a collab. They don't know that it is a paid collaboration Now I am going to buy that thing That is my life, I got my Mercedes and I did this
But today's generation thinks It's a fairytale life, I wish we get a boyfriend like this Or we buy LV or Gucci Go and buy these things So I will say that get up from fair fairy tale life and come to the real life. You will get to know that nothing like this happens.
This life of deception is going on. People are coming with cars every other day. You don't know if they are rented or not. You are taking them in a phase in your mind that he has a car. Do YouTubers really bring cars on rent? Yes, a lot of people bring them.
Genuine? Just to promote their life? Just to promote their luxury life It's true that if you become an influencer then you might get a lot of showrooms to promote your video
and make a video in that So such things happen It's genuine People show fake LVs and show off that they bought it from the showroom. A lot of people are doing it. I won't even take the names of influencers, they have 5-10 million followers. They will buy it from a second hand copy and
bring such big bags in front of them and say that this is the unboxing. So, that's a fake life. When you come out of the fairy tale life and come into real life, you'll know what struggle is, you'll know how to earn, so you'll trouble your parents to get you this and that. So, this is the generation of young girls, take a very thoughtful decision because this life has become very different.
Now this generation has changed a lot. This generation has changed a lot. There are a lot of things in the situation. So now it's time to think before you take a decision. Is this right for me or not? To judge yourself. Because if you make a mistake in the beginning, like I did.
I won't say I didn't do it. I also made a lot of mistakes in my youngster life, in my 90s. So I don't want you guys to make such a hasty decision. Take a very thoughtful decision. Whatever you feel is best for you, should be the best. And you should feel right.
Do discuss it with your parents. So before we move on to the next segment, I have a question. Sometimes, I also go through something in life. Like my mom passed away. I was very young at that time. So, I was like, I don't want to do this. I can't do this anymore. Just leave me. Don't talk to me.
So, did you ever face a phase in your life where you thought, I'm not giving up? I've faced this phase twice in my life. First, when my father passed away, I was in 8th standard. So, the last time I saw my father going to school, I saw him in a very different situation. It was a very bad situation.
So, I went I told my mom, I told her that I don't feel well, check me once. Mom said, son, he is sick, so he sleeps like this, don't worry, go to school. And I was one of the very weak daughters of my family. I mean, I can't see things, nor can I drink beer so fast. And if I see that thing, then I will fall sick. I mean, I am not sick for a year or two.
But if I see any such situation, then I will fall very sick. So maybe I can get well so soon. So as soon as I was coming back from school, I was stopped from getting off my school bus. That let's go to my aunt's house. I said why? Why will I go to my aunt's house. I asked why.
They said, no, no, we have some work to do at aunt's house. We'll have food there. Let's go. I said, no, I have to complete my project at home. I have to go home. I was adamant. Now they took me home. As soon as I saw the tent, I went inside.
At that time, I thought that my grandfather was sick. He had come to my house a day before. I thought that something could have happened to my grandfather. Because, in 8 cents, you can understand that something has happened. So, when I went inside, my sister came and told me that this has happened. And, I was sitting on the ground, and I didn't know what happened for 6 hours.
I didn't know what was happening, but I didn't get up from there, as if I had become a corpse. I was sitting there and I didn't understand what had happened. After 6 hours, when I genuinely woke up and asked what had happened, I didn't understand what to do, what to do, what to do. Then I cried a lot. And on the third or fourth day, I got a bad fever and many other things. I recovered after 1.5 months.
I recovered after 1.5 months when I took my medicines. Now, when the second phase of my life came, I gave up. When someone says that I'll kill you, you will die today. You will die before you leave this room. I was in that situation. You will hang from this fan today.
Or you will die. I closed my eyes and said, Guruji, if you want me to live, then don't keep me with this person. If I get out of this room alive, then it's fine. If I don't get out, then it's God's will. It was your will to call me up. Now you understand, now whatever you feel is right.
If I get out alive, then I won't be able to do it. I'm so sorry. I'm begging you. I've done all I could. I can't bear those things anymore. I don't think I'm old enough to bear all those things. Or in that situation, I was...
Whatever it is, I'm sorry for making you cry. That face wasn't good.
But you're very strong. Don't cry.
Give me a tissue
Who wants to cry? I was so happy Thank you Oh no No
No No, no, no.
I made you emotional. No, no, it's not about being emotional. But, whatever is the truth, if I think about those things, if I remember that day, I would say that it was the worst day of my life. So, that's it. Maybe people don't understand, I don't know what people are going to comment. But, whatever it was. After that, I ran away from that situation.
I reached home. So, I did a f***ing attempt. I wanted to finish it. I can't continue it. I can't continue it. My soul get goosebumps when I think about it. I told myself that I won't be able to live anymore.
I have finished everything. I have to end it. And I did. I woke up and took so many painkillers. And I ate them I was like, God please wake me up, I don't want to live anymore
I don't want to continue, I can't do this anymore I have been trolling so much, I won't be able to sign so many hate comments I said, just wake me up, I don't want to live anymore I'm sorry, whatever it was, these things happened I ate so many painkillers at once and I said I can't continue I said f*** this
Then a friend of mine came and told me Look at your mother's face She struggled her whole life to raise you My father was an alcoholic addict We have seen a lot of fights in our parents' childhood. My mother would never want my daughter to see the same things all her life.
