SYIFA HADJU NANGIS "EL, IBU TITIPKAN SYIFA KEPADAMU YA..." | BICARA SARA WIJAYANTO

At first, I didn't think she would be my match. Because we just broke up. Heartbroken. Heartbroken. Some people approached me after that. Soon, your duty will be transferred to Elle.

The message is, for sure, to my daughter, as you told me, I'm sincere and I hope that God will bless me with a special episode. I think lately, we've been talking about special things.

Using eggs.

I came across a... How do I say this?

If you say a friend, I see it as...

Yes, like a child. I mean, like... Have you eaten yet? I'm not sure. I'm not sure if I can eat it. I'm not sure if I can eat it.

I'm not sure if I can eat it. I feel like a child when I see my friends I feel like, have you eaten yet?

I want to do that

Give it up for Cipha Hajjum Hello

How are you?

Thank you for coming

Thank you for inviting me This is a wedding candidate?

Yes.

How old are you?

I'm 26 this year. 26 this year. You're the same age as Amanda. Yes, I'm the same age as Amanda.

You're remembering Manga?

I'm serious.

Yes, you're like...

Okay.

Congratulations. So, this means you're preparing for it?

Correct.

How is it?

Is it like, oh, it turns out... It's really...

You're going to get married?

Yeah. At first, I thought, I'm a planner, right? I like to plan something. That's why for this marriage, I've been preparing for this marriage for almost a year. So I felt like I could do it, I was secure. Suddenly, when it was close, I was like,

huh, there are a lot of things I haven't taken care of. The details are the ones that I like, there? Why are there so many that I haven't taken care of? The ones who like to miss out on things. And then I found out that vendors are more effective at working in close proximity. So the further away the day is, the more likely you are to be like, yeah, just wait. So even if we start early, we'll still be in the process of it. Later, maybe for you, you're the type of person who likes to plan things out in the early morning.

Do you ever get anxious?

I'm like that every night. I'm a very pallor person. I easily fall asleep. I don't have a problem sleeping. Now, it's been a month. Every time I sleep, I can't stop thinking. My brain is always thinking. I can't stop thinking. I can't stop thinking about what I have to do.

I wake up, I use my phone, I chat with people, even though it's already bedtime. But I let myself talk before I forget. What's your star? Cancer. Oh, your star is Cancer. But I let her talk before I forget again later. What did you ask for?

Cancer.

Oh, you asked for cancer. Okay, I want to bring Shifa back to her childhood. How old were you when you started in the entertainment world? I started early, actually when I was 5 years old. 5 years? Yes, but I wasn't shooting a movie or a movie, I was still doing ads. Advertisement.

Like milk ads.

I used to do milk ads. Because, at first, if I'm not mistaken, I was offered by someone, hey, do you want to join the casting for an ad. I tried to get in, and I got in. I did a few photoshoots and ads, and then I quit because I was in elementary school.

I quit in elementary school, and I started casting again in my second year of high school. That's when I started. Sinetron. But it means that you like it, right? It means that you have passion, right?

I mean, you're like, I want to do this again. Yes, actually, at first, I didn't expect this to be my passion. Because I'm an introvert, right? While I'm in the entertainment world, it forces me to be like, Hi. Whereas in the entertainment world, I have to be like, Hi!

And I have to talk to a lot of people, meet a lot of people, talk in public. So, for me, it's actually quite a long time to adjust. But on the other side, it turns out I also like what I do. I like acting, I like doing what I do. But there are things that follow. Like I have to be a spotlight, I have to meet a lot of people. Whether you want it or not.

Right. Do you still remember when you were little, like I had a dream of being something? Do you have any dreams to be something? I really wanted to be a diplomat. Because I was inspired by my aunt. Her late husband passed away. He was one of the most successful diplomats at the time. But sadly, he had breast cancer.

So, he passed away a few years ago. So, I was like, I want to be like him because he's cool. And it turns out, fate brought me to a different path. So, you found happiness in your work too. What are you busy with now? Now, I'm actually...

I had... Not yesterday, but until now, I'm still vacuum-shooting, like movies or cinetron. Because, I'm actually preparing for the wedding, right? So I feel like I can't

juggle between shooting everyday and preparing for the wedding. Like right now, I'm taking a job that I can shoot for a day or just a photoshoot. It's still really hard to arrange, especially if I really have to...

