RUBEN ONSU: "KALAU UDAH NYENGGOL ONYO, HABIS LO SAMA GUE!" | BUTIK HAJI IGUN

Uncle, can you kiss Onyo for a second? Why is Onyo not fragrant?

It's fragrant.

Is it because of the perfume or the smell? If Onyo is brave enough to post, to meet the reporters, to talk,

does that mean she's got the green light from her father? No, no.

I didn't ask him first. The funny thing is, when we are the parents, we can't interfere with our children's business. That's a crazy thing. You can say anything to me, I don't care.

I don't care.

I don't care.

But if you're going to bully my child,

I'm going to kill you.

For haters? For haters. What does your grandmother say? Stop interfering with our business.

So that the better it should be, it will be a mess. Yeah, singa young sarusnya smacking my bike I can't anymore perkeru

Salam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

I come Salam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh Seria, bangat in the pump up loose can't you're a chef. Why do I become a chef? You look so cool. I think you got a sponsor for your clothes. Who did you wear today?

From South Florida.

Oh my God. Be patient. Let's talk about friendship. We were so happy to have Anwar and Boyen here. It turns out that your comments about your favorite boutique, Haji Igun, are related.

So, the friendship between Anwar and Boyen inspired their stories. Today, we have a father and his wife. Father and his son. Onyo and Ruben! Oh my God, Onyo calls me uncle.

Same. You're also uncle, you're not auntie. Onyo, thank you so much for coming.

Thank you, uncle.

Really appreciate it that you can come here.

Thank you so much.

So, Onyo, if you see your friends are all bule-bule now.

Yeah, most of them are.

So, Onyo's school is an international school? So, everyday speaking English? Is it hard for you or not?

A little bit.

Don't panic, your father can do it. If you guys are Onyo's friends,

Oh, I don't think I've ever been on a shoot. Hello, this is Acharya. We're on a shooting. I can't open it. Hello, BCS Aria.

We're on a podcast. Call me later. Okay, assalamualaikum. BCS Aria is coming here. Oh my God. It's her 16th birthday. Onyo, your friend is from the international community.

When you visit her house, how does he react?

Does he go to his room a lot? No. Sometimes, when I hang out with my friends,

he's not at the hangout.

He's just like,

Hi. How are you? He's just there. Yeah, how are you?

Oh, yeah.

I'm good.

We know ourselves. If they're hanging out,

you should go too. We know each other, if they're hanging out, you can just go with them So if Onyo has his friends, you just sit in front of the bamboo tree?

Yes

But you and your dad have been friends for almost 25 years

Yes

You really know each other and you. You know each other's story. You know each other's story. You know each other's story. Actually, I think many people think that many people think that

many people think that your relationship is more than your relationship with your son. But, I think...

I think... You're... You always greet him.

If he's like that, bro. If we meet, let's do that.

You see how many minutes he's been greeting you.

But, this is why I want to ask Onyo. Because Onyo is a teenager now. Onyo was a kid from the out of nowhere area, and then you met your father, who made you the son of Putrahmakota. From you, what is he like? When I first met him, and also when I got this close to him,

he is a very disciplined person, especially when it comes to me. He is very disciplined, he doesn't like it when I'm late for a shoot. For example, I shoot at 2 PM, I came at 2.15 PM. He's always late. That's how it was in the beginning. Now I know the benefits of time,

the value of time, and how to appreciate people. So, we have to be disciplined. even now, without my dad, I already know for example, we shoot at this time, I will be there first so for example, if you are late, and your dad is already there

he can come back right away

he can, if he is already there first, I am not there yet he can be like this, and I don't have to shoot

but I want to know, when Onyo was in the area, his parents didn't have a big rule No rules, you have to do this, you have to do that You want to go to the sea, you have to climb a tree You want to learn, you can learn It's like a natural school, life is like nature When you went to your father's house, did you...

I was shocked I was shocked I even told my dad I should be beaten up instead of told Because I never beat anyone So I told my dad...

I'm not your friend, my body hurts

You!

My body hurts

You!

It's blue.

I have to check it.

So, your father never got angry?

He's more disciplined. Because I'm not used to that kind of discipline. In my hometown. He doesn't care if I'm late or not. When I got here, my life changed. I was surprised by the situation.

After that, I told my dad. I told him, it's better for me to be beaten up than to be taught like this. So, here's the thing. He's used to being harsh. But for me, I just stay quiet.

So, if your dad is already mad, you stay quiet?

Yes.

How do you make him feel better?

I just give him time. When he can talk to other people, I just say sorry. So, you don't understand how to make him feel better? I can't just leave him alone. He's used to it. Look, he's greeting me again.

He's used to it. He's better better hit me.

I said...

So you mean, if he's angry, he'll hit you and that's it?

Yes, I think so. Or he'll pinch you and that's it? Because he's like that. He's like a tree. He's like a tree. And then he's loved again.

That's it. But I'm not used to this. Like being left alone. In Gen Z, it's called silent treatment. I can't be like that. And then, even when we're shooting,

I can't be silent. If I want to, I'll hit him and it's over.

But... But, you know what?

I'm sorry.

