VIRAL!! ISTRI SAH KIRIM KARANGAN BUNGA KE PELAKOR SAAT WISUDA?!

I told Wisuda to be saddened by the death of Sarawanda Nainggolan, who was willing to sleep with another man while his wife was taking care of her child. You don't need to be insulted if you've been insulted. I reminded him, I mediated, please leave my husband. If not, the event of the Doctor's Vow and Wisuda will be destroyed.

He cried and yelled, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry.

He was wearing a tantrum, he wanted to stand there. He asked me to protect him at night, he asked me to fight at night.

With your husband?

Yes. So I was the crazy one. If my husband slept with a woman, how could I calm down? Who could calm me down? Honestly, I want to run. I want to run.

I want to go somewhere. But I can't leave Elgar.

I want to run. I want to run. I want to die.

Horas, Sucy, Frebrica, Silaban. You're from Batak, right?

Yes.

You live in Medan?

I live in Medan.

You live in Medan. What about your husband, Marga?

My husband is from Aceh. He's originally from Aceh.

Oh, not from Batak?

No, not at all.

Oh, he's been cheated on. How long have you been married?

One year and five months.

Oh, just now?

Just now.

You just had a child?

Just now.

How old is she?

She's five months now. When her father left, she was three months old.

Okay.

Let me explain this first. Yesterday, your video went viral. Your husband was cheated. He was suspected of cheating. Or was he already? He was already cheated.

With a...

Doctor.

Who you sent...

A flower pot.

What did you write on the flower pot?

The first flower pot was on the day of the Doctor's Oath. The viral one was on the day of the Doctor's Oath. The viral one was on Wednesday. The first one I sent on the Doctor's Oath, I said, I was in 9th grade, 4th grade, 2nd grade, and 18th grade. I went to school just to steal someone's husband.

That was the Doctor's Oath?

Yes. And the second one, I said, I hope you always have a blessed life. And the second flower pot, it was in Wisuda. It turned out he didn't come to Wisuda.

Oh, he didn't come?

He didn't come. What did you write in Wisuda?

In Wisuda, I said, I am saddened by the death of Sarah Wanda Nainggolan. I don't want to be insulted if I have been insulted. I'm willing to sleep with other people's a doctor there, but we don't have to bring our profession.

Because it can happen to anyone.

But no, Doc. Maybe if I wasn't a doctor, I wouldn't be so disappointed. Because I've reminded her, I've mediated, I have come to her. Because I know she is a doctor, she has a future, she is a woman. And I am also a matchmaker with her. So I came to her.

I thought she was a victim. So, what is called a doctor's human feeling is definitely higher, right? It should be, right? And that's already promise, right?

And it should be more educated, right?

Yes. But it turns out it's not.

Okay, I accept. Yes, it's called human nature. Okay, I'm ready to hear from the beginning. But before we start, how is your relationship with your husband now?

I don't know. It's broken, of course.

Communication?

On the first day of the viral, I blocked him. Because he asked us to be at peace. I went back to him. We took care of our children together. But it's not as easy as that, Doc. He forced me to do it that night.

Where is your husband? In Malaysia. Working? Yes, he has a business there. I'm and close friends who know. Before we continue, what do you want? I just want it to be over. I'm tired. Actually, before, I didn't want to. Before, I wanted to survive for my child. But after I read her words and her behavior, and I helped her words and her lies, and I asked her to report it to Mama El,

I thought she was a man. I wanted to marry her because I thought she was a man who wanted to protect me. But I was worried about her. Why would she ask that woman to do it? I'm not saying I'm not afraid of the law. I'm not saying I'm not afraid of the law. I'm ready to face any consequences.

But why does my husband have to say that?

What does your husband say?

Please report Mama El. My daughter's name is Elgar. Please report Mama El.

Oh, he wants to report her?

Yes, he asked that woman to report me.

Oh, he asked that woman to report you?

Yes.

How did you know?

He chatted with her. He chatted with her and told her family. Her family told me. That's when I decided to say, Okay, enough. We can't do this anymore.

He should have said yes. I couldn't forgive him. I couldn't forgive him that fast. But he said yes. So it's okay. No one can protect me and my son at this time.

You've been married for a year and a half.

How old is your son?

Five months.

Let's talk about your personal life first.

Boy or girl?

Boy.

What's his name?

Elgar.

Elgar.

What's Elgar?

Muhammad Caliph Elgar.