Streaming, right?

Yes, and I can't even make a movie. I'm afraid it won't be maximal for both of us. So I'm just focusing on preparing for the wedding. So cute. You're my boyfriend, I'm focusing on preparing for the wedding. That's so cute. I'm so curious about your relationship. I'm sorry, I'm a bit of a mystery.

I'm sorry.

How long have you been dating? It's been a year and a half. But we haven't decided if we want to get married until a year later. When you decided to be together, that this is a big decision, okay, he's the one.

Do you remember what moment was it? Was it when you were talking, discussing? No, actually at first I didn't think that he would be my soulmate. Because we've been together for a long time. Because we're from the same environment.

But every time we meet, I never talk to him. He never talks to me. Even though I and my husband's brother, Al, we've been getting along. We've talked a lot. type, I talk to him a lot. But I never talk to El, and I talked to Dulu a few times.

So I didn't think about it at all at first. That's why when he approached me, I wasn't like, Oh, he approached me? It took me a while. But I told my mom and my co-worker, that he was really close to me. At first, I thought he was just a random guy.

But he was actually a very friendly kid. As far as I know, he's very friendly. So I didn't think that he was really close to me. But when I talked to him, I thought, let'll just try it first. What's the point? I mean, there's nothing wrong with talking first.

Getting to know each other first. Although at that time, I wasn't like, now I just broke up. Except I've been single for a year.

This is just a few months. Oh, this is a fun fact. So, El Rumi married a guy Except that I've been single for a year. This is only a few months. Oh, this is a fun fact. So, El Rumi approached Siva Hajju when Siva Hajju just broke up. How long did it take?

Finally, it's like, okay, that's it.

Actually, it's pretty fast. Actually, it's not like I'm thinking about dating. Because I think like this. I was a bit sad when I was a kid. Heartbroken. At first, I was like,

God, I don't care if I'm not destined to marry in this world. I even thought like that. I was like that. I've been thinking about marriage in this world. I swear. I've been thinking about it. I think I want to have a career first. I want to find someone for me first. I don't want to think about it first.

Because some people approach me after that. But I don't have the energy to get closer to a guy. Start over again. Get closer. But when Elle approached me, I was like, why is this girl so fun? At first, I didn't think that there was a fun friend to talk to.

But when we talked further about a lot of things, it turned out that she was really mature. I mean, in my opinion, because the maturity of men is usually below the maturity of women. For example, when I was 25, the men I was with were usually below my maturity. I think he was mature enough for his age.

So I felt like, oh, I'm seeing something different. Because I usually know that El is like this, he's just a funny person. But there's something else about him that made me have a new perspective about him. Until when I was walking around, I asked my parents, my friends,

and they all said that the people I know are all good, thank God. And I was like, I'm still showing God's good will, of course. Suddenly, everything was just smoothed out.

Until today.

Yes, thank God. Bismillah, yes. Anyway, smooth until later, yes. Amen. Be happy, be born again. Amen, ya Allah.

I've heard you say my mom a few times. You're close to her, right? Yes, because I'm the type of person who doesn't tell my mom anything. So, for example, I don't know what to doing today, who I'm meeting, or like, in my family, we're used to, especially me and my mom, I always tell her, like, I'm like this,

do you know what I'm like? I tell her everything, basically to my mom. Oh, you call her mom? Yes, I call her mom. How many times have you called her mom? Because I meet a lot of people,

but their mothers are not that close to me. I mean, in my life, I rarely meet a girl who is close to her mother. Usually, girls are close to their fathers. Yes. Usually.

But maybe because I mean, you are a single parent since long time ago and my dad is now, it's been a long time, but in the last few years, I regret that I'm a bit older So my whole life, I'm only with my mom That's why I'm so close to my mom. What does that mean? If you were to ask,

who is the number one person in your life? My mom. This is like transitioning. It's so mellow. I was like, my kid is getting married, and now you're so romantic. Oh yeah, you're romantic.

I was like, crying a little bit. I can imagine, but I mean, it's a love, it's a child, it's a love. It's a mix of happiness and worries. I can imagine, especially since relationship with your mom is very close It's like, if you don't have to be with your mom, it's like, oh, I have a kid now, I can imagine

Why am I the one who's crying?

Because we even sleep together.

That's so cute.

So I can't even imagine how I can sleep with someone else in a different house.

How many siblings do you have?

