How to get cheated on

you can get cheated on because I just got cheated on as a lot of you guys have seen. My ex-husband slash fiance decided to send snapchat messages to one of my fans. The girl said she was a fan of mine. She screenshot that with her other phone, she took a picture and she sent that to my friend and that's how I saw it. I found out about this when I was four months pregnant. Also, I really want to say a huge thank you to my fans and my followers that have shown me so much love. When I revealed to social media that Landon had cheated on me, I was ready to ruin my own career. Because I thought, like, wow, this is all ruined. Also I'm

pregnant guys. Pregnancy emotions, pregnancy hormones, any woman that has been pregnant knows that you literally don't think clearly. When I'm angry now I have extreme rage. When I found out that day I thought to myself okay what do I do next and then I went on Instagram and I saw one of my fan pages had posted me and Landon's Q&A and then they were like, cutest couple on the internet. I looked at that and I thought to myself, I do not for a second want anyone to look

after what I just found out. So I thought, fuck it, I'm gonna ruin my own career. Genuinely thought this between me and my fans. That's it. Like I did not know people would care at all. I really took the time to re-evaluate my own behavior Because I really believe that things happen to you to teach you something. I don't believe that God works against you

I don't believe that the universe works against you. I believe that the life is working for you. And if you can see things that happen to you as a way to teach you things, I think that's how you evolve the most. Like you take a situation that happens to you, whether it's good or bad,

and you extract the wisdom from it, and then you apply that to your life, through friendships, we learn through our parents, that's how we learn in life and if everything was good in life you would probably not learn anything or you wouldn't have the wisdom that you need to evolve in life. So this really taught me a lot. It's a trauma, it's a betrayal trauma. There was not one bone in my

body that would have thought that Landon was cheating on me. There's not one time I found something, not in his phone, not anything. Genuinely, this guy was attached to my hip. And I would constantly be the one saying, like, can you just leave? Can you go see your family? I found him a little bit too suffocating and even in the video like before this in the Q&A I say I want to live alone because we were so much on each other.

So to see this for me was like a huge big shock. Also material trauma is very serious and it can really affect you so I do think it needs to be healed with therapy and I myself went and I signed up to BetterHelp. I've been sponsored by BetterHelp. I see the sessions with my therapist have given me a lot of hope and she also explained to me where a lot of my behaviors can come from and how I can move on from this situation in the best way and with the least amount of

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You get the same professionalism as an in-person therapist but at way affordable price and with way more flexibility and convenience. Go to betterhelp.com slash wizardliz to get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp or click the link in the description down below. That girl sent my friend the messages. Me and my sister, we were at my mom's house and Landon was in the US.

And we were both like sitting, me and my sister and we're laughing because my sister was around me and Landon also the whole time. She saw Landon as her brother. My mom saw him as a son.

This guy was really integrated into our family, which is really big for me because I have never introduced a man to my family like that. Like even my ex, I moved to Dubai for him. I was with him for three years.

When we broke up, I was still like one year friends with him. We were every day together, but he was always asking me like, introduce me to your family. I want to get married to this and that. And I always had this gut feeling like no I don't want to do that with you, not at all and I ended up being right and that relationship also ended in a very shocking way. It was not cheating but it was something else where I was

like oh my god you are literally not the person that I thought you were and I never want to see you again. I remember I said that to my sister, my sister was like oh there's gonna be nothing, probably something from before and I was like yeah you're right. Then the messages she sent, I had them in the car and it was literally like my heart dropped into my stomach. That is a feeling I would not wish upon anyone, not on a man, not on a woman. That is disgusting. And especially when the person you're with

is acting like such a godly man and he's accusing you always of cheating and he's making it seem out to be like, you're the one that's not trustworthy. Basically the messages were like him trying to meet up with her, she said no. And she said said you shouldn't be texting me if you're in a relationship and he was like implying that this relationship is not real.

