VINCENT: MAAF AKU EMOSIAN, AKU YANG BOD*H‼️ 7 PASAL UNTUK VINCENT⁉️ HARTA SEMUA UNTUK JEDAR‼️

4th reason, if I'm angry, you have to be patient if I'm quiet, you have to know if I'm wrong, you have to apologize first

the problem is that it benefits all of you, right?

yes

a bit NPD, huh? if you're there, you're a bit narcissistic

cheating

cheating?

bye

bye

divorce

right?

asshole?

fall in love

this stupid property?

fall in love

he didn't get it No, he's the one who made it

If you're a passenger, just sit still So I can take a nap Maybe my chest is too high

He's angry Because from the beginning We podcast with these two people before they got married.

Oh, that was a long time ago.

No, not yet.

It was just recently. Oh, it was recently.

They got married recently.

They got married? Yes, they got married. Oh, that was in the beginning, before they got a baby?

That was 4 years ago.

4 years ago 4 years ago, you didn't get a baby yet Not yet How was it? Was it fun? Fun. If you meet the right person, it's fun Fun? But why did you make 12 rules on Instagram? What is that?

Oh, just kidding

Is that a real story or not?

Yeah, you didn't do it?

The story in Bukarang number 8 is happening What is the story? I didn't read it Yeah, come on. Yeah, I saw the Burarang number Lapan me Berlaku. I'm a see passing a policy. See Kalau aku capek yaudah aku resume. Jadi bantal. Oh

It's over young young it Once you're a boss. I say it to my happy cool. Oh, no, I'm a pasal young bikin ya pasal. Yeah, he do PNK Mutus car on the Jimmy aku, okay? You are mine now Okay And you This one

Yeah, I don't remember

You make a story and you don't remember, how do you deal with it? Story one Since I made a promise, your life is officially mine Not half, not sometimes Story one

Story two Loving me is not a choice It's a duty of a housewife If there is an absence, I'll take the blame.

There's a blame?

Yes, for example, what do I want? That's it, it has to be accepted. Then? If there's a beautiful woman passing by, there's a lot, right?

It's normal if you see it, it's okay.

Suddenly my eyes are twitching to the left.

It's okay, you can look But remember, you're married to a woman who's already above average So you have to focus

Okay, can I look? I'm drinking

It's okay

In 4, if I'm angry, you have to be patient If I'm quiet, you have to know If I'm wrong, you apologize first. Okay, nice. Yeah, article 5, if you can, you can be as successful as the sky, but come home to me because I'm a house, not a address.

Nice, nice, nice, nice.

Then, article 6.

The article benefits all of you, right?

Yes.

No one has lost anything.

Yes, this is the benefit of the two sides, until the end. To the two sides. I'm beautiful, cute, strong, right? A bit NPD, huh? If you're there, you're a bit of a narcissist. 7th article, your life since the day we tied the knot is already simple. A diligent, loyal, consistent job,

and love me, well, repeat. Repeat, okay.

Closure, I'm not a phase, I'm not a stop, I'm the ultimate goal. Okay. So you're not just a phase, I'm not a break, I'm the ultimate goal. So you're not just a match, you're God's decision that you have to keep well.

And remember, if this life is a competition, you've won the competition, so you keep the prize well, that's me. Is that a design?

No, not a design. I made it, but I took a collab.

If he accepted it, it means he read it and he accepted it.

Okay, so he accepted it. So you accepted it, Sen? Yes. So you've never been bored in Pasal 6? No. You've never been bored?

So you've never been bored. Are you kidding me? I'm serious. I'm never bored, bro. I'm not bored. Because my wife is... She's funny.

Yeah, I'm serious.

Everyday, her character is always there. Like, she's always there at home. Whether she's alone or with her kids. If it's not her day, his children will come. Dad, dad, you know what, do you know what mom said? Mom said this, this, this.

Huh, really? Yes, but I already told you. What is this, dad, dad? You know, it's like there's just a crosscheck. Yesterday, the kid said this, this, this. Oh yeah, I don't consent. You know, like all these small things that make you happy.

So I never get bored.

Honestly, you never get bored with your wife at all?

Because no matter what, in my mindset, how do I tell you? She will be my forever friend. So, for example, I reflect like this. I'm still young, he's still young. To feel bored, it's normal. But I think again, if I'm old, who will be loyal to me, if I can't walk, who will accompany me, or everything, when we are still alive and old together, who?

It's still him, right? Not the kids. So I think I can't be selfish. Make the full of the full when we are young, so that later when we are old, we can enjoy it together.

That's how it is. What he said is true, right?

According to the production, right?

Yes, according to the production.