Two. Me and my younger brother. I'm the first child.

Oh, both of you. The second one, male or female?

Female. How old male or female? How old is the female? 8 years old, now 17

Now 17

I can imagine So cute Her mom is so pretty Her mom's name is on the card Because she's a fan of Sarah That's right

I'm like, oh my god We always hang out in our living room Every time I go downstairs I just got out of my room I'm already set up my DMS

or this podcast or either one I even downloaded the app Thank you, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like So cute! Turns out, Fahad's mom is the same age as me. But don't call her aunt, okay? Yes, just call her aunt.

Call her like this.

That's okay.

It's not appropriate to call her aunt.

Ma'am.

There are many fans. Do you have a fan name? My fan name is Sivanyes. I know a lot of your fans don't know about you. Have you ever experienced something that made you break down in your life? And you cried. There are so many.

Actually, there are so many. But, maybe people judge it from the outside. Because we can't share our sadness. But, there are so many. Especially, I fought mostly... Maybe that's why I'm so close to share the sad part, but I've been through a lot. I've been fighting, mostly... Maybe that's why I'm so close to my mom.

Because we've been fighting mostly as a couple. So, like, for the casting, I was sent by my mom to take the train, and then the bus, and I fell off the bus.

You fell off the bus?

Not fell off, but I tri slipped and fell into the gutter. There were many stories that people wouldn't expect. There were moments where I just let it go. There was a time, I've never told this to anyone, a phase where I was at home, just eating rice, with salt, it really happened.

So there were a lot of things that people didn't know about. And at that time I was still in high school. High school? High school, still high school. So, like, what is it, if I were to tell you, I think there were a lot of those times. Wow.

But, yeah, maybe that's what brought me back to my mom. Because, yeah, maybe I felt like, yeah, my whole life,

but mostly just the two of us. Even though my mom was there, but she was already old and has her own activities. But I was really released by my mom when I was 19 or 20 years old. I was released by my assistant. You were really accompanied.

I was really accompanied because we were fighting together. It's okay to be together. Ibu, the struggle was amazing. Amazing. I felt like... I mean, I sometimes think, if I use logic, I'm at the point where,

Alhamdulillah, Masya Allah, I think this is enough for me. I don't think it's possible, because I don't have anyone to support me. I only have my mother and my family. So if it wasn't for the miracle of my mother's prayers, I don't think I would she works to support me.

You're there, what do you want to say to her? Don't throw it away, I'm embarrassed. What do you want to say to her? Thank you for everything. I'm so nervous. In a few moments, I'll be transferred to L. I hope you'll always be happy and peaceful. Amen.

I hope we can always be together until you give birth.

Amen.

I'm holding back my tears. You told me earlier,

your mom raised you on her own. And then...

You know, eating...

What did you say, Mom? Rice? Rice and salt. And then, the point is... The journey must be very difficult. But we just talked for a while. Maybe because I can feel it. And I met you earlier,

that your strength reminds me that we can't stop giving up. And maybe you are the source of my strength. Is that right, ma'am? Yes, that's what you always say to me. Your source of strength is Shiva.

Why are you crying?

I don't want to cry.

I just cried because of her.

Can I hug her? Thank you. I'm reminded of my strength. Thank you for being strong until now. Thank you for raising such a beautiful child. Thank you for giving me a good example.

Amen. Thank you, ma'am. Why are you crying?

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to make you cry. I just don't know. I... I don't have... I mean, I'm not given the privilege to give birth to a child in this life.

But, like, when I see you and Manda, I can't express it, but it's like there's love, but not all of it. You know what I mean? We don't talk every day, but we like to have certain moments, so we like to video call, guys. It's like we've known each other for a long time, right?

Yeah, why is that? So he's really like, uh, please help me, this and that. But that, the moment we talk closely every day, it's not like that.

Is it true?

Yes. Because when I greeted my mom, I don't know, maybe I just felt it.

Then you tell me,

the real thing is,

this is about my mom.

It's like a journey. This is about my mom. I think we have to meet. We have to meet. We have to meet. It's amazing. And you have, what do you call it,

you have succeeded until today. You have a beautiful daughter like this, talented, 26 years old, successful, experienced a lot in life until today, successful. I'm sure your mom is very proud of you.

God willing.

One day, you will be like this, right?

Your dream is to be like your mom, right? Yes. Maybe, well, how strong was your mother? Yes, I mean her strength.