But, Onyo once told me, if you want to be mad, just do it. Yes, I told him. Why didn't you change your way of teaching?

I don't know. For me, using violence, hitting, I never hit him. I never hit him. Because hitting is not a solution but what I want is

you think about it because this is the direction I want you to go in the industry

so you become the person

yes, so not just viral for a while and you're done but this is how the hardest thing is not viral, but to maintain his existence so I've been keeping it But the hardest part is not to make it viral, but to maintain it. That's how it is.

I've been doing it since I was a kid. How old were you? 14.

I've been doing it since I was 14. One of my friends, a bullet fighter, he was surprised when I hung out with him for a long time. When I was 14. He said, did you look for me?

I said, of course, I already called you. They remembered that I was sleeping at this time. They didn't come back yet. They were like that. Because they knew that I was studying in detail. From the time,

and also from me, if I was sleepy, I could, when I had makeup, I could be asked to wash my face again. Because I'm sleepy yes, start again so you, in front of Ayah, you have don't want my son to be in that position

so I want him to be in a position where he has already done a job so you have to be professional you have to be professional, you are in line with what has been promised

so when you sing, you have to be professional and the presence of Onyo is also the price for the client so it has to be real and Onyo was in a situation where he was viral. His voice was still small, his voice was high. Then you went through a phase where you had to do a semi-break.

Semi-break, voice change. So, in your opinion, who is the best manager? This is bad, Inanggal.

This is bad.

This is bad again bro! Bro!

What are you two doing?

Do you want some?

No, I'm good.

I think the most influential vocal teacher in my musical career is my dad. Besides the vocal coach, like Artie Uci, Ip Ajis, Atra.

He's the best. His voice is like a seal. I've heard of Yvadis, Atra, this is the best I've heard of Silet

This is the best, I almost didn't listen to the vocal group I was like, I've eaten chili before That's the best So, there's a story He's forbidden to eat spicy food Chocolate

So I'm taking care of careful so that it wouldn't break. There were some of my friends who were editing. Suddenly, the sound was...

It was so different.

Two octaves lower. Yes, two octaves lower. I was panicking. I told my son not to be in this position. But he wanted to. He didn't know.

He was quiet.

I was at the restaurant with my dad I was curious about the sambal Because you were so shy with your dad Yes, but I knew he was right in front of me I saw people eating sambal with their hands I took the samb of chili and Ayah said, it's good.

Eat more?

No, it's good. I took a bite of chili, this much. I ate it, but it's just chili. I was told to eat it, but he ate it all in front of me. I wanted to see. I ate it all. It was so front of my face. I wanted to see. I finished it like this.

It was so spicy.

You finished it?

I finished it, but I had to finish it.

If not, your dad would be mad.

Yes, from the chili.

From the chili.

So that your dad wouldn't be mad.

Yes, yes, yes.

We have to say goodbye to your dad.

From the chili, uncle, coffee. and you finish it in one liter that's the best but if...

for example, you are now like a Jackson's boy you're in high school right? high school where did you go to high school? I moved to Morningstar Academy

and now? now I'm at UNJ so you're in Jakarta, when you go back to your hometown, do you feel awkward?

I feel awkward because my friends are all working. Some are working. So, you're working in high school.

I don't see my friends as my classmates. I see my classmates as my juniors. So, when I see them, I know they're working. When you go back to your hometown, do you miss the old times? I was still a kid So I met them and they were already working

But when you go back to your hometown, do you miss the old days? You went to the sea, etc

When I go back to my hometown, I look for rats I look for rats

You look for rats?

Yes, rats, worms, I even got 35 rats

You were so happy, you were like going back to the past

He told me, he didn't get 5 minutes minutes, how many times do you need to hug? He's fast, he's looking for a hug

Do you bite when you hug?

If you think I'm using my hand, I'll bite

Oh, you bite when you hug?

I use a whip, a whip, a punching whip

But he's an expert

Yeah

It's not like in the village, people play games, use their phones People there are really like sailors

But now, it's different

We're new Hello, we're from Bintang Oh, okay, good morning But now, the time there is almost rare for young people to go fishing Because nowadays, it's more like playing social media But back then, they just started

Just started If there's a hobby, Onyo You said that you like to catch fish in your hometown In your hometown, you used to raise chickens Do you still raise chickens in Jakarta?

I'm more into keeping them in the zoo

I think you were once bought by your. I think you bought one from your dad. How many chickens did you buy?

I bought them all from a pet store.

What kind of pet store?

One chicken. How many chickens? Five.

Okay.

I realized that if I eat five chickens, how many people I feed.

How many chickens?

What's the difference between chickens?

Chickens are good. But you take care of them? I feed them. How many chickens? Yes, when I... What's the difference between chickens? Well, chickens are... Good. Good.

But you take care of them? I take care of them. I take care of their legs, nails, and so on.

I take care of their vitamins, injections.

You add more work, huh?

You know my story. It's fun.

So, I...

What are you talking about? I want to see them happy, healthy, and their faces are not pale, and their noses are not swollen. What do you mean by their faces are not pale?

I mean their faces are more purple. Purple, not pale? That means their hands are sick. What about their chicken? Can they follow him? Because of the treatment.