According to the production. Let's do this, out at night. Have you ever? day. I never go out. Alcohol, 4 years. Basta. I don't forget to wake up early tomorrow because of your kids. Just remember as a wife, don't forget to wake up early tomorrow because your kids have to go to school. That makes sense, you know. But when it comes to this, what am I doing here? You know what I mean?

I understand, but not all men understand. Yeah, you understand, right? Yes. But why can you do that?

Honestly, it can't be answered. Because it's automatically. Especially when, you all know, when I was in L, I tried and tried to be

the best father. That's one. That's the hardest challenge, the hardest challenge. Then the leaves appear. When the leaves appear, there are two acorns that I have to guide. There I thought, wow, I have two sons, two sons, both of them are men.

It's my job to teach them, you can be strong but don't be a vandalism, a person who hurts. You can be a well-dressed person, have, but you can't be rude. You know, you can be fierce, but you can't be rude. You know, like, there are a few things that are like, Wow, what do I do? I'm still young, I've never been a father. It's all in one. If I go out, I go out, I drink.

Yeah, I respect my friends. They may still be single or what,, I go out, I drink. Yeah, I respect my friends. They may still single or what, or get freedom that may be different from me. But I sit there, I have my glass of alcohol, you know, wine, whiskey, there with girls, what am I doing?

Have fun.

Have fun, how can I have fun? Do you understand what I mean? To have fun, they are busy with their own things because they are out, because they have a target. You get what I mean? Target to have fun.

My target of having fun is at home.

Okay. So it's like... Yeah, it's different.

Different, but if, for example, friends say, let's have breakfast, let's have lunch, let's have dinner with a glass of wine, why not? Go home at 10 or 11. It's healthier.

It's more delicious. So you've left your youthful life. Everything, full. Did you rock and roll in your youth?

Full.

Full?

Full.

Have you? Yes, if I'm older than him, I'm older. Especially now I we have kids. Now that we have kids. We don't think about what to eat tomorrow. No. 10 years from now, how old are the kids? They will go to college. They have to do this and that.

What should we do? Business or what? Or what for the kids? How will they do their college? So I have thought about the future. Even though it's still far away.

They are still in 6th grade. class 6 SD, Don is still pre-school, Hagia is still a baby but I've been thinking, at 18, if I don't settle now I'm peep, you know? that's what I think, so it's not the burden, but it's like disturbing your mind? not disturbing, but more like...

it makes me... nervous like, oh yeah, right like I'm talking to Vincent like, hey, don't waste your time while you're still young, move

try it, try it because when you're 18, you want to go to college

or something like that what if you're late? money is time, time is money You try, you try, you try, because later at the age of 18, you want to go to college, you want to be like this.

If it's late, what do you want? Money is time, time is money. So you're responsible, right?

I try, I try, I don't want to say I'm the best husband, I'm the best father. I still have a lot of mistakes. Just this morning I apologized to him, I kissed him, right? Because yesterday we had a little bit of a bang. But still, there are still bangs. There are. But what we always agree on, if we bang, miscommunication or debate or what, it's normal. But don't let us sleep, like this, don't let today's fuss make tomorrow until we don't talk. Okay. You know, today it happened,

let's check it out. I want to discuss this, it's really right this is for education for many couples out there okay, okay, okay this can learn from you guys, right? when you first got married are there any new things

that you found in your marriage? many, many try, what about you? always throw it to your husband never want to answer from the beginning you focus on it

i'm confused, what is it? you actually married him, besides the story

try to dig it first

have you ever there's something you don't like about him when you're married

there is

what is it?

there is

me first if i was Yeah, there is. What? I'll go first. For me, since long time ago, whatever I want, I have to try and how to do it, I have to take care of myself

until A to Z. Maybe in my wife's lifestyle, because she's in the entertainment world, she's an assistant assistant or manager or people who work with him. I'm typically the one who can be said if there is an appointment, the exact time, like today, which is 5.50, we have to leave.

We've been in a traffic jam today, we have to be on time but maybe because in his life he already has a manager or assistant so he often thinks, well, I have which is not wrong, that's not a problem I'm going home, it's complicated so funny maybe he thinks it's just chill

I'm more like being careful but did I come on time? maybe he just relax I'm more like careful

but did I come on time?

you were on time on time right?

sir! who told you to leave?

oh yeah, who told you to leave

I mean we're not here to argue not to make each other ugly this is just answering a question from my brother, Mr. Denny Sumangku. So, this is actually not a problem. It's not a problem. I've accepted it.

This is called... Why are you like a scared person, explaining it like that? Rather than I go home and apologize, I just apologized this morning, sir. I said, sorry, dear. What was that apology this morning, sir. I said, sorry, dear. What was that apology this morning? Yesterday I was stressed, right?

