“SEMOGA BUR*NGMU GA BERDIRI LAGI!" SUMPAH SEORANG ISTRI YG TERDZOLIMI !

CURHAT BANG Denny Sumargo

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I'm going to kill you, you son of a bitch! I'm going to kill you! You will get a trial. You will get a punishment. Your life will never be happy.

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That bitch will never be able to build your life. You just had sex with other people. You went home, you're a slut.

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At that time, you couldn't control it at all?

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I couldn't. It was already held by Mr. Garson. Oh, so you knew it for a long time? Yes. But at that time, at first, it was said that you were pregnant, the one who was pregnant, you or the girl?

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No one was pregnant, sir. Oh, no one was pregnant? No one was pregnant. But maybe it was a word from someone who was angry, why their relationship is still going on. Maybe someone thinks that way, even though no one is pregnant.

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Oh, okay.

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So, there are a lot of DMs to me on TikTok. So, this is Mrs. Veni, right?

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Is it just a brother? Because it's still young.

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Mrs. Veni. How old are you?

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25, sir.

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I'll just call you Veni. Yes, sir.

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Veni is not a Balikpapan person. So this is the incident in Balikpapan, right? Yes, I live in Balikpapan. The incident is in Balikpapan.

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Are you originally from there?

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But I'm originally Sundanese. Sundanese. I'm a translator. A translator.

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You moved to Balikpapan from a young age?

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From a young age. From first grade elementary school. You're married to your ex now, right? You said ex, right? Yes, ex. How old are you when you married your ex? 21, sir. Oh, so it's been 4 years. Did you have a child?

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Yes, I had a child.

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But where did you meet him?

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We were schoolmates. We were in different schools, but we were in the same class. So he DMed me when we first met.

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He's a nice guy, right?

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Not at all. He's nice, right? Romantic? No.

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Not romantic? What do you like about him? Not that.

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He's responsible. He also shows his love for us. That's what makes me fall in love with him. He's like... able to...

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control the words we say,

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so we can fall in love.

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Oh, he knows how to speak. Smart, right? Yes, he's smart. How long have you been dating? 3 years. 3 years, 4 years.

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7 years.

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You should have known each other well. So, during your relationship, there was no indication? There was.

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How many times?

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As far as I remember, he had worked in a location.

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He had been informed a location before.

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He had been informed. In that location? Yes, he said he was walking with a woman from the canteen. I contacted the woman, she was a college student in that location. She introduced me. This was when you were dating?

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Yes, when we were dating. What did she say? She said, I'm sorry. I was like this. I've been dating for 3 years. So, I should apologize.

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I never say sorry. If you still want to fix it, I'll give you a chance. Fair. Yes, fair. And, Gong was when he was about to get married.

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Before he got married, he had a date with a woman. She was his ex-girlfriend.

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Did he know? Twice.

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He admitted it twice. But he only knew about it once. I contacted the woman again. But it was a different person. I contacted the woman again. She finally admitted it.

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He admitted it only twice. We went out for coffee. Just hanging out. Like nothing happened. I contacted the woman and she finally admitted it. They admitted it only twice. We went out for coffee, just hanging out.

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Like nothing happened. And then you said, well, that's it.

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I was also shocked, especially when I was getting married. I told her, well, you can be with him. You don't have to continue with me, but she didn't want to. She wanted to stay with me. Because the reason was just a friend or something with that woman, even though I knew she was his ex.

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So the point is, even though it was hard, you still took the step to get married? I still took the step to get married. Actually, I had thought about it, but the position there was we had been in a long relationship,

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so I thought it was just a commitment and loyalty, that's all. So whatever happens, let's just let it go. As long as you still want to fix it, continue. But you didn't ask your parents at that time,

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this or that, how are you doing?

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No, so if I have a relationship, I never tell my parents or anything. Because I keep the name of the man. So as everyone knows, he's a good man.

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He's a good wife.

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He's a good husband.

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So, you always tell your parents about your good life.

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Yes.

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You never told them, right?

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Never. I never told them before. I always tell them myself.

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Okay. You're married now.

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Yes. Everything's good?

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Yes. You're doing well? So, this is the first viral news, or is it the next?

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So, this is the first viral news, but before that, he had ... This is Mr. Sudhanika, right? Before this, before the viral. So before he was once like, flirting with a girl. But through

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his parents. So like, for example, he flirted for example, his name, let's just summarize it. For example, his name, his girlfriend's name is Rizka. He said, Rizka, where do you go to school? The teacher said, oh, the school is here, it's still a primary school. I thought she had graduated, but I want to go to Aruf.

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She said that.

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To Rizka's parents?

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Yes. So, she teased the mothers, the mothers told her to her parents.

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Oh, through their parents.

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I told Aruf, my child is still young, I will send him to school. He even said that. I was put in status with his parents. Finally,

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His parents were in the same situation?

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Yes, I was put in status with his parents. Then, his parents became friends with my friend. My friend sent me a screenshot of the picture. He said, it's your husband. How did you know it was your husband? From the status?

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Yes.

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The status had his name? Yes, it was his name. He said, it's your husband. I was using my phone at that time. I said, it's my husband. Then, I was given the screenshot on Instagram he sent me a screenshot of the photo on Instagram,

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and sent it to Rizka's parents. He said, this is the one, the son of Aldi.

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So you contacted Rizka's parents?

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Through my friend.

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Rizka's parents didn't know that...