That's when she would have thought and decided that you won't tolerate it. I have tolerated it. It's not your cup of tea. You won't do it. So, they helped me a lot to get out of that situation. But I still took the step and maybe she doesn't know when she will watch this podcast, she will know that she has done these things. So, she came to situations but God said that life has to be lived.
How to live? Do whatever you want. I am with you but you have to live. And now I am living a very good life. Touchwood. Whatever it was, these things have also come. Situation. My worst phase of my life has come.
And I don't want anything more than this. Because I am a very big believer. And I want whatever happens, everything should be good. In fact, I pray for everyone to be happy. Everyone should move ahead in life. Everyone has the right to live a good life.
If you are not happy with someone, you have the right to be happy with someone else. I wish everyone to be happy. I don't want to see anyone sad. I want everyone to be happy and happy like me. I live with people like you. I am happy with people who have lived their lives and taught me how to live life. So you should also stay like this Absolutely
And really sorry I didn't like to see you crying But I think you are so strong because of all this We can't justify what happened But what had to happen, happened But you are so strong and. And you look so happy.
I can tell from your face.
I have become fat.
You are not fat. You are fit. Okay, I am fit.
Look at me.
But I don't know how I am fit. Everyone asks me, Sneha tell us how you became fat. How did you gain weight? but I have no reason to give others a reason I am eating junk food they can't influence you
that I ate junk food but I ate junk food apart from that I I was happy even if you are happy a lot of things get better they tell you their You can tell your face
You told your face that when you were, you were like this And now when you are, you are like this First ask for my phone that you have kept Bring my phone which you have kept Bring my phone and give it to me So yes, I have my phone, tell me So now we will ask you some questions which are in your phone
And you have to show them on camera So firstly, what is your wallpaper? So my wallpaper is this house So I have to buy a big beautiful house. And I have all my wallpapers like this. I have put the password.
You see.
I can't do this. How do I do this? You have to click on the face ID. Like this? The face ID activates. I can't do this.
Whatever it is, it's my wallpaper.
Dream house. My dream house.'s my wallpaper. Dream house.
My dream house.
Will you make a big house?
I will make a big house. Call us. I will make a big house where everyone will live. Everyone will live together. We will play the same podcast. Next, show us who was the last person you stalked on Instagram.
I will tell you why I was doing it I'll tell you even then Because I don't know what's going to happen But since last night my birthday dress has been ruined So I'm looking for a designer for my birthday dress It's my birthday on 26th
You can post this on 26th They'll comment happy birthday on my birthday Write happy birthday guys my birthday! Happy birthday, guys! So, I'm telling you that I mean, last I'll check on Instagram, wait!
Okay, so I said the right thing It's in front of you, nothing is deleted These are all the designers' names that I'm searching for since last night You can check it out! There's no masala, bro!
If you want to see the, watch it in vlog. You will see it in vlog. Show on Instagram how many people have been blocked. Okay. Blocked. I will have to find the option of block.
It's been a long time since I have blocked. Where is it? Where does it come? In settings? Accounts. Account privacy. It's not coming here
I'll have to check
ok did you get it?
where does it come?
in settings
scroll up
here it is blocked 98 98 contacts are blocked from me. Oh wow! I don't even know who all are there. Oh wow! If you reveal that, then that's it.
That's it.
Understand.
I think, some such fake accounts are blocked.
Apart from that, you can see the rest of the accounts.
Don't show the rest.
All are blocked. Next, I have blocked some fake accounts Apart from that, you can check out the rest of the accounts Don't show the rest of them, they are all blocked What was the last thing you searched on Google? On Safari, Google, whatever you use The last thing I searched was Sky Scanner
So that I can see the tickets So that I can see the tickets for my Malaysia trip. He is searching for it. Your favourite pic in the gallery. It can be anyone's. But you can't delete it.
Okay, I will take that photo. So my best videos and pictures are the ones I never delete in my phone. They are with my mom. And day is special because of this. This is a family photograph. This day is special because I celebrated my mom's 50th birthday. My mom wanted me to give a satsang to my guruji.
I had a big celebration for her on her 50th birthday. She still remembers that day. When we were studying, she had sold a lot of gold to teach us. I had given her a return bag on that day came when I gave them my return bag on the same day. So, that was that day. After that, mom used to give me this, that and that. You are living the dream of many girls and kids.
Yes.
And in fact, I meet a lot of girls. People say that I meet so many girls in say that the story of every house is the story of every fourth house and it is happening in every fourth house. But you came out and became an inspiration for many people. And this is what my followers have told me. This is what my subscribers have told me. I call them family and my family, my fans, my genuine family,
who have given me an honest review. I meet a lot of people in the malls and everyone says the same thing, that it was a good decision. You made the best decision of your life. You have come out of your life very well. So, a lot of people tell me these things.