This is a consultation room, right? Suddenly, I was like, I was like,

Ah!

You're a driver, and you're talking to the left. Very small. What is very small? I was driving, and he said, This is the left, you know, wrong. You know, bumping steering wheel, it's very small, it's just like that, I'm too high, too much, yes,

you're noisy, yes, like that, you say that, not noisy, I said, it's troublesome, if you're a passenger, just sit still So I can't drive Maybe my voice is too high

He's angry

I didn't say that

Seriously?

No, I didn't say that

Clarify

This is so...

If I'm not countered

What will I look like? If I'm countered, what will I look like? I'm not countered, what will happen to me? If I'm countered, what will happen to me?

I'm the problem.

I said, I admit I'm too over.

The important thing is she already admitted it.

Yes, and I'm sensitive here. Okay, you can be angry, but adjust it to the situation. The problem is whether it's important for you to waste your anger energy. And the situation is the problem important? for you to throw away your anger energy and the situation

there is anyone there are children

and there are staff I feel if you are angry you can don't be like that I'll talk to you later we finish together, don't be in front of the child

don't be in front of the kids, don't do it in front of the staff. Because it doesn't feel good.

That's what I'm trying to explain.

But the incident doesn't have to be every day. But, what can I say? We can take the learning first. This is really good. Because there is one side where sometimes we are released. But if there are children, we have to limit it. I'm maybe I was getting up, stressed, sensitive it's normal, right?

and then, like that, I'm also grateful he also talked in a back and forth way if people don't talk back and forth and stay silent we can never reflect and can never correct ourselves he was back and forth, his words might be insulting but when I read it again with a cold head, I was like

oh yeah, it's true oh, he's a slip of the tongue, but when I read it again with a cold head, I was like, oh yeah, it's true, it's not.

Oh, he's W?

No, when we talk, after we talk, we've talked, we're done, we're going home, but maybe he wants to spill his heart. Not yet, not yet. I, he just went out first, he walked with, who, Hagia, you went out again, with Hagia, right? yeah oh yeah he's already at home, he's still outside he's typing

yeah yeah yeah

can we show the WA here? we can't? what's the point of the WA?

he's opening the WA

it's so funny

if we're like this, what's the point? for example, here I'm a little ...

What is it?

I ... The point is, if you want to read it here The point is like this, I do not want to argue I already said sorry, enough, I'm not going to go into this argument Sorry, this is already, here I have said Where is it?

Here it is Oh God, I have to check first I've already said it here. Where is it? Here. Oh God, I have to check it first. Ah, this. Sorry if I'm emotional. But for tomorrow, be quiet. If someone is driving, it's dangerous.

Take care of your emotions. I'll turn around. I'm not relaxed.

According to you. It's the same. I'm not relaxed. Yes, according to you. It's so funny.

Right?

Okay.

I'm talking the opposite, the same, just answer, yes, okay. But you're not, this is annoying. I'm not relaxed, like you just want to be noisy. Like that. So actually the fuss is trivial, right? It's not a big issue.

But from there, I mean, this person, It's not a big issue. But from there, I mean, not all couples think that it's too much. For them, it's too much. But for us, that's how we get along. That's how I learn from him. Because, we get married, it doesn't mean that we know our partner right away.

No, every day we have to learn our partner. Every day, every year changes. maybe the character can't be changed. But the attitude, it must go up and down, right? And we don't have to say, I don't like it if you do this and that, then he has to remember forever.

No.

We have to repeat remembering, repeat apologizing, repeat the same apology, repeat the evaluation of ourselves. And vice versa. So, I mean, in my opinion, for a harmonious marriage, we need communication and small arguments, because if we don't argue, I won't know what he feels, what he likes, what he doesn't like. So I always talk to him, we are busy, but don't forget, we take the good wisdom. From here I learn, I apologize because I am wrong.

And we also have to have a principle, you can't have a big ego and pride. You have to... You have to... As straight as possible. Yes, I mean you have to lower it for your partner, that you forgive each other,

you know, each other's self-introspection, and I always say, take the good wisdom. From here, I remember again, I might be too aggressive, because I'm the kind of person who likes to be aggressive, so I'm aggressive. Yes, we humans have pluses and minuses.

Not all are pluses. I mean, sometimes we argue, it's always good. The important thing is that we don't have a problem.

So you can't. So it's okay when you fight, but you know where the parameters are. Don't go out of the parameters, right? Don't go beyond the parameters. There are limits. Don't just understand. I want to ask you first.

You're the one who's talking. You're the one who's in public relations.