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They didn't know, until they said, you don't have a boyfriend. He said, no, I'm single. I don't have a boyfriend. He said, no, I'm single. I don't have a boyfriend. Even though he has a wife and a child. I asked him nicely.

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I was angry. I asked him nicely. I said, dear, what is this? Please explain. He said, just a joke. He said that, a joke.

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Finally, I read the W.A. She W.A. to the old man. The old man who was the first intercessor. He said, Oh, he W.A. first. Oh, Aldi, you're bad.

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Even though he has a wife, do you want to invite Rizka? The first parent doesn't know either. I don't know? No, they didn't. They said, why would you want to invite Arif to the show?

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That's what they said.

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They just found out? They said, just laugh it off, ma'am. That's what the parents said. If they didn't find out, it could have been dangerous.

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Oh, they just laughed it off.

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I said, you can't do that. I apologized.

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It's over?

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It's over. It's over. There are a lot of commas. I just saw him call his friend. He called his friend, but it was a babe.

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Lack of evidence.

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Yes, lack of evidence. That's all. But I said, we're married, you can't call your friend, you can't use the word babe. Then he said, oh, I won't repeat it. If it's like that, I won't cause any trouble. But you're not a possessive character.

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There are women who are very possessive and jealous. No, sir. No. Even now, the viral one, I...

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What's the name? He went for a coffee. But he brought a friend. So, we were in a relationship. But I... I felt...

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I felt something was up with him. His friends were the ones who contacted me. I was looking for information. All all the information came to me. So I said, why is this your husband? If for example, in a place, your husband is exchanging cell phones with that woman. Okay.

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I said like this, oh yes, I'll ask later. I asked this man, why do you say, you say this, you exchange cell phones like this. Yes, it's about charge of media work.

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But what made you suspicious?

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I dreamt three times.

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Dreamt?

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I dreamt my husband was with a woman, but I didn't see the woman.

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It's not clear who the woman was.

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It's not clear, but I always dreamt. What did they do in your dream? Well, they were just sitting together, sometimes. Like in a room, just like that. We sit together sometimes, like in a room. Okay. You used to be given signs like that?

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No, no. Only this one, the last one.

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Finally, you broke up. How did it go? I broke up with the woman.

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That's what's in the video.

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So that's... Wait, in this video, whose house is this? The woman's. The one who's crying is my in-laws' house.

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The one you're cursing at?

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My in-laws.

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That's your in-laws, so her father, her mother, her husband. But the affair is not there? The girl is not there?

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There is, sir.

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Oh, it's there?

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I come to all of them.

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Oh, how can you come?

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Tell me first. How come you can come here? Tell us. We'll tell you the story from the beginning to the end. So, this guy, I said earlier that he likes to drink coffee, right? One time he drank coffee, his friend talked to me. I said, why didn't you say anything? He said, if I said anything, you wouldn't let me. I said, if you're open, I'll let you in.

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As long as you say it, it's me who you're going with and where. Okay, that's it. He never came home on Friday. Because on Friday, he had an activity.

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What activity?

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It's called demanding knowledge.

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What's that? It's not good to talk about knowledge.

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Yes, demanding knowledge on the day of Rabu. On Friday, he always prays at his parents' house. He never wants to be near my house. Then on the day of Rabu, he didn't come home because he demanded that knowledge. It turns out that on Thursday he came home. On Thursday he came home.

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In the morning, if I'm not mistaken, he came home on Thursday. He went home to work in the morning. On Thursday, he came home. On Wednesday, I got... I was going to have a family event. I did all the work in the kitchen. But my husband was sleeping. I checked his phone once, but I didn't find anything.

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Once he was asleep, I felt like taking his phone. I took his phone and brought it to the next room. I was so nervous because before I asked her, what is your relationship with this woman? Can I say it?

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It's okay.

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With Putri. Putri, you want to say Putri? Yes, why do you have a relationship with Putri? Then she asked my son, where's your mom? In the kitchen, my mom was crying. He said, my daughter is 4 years old.

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Okay.

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He came to the kitchen, I said, why are you cheating on me? He said, like that.

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Why?

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Sorry.

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It's okay.

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Why are you cheating on me?

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I said.

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He said, no, he's just a friend. A media friend. A media friend?

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I trusted you.

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I said, why did you cheat on me? And then? I trusted you. I said, he kissed me. He kissed you? He kissed me.

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He probably won't do it again. He kissed me. He kissed me. Until... It was Thursday. I got the chat from him.

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Just now? On Thursday. He had a plan on Saturday to go to Samarinda on Saturday, but it didn't work out. I happened to use a rental car. On Saturday, it didn't work out.

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I told my friend who booked the car to come with me. He said, Penny, I don't use this car anymore. You can use it to go out with your family. My husband went home and asked me to prepare him to go with Rinda.

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Even though I knew that it wouldn't work out. But he didn't say anything. I still prepared his clothes. When he wanted to go, I told him, it wouldn't work out with Rinda. I said, oh go, I said, it's not possible to go to Samarinda. I said, is that so?

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He said, yes. Oh yes, this friend of his just contacted me, it's not possible. I said, well, on Sunday we plan to go to the place. I said, well, just on Sunday so we can take Sabina. He said, well, I'll call you later.

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He said, we'll arrange it. Sabina is your daughter? I said, I'll call him later. He said, we'll arrange it. Your son's husband? He couldn't go on Sunday. So we decided to go on Saturday. He was supposed to go to work at night. Saturday, right?

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What kind of work does he do?

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Media? He's just his sidekick. He's active in... For example, he edits videos for Bintang Tamu.