Just really hurtful stuff. Now, in the relationship there were things that I've ignored in terms of my intuition. If I tell you guys the signs that I got and that I ignored you're gonna say Liz you should listen to your intuition and the reason why I didn't listen to my intuition really is because I Remember with my ex I posted a video on YouTube and I said

Intuitively I feel like I shouldn't be with this person and I said that he keeps calling me every day. This guy called me 30 times a day okay he called me 30 times a day he would stalk me wherever I would go. I was paranoid like when a guy would come up to me on the street and ask for my number I would literally start tweaking. That's how scared I was and I realized this is not normal like it's not that I was scared because he was abusive or something. It was just, I was scared because I felt like

he might do something if someone asking me for something or if a guy was like, just talking to me, okay? I realized to myself, like, this relationship is not normal. Like, I need to end this. So I posted that on YouTube and I said, I decided to end my relationship and explain it a little bit and I said like even when I walk in the mall

I Need to be constantly on the phone with him I have anxiety backlash that I got from other people on the internet that I saw then was like women and men making videos and they're saying like oh like that's such a stupid reason and why she should you break up for that and blah blah and I then felt like oh my god maybe they're right maybe I was really wrong like I shouldn't listen

to my intuition I'm just overreacting so then I continued being friends with him and did not get back together but we did continue being friends and I was every day with him did not date anyone else then it ended in literally a way where I could have lost my life. And I sat after all that with me and him happened like I sat there I was thinking like oh my god I wish I had listened to myself. I wish I had listened to my intuition. So when when that happened with my ex I booked a flight the next day to go home to my mom. I cried the whole night, I didn't sleep, I was in super super shock. When I went home, then I was like coming back to my

census because I was like what was I in for the past four years? What did I do? I literally moved to a whole new country for him. I had no family there, I had no one there, like it was only him and he was like my whole life but I was so depressed. It's so confusing when the abuse is not really... you can't see it. It's not like someone is cheating on you or it's not like someone is abusing you but then there's a lot of mental abuse going on and then you blame yourself because then I think like okay but I'm very traumatized so then probably I'm just sabotaging my relationship but in my soul, in my heart, this doesn't feel right. So I'm such in a conflict with myself. Remember

when I came back home I realized like I should have listened to my intuition, I should have listened to my intuition. I was there for a little while and then I booked Santorini. Now I went to Santorini and as you guys know, that's how I met Landon at the airport. When I met Landon, I felt something like with our souls connecting and I realize now that it can be a soulmate kind of situation but it can also be a karmic and when you are with a karmic they also look like you and a karmic relationship is very hard it is very toxic and you do learn a lot

from a karmic situation you grow a lot as a person it almost like breaks you down as a person and then you are completely different after that. When I invited him to Santorini, I obviously had that thing still happen with my ex and I was kind of getting over that, but I was just like trying to put my mind on other things. And Landon was really nice.

Everything was great. He was very kind, super sweet, super gentleman-like. But then there was a moment where we went out and there was an Asian guy that wanted to talk to me and get to know me and he thought I was really cute. We were going outside for a talk and Landon did not like that at all. And then basically followed us outside and he got really like upset with me and he was like

why are you doing this don't talk to him and they these these two guys almost got in a fight over me and i then got a little bit of like oh that was a red flag for me because i thought you're just like my ex very controlling very jealous and i was like i don't want to repeat this pattern again and I think look when you are coming out of something that is super traumatic and a very traumatic relationship you cannot really bounce quickly into something else because you haven't healed from that relationship yet. So often what happens is your cycle will get repeated. It won't get healed through another person. I'm very patient with people but then

when something shocking happens I'm like oh wow this woke me up. Like imagine you have rose-colored glasses about everyone and you believe everyone and you think oh people don't have bad intentions they're good because you just think why would someone hurt someone you know or do these things but then it's almost like I always get put into situations where God or the universe is trying to show me like no Liz you cannot trust everyone and you should remove those rose-colored glasses because not everyone has good intentions.

When I saw that behavior from Landon, I really thought to myself, this is not for me. And I really thought like, after that, like, let's just stay friends and let's just focus on being friends and that's it. But Landon really wanted me and I went back home with my friend and we're just going on with my life and then and kept messaging me kept messaging me and I just Wouldn't really respond anymore because I didn't want to give him any hope I or he would message my friend and she also wouldn't really reply and

Then I remember one day He called me and I did pick up and I was like, hey, what's up? And then he was like, look, I really want you to be my wife like I just know you're supposed to be my wife and He's like I'm gonna I want to do anything for you Like I want to take care of you like send me your bank account details or your PayPal

Like I want to prove to you that I really want to do anything for you. This is my problem okay I don't really get attracted to men I just get attracted when they do something for me that is like like they're taking care of me. Now where does this stem from? It stems from not having a father figure in my life. So in my life, I'm not looking for a partner or I'm not looking to be in love. I'm looking to have that stable feeling of a parent or a father loving you.

That's the void that I feel. But then the issue is, obviously in in the relationship I'm not that in love because who would be in love with their father you know or a representation of their father? No one would. But when someone like a man does something for me big like for example Landon he told me send me your PayPal so I was like okay let me do it let's see what he. And then he sent me $10,000.

And then I thought, wow, like he's literally sending me $10,000. So I would reply to some messages. And then I thought, wow, like, maybe I should give him a chance because look how like what he's doing, like a big thing to do, you know what I mean? And it's not even that I cared about the money, I don't, because I gave all that money to my fans on Instagram. It's not about the money, it was more like, oh wow, he does this big thing. And with my ex, I had the same thing, the same thing that I repeated again, which is so stupid, I should not have done this. But with my ex, it was like, I met him and I didn't really like him. I was not attracted to him and I went back home

He wanted me to come back and he wanted like to have a relationship with me and I kept saying no and then he bought me a Rolex which was Two weeks after we met and for me that was such a big gesture because before that No one had ever bought me anything designer or anything and now all of a sudden I have like a 15k watch Which is for me like oh my god, like oh, that's such a big gesture So then I did give him a chance and but then still in the relationship

I don't think I was ever really in love. I saw him as my best friend. Sure. Even when I was growing up I was not in love with young people or something. I had a crush on Dr. Phil, I had a crush on Simon Cowell, and I thought that was always so funny because my sister used to have a crush on Justin Bieber, you know, like that's normal. But it's actually not funny.

I think that's my first mistake I made. Like I didn't go in to the relationship with the right intentions. I ignored my intuition from the beginning where I thought, wait a second, it's not normal how controlling he is over me and I felt that intuitively I shouldn't be with him, I should have stopped there. Even if he sent me a big amount of money, even if he did all of that, I should not have continued and I should still have been friends. But I didn't and then our relationship started, me and Landon, and I started to take him seriously and he was genuinely too good to be true.

That's how I would describe him. Like the past year we were together, he did everything for me. And I'm not just talking money, I'm talking like time, like he would take 18-hour flights to come see me, all my bills he paid, like all his time he spent with me, anything I wanted I did like this and he bought it for me, every week I get flowers, literally a dream guy, literally a dream guy and I just would think to myself this is too good to be true, I would constantly think that but then at the same time my problem is I constantly think something feels off and then you want to blame yourself because I come

from a very traumatized childhood so if I feel that something is off I blame it on my trauma so it's almost like my my head and my heart fighting with each other because I'm not sure what I'm looking at here. He is perfect, he does the right things, he does the right things. Yeah we argue, yeah he's very jealous, he's controlling, but those are things that a lot of people deal with in their relationships, you know? There's nothing going on. And also with the

cheating, like oh my god, he never left my my side never ever ever like even if I would push him to go to the US go see your family he would go for two days and he would come back his phone was always open I knew his password he knew my password we had a one phone that was connected so his messages his FaceTime everything will get received on that phone and mine too so we were really up in each other's business he he had my location, I had his location the whole year. So it's so weird. And on top of that he's just literally spending all of his money

on me. And the same with my ex, like my ex spent almost all of his money on me, so much that he got into debt. To me it's so weird that these guys will go to such lengths and they end up doing something so weird. And with Landon it's not even like that he wanted out of the relationship. I told him throughout our relationship, Landon, if you ever feel like you want to leave this relationship I'm more than happy you can leave but just don't betray me. I would constantly tell him that. Don't betray me. I don't want to be betrayed. I would much rather have you tell me I don't want you or whatever and leave. He said, yeah,

of course. But obviously we saw what happened. And even after that happened, genuinely still wants to be together. He wants to be with me. He wants to have our family. And he told me like, Liz, I never wanted to leave you you that's not the thing why I did it. He said he did it because he's very insecure and he is very insecure I get it um but I don't think that's a reason to cheat uh I think if you're insecure or whatever or you need validation then tell me that I'm your partner you know I'm like your wife I'm carrying your child tell me

like I can understand these things. He would constantly tell me like that he's not good-looking and I would constantly tell him no you are good-looking. I would always try to hype him up you know but he would never believe it and Landon also comes from a childhood where he was abandoned or he didn't get enough love from his parents and I feel like when men grow up with not enough love from their parents or for example from their mom like my ex had that and then Landon, they love the chase

you know that's the thing. These type of men will love to chase you but they don't love it when they have you or they don't appreciate it when they have you so I think when when Landon like first with me, the fact that he could do all these things and buy me things and win me over and then eventually when I come to a point where I'm even like, can you stop buying me stuff because it's a little bit excessive he would kind of get turned off by me. It's almost like, you know how they want someone to be constantly mean to them or

dismissive of them or cold towards them and my ex was the same way. Once I started being nice to him, once I started showing him love, he was the same way. He would like completely he would drop his standards, he wouldn't like me as much but then when I returned to being mean or dismissive they they love me so much and then they like try to win me over all again but then it's just a game it's a constant game but you have to imagine if they didn't get enough love from their mother for example that is how their mother was

for example if my ex was a cold woman was very dismissive towards him so for him also that's what he's trying to recreate in the relationship with me. If you look at the relationship me and the two serious relationships that I had which was Landon and my ex, we're both doing the same thing. My ex was trying to recreate his childhood with his mom in me and looking for like a mother figure and I think Landon was doing the same thing. He wanted a love like a mother. I could not give that to him. When you have never known love as a child, as

an adult, you will go for what's familiar and what is familiar is control. Controlling what I wear, controlling what I do, what I say and for me I even view that in a man as oh he loves me so if let's say Landon would tell me you can't wear this I think that's love because he cares about what I can or cannot do or he's jealous over me but I don't see it as like wait a minute he's controlling you just think like that must be love because I don't know what

love is from a man. I think the only way I've ever felt real love was through my animals and love through my friends. I felt real love through my sister and my family like my mom, my brothers, but not really through a partner. I also think that the way you grew up plays a big role in all of this intimacy and being comfortable with your sexuality. Like for example, I grew up in a very very strict strict household. Like it's very patriarchal as well. Women were just wives for a man and I don't

know one woman around me, aunt, whatever, that has married for love all of them married to get out of the house and just have freedom so I don't know anyone that has married for love when you grow up like that, you genuinely have a weird sense of romance I also didn't grow up watching Disney movies, so I don't romanticize any of that stuff I just grew up like an adult

I was very close to my mom and I would always follow my mom around so whatever worries my mom had I put on myself. So I almost felt like I was taking care of five children. I almost felt like I was very responsible for my family and for the money or like the lack of money that we had. I felt very responsible for that. I felt responsible for my mom and how my dad was treating her. I always just wanted to protect her.

I was always giving her advice on just leave and you know you can do this and I was always her therapist. I wasn't a child and I think now that I'm pregnant I don't want my child to for one second have to worry about me. I think every child deserves a childhood and I think now that I'm pregnant, I don't want my child to for one second have to worry about me. I think every child deserves a childhood and I think the trauma that you experience from your parents really shapes you as an adult. And it's so hard to get rid of these things and you are really left with like lifelong healing. Some of the signs that I ignored were that I read Landon's matrix chart when we first got together and in his matrix chart in his past life it had

said that he had cheated on a loved one before he had chosen lust over love so he is likely to repeat this in this lifetime and that's like something he should watch out for. And I remember reading that and I was thinking to myself hmm I had also read my matrix chart, my family's, I had read it for my ex and these things had always been very accurate and the things that they struggle with had been accurate. So I was wondering then is he a cheater? Like

that's weird, like no way. But then it said it is matrix chart but I didn't have any evidence other than the matrix chart and you know if I break up over the matrix chart you're gonna call me crazy. But I would tell him these things, I would be like I have this feeling you're a cheater and then he would be like what the fuck. Say like Sabina your sister is saying crazy things again Sabina was like Liz stop self-sabotaging, you're a good guy and my sister used to say

Liz if he was a cheater he would want to leave you or he would want to go to the US to go see his family or whatever but he never leaves your side and I was like yeah you're right you're right like there's no way. Another sign that I ignored was I was getting dreams and intuition. It's, oh my God, even in the Q&A, the one before, when I filmed that Q&A with Landon,

I didn't think anything of it. But when I saw a clip on TikTok go viral of me saying to Landon, and it's talking about forgiveness and you should always forgive or whatever. And then I say to him I go like yeah it depends if the person is like texting people that's not forgivable I don't know why I said that I don't know

how I said that I don't know what hell that came from but me and Landon watched that video together and we thought that was so normal and we were like that was such a good video we didn't even think about any of that when I saw that back I was like how the fuck did I literally predict this? Also before that I had went to Dubai with my sister after me and Landon spent three months together in Switzerland. I had to go back to get some boxes

because I was moving to the US and I still had some stuff there. So I went back and I was there with my sister for like one week and Landon was one week in Dallas And then we're gonna meet in London for my birthday So then I remember when I was in Dubai, I had a dream where I see Landon and I see another girl and I'm also in the dream and then all of a sudden Landon is with this girl, he's cheating on me in front of me, but the girl is confused that I'm angry and I'm like what the fuck are you guys

doing? and then she looks at me confused in the dream and then Landon is like trying to manipulate me into thinking that this is normal. so I'm like so confused but then in the dream I remember I was going to my family to tell them like this is over we're done and then The dream basically ended with Landon like on the bench like with his head down and he was really sad and I woke up from that dream and I felt that this dream was a message and I get dreams and

These dreams happen. So when I for example had a friend this was even when I was with Landon he saw it happen in real life example, had a friend, this was even when I was with Landon, he saw it happen in real life, like I had a friend and that friend had like, gossiping about me or whatever, okay? I had a dream about that, that night. Like that this friend of mine was talking shit about me, doing whatever, and that I couldn't trust this friend.

So I woke up and I told Landon, like, oh my god, I had this dream about this friend. Landon was like, oh, you're crazy, whatever. So then what happened is that same day, me and Landon, we found everything out, like through another friend, and what I had dreamt was true. So he then said like, whoa, Liz, like, you're scary. Your dreams actually happened. And I said, yeah, I've always had this. So he knew that. So I had that dream about him then cheating. So what I did, I FaceTimed him when I woke up and I said, Landon, I had a dream where you're cheating on me and manipulating me into thinking this is normal.

And I said, are you cheating on me? And he said, what the fuck? No. He's like, I'm actually so offended you would say that to me blah blah and we had a whole fight but I said Landon I don't dream things for no reason and he's like no you're just crazy blah blah it's okay

I might be crazy I don't know but it felt wrong and I didn't forget about it. So then what happened a week later I go to London to see Landon and we're gonna celebrate my birthday and everything and I'm sleeping next to him I'm sleeping and guess what same dream happens again same exact dream there's a girl is having an affair with this girl This girl is confused why I'm angry and I'm like literally like what the fuck are you guys doing? He is then again manipulating me in the dream that this is normal. I

Wake up from this dream with severe heartbreak Like my heart felt like it was broken into pieces when I woke up like genuinely hurt. I look at Landon, I wake him up, I said Landon this is the second time I had this dream. I said are you cheating on me? and he said what the fuck I'm right here next to you are you crazy blah blah and Sabina was also with us at the Airbnb so he calls Sabina and he's like Sabina your sister is literally overreacting again she's trying to cause

a fight Sabina's like Liz like calm down and I was like Sabina my heart is literally broken I feel heartbreak there's no way and then she was like no Liz stress yourself out you're pregnant, like there's nothing like and she looks at Landon and she says He has to be so stupid to be cheating on you because he will lose everything and Landon is like yeah But then I couldn't let this shit go. So what did I do? I went to Hyde Park with my sister. We went to walk We went to walk and I told Sabina, I said Sabina it doesn't feel right. There's no way. I said this is a sign. This is a sign. And she said, okay Liz listen,

don't just ask for vague signs. Ask God right now. Pray to God right now and ask him to give you a clear sign, to show you the truth, the harsh truth. And I said, okay, so I prayed there, I said, God, please, I said, show me who he really is, show me the harsh truth. And then, yeah, three days later, I received those messages from that girl. And I saw it. And then, yeah, it's so crazy when you ask God to show you who people are or to remove any bad people from your life you'll often see that the people closest to you get removed or they get revealed for the bad intentions that they had with you. So I have noticed that in my both of my relationships the

minute I got really successful or they realize how much money I make, their relationship issues start and they start behaving very very differently. I think it's very hard for successful women to date because a lot of men will view these women as competition. Even successful men, they will just see you as a competition and they would much rather prefer a woman that isn't as successful because it doesn't hurt their ego. For example, with my ex, when we first started out the relationship, I didn't have any money. I was already doing TikTok, I was already doing

everything but I wasn't really making money. But then six months into the relationship, I was doing YouTube and I went immediately viral and then he was making like 10k a month okay he was in finance he was making 10k a month and I went from making nothing to all of a sudden like making 20k now making 40k now make 70k and then more and more and more and then he's seeing that he see how much I'm growing and how fast and for him said it to me he was like you know I feel like I can't do anything for you anymore I feel like

you're just you make too much money and he said like I'm not comfortable in the position where you're making more money than me because he's like I don't think I can impress you anymore so then also like our relationship dynamics started become very weird or they start being like Oh, I have financial issues and this and that can you help me with this? Can you help me with that?

and with my ex like I gave him money even When we broke up because he was telling me at financial issues and obviously I'm not gonna be stingy or not help him He had bought me a lot of stuff. He had helped me as well. I was not gonna be stingy so I did help him. It's almost like they feel most comfortable when they can provide and you kind of need them but once a man sees that you don't really need him for financial then what else can they really offer you if they're not that emotionally advanced or never had to really focus on their emotional side because you know the patriarchy tells men just to go to work and

That's it and you can find a family or whatever But these days we have women that are so successful and then now men are kind of like, okay What what can I offer this woman because I have never had to develop myself any further than just go to work and make money So now if money doesn't impress a woman anymore, what else can you offer? I think a lot of men become jealous of women like that and they want to be that woman. So I don't think you can be in a relationship with someone that wants to be you. I think I should be working on really what I want,

on my sexuality, on becoming comfortable with my sexuality, on becoming comfortable with intimacy because that's a big big trauma like growing up even if you were around a man you you could literally get like unalive that was a whole culture that i grew up in like honor killings for girls are so normalized you are not allowed to date you are not allowed to do anything that's feminine then you are ruining the family's reputation. So when you grow up like that, how can you even like men? Like genuinely? How? Because you are scaring these girls from a young age of men, okay?

And I'm gonna admit, most men are scary, but not all men are scary, and they're still good men. How are you raising children to be afraid of another gender and then you expect them to marry them and just be normal with them? That's not gonna be a healthy relationship because they never even got to experience being with them. So another thing that I ignored but my body was showing and a lot of my fans have told me was that a lot of acne in both of my relationships,

constant rashes, constant acne that I would get. And then I got again allergies, rashes, my skin was so messed up, inflamed. I started looking gray in the face but I think it's genuinely because I pour so much energy into people around me and I really pour so much into them like really in a codependent way. They say to me I'm not happy, I think to myself okay how can I make you happy, how can you be happy, like that is like my whole world. I think men get a lot of energy from women and even Landon he would like track his sleep when he was sleeping. He noticed that the days that he wouldn't sleep

next to me, he would sleep 90% with more stress than he would sleep next to me. When you find out someone is a cheater and they cheated on you, I don't feel like that's really a bad thing. I feel like it's really protection from God. I feel like you literally got protected, okay? You saw this person for who they were and better that you saw it very very fast. I wasn't really sad, I was honestly so happy and it's the first time that I really stopped isolating myself because this is what I do, okay? I get into a relationship, I isolate with my partner, we don't leave our house and we just stay like that. Like same with my

ex, I would not leave, I would not just stay like that. Like same with my ex, I would not leave, I would not make friends, like I would just spend all day with him every time. So I isolate myself on purpose because I think I feel safe when I isolate myself. That doesn't make the relationship healthy. It becomes such an unhealthy, boring relationship because you're literally like a 70 year old couple. Same with Landon. We just isolated when it ended I honestly felt like

You know like finally I felt like I can now go and travel and I wanted to do those things So then I took my sister we traveled all over Europe We had the best time like I had such a great summer like honestly And I was really happy and then a lot of people were like, Liz why aren't you sad or you should be more sad? And I was like, I cannot be sad when I have such a blessed life. It would even like irk me that I would be

complaining or that I would feel bad about any of this because God blessed me with such a good life. I have worked so hard to have a good life and I do have a good life and my child will have such a blessed good life, you know? Like, thank God, thank God. I have gratitude. There are so many bad things happening in the world. Cheating, yeah, well, that's it, you know, what can you do? You saw the person for who they were and then you decide what do you do next? How do you handle this next? And honestly when I was talking to a lot of people that are

married for like 8 years, 10 years, they all told me that this is not a good reason to leave the relationship. And I said, excuse me? And they said, yeah Liz, like that's what marriage is about. You forgive the person and then you go on again and all these things. And I was really thinking to myself, like, so is this how people live? So you guys just do all of that and then you forgive each other and then you continue. Then I was thinking, like, that makes sense to me, if you are really into men

and if you really like to be around them and if you love living with a partner or with a woman or it doesn't matter who it is you know if you love love and you love living with them then yeah that makes sense that you would want to figure it out and or if for example you are with a person for money like great you can stay as long as you have money they'll just do their thing and you can do your thing but if you genuinely don't really like that stuff and if you're happy by yourself or with your family friends and with your pets i don't see the point in that like it's just more drama

it's more stress it's more struggling so i don't get it also this whole thing of like oh yeah men cheat, all men cheat I don't believe that. I genuinely think there's men that don't cheat. Cheaters cheat. There's a lot of women that cheat and I honestly think you have to be really validation seeking and insecure to just cheat because one person is never gonna do it for you and you constantly need the attention from other people or them to tell you that you are something in order for you to feel like you are

something. Sometimes it can also be an addiction. When you start ignoring your purpose or you start ignoring what you're meant to do, then God will force you out of a situation. If you don't listen to the signs, if you don't listen to all of these things that God is telling you or showing you, you will be forced out of that situation and that is really painful. Marriage and having children is a very big step. It's not something that should be glamorized because it's not that easy, not for a woman. And I don't think that when a woman gets

into a relationship with someone that is not a woman. And I don't think that when a woman gets into a relationship with someone that is not contributing anything financially, I don't think that's a fair relationship at all. Imagine you walk away from someone that is not willing to help at all and all these things, you know, it's super, super hard. So I do think women should think about that because men think like that too. Men have super high standards, men expect so

many things from women, so expect at least money for yourself. I'm so happy, like the good thing that came out of this is like I donated $50,000, 5,000 to 10 different single moms and just my heart really, that really makes me feel so good because every day they're still praying for me they're so sweet, I'm so happy this happened, like I'm so happy the situation happened because I helped I could have helped so many women and I'm gonna continue doing that, I have done this before you know, people always say like oh she's just a gold digger I love money I will

always love money I love love love money but I also love giving money away like that's why I love money like if you have a lot of money you can do so much for people you know if I have more money then I can like start building schools and help countries and all these things or orphanages that's why I think money is such a beautiful thing. You can bless a lot of people with it. And if you're in a position like that, I would

say like you don't give back to people and help them donate where you can, in public, in private, it doesn't matter. Anyways, so yeah. I love you guys so much and yeah, I in private, it doesn't matter. Anyways, so yeah. I love you guys so much and yeah, I see you in the next video. Bye bye.