You're the one who's talking.

Because you rarely talk in the last podcast. Your limit. Your limit in communicating with Vincent If it's like this, I can't accept it anymore

Limit?

Yes, you don't have a limit

How?

There is an example For example You often remember cheating If you cheat, we just discussed it 2-3 days ago

Sorry, let him explain

You discuss

No, what do you mean?

Limit Yes, you don't accept me anymore If you go past this, it's done Oh, that limit can be a So, what are the conditions that you have to wait for? First, you can't have an abortion.

Oh, abortion.

What about an abortion?

Bye.

Bye.

Divorce?

What about the child? The child will be taken by the mother.

Okay, okay.

Okay, I'm the one who's watching. Okay. What kind of show is this? okay okay okay this is me who's watching okay

what is this lecture? clarifying deal? deal

second, cheating

cheating

bye, divorce

what about the money?

it's my wife's property

my wife's property? Fallen in love

He didn't get it? No, he's the one who made it

I don't want to

But if you're married, the property is still shared

No, no, no, I won't accept it

Seriously?

It's in the print up How is it in the print up?

All hers

How can a woman do that? Whatever I make after the marriage, it's still for her and her children.

Seriously, bro. You're like that?

It's in the woman.

Is that true? Or is it just an image?

We haven't reached the ending yet.

Okay, go on.

I hope it's a long-term agreement, Amir.

My oldest son, the oldest son, Elbarak, we know that legally he is not my responsibility. It's very simple because we all know.

I also added the article in the print-up that he will be responsible for me until he, like my son, is happy and happy it's the same people are cool too, yes we are as humans, we try to be the best I become my best self not only for Vincent but for myself this is my satisfaction if I can be the best as a mother as a wife means two parcels that's it, there's no KTRT oh KTRT bye, bye, bye, the point is KRT? Oh, KRT? Bye! Bye, yeah? You can,

this money is yours, this is your son's money,

you have it.

There's more.

But it's clear, bro. Yeah, if we're gambling.

Gambling? Bye!

No discussion?

What? Advice? Don't be like this. Yeah, bye. Only four? Only four. This one doesn't have compromise, no communication, no discussion.

No.

You've been talking about it since the beginning. He's the one who said it, because he's at that stage, I still remember, he said, I'm tired. Because of his age, what he's been through. If you're not serious, don't waste my time. He said that in Bali, I still remember. Then I said, if you're step, how do you see this? He said, I want a harmonious marriage.

Okay. So I asked, it's very simple, the do's and don'ts. What are you like? The four things he discussed were no-go. That was before I had my ring. Before the wedding. Yeah, fair enough.

But I think things like this are things that protect each other, right? So we know the boundaries. What about parenting?

We have three phases of education for children. Ah, this is it.

To make it cool, this is called

Triple Seven Magic Vincent Jeddar.

The seven, seven, seven.

So we divide it into three phases at the age of children. So the first seven years, just born until age seven, usually we teach love, understanding, beautiful life. sayang, pengertian, hidup yang indah-indah, terus fase kedua 7-14 itu biasanya kita kasih disiplin, konsekuensi, ada sebab-akibat, do and don't, terus fase ketiga di usia 15-21 and then the third phase at the age of 15 to 21, we usually try to make the child a friend, so that they are open. Cool, right? 777. 777. It's good, it's good, it can be calculated. So if you are still under 7, they make mistakes, you are not tough yet. Not yet. Not yet, but it's still there. But again, this is our way with our child's character.

Right?

Yes, each.

Each.

Can it be copied? Can't it be copied?

It can be copied, but maybe, back to the question, from the early seven years, you can't use violence. Of course not. But if the child's character is tough, maybe our tone should also raised to get in. Oh, more to this?

Yes, expression and others. So, I mean, like, there is no punishment yet? DL, consequences. We're not to the punishment, we're more like, oh, if you're this, no iPad, no game.

What does that mean?

It means there are consequences. So actually, the consequences will appear when you don't follow the rules. Who should be blamed? Yourself. So you have to accept the consequences so that you feel bad. Because Elle is already very smart and he is already at the stage where life is not about

you know, it's not a matter of life, it's a choice you want to go right, you want to go left, you want to go left right? but if you are told, especially me as a father

I often talk to El, El, dad doesn't mean to scold you, remind you, give you lessons because he wants to be a bad person or something. You just have to realize something, why did you give him such a lesson? He's already injected. Sorry for my words, I've already felt it.

I don't want you to be injected too. Do you understand? So I'm like, what he's saying, please take it into consideration. Don't let it happen to you. But he's a teenager, pre-teen, 12 years old, he's still curious. He's a mongol, but later if he's sensitive, don't be mad, accept the consequences.