Because, well, I can't imagine what I had to go through. What you had to go through. That's why it's amazing. You said earlier, your responsibility was to moving to L. How is that?

I think one of the reasons why I'm sure he's the one for me is because I see how L can also appreciate and love my mom. Which means a lot to me, of course, as someone who is very close to her. That's an important point. Because, I mean, it can be seen, right? People who are just formal, Oh, she's just my partner's mom.

With someone who really... You can feel it, right? Yes, I can feel it she's the mother of my partner. I can feel it. Yes, I can feel it as her child. She really cares, she really loves my mom. I can see that from Elle. And she really loves Elle like she's her own child.

Even though, it's a short time. A year and a half is really short to decide on this big thing. So I feel like, God willing, it's been a long time. Yes, we are grateful, we do our best, but it's been a long time. I want to talk to my mom a lot. I think I have to exchange phone numbers with my mom.

Do you have any plans yet? Do you want to live far from your mom? Or do you want to meet her not in a different city? or moving to another city yes by chance, me and El we already have a place to live together we already agreed

we are living in our parent's house so we have our own place to live and my mom also she is also excited to help

renovate her house. Because her house was still empty and dusty. So I told her to clean it up. I told her to clean it up. So I was the one who was watching her. I was like, this is not done yet.

So I was like, this is not it yet. So, I was like, I knew it. And the place to stay was not too far from home. Not too far. Maybe 30 minutes from home, which is really okay. I want to bring you to a very viral photo at that time. That's when Elle released the ring.

Where was that? Lothar Brunnen, Switzerland.

In Switzerland. What was on your mind?

When you were like, wait, hahaha. I just felt like, we actually had a pre-wed photo, right? So we had a pre-wed photo, because he had proposed to my parents before, but not to William and Remy.

I was like, I didn't think about where he would propose to me, it's up to him, I don't know if he wants to propose to me or not. We were taking a pre-wed photo in Switzerland, and I forgot the exact spot.

The first spot, but there were a few spots, and it was really cold. I was wearing a shirt that wasn't for winter.

Yeah, yeah.

It was a dress. So I was like... Then the photographer suddenly said, Shifa, we still have one more spot here. I was like, I've noticed it. Why is there another spot here?

Yeah, yeah. So when I... What did I do? He was like, just look over there, and then you'll see El. I was like, okay, I'll just ignore him. Because we make videos like that.

So when I turned around, I was like, I was in between coldness and shock. I saw his face, it was already speechless. His face was like, he will not marry me, but he was already drooling. So I was like, is this real? I'm getting proposed?

And she's already crying. So I was like, hmmm. What's her star? I've been wanting to ask about stars. She's Gemini, by the way. Oh, she's Gemini. Cancer and Gemini. What's your star, ma'am?

Aries. Oh, you're Aries. So cute.

Okay, this is during the process of the engagement. There's a sentence from Elle that says, Shifa is a precious treasure.

Is that true?

Yes, she said that. Shifa is a precious treasure that I have to take care of. Yes, she said that. who should protect your safety. He said that. I didn't know. I didn't have any expectations when he proposed. Because,

when you propose, you have to make a speech. I was so nervous. I was like, what are you going to do? I thought he was just going to be calm. There was no progress in making a speech.

I was like,

just relax. Be careful, don't be so harsh on AI. You have to be like, yes, I'm being harsh on AI. And then, he was helped by a guy named Ombud, he helped with the discussion. So that's how it happened.

Is he a romantic guy? He's very romantic. He's he romantic? He's very romantic. He's also very soft-hearted. So, just like me, we easily cry. So, you're both like that?

Yes. It's funny, you two are like... I think you're meant to be. Amen, ya Allah.

You're so cute.

So, you two are like... Oh, both of you are sensitive? Maybe because our backgrounds are almost the same. We were both from a broken family. Then we met and felt like... I don't need to say much, she understood. She understood.

I didn't need to explain what I was feeling, she understood. I felt like when I was with her, I could get through all the problems. Because I was the first girl, I felt like everything was a burden to me and I felt lonely. I mean, when there was a problem, there were a lot of things I couldn't tell people, even to my own mother. Now I feel like, oh, I don't feel alone anymore. If there's a problem, I can share it. The emotional box is not kept anymore.