Maybe it's like Irfan Hakim's soul When he sees animals He feels like animals are his friends

You have to focus You have to take care of the injection

The food, the sleep That's why you have to take care of him Because he's at his dad's house

He doesn't want to be like that If he was there, I would have taken care of him But I'm not But you're there, I would have said, you can do it, but I'm not.

But you're afraid, Benzo.

I'm not.

No, you're not. What's he doing? He's smart, he was at the animal research center. Imagine, a chicken costs 5 million, and then they transport it again. There's this one, there's that one, there's 4 million.

I said, who's chicken is that?

Whose father is that? It's so annoying It's so noisy in the market Oh my god

One chicken? If we breed them, we can produce good chickens You're just doing business with the chickens No, I'm not I just want to see them happy They can be trained

If we call them, they come

You can judge if the chickens are happy or not Can you judge if the chicken is happy or not. Can you judge if the father is happy or not?

This is fresh.

You want to say hi again?

Yes.

So, Onyo...

You have a camera, but you don't have a camera.

So, when you see the father is down, he's thinking a lot, what do you usually do to him?

I talk to him. When he was sick, I would talk to him. But now, he's different. He never complained. He's still there. He never complained.

He rarely asked me to talk to him about serious things.

But now...

You're not old enough.

Yeah, maybe. Now, Onyo is old enough.

So now, he asked me to talk to him. He's like, what's up?

So, now you're starting to understand a little bit about life. I can talk to him. That's the first. The second. But we're talking in this era. Kids nowadays are different from us in the past. Right? Different.

So you have to get into his world. You can't just sit there and say, I'm better than him. No. You have to be friends. So when I talk to him, he understands.

He can't be like he's like a Gen Z kid

He can't do this

That's right, that's who I am

Who are you?

Gen Z

Me and Anja's angry kid, I'm Bestie

Who?

Anja's angry

You should check it, you can't check it here You don't want to check it up there You're starting to get mad

Don't be shy, I'll help you.

Be patient. I'm the patient one. But, there are people who like to have this. If the child is an adult, the parents will have concerns. They'll be jealous. Have you ever had that?

He's joking.

I went home at 12 11 I never answer like this But every time I say that

He's home before 12 Even though you're already asleep?

Because he already knows I never stop him Because there are some rules That I can't break There's a limit I never want to limit you to be friends I never want to limit you, but I have to remind him

Who are you? Your position So don't because of other people, you're the one who's affected Sometimes, it's a miscommunication

Miscommunication

You got hit by the Amshong Yes, I got hit by the Amshong And fortunately, he's like a hangout. He'll call the meatball seller or the grocery store to his house.

His friends are already hanging out at home.

Oh, he's paid to eat meatball. Yes, it's more expensive. Instead of having to go out. So you're also a house kid, actually? You can say that, Uncle. I'm here. Uncle is also a house kid, but his house is in front of a gang. So sometimes when friends gather... So he hangs out with the gang.

Even the most fun is like that. Sometimes I hang out with my friends in front of my house. Eat, play basketball. The situation was when you lived in a beautiful house, now you move to your father's house. So finally there is...

Your father has already moved to a new house. Your father already has a new belief. You have a new belief. And Onyo is a child who is easy to support... and follow what his father is doing now. But, from Onyo himself, who had the same belief... but now has a different belief, is there anything you think...

you have to do about how to face my dad.

No, I and my dad are more relaxed. But that's his choice. It's not a bad thing. That's one of the reasons. He trusts the higher-ups. So, I don't think religion means that...

he doesn't love us anymore or doesn't love his children anymore. God will always be the God we know. But...

God supports your worship. Yes. And God also supports your worship.

So, when I see you praying, I see that you have daily activities at home. We pray five times a day. Sometimes, you have a prayer activity at home We pray 5 times a day Sometimes he has sunnah at home Sometimes I see him like this

Then I stay in my room After the prayer, I go out and talk to him

Yesterday, you woke him up for the fasting That's great, Anggel What was your original idea? My original idea was to wake him up Do you like to be late?

No, I don't.

So I decided to go on with my Umrah because he wanted me to fast at home. Because I was fasting... I told you that I was fasting at the beginning of the month.

That's why you wanted to do Umrah at the beginning.

Yes, so I decided to go on with my Umrah before the beginning. I was more encouraged before the fasting. He said, if possible, I should do it at home. I followed him.

He has his own agenda. We have a story. Onyol often accompanies his father from home. So, this is in Musola?

Yes, in Musola. That's when we went to the mall.

Onyol, you went to Musola too?

Yes, I was in front of him. It'll walk to come on Yeah

Windy And I'm like, tak, tak, tak, tak. That's why I like to be in military post. That's right. Thank you. This is Mr. Haji.

Oh, yes. Mr. Haji.

Thank you. You're welcome. So, these are the photos we captured from what Onyo did when he built Ruben Sahur.

Yes. So, it's like you have your own fasting. from what Onyo did when he built Ruben Sahur Yes So it's like you have your own fasting

I have my own fasting

Ayah became the spirit of fasting too

Yes, so it was me who became the spirit So I told Bor, I told him, please help

What else do we do?

Yes, what else? Even yesterday we invited 15 people to Manusia Silver Line up next to Ayah's bed But at that time we didn't get it We even invited 15 people to play as Silver's character We lined up beside his bed But we didn't get any So we decided to go with Spider-Man and Superman Many people liked that character

And many people liked the villain character So we decided to invite Angklung I think Angklung is the best Why Angklung? Because I'm a dancer So I think Angklung is the best Why Angklung? Because I like to dance So I think Angklung is the best

So many people are taking photos Oh, let's have a party tonight

Oh, someone gave you an idea

Yes, someone gave me an idea

So, if you have a budget Who will pay for it?

I don't understand.

That's business. You're wearing this in the middle of the night.

Yes, this is the best.

It's a dress.

You're going inside the house? I'm sleeping in the sofa. I watched it until I fell asleep. I wanted to know what you were planning.

So I could hear it. I fell asleep I said, I want to know what you're planning So I can hear it first Eh, I'm confused Sleeping Sleeping It's called Oma

Wake up, wake up

I'm saying, oh my God You don't have any other toys He's a nexus, a lion Can you imagine, people want to do this

All on the field

Yes, this is in the house Your house has no more stuff So it's a mess When we're on the road, you can imagine I want to take the chicken home You're afraid of the chicken?

I want to wake up with the chicken

Next time, we'll use a car

I can't wait for next year's fasting month I have a lot of plans

Every 11 pm, I want to sleep like this I don't feel good I like to peek.

The situation at home is nothing. It's calm.

Like in the IA?

Yes, like in the IA. Our eyes disappear very fast. It's like he's working. He just needs to wake up. Can you imagine if I look like Superman? What do you think?

My face is Superman.

You're angry with the crowd.

But we have to wake up.

But that's... Bro, you have to say goodbye to your dad. We have to be close. Ruben, do you see that? There are many stories in Indonesian families. Many children are not close to their dads.

Right?

Many, right?

And from the problems in the public, you are one of the parents who make the child become my friend. Children are different, right? Yes. Because Onyo is now 21 years old, I always learn.

Every time I have a 21-year-old kid, I always do what I should do. You're always looking for information. Because my friend... You... It means you're not here.

Your kid is still small.

My kid is now 6 or 7 years old.

I told you I'm not fully recovered yet. He said he's going to sleep soon, and his son is 6 years old. I told him I'm not fully recovered yet, and I'm going to shoot a movie.

Just kidding. I have to know that first. Because every child has different treatment. So, I have to be a good listener and friend to him That's why you never forbid him? No

So he can know himself?

He wants to come to my house

He's already coming to your house?

He's staying at your house?

No, he's going to his friend's birthday I told him to come

He's invited You moved his friend's your friend to your house?

No. So, you celebrated his birthday at his house.

But, he didn't celebrate it like we do in the morning. He just went home. Like you went to the disco. You went to the pub. It's a public place. We are called young people.

The difference is, he wants to come to his friend's house to talk So, this is dad

If he wants to play, he can Can dad play? I said, it's troublesome, it's still a request He can play, enjoy You'll know for yourself if the ball is good or not Aren't you afraid that your voice will be lost because of...

I'll ask first. Ask first.

Have you told your kids?

At first, I didn't know how to breathe.

But it looks cool.

For young people, I think it's like, what is it? How can you do that?

And now, you don't do that anymore?

It's like a habit. I was like, what? How can you vape? But now, you don't vape anymore?

I don't anymore, I'm like a sloth. I like it. People are like, it's so sour. After eating, I'm like, it's so sour, I have to go out and smoke. I like this, I don't want to vape.

But you don't want to try smoking?

No, I don't smoke. I don't smoke.

I also smell. Because of the clothes. What about dating? Do you see the green light from your father? He doesn't bother about that. I want to take him out. So you take him out to play.

He has his own story in his world. If he doesn't make a story from now on, he will be late for puberty So now I... Like his youth is gone Like nothing happened

I want him to hang out So if he hangs out with his friends It's fun, my house is like a tent

Do you know?

Oh, Roti Bakar Eddy

There's a... A papeda's shop is I was invited to his house Papeda's shop I was invited to his house He was from Timor

What did you do everyday?

What do you want? Yeah Hi, brother I want to be like you

What did you do everyday?

Every Friday and Saturday So, you're all from the East? Not all of us are from the East But Vicky is from the East Vicky and Indi are friends

How is it? I want to ask you something You were a victim of a scam You were asked to transfer 15 million

What was that for? What is that for? What is that for? What is that for? For the photos We play football So yesterday, it was like this

Yesterday, it was like this Don't talk nonsense Don't talk nonsense Yesterday, I was having a birthday party It was special for birthday party for my birthday Before I joined the party, I wanted to host a tournament

On 12th and 13th 14th is my birthday I was hosting a tournament for 2 days I needed sponsors to support the event I needed to book the venue I needed to pay for the food

I needed to pay for the players I needed to pay for the food I told my dad that I have a good uncle, Uncle Igun. I told him to contact Uncle Igun. He's always ready to help. Now, there are always scams. I didn't scam him. I just took his clothes. No, I think you owe him.

He texted me,

I got 15 million transfer. What? I was shocked. I thought you're done with your uncle's clothes No, I mean, I feel like uncle is in debt He said, Transfer 15 million What? I said, what? 15 million? I said, I got the wrong number

I'm going to play football Hurry up Logo, logo I said, what logo? Where do I use the logo?

So, before he was shooting in Benso, I said, where do you want me to use my condom? Where?

So before the shoot, he suddenly held his phone and said, What is this, Bogel? Suddenly I was asked to transfer 15 million. We were shooting during the fasting month, we were shooting at 7 or 8 in the morning, my eyes were already wide open, I was like this, I was far away,

I said, what do I owe 15 million? Who understands what I owe? I said As long as I'm here Calm down Calm down

I just hit you again Juragan This is Juragan Right?

Your friends know, right? I know. I told them that he has a field. He said, oh, it's sponsored by Uncle Igon. So, it's a good deal?

Yes.

Sweetie, bro. That's great. Sweetie. I'm happy if it's like this. You come to the field.

Some people want to be like this. They want to introduce them to my team I said no, it's dangerous

What are you doing? I'm just making a shirt for them You're so mean, you're like a minor Read the title, what is it? Bule Bule Club We were sparring with them yesterday.

They are German. They said they want to introduce me to their sponsors. Invite them to eat at Nasi Kulit.

Yes, I will.

Where is the nearest restaurant? I don't know. Where is it? I forgot. Veteran. But you are happy with your birthday, right?

Of course, the sponsors are the happy candy will I'm happy don't sponsor my stop

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Because in my hometown, my parents are no longer with me. So, when I come here, it's a normal thing. I think more about his father. The important thing is that his father is healthy. His father is motivated.

The important thing is that he is healthy. So, why did you choose to live with your father?

I think it's unfair. Everyone went there. I said, I left someone I love. My own father.

But do you know, you're here because of your father's prayers? I'm sad. Ruben always says, I'm rich, I have everything. But I miss my son.

But I can't tell him. And I can't speak. But that's one of the prayers. I answered it.

Yes, Igun is someone I often talk about. Because in my religious journey, Igun has always been someone who has been watching my worship. So he knows how I solve all of this with a new Ruben. I rarely rely on humans. So I just pray.

But sometimes, when we miss each other, I can't do anything. I can't do anything. I can only see, because it's what hurts me, I ignore the messages that people were taking. So, I really know how it feels to be deep in love with children.

But, the funny thing is, when we are the parents, we can't meddle in the children's affairs, it's called a crazy person, a stress person. Because we are their father. The kids are crazy. They are stressed. Because we are their father. That's why when Onyo is one of the kids who can be talked to, and I never said that Onyo should stand on two feet, that he can't stand on two feet,

he is still his father, his father and his mother. So, too many people are involved, and the wound doesn't heal.

It's a public figure's risk. Not the family, not the team, but the person.

That's what sometimes happens. You know, when I'm married, I have to use the right words. Because he's having emotions at his age. We've been in his position. So I'm not teaching parenting, but what I'm doing now,

how I entered Onyo's world, I try to be friends with his friends, who were not far away. So, that's one of the things that made him become depressed.

If you follow his emotions. Oh, Onyo was like us back then. We were a little angry, but we were cool. Yes, we were cool, but... I ran out of tears. For things like that, I was like...

I can't do this anymore. I have to do it. Now, I'm on the field. I can't tell stories anymore. But I was on the field. So I immediately touched him. To let him know that this is yes and no. So when there are a few things to do... If there's something I don't like, I always talk to him.

But are you happy? Are you enjoying it? Do it. I always talk to him about things that I don't like. But if he's happy, I'll do it. Because it's hard to be happy. So I have to ask him, are you happy?

If you're happy, you're there.

So when Onyo came home, what did he say to you? Until you decided to live with him. What triggered you to move to Indonesia?

At that time, the situation was still not good. So I told my father that I would accompany him. Because I already knew the real story and the story is actually and how the story is made. So, because I know my father's character better than other people who talk, I said, I'll prove it later if I and my father are good, I'll be happy. So, if I just want to see it like this, you're just too busy with my business.

While I never want to bother you with your business. And then, this one is the most talkative. This one is the most like this. So, in my opinion, there's no other way, brother. Except I just pray. There's no other way.

So, how do I miss, I miss... At home home if I have something that I don't feel good, I just go home and say, what time are you coming home? I miss you. He must be home early. But I rarely say that.

Unless you're in a hurry, you really want to.

But if I'm quiet and I'm serious chatting, there are some things, he can always say, okay, okay, just be good, okay. I will always say that he's good. He's good because I know he's thoughtful. That's why... Now, for example, I... In my opinion,

there are some things that I always respond to on Instagram.

Like when you're posting. What was that about yesterday? I don't like it.

Because...

I'm living a peaceful life. You're not.

I think... I... I hope... I don't care what the risk is. I don't care if I don't have a job. I've talked to Onyo about everything.

I've talked to him even when I'm dying. So, we've learned to prepare for things that we didn't think about. I tried to be peaceful. And I think these are things that need to be taken care of. And I don't care if people believe it or not. It's up to you to believe me, Alhamdulillah.

If you don't want to believe me, it doesn't matter. I don't need to be believed. Becausedulillah. You don't need to trust me, I don't care. I don't need your trust. I'm tired of being a good listener. I only listen to you. I'm the one who's affected. Ruben is so easy to be affected.

He's so soft. My name is so soft. If I were to ask you now, if someone asks you,

are you really like that? I'll slap you face to face. Oh yeah, I immediately slapped him. Some people don't want to be slapped, if I'm wrong, it's over. Because in my opinion, from the beginning, this is a story, I'm not saying anything. Why am I the one who got hit?

And that 98% often happens to me.

If Onyo finally dared to post, dared to meet reporters, Onyo dared to post, to meet the reporters, to talk, did you get the green light from your father or from me?

No, I didn't ask him first. I just clarified that what happened was not like that. This story was made. Don't be a fool.

I mean, don't assume that it's the most correct. Because life on social media and real life is different It's different, because I know the story So seeing people who are so sure in social media I'm like, no, why are you like this?

You don't know anything, if you know the story, you'll be surprised

But, Bill, have you ever, after Onyong said something have you ever discussed at home? why Onyong?

before he went home, I was like what's going on? why suddenly? but he answered, have you watched Full? no, I don't dare what did Onyong say first?

I watched Full first I watched Full first

there are some media that broadcast Full. There are some that only broadcast that. Cut. It's the same as the old days. I hated Ayu Ting Ting. I made an event.

It was a complicated event. After the event, people didn't ask about my event. But people asked. Ayu Ting Ting was sick. Why didn't they watch it? It's the same as yesterday. said before, Onyo just played badminton. You asked about badminton.

Don't go to any school, right? Don't go to any school.

I mean, he talked about the school in the Netherlands. I said, okay, I'll answer.

But it's the same everywhere.

What's the name of the school in the Netherlands?

You want to move to the Dutch? The end of the story is the same. So, I mean, I'm the kind of person who wants to stop for an interview. But, can I not?

Everything has been cleared. Everything has been answered. So, don't let him do it again. I told you, I don't care what you say to me

It's up to you

But if you're going to hit on my son, I'm done

Be patient, be patient

I told him, if I'm going to hit on Onyo, Talia, Tania, I'm done

What about the police? Which one? The haters Is it still going go down How was the police case? The one that was haters

How's the police? Don't go Oh God, Robin Oh God

Assalamualaikum Waalaikumsalam I'm like that now I'm just Some people are starting to be arrogant, and start to talk bad about me,

I'll tell them. I'm like that now. You're tired. I'm tired. I'm not a religious scholar. We have our patience.

There's a limit. Sometimes, our patience is a bit shaky. Our patience is really tested because we are in a hungry condition. Sometimes, we are late to eat. We want to eat something difficult.

We are in a traffic jam. That's why Haji Igun has a solution. How can we eat without being late? Here is the solution. Dilan Maca Crunchy Caramel. So we have to bring our life atmosphere to be chill.

Right.

Like Onyol. Because we already have Dilan in our hands. This is one of the variants of Dilan Maca series. Which is definitely a solution. Because it's easy to bring it anywhere and it's not troublesome.

Right.

Let's try it! Isn't it delicious, Pa'am? It's so delicious, Pa'am. This is the Dilan Maca Crunchy Caramel It's so good! So, it's a must-try, Pa'am, because this Dilan Maca Crunchy Caramel has a very delicious sensation. Because, you can imagine, this Dilan Maca Crunchy Caramel is complete with vanilla, caramel and matcha flavor that makes you miss it. Besides the delicious taste, this Dilan Maca Crunchy Caramel is a very non-stressful snack.

So customers, don't forget to stock it anywhere, in your bag, motorcycle, car, or at home. So if you want to eat, just take it whether it's in your bag, motorcycle, car, or at home. So, if you want to eat, just grab a snack. Dilan Maca Crunchy Caramel, the best part is making you miss it! So, there's a solution. Speaking of Dilan,

we'll be having a movie soon, which is highly anticipated by netizens. The title of the movie is Dilan ITB 1997 So it will be on the cinema 30th April, Serentaka Hey, I want to...

Omah, do you know that the movie that Dilan starred is Ariel, right? Do you know where I went last weekend? I rode a motorcycle with Ariel

I was ridden by Ariel. I'm being spoiled by Ariel.

Do you want to have content that is spoiled by Ariel? If you're skinny, you can be spoiled. No way. I'm so pretty. I have a cure for that. So you can join the challenge. Who knows, you're lucky enough to to be really spoiled by Ariel.

How do I do it? Just check out his Instagram account, atfalconpictures. Okay, like that. I'm being spoiled by Ariel. Uncle, can you smell it? Why doesn't it smell good?

It smells good. Is it the perfume you bought or did you just fart? You're so mean.

Why did you fart?

It's just a perfume.

You said it's a bad smell. You're so mean, Mat Doern.

I thought you were going to memorize it.

If you look at my room, there's a lot of perfume. I even shared it with my friends

because you always give it to them since long time ago, you always give it to them yes, I make news who is the one who make the news?

netizen? yes, he said he is the closest netizen

do you still have your own fan club? yes, I still have it do they believe you? I don have. Do they believe you?

I don't care if they believe me or not. I'm just a stupid person. And the second thing is, I'm like, if I'm a thief, I should be a thief with perfume.

Why perfume?

So, what for? You just got 15 million from your uncle, why perfume? a perfume? Why do you need to buy a perfume? Of course, people will talk about it So people will know I'm being uber-duber

But what's crazy is They accused me of buying a perfume and I gave it to my boyfriend, Akilah While I bought the perfume in front of his face he chose the perfume he talked to the lady the lady, she wants this perfume

and she wants the size of the bottle the size and suddenly when he heard me taking the perfume and gave it to him he wanted a credict but I said no need if we have a credit

you will get more crowded. So, what I said to the media was just a clarification that I didn't take the perfume.

We are Onyok's girlfriend, we bring it. That's why Onyok clarified to the media because of that.

Because of that, it's really annoying.

Because your girlfriend is still fine, her family is also a very friendly person. Okay, here we have a game. He's a very friendly person. We have a game here. Ruben has to answer a question. Let's start with Onyo. You know Ruben, right? Of course.

Onyo. What do you love about Ruben's father?

I love him so much. What do you think of Ruben's father? He's my favorite father, my best friend, and one of my teachers. He's always there for me.

Does he always pray for you?

He always tells me what to do, he's a very detailed person. And what I like the most about him is that he never interferes with my business or my friends' business. He just asks me if I'm safe. He used to be the most strict person, but now he's the most flexible.

Give me a high five. He's the most flexible. Applause for him.

He's the best, bro. He's cool. Benso, how proud are you of Ruben and Onyo? I'm very proud. So, whatever he does, as long as it's positive, I'm proud.

And, Onyo, until now, Onyo hasn't changed. He knows how to position himself when he's a child. He has to listen and doesn't need to be repeated 2 or 3 times. That's what makes us lighter every day. So it's not like...

It's not like we're getting heavier, stiffer, and more like a... Yeah, it's not like we're taking a perfume. Be patient, Nyo.

Be patient.

Okay.

You're still a baby, right? It's not like we're taking a perfume. Suddenly, we're in a Kalegun transport, and it's already the most...

Wee-bee.

Another accident. Onyo, when you go home and see your dad is sleeping or going to bed after work, what do you think?

Wake him up.

No matter how tired he is?

No, no. More like this...

Are you sleepy? Are you sleepy?

Are you sleepy? Are you shooting?

Be patient, sis.

I'm cutting it

Kala I had to be cafe. Kala. De la get it or to a conversa Yeah, chop it up media smuggled. Yeah, yeah chop it up media smuggled. Yeah I had a pet of a smuggled and I a la la tapi

Yeah the best. He's like, you know, bro.

I was like, what was I doing? He greeted me. I was like, we were talking, and he put his phone down, and asked me to do a TikTok.

I didn't know what to do. Then, he said, thank you.

Just follow him.

I just followed him. You're in the picture.

I just followed him.

He laughed at myself. As long as she's happy. Have you ever felt guilty towards Onyo? I have. So, there are a few things that... But it's more about what she wants. For example, Onyo wants to buy this. Because I think it's not the right time yet. But fortunately, you know,

I rarely ask for more than two days. Do you have a condition when you ask for something?

No. Do you have to do this first?

No.

I need this, I need that. Sometimes, before he gets home, he already has everything. That's for sure. Either Onyo or Talia Tania. So, if it's Onyo himself,

there are some things that he says, no, no, I don't think that's necessary. Sometimes, he just said it, oh yeah, that's right. But for me, as a father, I have to have a note

that I can't just keep on saying. But I think I have to. Because I think it's not important. It's not important. So, for example, if Onyo wants to buy this,

I'm sure, in less than two days, it will happen. Even though sometimes the money is from Onyo's money, from Onyo's work, too.

Onyo's money is his own.

Yes.

Onyo's money is directly to his account. So if there's news outside, saying Ruben is spending Onyo's money, that's wrong, right? You can check how many budget TV do you have? how's the story? because for me, it's normal because people know

people who shoot everyday

they have a lot of money

while you were broke at that time, early when you were into Gucci, Fendi oh yeah not broke, but I was happy yeah, happy

like me, I used to dress up, but I'm happy Like how I used to date a pageant I'm happy Especially when it's someone we love

I want people to appreciate Ruben Onsu

He should appreciate Onyu with a child like Ruben Onsu

What about Onyu? Is it okay if your father gets married again?

As long as he's comfortable. As a son, I can't give him any rules. So, if he's comfortable, I'll let him. If he's not, I won't.

Has he ever told you?

No, we never discussed it. We never discussed it, like, if he's with me. I never told him about my relationship with him I never told him about it

Do you want to know who is Onyo Ayah? Can I say it?

Of course you can I can imagine you

Can I say it?

Of course

You can say it

It's not the right time Let's give a round of applause for Onyo and Ruben. So, guys, in the entertainment world, it's cruel. Sometimes, people out there, not only your relatives, but also your fans. But now, I'm confused.

We think that the accounts are fans, but I sometimes think that the account is managed by the artist sometimes do you understand? the language pretending that it's not a fan

it's not that far it's not like a fake account yesterday, someone commented on my Instagram I said, I'm a b**** They said, when did you ever say that? You know how it feels to be a b****

Until you said, I'm a b**** So don't be so obvious

Actually, we never joke with him

Really?

So, he said, why are you so strong?

You're mentally alive Sometimes, I'm in a bad sometimes, you know, I like to be like, yesterday I was in a prayer meeting, but after that, I was like, I think that person is not not in my life.

I think I also saw him, I was like this, like he was so far away, so far away on earth. But sometimes we have feelings, you know? Like, angry.

If I'm like, I can't be angry at the person who's in front of me, especially when I'm live. Especially me. There are some internal discussions, like, why are you here? So, I don't want to be too serious about my worship.

So I just focus on my child. Even though there are some doubts. The language is different. But because we are not interested in spreading the word, I have proof.

It's tiring.

But if it has to be done, I don't care. Just do it. So for me... I've told Onyok before. If there's a war,

don't ask me to stop. If you want to go to war, go ahead.

If you want to go to war, go ahead. Don't ask me to stop. I don't care if it's blood or not. Don't ask me to stop or be patient. Because I think I'm human just like everyone else. So when I say, okay, if you want to fight, okay, fight, you open, you tell me first, what are you doing? I'll fight again.

I counter. But also be quiet. Be patient, be patient.

So, it's just about kids, I'm just talking about kids. So I have to counter that. And you know why I'm like that? he's very strong but you know when he's sleeping or whatever sometimes we like to watch together

he likes to sleep and sometimes he still likes to do this like that why is that? he will say he's okay

but when he starts like that that, I knew that...

He still has something to hide. He still has something to hide. So he was like, Oh, yeah. I knew that he had a bad heart. But I appreciated him for running from all that.

So that he could move, move, move. So I have to go to the office where you can relax. Because, whether I'm still there or not, there will be a lot of people who love you, a lot of people who care about you as long as you don't bother others. But Benzoo, is there anyone you want to say to people out there, on this occasion, who hasn't been said anywhere by Benzoo for people. For haters. I'm not a fan of the word, but I'm not a fan of the word.

I'm not a fan of the word. I'm not a fan of the word.

I'm not a fan of the word. I'm not a fan of the word. It's like, you know, for the right and left, stop. To be polite, to be polite. Because, whatever happens, what we want is peace, just be nice. Peace doesn't have to mean you have to walk together, but at least not't hurt each other,

don't feel like we're so good at something, don't feel like we're so great. But everyone has the right to give or take the responsibility. But don't force it. If it's for things we don't do, but the media, when is it?

What's the response? So I also, for told my friends there, I really appreciate all the work they do. Especially in the entertainment industry. But, if the issue is already been solved, and they keep asking,

like this, the soccer field. Right? They keep being pressured. I think,

they won't be rejected

he won't be rejected

he will be fine so while I was there I told him what's the right thing to do when I came back from your fashion show from the third floor to the ground floor

I said this is a mall, how can I do that? there's a media, but I answered.

If he asked you, he wouldn't cover me. What? There's no cover. He's lazy again, he's up there, the lip is dead, people are coming at night. At 11 o'clock. There's no cover, he's in the media, he's aiming at you.

I'm angry. If you're with haters, it's more like... or... you want to say something weird about me and my dad maybe... you don't know... you don't know what's really going on and I hope you guys are more... wise to comment

because if I tell you later you'll say, oh, it's like that we apologize but you don't have to let time answer all that because if I tell you, you'll say, oh, I see, we're sorry, Onyok.

But you don't have to.

But you don't have to.

Just let time answer all that.

Yes, God willing.

Yes, God willing. Thank you, Onyok. Thank you, Ruben, for coming. When are you moving to the Netherlands?

I think in the second semester, Uncle.

So we're going to the Netherlands for vacation? Vacation to the Netherlands? I'm a Dutch man We're looking for a house So we're going there for vacation Don't do that You're stealing other people's property It's up to them It's up to you

You can ask me out

It's okay Thank you

If you have a sponsor, please help me

You're so rude

Anyway, uncle

If I'm a Dutch man, I'll transfer the money to Euro Oh my god

Anyway, uncle will be the number one sponsor for my every event Oh my god

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Waalaikumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. you you you you I'm not sure if I can do it. I'm not sure if I can do it. I'm not sure if I can do it. I'm not sure if I can do it. I'm not sure if I can do it.

I'm not sure if I can do it.

I'm not sure if I can do it. So, Onyo, you finally dare to post, dare to meet reporters, dare to talk, have you got the green light from your father or Onyo? No, no, I didn't ask my father first, like this, no. The funny thing is, when we are the parents, we can't interfere in the children's affairs, that's a crazy thing, right? You can say anything to me, I don't care.

It's up kill you. For haters? For haters. What do you want to say?

Stop interfering in our business. So that,

what should be better, what should be better,

will be worse.