Be a man. Phase 2.

That's phase 2.

So, remind him. Yes. So, it's a reminder. So, you don't pamper your child. There are people who pamper their children because they are afraid that their children won't get love. We give love differently.

We give love so that our children can stand on their own feet. We give love so that our children can stand on their own feet when they are ready to take a step to become adults. If we give them pamper, what will happen? Maybe they will be dependent or something in the future.

That's what we don't want. But again, the way is different.

What is the example of the discipline you give to the children? Pocket money example. His mother... We divide the tasks. Like this, more to his mother. Like, okay, El, if you want to eat, you can, but divide the tasks.

I mean, in the sense, you clean your bedroom, brush your teeth, tasks are made by his mother. Okay, you have to clean this, clean that,

household, etc. Help take care of the younger brother, help this mom, if mom asks you, you have to want it. Like that, like that.

Later there is pocket money 200 a week.

Oh, it's like work.

Yes.

Oh, cool. So, he has a feeling, what you want, you have to work for it. In this life, there is nothing free. Good, can be copied if you are smart, so there's a comeback, so teach them to try and they get the reward, but the most stubborn of the three children is Don, the most naughty, he's hard, actually he's not naughty, I think he's more curious, more like curious, then he's just happy,

he's more cheerful, so he's more ambitious, his energy are more... the energy is bigger the term is not naughty, maybe rebel rebel is more like wanting to know a lot of things not in negative connotation

but who ever got the most severe punishment?

what punishment?

ban or punishment or consequences it's hard, no maybe for Albert, it's hard if he can't

play games, gadget time.

So you guys never physically hit him? No, no, no. Never? If Don wants to take something hot, Don will be like, don't talk, just like that.

But not like this, or like this, no. Oh, never? You never? no no no you never?

no, not me

he never here in the house of Tangan we are Ying Yang

we are Ying Yang

we are Ying Yang the one that is firm is me, the one that is soft oh, pinch pinch

no

no no no

I'm just angry like this

Don, don't be like that

until I say

why are you angry?

how about you? how come? just like that? confused

how come she's the most angry to her child?

there was a time when i told you i was healing with Hagia i was with Hagia and with the others without El and Don

and then it's been 6 days with Hagia and finally Don and El knew and I picked them up at the airport I didn't even scream for 15 minutes

I was like, guys stop!

I was like, guys stop!

I was like, guys stop!

For me, it was really fast

For me, it was really fast

I was like, guys stop!

I couldn't do it if I wasn't mad

I was like, guys stop!

Let's say I've stolen your property so I never imagined you were angry like that.

I'm not too angry.

Then they're quiet.

They're quiet.

Well, that's quiet. That means it's fast, right? Not bad.

Because they never heard him. Why did you make a high note? Yes, never. Then suddenly make a high note. Usually his father. Yes, yes.

Well, when my kids are in my room, they were just chill, relaxed. They already knew where to put their bags, when to go home, what time to eat, what time to shower, can I watch TV? Yes, have you showered yet? Yes, have you brushed your teeth?

Yes, please watch. I'm very simple, you do what you have to do and you can get what you want. Cool, so as long as we don't meet, can get what you want. see uh-huh uh-huh uh-huh uh-huh uh-huh uh-huh

uh-huh uh-huh I'm tired of working. I can still go home. I can't go home. She called me in Jakarta. She said, why is the milk not coming out? I was like, wooh! My brain was in a mess. I had to remind my wife.

There was El, Don. In front of the kids, especially El, we had to look like we were okay. It was heavy. The heaviest year of my life. So you've been through that. we have to look okay, it's heavy. The heaviest year of my life.

So you've been through that.

But that's not where we as a couple want to reach the end of the ladder. But there hasn't been a time like, if it's like this, it's better to separate. There is no, right? Oh, no.

There is no, it's just but it's just a long time. How much money is lost in the end? I heard it didn't come back.

No, it's not.

9.8

Lost, right? People in prison, they say, right? 4 years, right? So the money won't come back, right? Already sincere. Already sincere, right?

Already back again, not yet? From other fortunes. Amen. Have you returned yet from other fortunes? Amen From the baby club I'm back Now the problem is this We want to talk about how you keep

pattern nutrition from your children's food Because now there are a lot people who don't know how to keep that I included yesterday experienced one thing I'm not sure how people can keep their relationship

I was shocked when I experienced something When I was on vacation to China, my son suddenly vomited It's normal to vomit But after a few minutes, he vomited again After a few minutes, he vomited again I panicked.

I said, what's wrong with this kid? But BL is a type of kid that when he's sick, doesn't look like sick. So, we were confused. Is he sick or not?