Oh, you're one of those who like to keep things. Yes. I mean, I'm really close to my mom. But as we grow older, there are things that I can't put it down anymore. Because sometimes, emotionally, a mother will feel worried. I know that it will make the mother more worried.

Yes, I'm afraid. I don't want my child to be in trouble. But maybe the output can be exaggerated. The point is, you don't want to make it difficult for your mother. I don't want to make it difficult for my mother. So, there are many things that I keep to myself. I can be an advantage. The point is you don't want to give your mom a hard time. I don't want to give my mom a hard time.

So there are a lot of things that I keep to myself. And now you have a friend. Do you feel close to your mom? I feel close to her. She's also a person who is very... She's very calm.

She's like a friend. She's very rock and roll. She's calm, not complicated at all. And supportive. It's the first time I met her. She's like a love triangle

It's like a... It's like a rock and roll

It's like a rock and roll

It's funny So, it's like We have a warm relationship We all do I'm so excited for you And, since she's close to me

There was an interesting event When you were at the AL event. Shifa wanted to give you a blue sapphire brooch, but you refused. What was that? Oh, so my mom used the blue sapphire brooch when she was at the AL event. and my brother-in-law and then he wanted to give me because he used quite a lot if I gave him more, it would be too much and then

I didn't want to I was scared I didn't know I never saw how he was if I were him, I wouldn't I wouldn't go

it's like... Home. You have your own parents. So, I wouldn't do it. Me too. I would do the same thing with her.

I'm sorry. I don't want to leave her at home. That's my line. Really? I swear.

I see.

Tickle, tickle.

That's a TV show. I didn't see the event, so I didn't know.

Oh, really?

Did you DM Eli? Yes, I did. Do you remember what you said? I was exercising and he replied. He said, oh, this is this. I replied, yes. I said, yes, it's here.

Suddenly, I thought, oh, he's asking. Suddenly, I was replied again. He replied again. It continued.

I sent him a DM. It took a long time ago. Because my Instagram account was also held by my mom. Because if I was not handling my work, my mom would help me with the posting. That's why my mom was so annoyed. She said, you haven't replied to your DM yet.

That's so funny. So, you read it, right? Yes, I read it. I got the notification. And then? She just found out.

When I told her about it, she was like, I've been reading it too. So, she's like, I'm not going to reply. How long did it take to get your number?

A week. That's a long time. Yes, it's quite long. But the process from there to there was quite... It was quite fast. Oh, it was quite fast.

He's a bit of a snob.

Yes, he's quite quick.

I'm also like... That's why I feel like... We're already in this phase. I think we just started yesterday. I also feel like... Everything happened so fast.

And so smooth, thank God. And we immediately got approval from everyone. From my family, my mother's family, thank God. And we got approval from everyone. From my family, my mother's family, our friends. Have you two made a plan? After this, are we going to have a project together? Or a secret project?

We already have a plan. What are we going to do after this? But if it's a plan, we'll just let it flow. Let it flow. Because in marriage, there are always surprises. So I don't want to plan too much. This is a personal life with emotions inside.

If we suddenly want to do a project, then it's fine. Just let it flow. We don't have to be free to do anything. I'm the opposite.

Still young.

Right.

Between you two, who's the most jealous? To be honest, we're not in the jealous phase yet.

Really?

Oh, yeah. That means it's good.

I mean, it's like, that's it.

Maybe because... Maybe you just trust each other. Yeah, maybe. Because I've been close to him since the beginning. I mean, when I knew that we were close, I told him. I'm just like... I'm a very calm person.

And I trust him a lot. But if you leave me alone, I can be the most complicated person in the world. That's why I said, whatever it is, don't leave me alone. Because I know. Even if I don't throw it away, because I know. Even if I don't want to know, I just know it. I don't know why, I just know.

So, he protects it from me, when it comes back. That's why I'm like, just relax.

See, guys, no rush.

Have you ever been like that? And if you're angry, have you done it for a year? Who usually apologizes first? Who usually apologizes first? It depends. But mostly, it's him.

Not apologizing, but more like... well, discussing. Because I'm more like... I'm more like... I'm like this, when I'm emotional, I'm angry... I don't want to be the one to talk to first. Oh, you need time? Yes, I need time.

I can't be emotional. I can't be like... I don't like you, I can't say anything. I'm like... It's a waste of time. I can't say anything. I'm like... It's the same. It's like a waste. Even if we talk, I'll cry.

So, I need time. When I'm ready, I usually say, I don't like this, this, this, this. Usually like that. He's usually more like, Yes, I understand.

Forgive me. How old is he? He's 26 years old. I mean, he's 27 years old, and I'm 26. Oh, a year. I want to meet him too.

When? I don't know. We'll read it later. It's okay, just meet him. Usually, when I see someone, there's a color. If there's a couple, I can see it. So the two colors are like syncing.

Some are syncing, some are not too mixed, some are not at all.

I'm curious. I'm curious. We'll chat later. Some are not so mixed, some are not at all.

I'm curious. I'm curious.

Let's chat later.

Sure.

I want to know the color. I can see your color. What color? Mixed. There's pink, green, and gold. It's nice.

For you, it's more like gold with white. I think gold is better. If you go to gold, you will see the white. If you go to gold, you will see the white. If you go to gold, you will see the white.

If one day you meet her, If one day you meet her,

you will be curious about her color.

you will be curious about her color.

I'm curious too. I'm curious too. I'm curious too. I'm also curious. Can we be synchronous? Who is the most curious about wedding preparation? Except for you two. Oh, except for me?

The most curious... Our manager. Our manager is the most curious. Because we don't involve the parents too much. So the parents are more like taking on the family's tasks. For example, for the mother's family,

the mother will help deliver the food to the family, help deliver it to the dad, the mother will also help deliver it to my family. Or the mother usually likes to... Well, back to the topic, because I'm really close to my mother, or my family or my mom usually like to because I'm really close to my mom

so I'm more involved with her because I need her opinion like what do you think about this? but at the end of the day mostly we're just two like the one who handle everything

every little detail, we're just two I can't wait

I hope I get invited.

You'll get invited. You'll get invited. So, back then, El came to your family? I mean, when you first proposed to her. Yes. Did you tell her first or did she come to you?

She came. So, the moment we decided that we were going to get married, What if he suddenly comes? He's already here. So, the moment we decided that we wanted to get married, we started to look for a vendor. But he didn't allow me to do it.

I was like, why did you start it? It can't be like that. I felt that Rido and his parents are very important to start something. So I told him to stop and let my parents decide if we wanted to get married.

He was the one who decided the date. I told him that I wanted to go to his house tomorrow and ask for his parents' permission. But I didn't tell his parents. Were they surprised? Do you remember when they first talked to you? I remember it.

My dad is usually a man. He cried too. So, at that time, it was quite... touching. And El said it was one of the most

nerve-wracking moments because it was the first time she proposed to me. Yeah, yeah. She said, I was so nervous. How was it when you suddenly had to open up?

Did you get nervous? Yeah, I was nervous. I think she was confident because she saw the picture.

She was like, Oh my God, he's already open to me.

But you guys are close, so maybe the relationship is not too close. And I'm really the type of person who, from the beginning, if I really know this guy is close to me, I immediately ask my mom, what do you think? If my mom's response is not sure, I immediately say, okay, bye. Oh, that's how it is?

That's how it is. Even though I'm not forcing you to say no, I don't want to be in a relationship with this person. But maybe it's because I'm learning, because I've been in a relationship where I'm like, well, you're not too, what is it, not too receptive. She talks to me a lot. I don't think she likes it when I say things like, this, this, this.

But I'm like, yeah, just let it be. I'm happy. But it turns out, it's true. Usually, she has a feeling that can't be explained.

There's a hunch. Maybe Ibu doesn't know either. If you ask, why is it that Ibu doesn't know? Yes, she likes it. There's something off. Ibu can't explain it.

There's just this. Okay, this is Siva. You're going to be a wife soon.

Wow. Is there anything you want to say to your future husband? You're going to be a wife. Is there anything you want to say to your future husband?

My future husband... Be ready to be with me for the rest of your life. Be strong, be mental. I hope this marriage can bring us eternal happiness. And I hope we can go to heaven together. And I hope we can become each other's home and protect each other.

Yay!

Okay, before I play the game, is this a challenge, guys?

Oh, it turns out someone put something here.

Okay, we're going to play a game. He has to answer quickly, right? Oh, he has to answer quickly. She has to answer quickly.

Okay.

Physical touch or act of service? Physical touch. Okay.

Past or future? Future. Film or cinema?

Film.

Be a housewife or still a career woman? I can't do both.

Sure, whatever.

Just both.

Panty or bra?

Panty. Both of them? Sure, whatever. Kalung or Gelang? Kalung.

I did something that was the most embarrassing, which was when... I don't know, I'm often... ...falling.

Falling?

I often fell down. I often fell down to my own pelvis. Oh, to your thighs too? Yes. We're the same, right?

I often fell down.

Me too. If I go into the room, I often get stuck at the door. Yeah, I'm also the same. How is that possible? Yeah, I get stuck often.

Even though it's big.

Yeah, that's why.

Yeah, I'm the same. I feel beautiful when I... When I... cry?

Of course, Fahad.

No, I mean when I cry, I usually have... a blush on.

Oh, right.

Do you cry or exercise?

Oh, yes, I do.

Right?

But she's pretty.

How?

God willing. Her face is pretty too.

Oh, my.

Okay. There's another funny question. Okay, there's another question. If I meet Jin, I will be given three requests. I will ask, if I meet Aladdin's lamp,

there are three requests. Jin, meet Jin.

That's right, Jin. There are three requests. What do you want?

I want the question to be a thousand. Because there are many. You can, you can't answer all of my questions What is this? I'm pretty but El doesn't know about me No, she already knows my flaws She already knows everything You have to show it first

Before you's like... When she's a wife, she'll be surprised. She'll be surprised.

Okay.

I was really mad at Elle when...

Elle...

This is the latest, right? She and I are both forgetful. We're both Dory. So, sometimes... My trick is... If I remember, I write it down or I do it right away

or I say it. He likes to procrastinate, he likes to procrastinate. So it makes me, as a fellow Dori, angry. Like, you know the tips and tricks, right?

So you just do it right away. What's in your head, you just do it. I'm sure you will forget it like me

So cute

One more thing, Siva Do you prefer to order a set or a complicated dish? Set please Okay, I have a message for you guys So for you guys who like to order a set I have a Dilan Maca Crunchy Caramel. I personally made this for my friend who likes coffee.

It's a 5-in-1.

It looks like this.

So, if you're hungry and want to eat something sweet, you can just open it. No need to be complicated. Dilan Maca Crunchy Caramel has a really good taste sensation. It's a very delicious and unique snack It's a very delicious and unique snack It's a very delicious and unique snack It's a very delicious and unique snack It's a very delicious and unique snack It's a very delicious and unique snack

It's a very delicious and unique snack It's a very delicious and unique snack You can just open it and put it in your pocket. Dilan Macak Crunchy Caramel, it's so good that makes you miss it. And I want to remind you guys about Dilan. Dilan's movie will be released on the Indonesian cinema on April 30, 2026, at the entire Indonesia Bioscope. I want to ask one last question. Shiva, are you scared?

There should be a card. Oh, yes.

Can I call my mom here?

Yay, I can! Okay, my here's your mom. Thank you. Sorry, I didn't plan this. It's okay. But before we close,

I want to tell you how I feel about you. Your son is getting married. Maybe you have a special message for him. If you say it, I usually answer right away.

We talked a lot yesterday. I'm sure there's no message, but I want to say thank you for being a good boy. Thank you for being a strength for me.

You're a great woman for you. I want to be a great daughter for you.

Mom. That's it. I'm afraid I'll spill the water.

It's okay.

It's okay.

Thank God. I want to say thank you to you again.

I'm so grateful.

I'm reminded of that, the power. I don't know, right? Yes. It's weird. We feel like we're close. But when we were talking, I met my mom, and then Civa told me about herself. I kept thinking about you.

Thank you. I'm going to cry again. I've been crying since yesterday. I've been crying. And,

Alhamdulillah, I'm almost there. You're happy. You're happy. What's your message to your daughter? My message is, I'm sure, to my children,

as you said to your sister, I am sincere and I hope God will bless Siva with a good hand. Please give a round of applause for your mother and Siva Haju. Thank you for coming to Bicara Sarawijaya. Thank you for inviting me. I learned a lot today.

Thank you so much. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. This is amazing. Don't be shy.

We will have a coffee session later. And we will talk because I want to see the colors

Okay

Okay, I mean She's like, what's going on? It's okay

I'm happy to be with Sarah

Oh really?

Okay, thank you for watching Bicara Dari Hati Sarah Widjayanto

See you in the next episode

Bye Bye Thank you