And I always say this I have said this before also the world in front of the camera and the world behind the camera are very different you are very different in real life you will be very different in front of the camera
your real life back story is you are struggling you have opened a new channel but you are doing a job in the back story you are doing everything but you are not showing your job. You are only showing your podcast.
So people might be feeling different after seeing the setup. But no one knows how much you are struggling behind the camera. So this is what happens. It genuinely happens that we make a 20-minute vlog in front of the camera. In 25 minutes we can make a 20-minute vlog in front of the camera or 25-minute vlog and we can show ourselves well but I will say that the upcoming girls, boys, teenagers
don't get inspired by seeing the wrong things don't get inspired by seeing the life of others which is not genuine people buy cars for 6-7 months they take it, they spend some money but that that's their life, they do whatever they want. But don't get inspired by them, do what we can do, what we have and what we can bring out. People should be inspired by those things.
Right. Last is, you take a selfie of yourself.
Okay.
Whether it's bad or good. It's very bad. And you give it to us, we'll attach it. Now take your last selfie The one you took last Be it good or bad It's very bad
You can give it to us
We will attach it
We will use it You will put the last selfie of my podcast No selfie Show me the other one Wait I have to go down
So much hard work. So before the podcast, my selfie. It's of dresses. What are you looking at? Your photo. Oh my photo. Click your own photo. Selfie, video or photo.
Look at this. I went to get this done. To get treatment done. To get treatment done To get treatment done I have made content Okay, so my last one I got this dress at my house To try it on
I will give you this
I was trying the dress How is it looking? It's looking good Okay, then I will wear it On my trip. So moving on to our next segment. This is our favourite segment.
It's fun. We'll have to cry a lot. Let's dance. We'll ask you some Gen Z slang. If you know it, it's fine. If you don't know, what are you understanding from the name?
You have to decode it. Done.
So first is dry texting.
Dry texting? Yes. Now what is this?
Guess.
Dry...
Which is my skin. Texting, I don't understand. What is this? When someone doesn't want to talk to you but in a short time replies in a bad way. Very cold replies.
It's called dry texting. Dry texture. I feel like a buffalo. I feel like that. When someone writes me hmm I get very angry
Next tell me bread crumbing Bread crumbing Don't ask me Guess it I don't know
Guess
Seriously How do I decode this language Like bread crumbs You keep it aside You want to talk to someone, you want to keep them interested Like today I'm talking to her, she thinks
She thinks I want to ask you, you know the answer better Like you want to keep someone interested, then you want to disappear Then you want to show interest, so this is bread crumbing You want to show your situation
Situation is different.
When you will get married? You will tell me about benching. Benching means to keep on standby. You are talking to one person.
Yes, I am on standby. If I move, I will talk to him.
If you move, you are sitting on a bench.
Ok.
Nice.
Wow, generation. Tell me, when you will get married, I have made her sit on the bench Oh nice Wow generation
Tell me this When you get married Will you soft launch your husband
Or hard launch him?
Soft launch Or hard launch Oh my god I will medium launch my husband Soft launch means you will tell him that you are in a relationship on social media
but you won't put his photo you won't reveal his face Soft launch Hard launch means you put his photo This is it I will tell you
I believe that you shouldn't hide someone's identity and hide that person because if he is leaving everything for you, accepting everything, then his identity should never be hidden. In my case, I say this. It's not necessary that everyone wants to show.
Many people want to hide their relationship. They say that it is visible. And it is true that it is visible. So, everyone has their own point of view. But my point of view is that true I will invite you to my wedding No one invites us No one invites us
No one invites us
I will invite you
Tell us what is zombing? Zombie Zombing
No
That was good There is only one good thing Zombing is Someone was talking to you and then he disappeared. He ghosted you. We call it ghosting.
Then he comes back.
When the zombie comes back, he does the zombie thing. This is what happens in all of them. Someone is going and someone is coming.
Otherwise, he is standing at the stand by.
Basically, he is being cheated.
You have him, he has her.
He is walking. He is cycling. But the world is round. You are going, you are going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going, he is going because a lot of people will get inspired. We too. I didn't know that you... I mean, I knew it obviously, but what I heard today, I didn't know a lot of things. You are very strong.
I used to believe it before too, but now I'm totally convinced that you are very strong. Before we end this, we want you to end this because there was so much demand from the audience, so you should end it. So guys, I have already given a podcast on the hashtag Unmute channel on your demand.
So I would like to show a lot of support to their channel because they are fulfilling your demand. The questions you want to ask them, whether they put those questions from their side, they gave the best and I gave the best answers from their side. And I gave the best answers I could. So what you have to do is show your love. And if it's your birthday, then you have to comment with a happy birthday. Apart from that, quickly subscribe to this channel.
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and part 2 will also come with you oh part 2 will also come, so guys part 2 will also come tell us what you are asking in that. Comment in that. So that we can answer that next time. So for now, subscribe to their channel. Like, share the video.
And comment Happy Birthday. We will meet you in the next video. So bye. Bye. Bye.
Finally. It went so well. Thank you guys. Bye Bye Finally, it went well
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