What a beautiful name.

Where were you born?

In Medan.

Yes, which hospital? I was born in Medan, because I wanted to be normal. You're normal? Normal. Wow, that's amazing. How much did you weigh?

My child, when I was born, 3.7 kg.

Really?

Really.

Okay.

I love you, Edgar. You're 5 months old.

Yes.

I thought you were Sucy.

Yes.

Sucy, we'll talk while we share with each other. Yes. I don't want to affect your mood. Whatever happens in your life, you have a choice. But in 5 months, you're still in the ICU. You still have the Baby Blue Syndrome.

You're still depressed. You're sad. I understand that something big is happening in your life. That's why I want us to start from the beginning. How did you first meet your husband?

I met him when I was working in Malaysia. I was a personal assistant at a car showroom. I was working and a friend introduced me to my husband. We just met casually.

What did your husband do?

He's a businessman.

A businessman. You met him there? Yes. You fell in love? Who fell in love first? You or him?

Him.

He's your husband?

Yes.

How long were you together?

One year.

One year. And then he asked you to marry him.

Yes.

You got married.

We got married.

But why so far away? Why not in Malaysia?

We never got divorced after we got married. We were always together. Always together. But yesterday, there was a problem. He had to leave. He went there.

There was something he wanted to leave. He went there. Someone wanted to solve it. So he suddenly left. Meanwhile, Elgar didn't have a passport.

Oh, okay.

But you've been together all this time? In Medan? You've been together all this time?

All this time.

What do you like about him? Especially before you got married?

He's responsible.

He's a responsible man.

He's responsible. And he's... What is it? He's a child who lacks love. So I see him as... pitiful.

First, he's pitiful for his life. It's not just about money, about money that can make people happy. She's far from being in love. So I think it's okay for me to be with her. She's far from it. The other women are not giving her that. They're more into money.

So I think, I want to live a good life with him. We were still young, I was the youngest. So, okay, bismillah, we live a good life together.

After you got married, what was your husband like?

He was responsible.

Was he good? He was good. Was he your husband like? He was responsible. Was he nice?

Yes. Was he nice to you?

Yes. So, as a husband, he was very nice?

Yes.

He was nice to me and my son.

So, when you first found out that he was cheating on you, how did you react?

He was the one who cheated on me. First of all, it was hard to prove it. I asked him nicely, and I told him, I immediately told him, have you slept with a woman? He said no. How do you know? Feeling.

So there was a moment,

a feeling,

there was a moment when I was breastfeeding Elgar, breastfeeding my child, it was around the 5th or 6th of September. I was breastfeeding my child, I was naked, I was breastfeeding my son, Elgar. It was around the 5th or 6th of September. I was breastfeeding my son.

I was just laying down, breastfeeding my son. And suddenly, I felt suffocated. I couldn't breathe. I thought, I'm going to have a stomach ache. Because I didn't eat properly. So, I sat down to take a breath.

Elgar had been breastfeeding for a long time, so I thought, I should just sleep. I sat down and took a breath. When I took a breath, I closed my eyes. When I closed my eyes, I saw my husband's shadow hanging over another woman on my bed in Malaysia.

I was like, what is this? Then Elgar cried. Suddenly, Elgar screamed. He was asleep. When Elgar screamed, I immediately held him and hugged him. Mama, come here. Mama, come here.

He didn't want to cry. He didn't want to be with his grandma. He didn't want anything. He just cried. I calmed down. I prayed. I prayed.

I felt that this was not a goodbye.

You got that kind of image?

Yes, I did.

I lied.

For God's sake, I felt that. I even called him the next day. I called my friend in Aceh and told her that I had a dream. She said, it was a dream. I said, no, it's not a dream. She said, I'm awake. She tried to calm me down, and my family tried to calm me down. My family tried to calm me down.

To get me to stop thinking. But I didn't calm down. So I asked someone in Malaysia to go to my apartment. I have access to it. I have the barcode.

I asked them to look. And they were right.

There was a woman there.

And what you imagined, I'm sorry to remind you, when you were in the middle of the night, you saw your husband's picture with a woman, they were both naked. Can you see who it was?

I didn't see the woman, I only saw my husband. And you knew that... My husband was standing, naked. So, that's I was alone. That's how I felt.

Everything. Before that, I was fine. I thought, maybe I was being selfish. My husband would come home and I would be fine.