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Content creator? No, he's was a guest star, he edited the video. Contact creator?

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No, in the place of demanding knowledge, sometimes there was live streaming. He held the camera. Oh. Yes.

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Okay, continue.

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Fingers in the air. After that, on Saturday, we finally went out. Right? On Saturday we went out. We went out as a family, but he was not calm. Not like usual.

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He was nervous. He was sweating, nervous. Even when he was praying, I wanted to borrow his cell phone, but he said, I'll carry it. I said, don't, I'm the one who's going to take you to pray. I said that, but he was still calm.

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I said, okay, I'll carry his cell phone. But he was walking on Saturday. On Sunday, I said I wanted to go somewhere. He went with me in his car. I went to that place.

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That place?

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I didn't bring my son. My son and my mom. We wanted to eat on that Sunday afternoon. We went there on Sunday.

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Okay.

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He ordered food and took my phone to barcode. I saw the chat on his phone. It was a rental car. The chat was like this. Sir, I need your help. My helmet is left behind.

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Please keep it behind the car. If I go around again, it's far. I said this. It was on Sunday, right? While the chat was on Friday. I said this.

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It's not on Saturday that the car was rented. If the chat was on Friday, it means he used your car on Friday? He said, no, I didn't use it, I just filled up the gas. On Saturday, he went with me and said he filled up the gas only twice. On Friday, he didn't say anything.

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When I asked him, he filled up the gas again. So, my conclusion is that he didn't say anything. When I asked him, he filled up the gas again. So, my conclusion is, three times, right? You're lying. Because he was upset, he saw that I didn't want to.

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He didn't eat well, he was always like this.

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Always?

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Yes.

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Did he admit it?

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No, not yet. But I think he knew, my wife would know. We went home, I got the chat again. Don't forget to delete it.

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On his cellphone?

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On his cellphone, on Aimi Shake. He used SMS. Can you access his cellphone?

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Can you open it?

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I can.

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He didn't change the password?

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No, actually, once they, if the man is at home, the men's number is automatically blocked by the women's number.

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How is that?

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The men's number is blocked by the women's number. So, later, if I'm informed that I work at this time, the block will be opened. So, I can't see anything.

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Oh, that's how it works?

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Yes, after I saw it.

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Okay.

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Finally, he didn't have time to block it.

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You read it.

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No, this deleted it. It was in the SMS. But SMS has two options, iPhone and recent daily.

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Yes, that's right.

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I opened it. The one that was deleted. I saw the one at the top, the one with the light. Then I repeated it. Yes, you did. I repeated it all.

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It turned out, he did it. Even though they found out on Thursday. I was supposed to be there on Thursday. But they found out on Friday. What did they say? They were still chatting. Just chatting?

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Yes, chatting.

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Like, I just got to work. Sorry, my love, my beauty.

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I don't have a ring here.

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Oh, there's a pretty girl, my love.

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The girl is handsome, my love.

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That's all I read. Oh, there's a beautiful one, my love. The girl has a handsome one, my love. That's all I read.

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Okay.

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The girl responded, I often call you, even though I never video call my husband. She even said her cell phone's camera was broken, but her colleagues told me she always video calls and calls at work He's always hiding, and his colleagues told me

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He has a wife, so why does he always video call? He must be running to his work area There must be something wrong with him Actually, his friends are suspicious, but it's not good to talk to me

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And then, after you opened the recent delete,

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you gave him the lead. No, I didn't. He slept next to me. I just recorded it. There's a second slide. I recorded it. He always looked for evidence on my phone.

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But I dropped it to my dad's phone.

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I made a quote my dad's phone. I once made a quote for men. Don't you think you're smart. There's a race that's smarter than you. It's called wife and partner. They're like this. The best intelligence is women.

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I dropped it to my father's phone. I deleted everything.

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And then? It was fun. I was like watching a movie. I'm sorry. Smiling like this is not not liking it. Yes, sir. Yes, to make it more... I mean, what's the situation.

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And then? After I saved everything, she left. He wanted to work, I was still in a normal attitude, I fed him, I fed him. But I lost my appetite, I fed him and my hands were numb. Did he know you had changed?

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Actually, maybe he felt it, but he couldn't talk to me. He said, I ate, I said I was full, I ate it. I said, I'm full. I never ate. I fed him. You didn't eat? No appetite?

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No appetite. I fed him. He ate and went to work. On Sunday. But before he went to work, I had saved my rental number. I took a picture. I dropped it to my father's phone.

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Proofs were there.

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Because he must have thought like this. If he deleted the rental number, he must have thought of all kinds of things about me. So your father already knew? This position I was already open to my parents. Because I couldn't keep it to myself.

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Okay, so your parents already knew.

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But I said, please keep it a secret, because I wanted to gather all the evidence. He greeted my parents, kissed them, smiled at them, and appreciated them as my husband. My parents were in pain and cried. My parents should have treated him like a son, not a daughter-in-law. Whatever he lacked, he would will be taken care of. I fed her, but she didn't realize how bad she was to me.

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I still hope that she will realize that by doing this, she will realize that her wife is a good person. I just want her to realize that. There's something like that inside. It's not that bad. But the man doesn't realize it. I was still like that, I fed him and ate. If you had fed him like that, his hands were shaking, his wife was kissing his feet.

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She kissed his feet, he admitted it. Yes, it was on the day, he went to work on Sunday, I called the rental company after Maghrib prayer. I called, hello, Assalamualaikum. I asked him, What time is it for you to deliver the car? I read in the chat

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that you left your helmet. He called me immediately. He asked me if I could explain who the woman was.

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I said, I'm his wife. She said, I'm her husband. I said, can I make a phone call? She said, sure. I said, I'm her husband, but I think I'm already suspicious. I think my husband is dating someone else. I said, I think my husband is dating someone else.

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She said, can I see your GPS? I offered offering myself. Can I see your car GPS? Where is it going? He said, actually, he didn't want to, but I asked him to help. So that I'm sure what I choose won't be outside my regret. Oh, yes, we met.

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That was my meeting. my husband's position is working from Monday to Tuesday I don't know I met at 9 o'clock I saw the GPS yes, everywhere

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I saw the GPS I immediately came the location of the car was parked how many places did he go? on Sunday if the clearest one was the viral one.

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The one in Parkiran.

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Okay.

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I finally visited him. The person, what was it? If I'm not mistaken, the IT person.

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Yes, the IT person.

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Because it was already 11.30 at night, he was gone. He had gone home. Okay. He said, come back tomorrow, okay? On Monday. Eh, yes, come back tomorrow, on Monday. I said, yes, I'll come back on Monday.

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But not at night, at least in the evening. Okay, that's it. Thank God, this car company wanted to help me. Because I was far away, I was afraid I couldn't get it. So, let's just keep it first. I'll try to upgrade it later.

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If there is please come here.

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Okay.

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She's the one who checks?

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Yes. After that, I still... On Monday, she went home that morning. It's still normal. As usual, as a wife, I still do it on Monday. It turns out that when she works at night... Eh, sorry, sorry. that's on Sunday, right?

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Where?

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On CCTV.

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Oh, CCTV on Sunday, right? Yes, yes. On Monday, he's on vacation, work, he should be on vacation, work. On Sunday, when I went with him, I said to a place, I said, I'm so happy, honey, you're rarely at home, because I'm happy, this is really, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, you're home on a Saturday and Sunday. And then, on Monday, we're off.

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So we can have a me time at home together. I said, like that. Suddenly, on Sunday, I came to the CCTV place, at the police station. Can I ask for a little time? Why?

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I want to have a me time because my mind is confused. I said, what are you thinking? I'm your wife. I said, I don't want to tell you because I'm afraid it will burden you. He said, that's it. He said, he didn't want to go home on Monday. I have a feeling that this will be a bad memory. I have a feeling. I think there's something going on. I replied, okay, honey, whatever. I don't want something going on. I replied, okay, dear, okay, what's the name, okay.

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I allowed it. Because the more he went to the ice road, the less he went home, the more I looked for evidence. Yes, there was time. Then? Then?

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Then he left. He left on, what day was it, KS? I can't remember. Monday? I was not home, I was contacted by my friend. So, the rental company was afraid to contact me, because they were afraid of my husband. So, they contacted me through another contact, my friend.

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I brought my friend when I was checking CCTV. He called me, he said, can I meet you? I said, why? He said, I'm not available. I said, I'm not available. He said, I'm not available.

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I said, I'm not available. So he contacted me through another contact. My friend. I brought a friend when I was checking the CCTV. He called me, Can I meet you? Why? Is there a brother there? I said, no, he's already working. Here, there's a CCTV that I've got that's really...

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What's it called? Really sure. You have to see it. Where did we meet? Here. At 9 o'clock I I left, on Monday, at 9 o'clock I left, I got the CCTV at half past two in the evening.

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So, the rental company came to me just to give me the CCTV. Oh. Just assume that I was given to walk by God. What is this? Well, that, from the beginning of Friday, he was on Friday, he told me that he was uh, what is it, shaving, changing oil, shaving, changing oil. Suddenly at 9.30 pm I was in Islamic.

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Masjid Islamik, there is an Islamic back to the father, right? I'm in Islamic, why don't you talk? Yes, there is a market or something that sells that. I said, Tumen, you go alone. Yes, because I want to be alone first, me time. Actually, he's with that woman.

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Can you see it on the CCTV?

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Let me see.

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What is it?

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Where?

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In the parking lot?

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In the parking lot, the problem is ... What is this? What place is this? Oh, that's him? Yes, that's him. Oh, that's him? Oh, that's the CCTV? I haven't seen this one. That's a kiss. Oh, a kiss.

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There's also one on the stairs.

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Oh, this is a girl on a motorcycle.

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So on Friday, they went to Islamic Barang, right?

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Yes, yes, yes.

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On Friday, they went to Islamic Barang.

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Well, he talked to himself. I saw it on the CCTV on Monday. The CCTV on Friday, right? Yes, on Friday, the CCTV said, Yes, the GPS is here. He parked. So this woman came first.

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Riding a motorcycle. My husband brought a rental car, right? The car was around twice. Looking for a parking lot near the woman my motorcycle. My husband was driving a rental car. The car was circling around twice. We were looking for a parking lot near the woman's motorcycle. But we couldn't find it. Finally, she parked her motorcycle above the woman's motorcycle, below.

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Circling around. That's why on the CCTV, we could see her going down the stairs. She was sending the woman. She was sending the woman to her motorcycle. Oh, so she was talking in the motorcycle. Oh, so you talked in the car. Yes, 45 minutes in the car. You can see that he is from the stairs, the one who rides the motorcycle, the clothes are different, brother, it's the stairs, right?

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Different clothes? Different clothes, brother. That's the stairs, the color of the skirt is also dark, when he rides the motorcycle, he wears a shirt. He changed clothes in a rental car. Yes, I don't know where, but yes, did for 45 minutes was in the car.

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Oh, so the investigation was very positive.

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Yes, 45 minutes in the car. So when you saw that, you were like, wow. I was shivering. I couldn't even step on the ground that night.

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And then?

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I was sent home, because I was riding my motorcycle, it was 3.30 AM, I was sent home, I was followed by the rental company, I was afraid I would fall.

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Was he nice?

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Yes, he was very nice.

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You went home?

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I went home. You calmed yourself? I calmed myself on Monday. Did you pray? Yes. Did you calm yourself?

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I prayed. Did you cry? Yes, I. To calm yourself? To calm myself, I prayed. You cried? Yes, I prayed. You cried a lot? I said, O Allah, I surrender myself. I surrender myself, O Allah.

29:14

I said, what is it called, my life, my life, everything is only yours, O Allah. If my husband is cruel behind me, if he is playing behind me, I ask him to show me the money. I asked him to show me the money. I asked him to show me the money. I asked him to show me the money.

29:28

I asked him to show me the money.

29:30

I asked him to show me the money. I asked him to show me where my husband is. I said that. For that Nazar? I said that, yes, I'm Benazar. Because I also took the CCTV footage.

30:01

I'm Benazar. I already got it got it, right?

30:06

I'll be right back.

30:08

Drink first.

30:14

I got the CCTV and went home. Suddenly, on Monday, he was supposed to be working. He was working at 1 PM. He suddenly said, I'm not working, honey. I'm sick. Suddenly sick? On Monday, I said, I don't work, honey, I'm sick. Suddenly sick? I told him on Monday, if you...

30:27

He said, no... He said, free time. I said I came to his parents' house.

30:34

Oh, he said at home...

30:36

Yes, definitely at home. But before, in the morning, I had already contacted his family. I contacted my mother-in-law.

30:43

Your mother-in-law said she was there?

30:45

No, I said, did you leave? She said, yes, I did. What time did you leave? I just got home at 9, and I left right away,

30:52

what did I wear? I wore a shirt and a lepis. Honestly? Yes. Was it neat? It was neat, right?

30:58

People were walking. Honestly? No, because everyone didn't know what I was looking for. So, it was open. Oh, that's it. I was right. I said, let's go.

31:11

I said, I'll go there. I want to sleep there with Sabina. The AC was already moved. So, I used the fan at home. Because we were going to move. The story was, oh, no, no, no, no.

31:23

You'll be sorry later. Sabina was upset. We were about to move. He said, No, you don't have to. You'll be sorry. Sabina was crying. She cried because there was no air conditioning. I said, I suddenly said,

31:30

I want to take a nap.

31:31

I was working on Monday.

31:32

It's sick too.

31:33

No, it's a holiday. Oh, okay. It's Monday.

31:36

Okay.

31:37

I want to take a nap. I was about to the toilet. He said, you can go to the toilet, but I will stay at my parents' house. He said, you don't have to go. Just go home. I said, okay, sir. I'm sorry if I sound like a father.

31:55

It's okay. It's fun.

31:57

It's fun. Go on.

31:59

I said, okay, sir. I'll call you later. I was worried about my son. I'll call you later. I was so worried, I missed her. I said, I'll call you later. She said, yes, I'll call you later. I said, why are you so worried? She said, I'm so annoyed.

32:10

I said, I've already asked you to meet me. Why are you so anxious? She was in Samarinda, checking in. On Monday. She wasn't going home, so she was checking in. She was with that woman. That's why I felt like she was opening a room.

32:27

You haven't been caught yet, right? I told her this. If you're doing well out there, I wish you well. But if you're behind me, you'll get sick.

32:45

He said, that's too bad. He said, that's too bad. I also want to sleep at my friend's house in Kilo. He said that on Monday. I didn't go home. I just want to sleep at Kilo's house, at my friend's house. On Tuesday night,

33:00

after that, he should be home around 10 o'clock. But because of an event, he came home at midnight. He didn't want to go home. So, we were talking on the phone. He sent me a sticker. I replied to it. He was upset.

33:18

He said, Oh, you dare? I said, the name is also a sticker. I miss it because I haven't joked with my husband for a long time. He said, I'm not in the mood, I want to go back. I said, why?

33:34

He said, you want to go home, we haven't met for a long time. He said, no. I said, go home, I miss Sabina. He said, yes home, I miss Sabina. Then, she said, yes, yes. She went home. At home,

33:50

while she was with the woman, I was never smiled at. So, I was not considered there. So, when she went to her room, she only hugged her child. When she went to her room, I said, dear,

34:02

while smiling, she said, she looked at me like this. Then he took his son.

34:08

It must have been painful.

34:10

It was painful. You held on. He had to go home. I fed him again at night. On Tuesday. I asked him,

34:22

was it nice to sleep at a friend's house on Monday?

34:24

Oh, fishing. He said, Is it nice to sleep at a friend's house on Monday? Oh, fishing.

34:25

He answered, Which one? Which one? When?

34:30

He said,

34:31

You said you sleep at Kilo's house. Oh, yes, it's nice. The kids are naughty, but in my heart, you're the second liar.

34:38

Yes.

34:39

If a liar, he must be busy talking. And he will definitely forget what he said. So, when... I'll punch him.

34:49

The one that's a kilo, you'll check in?

34:51

Check in.

34:52

Fixed? Fixed. The fixed one will be when it's viral.

34:56

Okay, okay.

34:57

I like it.

34:58

I like it.

34:59

Check in, right?

35:01

That, sorry, on the last night, we missed each other as a wife, so I invited him. I'm sorry, I invited him. Did you want to?

35:10

No.

35:11

You didn't?

35:12

I was tired.

35:13

He said he was tired. He said, it's like there's no other time. He was tired. As a wife, I... If we get close, it's normal, right? It's normal if we get close first, right?

35:26

It's not wrong.

35:28

I told her, I want to have another child. I said, no, I don't want to have a child from you. Until she said, no, later, honey. I don't want to have a child first.

35:40

I... I had a chance, but I held it back. When I wanted there, but I held on. When I was about to do it, I was pushed. When I was about to do it, we had a chance. At that time, we had a chance.

35:55

At that time, we had a chance. We had a chance, because I was the one who approached him. Yes, you were the one who approached him. Yes, the chance came, I held on and said, I want to have another child. He pushed me.

36:07

He pushed you?

36:08

He pushed me. How come? He pushed me. I was more suspicious.

36:12

It must have hurt.

36:13

It hurt a lot. I was more suspicious. I was just mumbling. After that, I was mumbling. I just said, is you full outside or what? Oh, the term, are you full outside? I was snoring.

36:27

He didn't think of me. He was wet and fell asleep again. Until 4 o'clock in the morning, I cried. Just seeing him sleep and seeing the child.

36:37

The child slept in the...

36:39

Next to me. I said, oh God, I said, I want to break up. I have to break up with you tomorrow. I was emotional at 4 o'clock. I called my parents, my brother, everyone.

36:51

To reduce this emotion.

36:53

You're not strong anymore, huh?

36:55

I'm not strong. I told my mom, Mom, I said I'm not strong anymore. With Reynaldi, I'm already, I'm already in a lot of pain. Mom, just break up.

37:04

What did your parents say?

37:06

They said, just be patient.

37:08

They allowed you to, but be patient or what?

37:10

Be patient, I mean, don't be angry that night.

37:13

Okay.

37:15

I said, that's it, Mom. There's an event tomorrow. It's Rabu Day tomorrow. There's an event tomorrow. There must be a woman. Oh. there's an event in this area, a woman must be there. Oh, what's the event in this area?

37:29

Demanding knowledge.

37:30

Okay, okay.

37:31

Because she was in her first year of high school, she demanded knowledge and she was sent home. I read it in the chat. Okay. Because in the chat, I saw she was sent home, even though he refused to admit it. Even though it was written in the chat, don't go home alone, I'll send you, you wait for me at the post office. Okay.

37:50

And then?

37:52

Then, on Wednesday, I took my parents that night. I went to that place. I was allowed to go to the event. Before that, I was allowed. I said I wanted to bring my daughter. Later, outside and so on.

38:07

But did they know what the owner of the event was? I don't know, but because I've never been to that event, I suddenly came and people asked questions.

38:15

Yes.

38:16

I asked for permission, asked outside and so on. I asked for permission because this woman, when she found out about the chatting, I had warned her. I also had a spill chat.

38:29

Oh, you had a chat with Putri? Yes, on the day I went up there, on Sunday, I said, stay away from my husband.

38:37

What did she reply?

38:40

Well, first she said, I said, why are you bothering my husband? I said, what have you been given? Sorry, he said, I said, why are you disturbing my husband? What did you give him? I said, sorry, did you do that to my husband?

38:51

He said, don't talk nonsense, I'm not as bad as you think.

38:55

Oh, you were called a slanderer.

38:57

Yes, I said, even if you're not as bad as anyone, if you play with someone's husband, people will think you're bad.

39:06

That's reasonable.

39:07

And then?

39:08

I had to settle it with Aldi. I had to settle it with Aldi so that there would be no misunderstanding. I told him, you're keeping my husband away, don't ever communicate with him again. He didn't answer. But it turned out that he still continued to be with Linda.

39:27

Yes.

39:28

Finally. I'll show you the chat later. I didn't delete it.

39:31

After that, what was his name? He met me with...

39:33

He met me with...

39:34

He met me with... He met me with... Because there was a CCTV in the place where I was studying. I said, oh yes, there is someone. I even said his voice.

39:46

Was Aldi there too?

39:47

No, he was working. It was still night.

39:49

Okay.

39:50

So I came to him, but there was no man in the position. It could be disbanded if there was a man. That was my plan.

39:56

Yes.

39:58

I sat next to the woman. Her friend saw me first. I was sweating. His friend came to see Putri. He told her about the baby. Usually, the baby is gone. But he saw the baby.

40:12

He saw Putri's father next to him.

40:14

Whose father?

40:16

Putri's.

40:18

He saw me. He came to see me. He was like this. I was just sitting there. He came, right? He saw me coming. He was like this. I just sat down, he said this. Teh, you can, but don't be here. His mom said,

40:30

What's up, Put? What's up, Put? I said, calm down, Mom. I'll show you later. All the CCTV.

40:35

I said that.

40:36

His mom was shocked. I haven't said anything, with his rudeness, bro. His rudeness, sir. The woman said this. I didn't speak yet. I said,

40:50

where do you want to finish? Here, outside, or at your house? The woman said this. Why don't you ask Aldi? Why can't he be comfortable at home? I pointed at him like this

41:02

while shaking. I said, you're rude. Then was immediately scolded by the person there. Who are you? What are you doing? Oh, yes, yes, yes. That's someone's husband, try to realize that.

41:14

But that's a religious event, right? Yes, that's right. Wearing hijab, that woman.

41:18

Wearing hijab, sir. Astaghfirullahaladzim. I was so embarrassed. So we were taken out. Because the host didn't want us to be there. I was also uncomfortable because I asked for permission. I was taken out. I said, let's go to your house. He said, just stay here.

41:35

Behind the event. I said, he was so kind. I didn't feel guilty. I said, why did you ask? I said, you? I don't think he felt guilty. He always avoided it. I said, why are you asking? He said, you've ruined my marriage.

41:48

I pointed at him.

41:49

Did Aldi slander you? About Putri?

41:54

No, no. Putri knows everything. I even asked, do you know that Aldi has a wife and kids? He said, I know. So when you met Putri, nothing happened, just a debate. Debate. We were sent to her house.

42:09

Oh, that night too. To Aldi's house.

42:12

Putri's house, brother.

42:13

Putri.

42:14

Yes, Aldi was on Thursday. Finally, their family said, Well, let's just finish it. Where are we going tomorrow? I said, take me to my husband's house.

42:24

Oh, that's what I saw earlier.

42:26

Bring me to my in-laws' house.

42:28

What time is that?

42:30

It's an appointment at 11. You're so tense. My husband called me and asked, why are you hitting on Putri? Putri said she didn't know anything.

42:42

Putri didn't know anything. Why don't you say anything if you want to come to the ceremony? I said, if I say anything, you don't have to.

42:48

If I say anything, you...

42:51

You have another plan.

42:53

I have another plan. And then? What did you say to him?

42:59

He finally called me. Tomorrow, at around that time, at your parents' house.

43:07

Did he want to go?

43:08

Of course, he wanted to go.

43:10

He didn't run away, did he?

43:11

He didn't run away.

43:12

If I had run away,

43:14

I would have lost everything.

43:16

I was scared.

43:17

Did he come?

43:18

He came. With whom?

43:20

With his parents?

43:21

He was alone. It was at his parents' house. I'm I just slept in front of the TV. I got a permit because... You knew it yourself. Yes. Because in Rabu Pagi, I was the one who was in charge.

43:48

Okay. Let's continue to this. Finally, we're at home. I'm curious about that part. That ending, right? Yes.

43:54

But before, in the Rabu Pagi days, we were busy. I said, let's just separate. We're not compatible anymore. Then he said, yes, you're too oversharing. You're oversharing. I said, you have to admit to me, I'll show you. You have to admit to me, where did you go on Friday?

44:14

I want you to be honest. If you're honest, I'll forgive you. I said that. I still say that. Be honest, please, where are you going on Friday? If you're honest, I forgive you. I'll give you a chance. As long as you want to make amends, I'll give you a chance.

44:29

You still want to give? Still.

44:30

And what did he say?

44:31

What? Where am I going on Friday? Oh, he's going to... You're too... you're accusing me, like that. You're... what is it? A real accusation. I couldn't even cry. It was so painful. I laughed. I said, you're unlucky to have a crazy wife.

44:52

You're... what's the word? You're unlucky. You didn't expect your wife to be like this. I said, I love you,

45:04

Rinaldi. I always forgive you. I always do what you do. It's okay. I never take you to the faraway like that.

45:17

You're lazy.

45:18

Yes.

45:19

Then why are you at home until someone said, pray Yunus, pray the prophet Yunus.

45:24

Yes, since this incident, if I pray, I always bring it to pray. Oh was so sad. I was so sad. I was so sad. I was so sad. I was so sad.

45:27

I was so sad.

45:37

I was so sad. I lived with him without feeling anything. I had a chance to talk to him like that. But you still wanted to live with him, even though you didn't feel anything. Because I told him, I still gave you a chance if you really wanted to make amends. I told him, when I was in Rabu, we didn't get along, so we broke up.

45:58

You left this house, I told him, bring whatever you can bring, go. That's why on Wednesday night, he was allowed to go home again. But because I had brought a woman, it turned out that he slept in the mosque. He was a little late to come to his mother-in-law's house, right?

46:16

A little late to come to his mother-in-law's house.

46:18

He was stressed too, right?

46:19

That's it, brother. He always lied to me. If it's me time,, she would always talk, sleep, and pray in the mosque. Her shoes would disappear because she took someone else's shoes.

46:29

She always said that?

46:30

Yes, she always brought her shoes with her. She would say, I'm going to sleep in the mosque, I'm going to sleep in the mosque, even though she's with that woman. She always brought her shoes. The mosque is comfortable, I like to pray there. So on Thursday morning, we were going to mediate,

46:50

and the shoes were taken away by someone. I told the mosque, I said, even the mosque didn't want you to be inside. Because it's a holy place, you bring it. But when you said that I watched at his house, there was an old man,

47:11

was the old man angry with you?

47:15

Because I gave him the facts. What is he angry about? He wants to defend the wrong. Everything is silent. I gave him the facts. Until finally on Thursday we mediate. When we mediate, we open a mediation session. During the mediation, we had an opening.

47:27

Who would like to explain first? Who was the mediator? There was someone. Someone who was older? Yes, someone who was older.

47:35

And then?

47:36

I said, I want to hear the explanation from the daughter first.

47:40

Okay.

47:41

But every time she talked, she looked at my husband's eyes, looking down. Okay, but he's a type of character. Let's not assume he's a young noodle. I'm gonna give me a young and come with it. My tiny renal D Come up as tinie moon. You can say swat to put cookie to eat. Okay. Yeah, I got a lot of talk with you. I'll leave my tower I'm a little more. No, you don't know Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah Habis it'll I said, no, we're not close. Then I said, you're close since 6 months, right? Are you close since 6 months, Pancing-Pancing?

48:10

No, we're close since 4 months. Just say yes, because...

48:14

Yes, we're close.

48:16

Oh, since 4 months,

48:18

because of the media event together. He was working on the project together. Oh, from there he admitted from 4 months after that, he was still conducive we talked about anything

48:32

there was no other talk just like hot clarification here and there your husband was asked by the mediator why are you like that to your wife no, it's wrong

48:44

maybe there is something that may not be Why are you like that to your wife? No, it's not like that. Maybe there's something that you don't want to tell her. Because there's usually a gap in communication. And you're also welcome. But it seems like your husband is really lost. Sometimes he's willing to come home late, even though he's wearing a work outfit on the way to his girlfriend's house.

49:04

He's walking near my house. Why is that? Why is that? Even though I'm like a wife, at home, she wants anything, whatever she wants, we will try to do it.

49:17

Yes, there must be a shortage. But, I mean, if you listen to your story, 70-80% of you are in a good position.

49:26

You have overcome, you have held on, you have loved with all your heart. But I think it's difficult to talk to someone who is falling in love. It's difficult. I told him, don't bring my husband closer. If you bring him closer, I will come to your house. He said, you can come, but if you can, don't do it now.

49:48

Wait for the crowd. I was so emotional. So, it's like, maybe he's bothering me, but I'm just talking, I'm afraid.

49:59

He challenged you.

50:02

Yes, until I finally admitted it. This is also viral, because during the mediation, when it was over, I said, whatever we posted on social media, whatever we talked about, whatever we uploaded on social media, you don't talk, you don't get angry.

50:17

The family said, okay, deal. This is a consequence for you. I even said, you, Aldi, you have to pay for my heartache. This is not enough. There is no cure, in my opinion. Even now, we think there is a child.

50:41

It's a trauma. It's very difficult. I told my husband, have you ever thought about it? Who will take care of your child when he grows up? Who will take care of your child

50:54

when he grows up? Who will take care of him?

51:00

What kind of sacrifice? Who will take care of him? He didn't asking for 100 50 is already amazing

51:08

He went home His clothes were always I washed it Even on the last day I kissed his clothes Because

51:20

He said he was given clothes by his friend But it's a lie, it seems to be bought New clothes I kissed it, and it was a new shirt. He asked me to return his clothes from the house. I didn't return it. Because I told him, you just had an affair with someone else.

51:36

You went home, I was the one who washed it all.

51:39

It really hurt.

51:40

Oh yeah. You went through all this, then it went viral, you wanted it that way, your goal was to, well, Aldi for sure, Aldi and Putri. What was your hope? Did they realize? Yes, as a consequence, my hope was that they were ashamed.

51:56

Ashamed, ashamed that it made them realize. I didn't hope they would realize. It was too late. It was up to them it's up to them but the consequences

52:10

social sanctions you have to get because I have reminded them many times and then then your sharp words and scary

52:22

I'm sorry, I hear it I imagine I'm being. I imagine myself being told that, it's not that you're evil, I'm not saying you're evil, but if it happens, it's really scary. Do you have any motivation? No, I don't.

52:35

Until when?

52:36

Until when? I said it there, even until I die, this will heal.

52:42

That's right.

52:43

It won't heal. You deserve to get that. Even now, I still have Allah. I always complain to Allah. Because it hurts so much. I'm not considered a good wife at home. I've tried to be a good wife,

53:01

a good mother at home. But I've never been considered a good wife, a good mother at home. But I was never considered.

53:06

It hurts.

53:08

If one day, we don't know, you've been through this a little better, because this is still new. Aldi then realized, maybe a few months or a few years later.

53:20

Is there a door to forgiveness?

53:23

No, no.

53:25

No? No.

53:27

So you will move on after this?

53:29

Yes, Inshallah.

53:30

You will step out of your life?

53:31

Yes, I will.

53:32

Inshallah.

53:33

We pray for the best. Is there anything you want to say to Putri and Aldi as a closure or enough?

53:48

For you two, who have... who have been the pride of my child as a mother and wife, for you two, who never thought about it before doing anything. Maybe you won't be okay now.

54:28

But the karma you've accumulated will never go wrong. What you did to me, maybe you will feel the pain more than I do now.

54:42

That's it.

54:45

Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

54:46

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I asked for her phone number. I asked for her phone number. I checked the gallery, there was nothing.

55:09

But I opened the recent dialect. I used the face of the woman. She took her phone, she faced it. Then she saw her brother. While trying to give it to me, but hesitating, I pulled her phone. She pulled the phone, and I got her brother.

55:24

From there I saw all their evidence on Monday. What evidence was in there? A photo? A video? What video was that? The video that was shared on social media and there were some that were a bit like that. The ones that were not shared? Yes.

55:42

Random? Random, but I didn't share. And there were some vulgar ones. But I didn't care. I don't care. There are some vulgar things. But I don't care. I still think about it. Because this will be a social sanction.

55:52

Everyone will see it. I still think about it. If it reaches the organs, I still have a heart. I don't show it to anyone. Even though I have it.

56:04

I don't have a heart to. This is enough for me. Thank you very much. He's far from Balikpapan and today he's back to Balikpapan. Thank you very much. He's far from Balikpapan and today he's back to Balikpapan. Yes, sir. Thank you. Yes, sir. Thank you.

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