He vomited, he ran, then he vomited again, he ran. Have you ever been like that? Vomited bare? Not bare? not bare? no, not bare just vomit

I've been there

El Barak

El Barak, yes

Hagia?

Hagia, no

no

not yet

don't do it

not yet, yes never but have you ever had a bladder problem?

bladder problem also

no

never?

no

never at all? No Never experienced it? At first, yes Which one? The yellow one or the one that's hard when he's flu What is it? The poop The poop

Why the poop?

The poop...

The one that's colored, suddenly dark, then yellow

Oh, yes, if it's like that, yes

But like, if it's to the point of vomiting, then to the point of fever or fever, or anything like that.

So, what about the poop?

Can you tell us where it came from?

The doctor said, if the poop changes color, please take a picture and send it to me.

Okay.

When he pooped, as parents, we were worried. Like, oh, he's 39, 39. something, what's going to happen? And then he vomited, not vomiting? Then he got to, not to the pubic hair, but more to the pubis, right? Then he's darker than it should be.

He said it should be a bit like this color, how do you call it? Do you know if for example, from the child's pubis, we can detect there is a disturbance and there is a problem in the body, you know, right? Yes.

Where do you know it from?

It's obvious. If the poop is suddenly thin or suddenly hard, it's usually because someone ate it wrong. Or, for example, this is what makes the baby cranky. Maybe he's swollen or his bladder is swollen, so his pup looks like this.

Oh, you know that? Oh, so you're really old. Because I don't know that yet. That's why I want to invite the doctor.

Oh, sure.

Hello, Jessica Halid.

My son vomited in China. Then he vomited many times. If that happens, what is the problem usually? It must have been always smooth. Vomiting is a body protection mechanism. Our body is very smart. So how does he do it so that his body is healthy, healthy, there are no germs, viruses, bacteria, etc. that accidentally enter. Which is Bang Densu's son is now about 1 year and 6 months old. which is So accidentally, the cuman accidentally entered the body, so the body tries to get it out.

Wow, it's dangerous, there's a cuman. Wow, it's dangerous, we can't, we have to get it out.

That's why it vomits, vomiting is a mechanism for it to get it out.

Okay, now, if that happens to, for example, we can detect through the pups, how can we have parameters or can we know, is there a place where we can check like that? Number one, as parents we have to know first what the normal poop looks like, so it should be when the child starts to eat, the food starts to be dense, so around 10 months, 1 year old, the poop looks like a banana, like a sausage, so dense but mushy, how is it?

Like that, it's good to go out. Now, when it's more liquid than that, it's good to go out now, when it's more liquid than that or the frequency is more often it's called a diarrhea okay

so when it's a little porridge, a little liquid it's dense, but it's up to 6 times that means it's diarrhea

okay

on the one hand, Jessica said earlier, Mrs. Jedar said if it's more solid, wow, it's disgusting. True. So even with like, a pile of stones, like the enemy of Spider-Man, you know?

I know.

That's the sand man. Yes, that's right, that's the shape. Or even the one that looks like a goat.

Oh, the small one.

Yes, right.

Well, that's disgusting. we flashback, what did our child do or eat? So everything is a problem that comes in the mouth, right? And often it's not from food, maybe the frequency of food is not as much as he holds or eats because he doesn't understand and the exploration phase is like before, he's already at the age of wanting to hold this and that, wanting to know what this is, all kinds and one of the instincts to get to know the outside world is from the oral phase, one of them.

So of course, you can't just go in. The age of happiness is still in the phase where everything can still enter the mouth. 1 year 6 months, grow teeth, move, all kinds of things, what is the most important thing we need to take care of? Number one, nutrition.

Because it's like we're building a house, the foundation must be right first.

ACI, right?

Of course, ACI is continued, 6 months of exclusive ACI, continued for up to 2 years or more.

That's the standard. That's the standard, right, and international. WHO has suggested it. One. Then the MPAC. Okay. already suggested. One. Then the MPAC. Now we call it a balanced complete menu. So from

macronutrients, nutrients and so on, the base must be good. Then the others are like the nation. What? Sleeping time, simulation, etc. Then don't forget the atep. Immunization. Hold on, I want to ask about bedtime. Okay. Someone told me, the more children at that age sleep, the longer, the better. He say that when they sleep, their brains develop. Is it true or is it mythos?

The sentence is correct but not accurate. Because it was the more. No, because it depends on the age.

The longer?

The longer he sleeps? No. Because it's not just a matter of the time, but the quality and what time.

What was related to growth is what we discussed earlier. not only the time, but also the quality and at what time if it's related to growth, it's what we discussed earlier from 2-3 pm to 3 pm

what is 2-3 pm?

it's 11 pm 2-3 pm to 3 am those are the phases of growth hormones that are coming out which we don't know at what time it's up to him it can be 11 pm, it can be 12 pm today at 1 pm, tomorrow at it is it's up to him can be 11 o'clock, can be 12 o'clock, today is 1 o'clock, tomorrow is 3 o'clock, around it

and in the child's sleep phase, he experiences several phases of waking up, sleeping, dreaming, waking up, sleeping, dreaming even though he has to deep sleep so that the growth hormone comes out

so the quality of deep sleep is what makes the brain development increase what time do you sleep? 6 o'clock, 6 pm sleep sleepnya itu yang membuat perkembangan otaknya itu meningkat lagi ya kalau tidur jam berapa? jam 6, 6 sore ha? iya

biar kita punya waktu

oh lu udah biasain gitu?

oh itu caranya ya biar punya waktu ya bangunnya jam berapa?

jam 6.30, jam 7 pagi? 12 jam? bagus banget dong dan sleep through the night, tadi kita udah ngobrol dan sleep through the night, we've talked about it So at 2-3 AM, he really slept So he woke up in a daze, but only Mr. Jeddar can see him, sometimes he tap his head, and he fell asleep again

So it's so good So the kid learned, if he woke up in a dream cycle He must be able to shoot himself To enter the next dream So he didn't wake up if I enter a dream, I have to breastfeed I have to carry it, I have to, well, no need

so that habit was built from the beginning so if good sleep good sleep, good cycle wake up happy good mood, well-maintained eating is really good, so there is no problem eating

eat a meal

it doesn't affect the whole thing, the fall if the food is okay, the digestive tract is good, the nutritional intake is good, finally the growth is also good, so when the sleep hormone works, replacement of cells, regeneration, the body's muscles are repaired, the addition of cells, so the meat increases, the bones increase, the muscles increase, the brain increases, and so on, plus when we wake up, he's happy, eat okay, good nutrition intake,

because the salons are good, finally the growth is good, that's why he is brave to be challenged, next month it has to be that much, and the growth range is far, so maybe it looks thick, but it's also high, so when plotted in the nutrition status, it's still good nutrition, no problem.

There was a question from netizens, is there a relationship between the BAB pattern of the child's growth?

Very. That's why. Because the nutrition intake is all about the diet. We want to give the best food, but if the diet is not okay, there is a problem with the diet. Like Jessica said earlier,

the child is cranky, it turns out to be fat, then it becomes diarrhea, then the intestines will must be damaged. In the end, the nutritional intake does not go well. Well, if it's only viral, which is only less than 14 days, less than 2 weeks, it's done. Well, if suddenly there is another problem, it turns out to be chronic, more than 2 weeks, more than a month.

Well, the nutritional intake is not okay. In the end, the body weight does not see you know, I'm so buggy. I'm going to burn that I'm to die. I'm a big I suppose I'm just gonna go. I'm gonna run can I put type. I'm so much I'm too old. I'm gonna grow.

I really got a run set.

Oh, yeah, yeah. I'm gonna sell him. I'm selling them. Okay. Diarrhea is one of the causes of death in Indonesia, number one and number two for children in Bali. Diarrhea and pneumonia can be caused by dehydration because of the profuse diarrhea caused by the virus. What are the signs of aphasia that can be a warning to children's health?

Number one, normal aphasia. I think I prepared a picture earlier. Can I? So we use Bristol chart. This is the most basic chart. A little softened a little, can I?

This is like a flower island, right?

Small, right? Because the shape is not complete.

If that's like when we shoot.

What if this is like this? In the area, that's it. If this is in the area the good one is 3 and 4 sorry, 3, 4, 5, 6, it's in the area this is like a goat

like a goat

no, the goat is one

that's the enemy of spiderman the sandman the one that looks like a pile of rocks, so hard which one is good? 3 and 4

which one do you have?

1, 2, 3, 4 always I had it at 7 I had it all I have it all

but now I don't go to the doctor anymore

because I have

a boob if now I'm not going to the doctor anymore because I already have a ... a dukun, she already has a dukun no no

I already have a poop tracker, but I want to ask the doctor what is a poop tracker? so if I'm confused with Hagia sometimes most of the fruit can be a little thin but if it lacks fruit, it can be a little hard then like, oh why don't you poop then when I poop, but if it lacks fruit, it can be a bit hard, then it's like, oh, why don't you poop?

then when I poop, I immediately take a picture, usually I immediately send it to the poop tracker so you take a picture of the feces, you put it in the poop tracker yes, so just send the poop photo, then we can track it, there will be results what is poop tracker? website or application?

website

so the website, the What is the website name?

Enter from bbclub.co.id

bbclub.co.id Then we go there

Yes, there is a poop tracker

There is a choice of poop tracker

Just follow the guide later

Okay

Enter the photo Usually, the age of the child, etc.

The data

Yes, the data Enter the poop photo

Later you can find out like this example Hello, Mr. Hagia, the digestion of Hagia today is good because so for example the doctor will also tell you

Hagia according to us today too much eat fruit, so the poop is a bit thin or what, try to reduce the fruit,, so the poop is a bit thin.

Try to reduce the fruit. Oh, so the point is, it can detect it.

Here, zoom in.

Then, it will be informed.

Oh, this is also good for moms and dads at home if you want to try. You go to the website, bbclub.co.id, then you... Look for poop tracker. AI, there is an AI text, AI poop tracker, then you can check your poop,

not your friend's child, so you can know, from there we can know the shape and color, if the shape and color, can we detect if our child is healthy or not? Yes, it can. Because the color should be brown, golden brown, that's normal. But when it's pale, we have to think if there is a problem in the heart. Or for example, the color is green, it's liquid, it smells. The problem is not a virus, but more like a bacteria or amoeba, we can know.

Or, wow, blood, hard but blood, well, maybe a scar on the anus due to a spasm, or in the urethra, it can be hard and blood can be true, or blood vessels, so liquid, there are blood vessels, there is blood, or greenish, or that can be true or blood vessels so liquid there are blood vessels there are blood or greenish or it can be really true so it can be helped using the application because we can also be a doctor like this, my son seems to be a match, there is a photo, so we are not a doctor, so you have to see the photo too, one of them is very helpful, it% of the pups' anesthesia is like water, do you spray it? does it smell sour? okay, maybe because of this

must be kissed too

I kiss

we think it's a medic

mother too

women too there is a last question so if the pup is good, it means the growth can be said to be good It's also for the mother. Women are like that. There's a last question. So, Doc, if it's good poop, it means the growth can be said to be good, right? Yes, because the hope is that the nutrition absorption is good,

so the feces mass is formed very well. Because it was like that. Again, if it's liquid, it must be diarrhea. Diarrhea must have a stomach wound. The need for the intestine, the filly is not working optimally, the nutrition cannot be absorbed. Okay. It's useless. Then, the fetus. The fetus, the feces is held in the big intestine.

Making the baby fat, gassy. Because the intestine can't move. I mean, the gas is held because there is pus under it. Making the gassy, the baby's stomach is bloated, so the food becomes messy. Finally, the appetite also decreases, the food becomes bad, the nutrition also becomes bad, it just keeps spinning so by seeing the pup earlier, our child is good, we can say, okay, the confirmation is the increase in body weight, body height, head circumference, it's safe, this is safe, it's done

supposed to be, our job as parents is to stimulate, invite to talk, play, etc.

yes, that's important

right, if the pup is already pregnant, we have to look for it first, why, the milk on. Yes, that's important. That's right, if the baby is already pregnant, you have to find out why.

The baby's intestines are not good. Okay, my last question. What is it that Indonesians rarely know about how to feed or

control the growth of their children?

The easiest and most common mistake until now is the beginning of MPAC, which is giving single MPAC. Afraid of allergies, follow the American MPAC, Japanese MPAC, single menu, so only carbohydrates,

bananas, papaya. Whereas since the fetus is in the womb, we are pregnant women, we inject iron to the fetus. If the mother is healthy, it is only enough until the age of 4 months.

5 to 6, it means she is fasting, quotation marks. After 6 months of eating, we don't give her what she needs, but only carbs, sugar. Yes, no, that's why now the complete balanced menu is from the beginning. From the NPS? Yes, from 6 months, the complete food, carbohydrates, animal proteins are prioritized, protein is just for introduction, fat is also very important.

Fat is important for the brain because cholesterol in the baby, in us, it's not allowed, it's dangerous, too much, in the baby, it's actually brain development, it needs cholesterol, yes, correct. Okay, now do you have any questions for the doctor as a cover? It's safe, it's already clear. Okay, doctor, thank you very much for the information. I hope this information can be shared with the community. The doctor's heart feels the emotion when he speaks. Be patient.

Thank you. To all Indonesian children, don't forget to visit the website www.bebeclub.co.id and access AI Poop Tracker for your child's digestion knowledge. Parents no longer need to worry about freeing and supporting their children.

Exploration of the origin of digestion is always well maintained from the inside. Exploration of the origin of digestion is always well maintained from the inside.

One of the ways is by monitoring your child's poop routinely.