I didn't have any ideas. I thought it was enough. I thought it was normal for a human to think that way. If I found out anything, I'd feel sorry for my son. I was so sure that it was very influential. So I decided not to look for it anymore.

It was August. From August to September, it was a long way. I didn't look for it. But in September, after I got the news, I decided. It was around 1 or 2 in the evening.

Did you send someone?

I called the next morning.

Oh, the next morning.

I called.

Sorry, I don't understand. You got the picture at 1 in the evening.

Yes, at 1 in the evening.

You called the picture at 1 AM? Yes, at 1 AM. The next morning, you called.

I told my friends there, I told them my husband is like this. He said the same thing. It was probably just a feeling. I mean, don't take it too seriously. Just try to take care of the child.

Everyone says that. I said, if you don't want to help, I'll go. I'll go. He said, there's still a voice recording. He said, I promise Elika. People in Malaysia call me Elika.

I promise Elika, I'll find out. I'll find out if he was okay or not. I didn't know how to get to his house. I could get in and out of the house through the first portal. I had to use a card to get in. I didn't know how to get in.

But he got on the floor. His apartment was on the 40th floor. He got on the floor and took a picture of I am in here room. I'm Maria Did he do Ginny position? comedy Come on, buddy. I put them in it to

connect a balcony Okay, okay Kanna canada master room sama room angle bedroom a good second bedroom connects to the front balcony. This connects to the lift balcony. The master room connects to the lift balcony. So the bathroom connects.

We can see people passing by from the lift. If the window is open. And at that time, there was a woman in front of the window. My bathroom.

Okay.

So, when I saw that, I knew it was a fake. I made an algar passport. I made it.

You didn't knock on the apartment?

No.

You didn't knock on it at all?

No, I didn't. I was the one who wanted it. I just wanted to make sure it's there.

You want to deliver it right away?

Yes, I want to deliver it right away.

You made an Elgar passport?

Yes, I made an Elgar passport. Again, maybe my father was saved by Elgar. Elgar was sick there. Sick. So my mother said, don't be selfish.

Because of your own will, my son was the victim. Parents always blame their children. I was looking for my son. Even though I was not given a pen, I still used my cell phone. I contacted my friends. I looked for them wherever they went. where the girl went, and I looked for her.

It turned out I was the wrong girl. The girl was a friend of the girl. At home, there was another friend. So at home, it was like a base. So, it was wrong. It was wrong.

It was wrong. It was wrong. I got the woman in the photo. I got her in the photo. I also got her Instagram. But it wasn't her. I just connected after this woman came.

This doctor. It turned out that she had moved. She had moved her room. My husband moved to the front room.

Oh.

Do you understand, Doc?

So, from the beginning, it was misinformation.

Yes.

But it turned out to be the same.

It was the same, but wrong. How was it?

Yes, yes, yes.

Even though it was wrong to see it. It turned out that he was happy. It turned out that it wasn't my husband. It turned out that she was in Ono's room. The same thing happened.

I deliberately told her everything. I told her that I knew everything. She took the woman to the apartment and so on. And finally, she contacted me. She said, and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah a affair with a woman? He said, no. I swear, I swear. But I still didn't believe it. My chat turned out to be sent back to his affair.

How did you know?

I opened the doctor's phone.

Oh, when you met him, you opened it?

Yes, there. So, my daily text messages I was looking for my phone.

Okay, so you didn't admit it, but you still wanted to find it. I still wanted to find it.

How did you find it? I found it in September. It was the end of September. I went to the hospital on October 3rd. My husband's friend sent me a video. I told you before, my husband is very devious.

He created a special Instagram account for he followed the women and their close friends.

Okay, his second account.

Yes, his second account. He created it. So, on his second account, they were posting. So, the doctor's position was to wear a doctor's uniform, take a photo in the studio, and make a sound of your mother's ex-husband.

My husband was tagged. My husband reposted it. And his friend, my husband's friend, told me. He said, this is your new boyfriend.

Oh. His friend reposted it?

That's all, Doc. That's all. He didn't say who he was, where he lived, or anything. I'm back to being an intelligent person, Doc he lived, etc. I was back to my old self, like a body of intelligence. It was tiring.

I was probably not going to be counted again. Since he left, Augustus was a bit slow. I thought, let him work, and we'll go home. But, from September to October, it was every day. Morning, noon, and evening. Handphone, all the time.

Your body was in a state of intel.

Yes, that's where I looked. But, I couldn't find anything. Finally, I had an idea. Sejawat is usually a co-op here and there. But I couldn't find him. Then I thought, as a Javanese, I'm usually in a co-op here and there. I called my friends who are doctors. I asked them if they had any friends who were friends with him.

Then I found his friends. I got the information. I got one piece of information. He was studying. He was studying at one of the universities in Medan, the Christian University in Medan.

He was studying there. I knew what his semester was, I knew it was almost over, and all that. From the university, I reported it to someone else, who I thought could get more information. I think I got more information. I gave him a little bit of information.

He found the address and phone number of his family. He got it. He got the address and phone number.

You came to him?

Yes. But before that, we had mediated on the phone. He knew that his wife was looking for him. He knew?

He knew.

He said, Your wife is looking for me. Your wife is looking for me. But he admitted to everyone that he was lying. He said, my husband didn't admit to him that my husband was someone else's husband. Maybe he didn't admit it at first.

He admitted it to Bujanga? At first, she didn't admit it. Oh, she admitted it to Bujanga? At first. After that, after they had physical contact, she admitted it. Because she chatted with him on September. She admitted it on September. She said, don't let your wife know.

If your wife finds out, I'll be viral. But she admitted it to her friends.'t admit that he knew the husband. So he felt lied to. He called his friend and said, I don't know who the husband is. Please ask his wife to call me.

Oh, you asked her to call him?

Yes. I was too lazy to call him. I said, no, I don't want to call him. I was too lazy to do that. I told him I didn't want to call him. I told him to be careful. I already knew everything about him. He was a bit cocky.

He insisted. I wanted to call him. He wanted to lower his face. He wanted to talk to me. But everything he said was fake. And that was the result of his work with my husband. He wanted to talk to me. But what he said was all fake.

And it was the result of his relationship with my husband.

But he was brave.

He was brave.

So you two were talking?

Yes, and I was like a clown who jumped in their relationship. I was so funny to them. So I called the woman, so that the woman could call my husband using another phone. So I was like, what am I doing? She said, I'm not that kind of woman. She was so arrogant. I'm not that kind of woman. You know who I am, right?

I know who you are, but I also know who my husband is. My husband is not a prostitute anymore. If he's a sex worker, he's a prostitute. He's a sex worker. He's a sex worker. He's a sex worker. He's a sex worker. I know who you are, but I also know who my husband is.

My husband is not a kid anymore, right? If he's cheating, what is he looking for?

Right?

Not a relationship where you invite him to eat chicken noodles together. Yes, is that right? Doctor, if he's cheating, what is he looking for?

No, right?

It's impossible to eat next to each other. It's impossible, right I have to be safer. So he lied to me. I know he lied. He's still a kid. He's still with me. I know he lied. But I didn't want to be harsh. I didn't want to make a scene on the phone. I didn't call him, I still called him brother. I said, and I asked him,

how much money did my husband transfer to you? He said, no money. He said, you know who I am. I'm not a person who can't afford it. I said, okay. We talked for about 25 minutes.

At the end of the conversation, I said, I heard everything you said. I heard your explanation. But I have the right to believe or not. That's my right. After this, I don't want you to continue with my husband. And I don't allow anything you anything behind my husband's back.

I told him about our physical relationship. He said, yes, I understand. He thought that was it. He called my husband and said, it's over, honey. He chatted. I told him, we only met on the 19th, so our answers are the same.

Before the call, my husband said this to her. Smart women should know that her husband wants to protect her relationship with her wife. He said, honey, don her we're in a relationship. Just tell her we met for no reason. She said, yes, but if I say that, you'll go back to your wife. She should have understood that the man was trying to save his wife.

And she joined him. She said, thank you. Thank you for making me feel better in a few days. I called his neighbor. And he joined. He joined the call. I said, thank you. Thank you for letting me calm down in a few days.

But that means that when you called him last, you said, okay, if you explain it like this, I'll try to accept it.

Don't call me again. I pretend not to hear, pretend not to know, pretend not to see. I'm Yeah Yeah

Yeah Yeah I'm not saying you're playing. I'm just pretending I didn't hear or see. Don't do it again. Don't continue it and I won't laugh. I thought it was a wrap. It was over. I thought that was it. I even told the woman, you can find 10-20 men, you're still young. But where can I find my son? I said.

Okay, it's over. On the fifth day, I asked someone else to watch him. I told him that I was looking for his father. