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and he was crying like a baby and he was like, the queen is back and I was taken to the chair and sat with him and suddenly the queen didn't leave again and suddenly my brother said

she left again and look, there's Sunny in front of her my dad was angry and it was very chaotic because they knew that Sunny and her family were outside and suddenly my dad called

and said, don't come in again this is Dajjal's family, theyani's family were outside. Suddenly, my dad called out to the neighbors, like, don't come in again, this is Dajal's family, everyone is kicking him out. This family wants to kidnap my son for two years. They suddenly covered Sani's car with a trash can. Then...

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Today we have an actress, an actress, an artist, who you have been involved in the entertainment world since what age?

Maybe 13?? Maybe 13 years

13 years And now you are 22 years old Almost 22 22, still young So you've been involved in the entertainment world for almost 10 years Yes

We can discuss a lot of things today First of all, how did you get into the entertainment world?

Okay, so first of all, at that time, it was my dream, my brother, my brother, we really wanted to be on TV when we were young. So like, maybe because we often watch TV, maybe it's fun if we become artists, like that, okay. And then my mom followed us to a modeling contest in Aceh. The modeling contest is if we pass, we can be brought to Medan. So, if we pass in Medan, we are brought to Jakarta.

But that's a model, right?

Model. At first, it was a model. Later, it turned out that the three of us, as a brother and sister, we were included in the three of them. So we were brought to Jakarta and then we were introduced to the agency.

Okay. Sorry, again, a modeling agency or an artist, or the same thing?

Actually, I think this agency used like a big company. Like, I can take you to casting, I can take you to casting for ads, casting for movies, etc. Go to PH, etc. And then, because we have found this agency, so we decided to move to Aceh.

Why did you move to Aceh?

Move to Aceh, move to Jakarta. Sorry. Move to Jakarta. Sorry. Moving to Jakarta. Because my dad also stopped working since he had a heart attack. Yes, he only had his dad's assets. So, he sold his land or house.

So, when you moved to Jakarta, you started to have traction to see people, there are calls and so on.

You moved to Jakarta because you feel financially supported by you and your siblings. Maybe we are from the region, right? Thinking like, oh maybe the process to become an artist is very easy. Because people like to be an artist can have a lot of money. The financial can be more stable and so on. Because in Sumatra, the financial situation is not stable.

We are a family. So, we decided to move to Jakarta because we see people who become artists who have stable financial situation. But again, we don't know.

So, you haven't been financially successful, right?

Not yet.

It's more like we support you.

Yes, we are supported by our family.

And there's nothing back in Aceh for you guys, right?

Yes, just my dead house. Like that.

So, you were looking for a new field, trying out your luck.

Yes, especially at that time, the agency's aim was that we would be able to become artists easily. And then they said, we's been 3-4 years, it's not that easy.

So, for 3-4 years,

you didn't get a job?

So, we were just casting. We were casting for ads, hundreds of times,

never got a job.

And then, we were casting for movies too.

At least, if my brother had a shooting,

he would be the one just casted. We casted ads hundreds of times, never passed. And then we casted movies too. At most, if my brother had a shooting, he only shot on FTV. The payment was only Rp. 250,000. Just like that.

So, it's like lacking, lacking in talent, for sure. Of course.

It turns out, it's not that easy to be an artist. Especially since we're from an area where we don that we don't know anything about Cokara.

Okay. When you were... You were 13 years old, so it was 10 years ago, right?

Yes.

What year was it? 2016?

2016.

I don't know.

Was Kajamandu already...

2015. Was Kajamandu already a popular content creator back then?

Slabgram? I'm So, we have basic acting. I see. So, as long as we have time, we learn theater.

Okay. So far, I know you are a model. You said your mother introduced you to the competition. In Jakarta, there is an agency. I assume there is a manager who specifically assigned you and your siblings. Yes.

Okay. But from your family, is there anyone like, I just interviewed Prilly, she said from the beginning her mother kept following her everywhere. Well, is there anyone, actually, a bad artist at that time, yes, your family who also accompanied you to choose this project, you can cast and so on, or what? At that time, we were more into the flow, yes.

Like, because it turned out that casting wasn't the flow, right? Because, it turns out, casting is not easy to get, right? So, we were like, let's just try casting first. Even at that time, I was casted when I was 15 years old. I was casted when I was 18 years old. Because, we were like, let's just try it first. That's our mindset at that time.

Because, maybe we didn't know where the fortune is. Because again, we don't understand the world of entertainment. So, we decided to cast.

But, is it you who decided to cast or your parents? Obviously my parents.

Because at that time, I was still young. So, everything was decided by my parents. Your parents. Because at that time I was still young. So, everything was what my parents told me. Like, today this casting, today this casting, today this casting. We were like, okay, go home to school, casting, go home to school, casting.

So, you were still in school?

At that time I was still in junior high school. The first time I came to Jakarta, I was in the first grade of junior high school, high school, high school? So, I graduated from high school and then the high school turned out to be COVID.

Oh, okay.

It was really right there. In short, I was cast in Cinemark. I got a role in a pretty big movie at that time from the high school window. Finally, because I had to shoot and COVID too, I became a package C.

Package C, oh yeah. Okay, but in the end you didn't go to college, right?

Actually, two years ago, I tried to go to college. But it turns out, because of all these events, I became a backer.

Step back, step back. Alright, let's talk about it. First of all, you were looking for a job. Then you had a breakthrough with the pandemic. So, you immediately became famous. Before you became famous, you said you only had a little money.

But did the money help you or you always gave it to your parents? Because I didn't have a contract. Because the one who has a contract is my parents. So, I don't have the money. So, my parents manage the money. For what?

For my brother's school, my sister's school, for the rent, for the house, my father is also not working. So, for the rent, one of our family, which is 6%.

Okay. Have you ever felt, I work hard, but I don't enjoy the money? You were still young at that time, right?

Yes.

Because maybe at that time, I was like, I have to do this, because who else would help if not me me who was doing well at that time. And at that time, I was also the one who was getting famous because of this Sinatron. So maybe at that time I felt like, okay, I want to do it or not, want to disturb the big money that I can give to my family. That's why I finally look for the money on TikTok.

I try to affiliate. It's real. Before I got endorsement this much now, I was affiliated in the first year. Because before, I was endorsed. But maybe if I can say, once or twice a month. Once a month, it's still not enough and I can't give that money to myself. I can only give that money to all of us, for our needs.

So for me, I can't do it. That's why at that time, maybe I was 19 years old, 18 or 19, I was like, I can't do it. That's why, at that time, maybe I was 19 years old. 18 or 19, I was like, what can I do so that I don't need to ask for money. I don't need to ask for money from my parents. So, my big shooting budget can be for our living. Well, finally, I was like, oh, I'll just affiliate.

And then, did you got the result? Yes, I got the result. So, I took like a million for a week. Just for the business. So, if I go out with my brother, I can do business outside. That's it. And then, it came to a point where my brother couldn't handle my endorsement anymore.

Because, since I was an affiliate, I got a lot of endorsement for payment. So, my brother is a college student, so he can't handle it. I pulled the number of his WhatsApp business. And then I handled it.

At that time, I finally chose again. Okay, this endorsement I can give to my family, this endorsement I keep. Since then, I have my own money to buy my own needs without asking my parents.

But is that the starting point of your business?

Actually, it could be. But I haven't felt it yet because I was still trying to make an effort. Like, okay, this is for my parents, and this is for me.

Okay. So when did you start having problems with your family?

So, I did three shootings a year, at least. Yes, at least three shootings. I did three times shooting, and then at that time, I had a shooting for a movie. I won't mention the title here. I was shooting in Blitung. I was shooting another movie in Blitung.

The cast called me to offer me another movie. After I came back from Blitung, I immediately shot that movie. The concern is that the movie had a not so good scene. Which is a 21 plus scene. There, I was like, because this is my first time being offered something like this. I was like, what can I do about this?

But the concern here, the other concern is the budget is really big. Honestly, for my size, the budget is really big. And here, as a child, I work to meet the family's needs. I'm richer. But the money is really big. If I don't take it, it's a waste of money.

And finally we discussed, me, my brother, my mom, we discussed. So, how is it? But there was this. But the cashier convinced me, it's safe. We use double body. Everything is safe. We use double body, so you won't be seen. Because I, again, in our family, no one has experience in the entertainment world.

No one is a film producer or a film director. We don't have the right to know how they take it. And I'm not an actress who is already a senior or a big one. So, I don't understand. So, when the casting director said that, I was like, oh, well, if you use a body double, it's not as bad as the scene.

Well, finally, we approved it with concern using a body double and the money is really big. That's it. Finally, we came to the meeting with the director and blah blah blah. I always make sure that it's really safe, right? It's really safe, right? Because honestly, I'm afraid. It's really safe, sis.

They said it was safe. And then after that, when I happened to be shooting the movie, I felt uncomfortable. Because sometimes I wore a body double, sometimes I didn't.

Sorry, can I say, usually this scene is you have to wear a dress?

Oh no, no, no, no, no. I'm wearing a dress. But it's a sex scene.

Okay, I mean, when you wore a body double, did you wear a dress or not?

Oh no, no. We're here body double, is it too flashy? No, no.

We're here, the scene is really like...

So you're having sex but wearing a dress?

Yes.

Okay, okay.

Go ahead.

Sorry. And sorry, this movie is not yet released.

Yeah, I understand. So it's more like that. So the point is, I don't want to blame anyone, but in this position, in the location, I'm a little uncomfortable. For shooting this movie, because this is my first time too, and I don't have any experience with this, I'm confused. All kinds of things. And it was really right at that time, a month before I shot this movie, I was close to this guy, I was close to Sunny.

I wasn't open to my family. Because I know the concern here is that the age difference is quite far.

How old are you?

40

And you are?

I'm 20. At that time I was 20, he was 39. I was there, coincidentally, getting closer to him and we were dating. But I didn't want to open up to my parents, but I did open up to my brother. I told him that I was close to him. At first, they were like, really?

Then I was like, yeah, but it's okay. I was trying to be like, I'm fine, guys. It's okay. I just fell in love. And then, when I was shooting that movie, the movie that I mentioned earlier, I was under pressure, of course, with that situation, and I was uncomfortable at the location of the shooting, and so on.

Coincidentally, I posted this guy on my second account on TikTok. Where the second account is public. The second account is public. Suddenly, my mom reached out. You date with this boy? I was like, yeah.

I said, my sister didn't tell my mom yet. Turns out, she was angry. She broke up with this guy. I was like, why don't we just talk at first? Why do we have to be extreme? And my husband called my mom, like,

Auntie, it's okay, I won I'm not going to do anything. I will be responsible. I will talk to my aunt. Then my mom was like, Just break up. Break up with my son. I don't want to know. Please, Sunny. Break up with my son. I was there like,

Wait a minute, I'm shooting this movie. There's a lot of pressure for me. Suddenly, this adds another problem. Even though this is just peace to me. Like for me, dating as a young girl is just peace to me. I mean, if from the beginning we don't have to be in a hurry,

maybe we can be happy together. Like, you know, all this time I'm at home, if I want to go anywhere, I have to be allowed to talk, how, how, etc. I felt cornered. I felt like I was under a lot of pressure because of this movie, then there was this problem.

I felt cornered, I felt like there was no room for me to think, no room for me to talk to my family nicely. Because they were just telling me to...

Break up.

Yes, break up, just trying to break up.

Yeah, break up, break up, break up. I was like, I felt like I was stepping back, step back, step back. Oh, this is one of my siblings, there was no one who could more precisely, no one could understand my feelings at that time. They could only be like, just follow what mom said. Just follow what dad said, instead of dad getting mad.

Because at that time, my dad found out because my mom was pregnant. My dad was also upset. And then I said sorry to my dad. I told my dad, this is a bit sad actually. I told my dad to go to his room, because we were sleeping in a hotel, because we were at a local shooting. I said, sorry.

Dad, sorry if I'm doing this. Then he was like, why you did him? I was like, I was silent. I couldn't answer anything. Because for me, my dad was young, my mom was young too. Like, why do we have to be so extreme? The decision is for the one who's like, Okay, let's break up today.

Sorry.

And then, After that, I can only say sorry, sorry. Because I cannot think too. Because I'm also shooting again. I have to think about my character, at the same time I have to think about the family problem, thank you so much.

That turns out to be a family problem. Finally, a few days after I was shooting, I was off. I went home, I didn't say a word, I just stayed silent because I thought it was useless if I spoke. I couldn't, actually I couldn't convey my heart and my mind to them. They couldn't hear me at that time. So I was a bit stressed and I was like, maybe I need my own time to think.

Because if I was at home, I had to meet my siblings. They were not concerned about my feelings. They couldn't understand my angle. They could only break up. At that time, I ran away in the afternoon. Without anyone knowing. I ran away because I was only looking for time for myself.

Because I still had to continue shooting. I was alone. I just...

You needed to be alone. You needed space.

Yeah, I just wanted to be alone. I just needed space. So, the conflict between you and your parents, your family, I just need space. I was like, it's so hard. Where did you meet Sunny? Sunny was my co-director. I have a movie called Cormuleo. He was my co-director.

Are you still with him? May I know?

Now, obviously. It's almost two years.

Okay, sorry. I want to be devil's advocate in this sense. You're 22 now, right? Your boyfriend is 20 years old. My oldest son is 20 years old, a girl. Maybe your parents have that kind of concern? Maybe a few years later, you realize, what's the point of being with men, fathers, uncles, and so on. Maybe your parents have that kind of concern?

What if the way to handle this situation is more like a win-win solution? More like, I was hoping from the beginning,

it's more like, not telling me to keep it away from men away or break up. Like, okay, you're dating, let's see it together. I mean, it's like this.

You want to give Sunny a chance.

Yes, that's what I mean. Because after almost two years of my relationship with Sunny, he's really not a bad guy. So, I always hoped to give Sunny a chance to show you that my relationship with Sunny is okay, it's fine. Everything's okay.

That's why when I suddenly got in touch with Sunny, I was like, you know, you guys know Sunny very well. My mom knows Sunny's brother so well.

So it's not because of Sunny that they heard about Sunny's affair.

No, no. So, in your opinion, it's purely a matter of culture. Culture and age.

Okay, are your parents afraid that Sunny is a ghost? Have you ever heard of a bad guy? That's what happens when you're in a relationship and you're being nagged at.

Oh, the nagging. So, you're afraid that you'll be given the money to take it from your business.

Can that happen? Never. Not just your business. I mean, is their fear like that?

Maybe their fear is like that, but it never happened. Because when I left home and I never went home. I will tell you later. When I never went home, it was until July 2025. Until June or July 2025. How long was that? I still sending money to my family.

Okay. Okay. Because I'm not at home right now, so I transfer you guys money. So, you mean the reason is because you are afraid of being fired? Maybe in my family's head, there is something like that. But I show that it never happened. Because here, Sunny never wants to deal with things like that.

Because she also works, she also has her own job. She never, until now, she never interfered with my financial problems.

May I know, I don't know if it's private or not. Until now, he never interfered in my financial problems.

May I know, I don't know if it's private or not. Did you have a boyfriend before you were a senior? Yes, obviously. Okay. No, no, I mean, maybe the one you're in love with, the one you're serious about, was just a senior.

Before that, it wasn't?

No. We were dating when we were 19 years old. You know, like...

A monkey love. umur 19 tahun, you know, like... Cinta monyet, cinta monyet. Ya, lebih tepatnya seperti itu. Oke, apakah, oke, saya pingin tahu, kan, again, saya lihatnya dari sisi orang tuanya ya, mereka kan ada concern tadi, culture, age, dan lain sebagainya. Pertanyaan saya adalah, dan kamu kan bersih keras kayaknya,

kesannya did nothing wrong, kenapa saya harus putus? Sunny did nothing wrong. Why should I break up? You must have a dilemma right now. You want to respect your parents, but you also want to find your happiness, right? Is that right? Is that why you were 15 years old when you started working? Yes, yes, yes. 13 years old. 13 years old, sorry.

At 13 years old, you never became an actual child. You never really became a child, you know, you were always being like pushed to work and struggle in all of those things. So, once you found Sunny, you really felt like, this is it, you know what I mean? Maybe that's the reason why you're so adamant about having

a relationship with Sunny. So, what I see in Sunny, what I'm looking Sunny is not that I want to be a child for Sunny. No. Here I see that Sunny is a very smart person. I like the way he thinks. And I like to look for new things in a good way. In a good way, more like, especially Sunny is easy to communicate, discuss.

That's what I like from Sunny, actually. So, it's like, that's what makes me, I think it's fun to talk to him. We finally connect. So, if I feel like...

Is there a father figure from Sunny?

No, no, no, no.

So different. Because Sunny, from the beginning, as my my brother and then he became a friend. Not a brother. Not a brother. Not a brother at all. We are really friends.

I and his brother are also close from that movie. So, we are all friends. I see. And we are connected. We talk and our humor is also connected. And our birthday is also the same.

So, Sunny and I have a lot of similarities. So, from there, we are like, we are getting closer and closer. You know?

Okay.

So, there is no such thing. If I am asked, I would rather be... Because I was forced to be an adult, because I have to work. And then I look for my inner child in another place.

No.

Okay.

All this time you have been working for 17 years for your family, like you said, paying for all the household expenses, including your siblings, etc. If you're honest, do you feel resentment? Do you feel like, why is it like this? Why is it unfair? Do you have that feeling?

So actually, when I started working, this is a rough line, I started working for 13 years. But the money wasn't have much money. You said you got infected by COVID. Yes, but if I didn't have money for shooting, I would have spent it on my dad's savings. So, I felt like I was living with my family when I was 16 years old.

So, I'm comparing is a comparison. I was 16 years old, I was like, I'm the one who works for my family. Because I had a big income for Sinetron and for my age at that time. And thank God, it was enough for we six persons.

So, it's more like, if you ask, in the end, I have my own burden, it's more like, of course, of course there is. Because I definitely want to be helped, all kinds. Because if there, since COVID, I have been working alone. So I feel like, oh yeah, I work alone, so I can't play with my job.

Because my family, for now, lives because I'm shooting a movie, I'm shooting a movie, like that. So I have more pressure, more precisely.

Pressure, but don't you feel like you're annoyed?

Sometimes there is. For example, I'm tired, and I want to do something, I have to think a thousand times first. Because, oh, it turns out that my younger sibling's school is more important. Oh, it turns out that paying for the tuition is more important. Paying for the tuition is more important. Of course, there is a feeling of anger like that. I'm also human, right?

Sure, sure. I think this is more important. Of course there is a feeling of regret. I am also a human, right? I also have a heart that is like, unfair, like a little unfair. Like, oh, shooting.

But if I'm not shooting, good. But now, do you feel that way? Like, there is a feeling, wow, especially to your siblings, you help them with school and so on. You said that they don't understand

your condition and feelings at that time. Did you feel like, wow guys, you know, I helped you financially. Why can't you give me some sort of support now? Did you have that feeling?

That feeling was a come and go. At the same time, I had that feeling when I was upset. And after that, I was like, but this is my sister. But you guys are not helping me at all. That's what makes me disappointed. I'm disappointed. I don't want to consider the problems that I have caused for them.

I'm like, but please, just help me for once and try to understand me. This is at that time, because I have a story after this.

What is the story? Tell me now.

Tell me now. Okay. So, after almost two years, January yesterday before I'm going to China. So, we talked there. Sorry, kita ngobrol disitu awalnya.

Sorry, tapi selepas ini kamu gak ngobrol atau gimana?

Maybe 7 bulan, 8 bulan pertama setelah aku keluar tuh masih kontekan, tapi berantem terus kontekannya. Karena gak ketemu kita, gak ketemu di tengah-tengah. Terus akhirnya gak bicara? Gak bicara, the beginning of January. We met physically. We met physically. We met physically.

At first, we were talking to my brother, who used to talk to three people. There's no Sunny. And then, it wasn't over. We didn't meet there either. Because we could only make mistakes and so on. You used to be like this, this, this, this.

You met your brother, right? Yes. Okay, I said earlier that you are a top-secret agent. What is your brother and sister's real concern?

That's what I'm confused about now. More like, you guys are young people. We are not that old. My brother and I are two years apart. My sister and I are three years apart.

Yes.

Why can't you see it from my side first?

Yes, why? I have no idea. Because I never dated them after that day. So, when you met them, you said that they must have their own rules. What are their rules?

So, actually before we met, a year ago, a year ago, I forgot, a year ago, after I just got out of the house, my brother made a statement on social media, like, Queen Sofia kidnapped by Cornelius Sani. A man who is 40 years old, his name is Cornelius Sani.

I was shocked.

Why?

No, why? I was so shocked. I'm not doing this. Why is the doxin like that? I'm not doing this. where my apartment is, they know everything. Because I have told them. And after that, a few months later, the doxxing got worse. My brother suddenly said,

he's pregnant. On social media too. On social media too. I was like, I think this slander has gone too far.

You were so angry.

I was angry. I was even more, I was more like, the more they doxing me on social media, the more I step back. I step back. Oh, so you can't talk to me nicely. Oh, so you can't understand my feelings.

Because until now, you always try to fry. Always try to slander the wrong things. Almost two years, finally, because I said I was pregnant, I was told I was pregnant by an Indonesian. Until now. You were still young. Yes, every time I was a little bit bloated, I was like, oh, she's really pregnant.

At the same time, in the end, I just made it into a joke. Okay, fine.

So, my question is, what is it? What is it?

I don't understand. Before we met, my family was a bit of a doxing. There were slander, even slander from Sunny. A lot. A lot. So when we finally met, it was because my mom slandered me on social media.

That day was the same day. My mom slandered me. I think. That day was the same day. My mom slandered me. I think it was the day before or the day before. My mom slandered me for making a social media post. Like, I was bullied by Sunny. I was like, I always cook for myself.

I cook the terimedan. I always eat the terimedan. Where is this coming from?

I was confused. I cook the terimedan, I always eat the terimedan. Where does this come from?

I was confused. And obviously, the one who is the most pointed is Sani.

Poor guy.

Poor guy. I was like, this guy is not real. The one who is being talked like this is not real at all. I was like, oh my God, my parents. Like, okay, at least if we can't talk nicely, don't make false slander. And I was confused, where did this come from?

Where did this come from? I was confused, like I was not allowed to shoot, all kinds of things, I was not allowed to pray, while last year, I prayed on Eid. Like, this is very, very contrary to the facts. That's why at that time I was live. The one I was live on TikTok, which I finally explained everything.

There's nothing like this, guys.

I'm sad if I have to slander like this. I tell everything.

Clarify.

Yeah, I clarify. Tomorrow is the last time we meet. And then what?

At the end?

At the end, we meet. Okay, we met and we made a mistake. For them, I was like, what are you doing? What is it called? Don't go home. What are you doing? Blocking us all. Blah blah blah, all kinds.

At that time, my defense was, you can't understand me. You can only say something on WhatsApp and then call asking for money from my mom. And then I was chatting on social media.

And I was like, because we were not done, we were two against one, and we were not done. Suddenly Sunny came out. And I was like, okay, let's talk. Finally, when Sunny was there, it was good. Finally, my brother talked to Sunny.

I just stayed silent. Finally, at the end, we made a promise. Okay, mom won't make any more Snapgrams or make any more content about me and about this case on social media. Sunny and I won not make romantic videos. That makes my parents unhappy. Okay, the agreement is like that.

Deal, deal. And then I'm going to China with my manager to work there. We have a TikTok job. Suddenly, when I was there for a few days, my mom again did the same thing.

Again slandered. So, I was directed to the posting of this one woman who was popular yesterday about the book. You know that, right? I was directed there by my mom. As if I was in…

The case is like that.

In child grooming. I was confused, like,. No, no. In child grooming. I was confused, ma'am. Like, more like, you know, I am, this is my manager. I have a lot of friends who are with me every day. Like, we are also confused, like, why am I directed there? While I'm not like that.

Even if I'm like that, trust me, I will find my mom. I will find my dad. So, yes, my mom suddenly made a snapgram to tell me about this case. I was like, so what's the deal? We made the deal, but it didn't happen.

So, I just forgot about it. I forgot. And what I was upset about was when we had a deal, when we met for four, we had a deal. Okay, I won't upload it. But my brother's content on TikTok was still about me doxxing.

Until I finally asked him to delete it.

But he didn't.

It was taken down. Even that, I asked him, please, we already have an agreement like this. Why don't you take down the content that you said to me, that made me be judged in your comment column. Then it was taken down. Then finally I was in China for two weeks.

After I came back, we finally decided to, Sunny's family decided to meet my family to talk nicely because this is too long. It's almost two years and it's not over yet. And always on social media, even though from the beginning Sunny and I never open to social media. The one who opened social media was my parents, my sisters too. So Sunny's family was like, okay, instead of being like this, let's just talk to your family. Let's go. Let's take us to my parents' house. I took them to my parents' house. I was the one who came in there.

I was the one who came in the house. I opened the door. I hugged my dad. Then he said, why are you going home? I was like, I want to talk. Then he just stayed silent. It turned out that there was only my father and my youngest brother at home. It turned out that my mother, my brother, and my younger brother were gone.

And then I sat in the guest room. I sat in the guest room and I cleaned up the guest room so that Sunny's family could sit and we could have a good conversation. I waited for 10 minutes. Sunny and her family were waiting outside. They had to wait for my parents to come in first.

Because I didn't want them to just come in. Because it was my parents' house anyway. Well, I finally waited for 10 minutes, and I went out. Suddenly, my mom came in and went home. And then I hugged her. I said, Mom.

She was crying. I said, Ratu, Ratu is home. I was taken to her chair and sat. Suddenly, she didn't go home. Suddenly, my brother said this, she went again.

Look, there's Sunny in front of her. When she came here with Sunny, my dad was angry. Why did you bring that man here? Dad, his family wants to talk. I said like that. No, you don't have to talk to him. If we are queens, we can go home alone.

Why did you bring that man here? Anyway, suddenly It was very chaotic because they knew that Sunny's family was outside. My brother was like, why did you bring him here? I told you yesterday, we made a promise. I was like, I don't have the energy to debate with him. I was like, I don't have the energy to debate with him anymore. I was just silent.

I said, you're not helping. I said, you don't have a brain, why did you bring him here? My dad was like, don't be mad at me. I was like, what am I doing? I don't accept him being here. If we're just talking about family and family so that it doesn't get longer.

Suddenly my dad came out. I panicked, I was afraid that my dad would suddenly be like this. Okay, my dad came out, I came out too. I came out but I was pulled by my mom, you're in the middle of the night, you're in the middle of the night. No, I have to go out too. I have to take responsibility for everything here too, like that. I was like, this is the basic of a family, this is the basic of a family.

Suddenly chaos. I was so nervous, I panicked. I was like, I can only do this. Even though we have a good intention. The family's intention is good, we want to talk nicely. And that's it, this is the ending.

We can talk to each other like that. We can be good to each other. Okay, what do you want to do? That's what I want. And then, suddenly, my dad called me and said,

don't come in. This is the Dajal family. They want to kidnap my son for two years. He called my neighbors. I was like, I can't do anything, we cannot talk. We can go home. We can go home. I said that. Because they kept on coming and going until Satpam came.

Satpam was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he was like, he silent. His family was like, Oh, auntie, we're sorry. We just want to talk. This and that.

You can't, you and your family. You're late. Where have you been all this time? Why didn't you come earlier? Like that.

Then I could only stay silent. Then I said, let's go home. Let's go home. I was shocked. I was shocked. That was in February, sorry, in January, right? January.

After you came back from China, right? Last week.

Oh, February. It's last week. So, until now, your relationship with your parents is still not right, right? Did the case happen in your house, did you continue a continuation conversation or did you just talk back and forth?

So, after that incident, I finally went home. At that time, my brother was just chatting, like, what are you doing again? I didn't read it. I just read it, I didn't reply. Then my brother also chatted, like, I don't want to help you anymore, and so on. Even though yesterday we intended to help you with the agreement.

But for me, it didn't go as planned. You know what I mean? And then, I just read it and I blocked it. Because for me, again, you guys are not helping me. But if, like yesterday, his family came, I went home, he could only talk to me, you don't have a brain, this and home and I could only whisper to them,

you don't have a brain, you can only do that. Until my brother said words that I blocked, that's okay, he's just excited to get married. I was like, I'm not saying anything. I was just like, the Sani family wants to talk. I didn't saying anything. I was just like, this is Sani's family, we need to talk. I didn't say anything else.

And Sani's family was trying to talk. It was so calm. We talked, but they were like, this is not right, until all of them came out. Then we just left.

Now, your big family, is the cost still your responsibility, or your brother has his own job, has money, etc? No, after? Okay. Um... You don't have to look at your face. You don't look angry. You look tired.

Yes.

Your face looks like...

Yes, exactly.

You look very tired.

Very.

I mean, it's almost two years. And it's always doxxing, slander, doxxing, doxxing, doxxing, doxxing, doxxing. Like, you want to talk about facts. For example, let's say my mom said Sunny is like this, and then I say, Mom, he's not like this. I can't believe it. I cannot. If people don't like it, for me,

if people don't like it, then it's fine. It's biased. So, whatever we say, whatever the facts are, I still cannot.

How important is it for you to be able to restore your relationship with your parents? How important is it for you? Or do you think at this point, you've already... I leave it to them. They have to be active to reach out to me.

I'm more like... This is the time to answer. I'm now... I don't want to force it anymore. After the last problem yesterday, which I brought home, for me, it's like...

Okay, for now, I'm...

That's it?

Yes. I've stepped back. I thought I couldn't do anything anymore. So, for me, if I'm asked about my relationship with my family, I'll just go back. So that time and fate will answer.

Okay.

What about you and Sunny? Sunny, you've had a few cases where your family slandered you, you were abused, and you even had your car stolen. Why are you still patient with your family?

Sometimes, I just want to be happy. I salute that. And my family, they don't do anything bad to my family. They're just angry. I salute, actually. And his family also didn't make my family feel bad at all. They were like, it's okay. They were just angry, it's okay. If you don't want us to meet them anymore, then it's okay.

We live our lives as usual.

Okay.

So, if you ask why Sunny is like that, honestly, I'm also confused with this person. Like, why your passion is so big?

Why it's still here? Yeah? Why it's still here?

Yeah, why it's still here?

But every time I asked, he was like, we've been together for a long time, baby. He said like that. Well, the important thing here is we love each other.

Okay, that's an interesting statement, yeah. We love each other. You might have read the news from abroad, right? About Brooklyn Beckham and David Beckham and Victoria Beckham, right? Okay, that's an interesting statement, ya. Kita sayang mencintai. Kamu kan mungkin telah baca berita yang dari luar negeri itu ya, tentang Brooklyn Beckham sama David Beckham sama Victoria Beckham, kan?

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Tentu kasusnya kan agak, ya, kind of similar netizens defend their parents, not Brooklyn. In your case, if you read the netizens' comments, I don't know if you read it or not, the point is, the public sentiment is more pro-you or pro-your parents?

Parents.

Oh yeah?

Yes. Because parents is always right. Parents is always right. Parents is always right. And maybe some of you feel that Sunny is like a whisperer. Yes, again, because we have never said anything from the beginning. Never said anything. The one who always slander, who always frame to social media is always my parents' side. So, the bad thing here is only me and Sunny.

Because of the framing by my mom.

You choose to be happy for you. You choose to be happy with Sunny too, right? Do you feel like, I feel guilty too. I'm selfish? I have happiness, but my parents are angry and stressed. Do you ever have that feeling?

Honestly, at first, yes. Because I'm a child. I'm a child. At first, yes. But when I got here, I felt it more. It's like, but this is my happiness.

And I also, I tried to talk to them. I also didn't continue to communicate with them. Because their doxxing is getting further and further away on social media. The longer I was, the more I was like, okay, what am I thinking about? I have to think about my mental first. Because no matter what, here, they're the ones who doxxing.

We never do anything. We can only spread our happiness to everybody. So, at first, I was like, I'm selfish if I do this and that. That's why I said earlier, I still communicate with my mom until July. I still send money to them. I still send money to my sister.

And I even visited my sister's school in the afternoon. So I can hug her. My youngest sister is still in high school. Like that. What makes me disappointed here is, why do I have to be on social media all the time? Okay.

Like this, if you suddenly, if your mother, family, suddenly hears the conversation from others about me and Sunny, why not try to ask, verify, eh, you are like this with Sunny, you are like this with Sunny. No, this is like I have proof from A to Z. Sunny, this, this, this, this, this.

Where is it from? I don't know either.

I have no idea.

But honestly, are you happy with Sunny right now? Knowing, knowing that there are still pending things. There is still one pending thing, your family. So, like you said, okay, at first you were like conflicted, but now you're happier, you choose yourself. But you're still stuck. It's impossible to let go of that.

So, can you really be happy with the situation right now?

Yes.

Can you?

I must. The answer is? I must. Jawabannya adalah aku harus. Mau sampai kapan aku berlarut-larut di masalah ini yang aku berusaha untuk ngelarin tapi gak bisa dikelarin? Dan aku jadinya gak punya peningkatan untuk diri aku sendiri. I'm still young. Aku tuh masih muda. Aku masih banyak yang harus aku cari I have to explore in a good way. There are still a lot of activities that I have to do. If I'm always stuck in this problem, I won't improve. While I have a lot of desires. I have a child who wants to learn this, I want to learn this.

Now I'm learning German. Then in the afternoon I do karate. And then I'm diving now. So I'm more focused on self-improvement. And this self-improvement makes me happy too. Because I'm busy, I don't overthink, I'm not anxious. So, I can only focus on myself now.

My future, I shape myself so that I can be a more useful person.

Okay. So, I'm not going to be a person who is not good at everything. I'm not going to be a person who is not good at everything. diri aku sendiri, masa depanku, aku bentuk sedemikian rupa dengan diri aku sendiri, supaya aku bisa menjadi orang yang lebih berguna sih.

Okay.

Thank you, Ratu, for sharing whatever it is,

I mean, we believe it's God, yeah?

Yes.

May God find a solution for this matter. Thank you so much, Ratu. Thank you so much, Ratu.

Yeah.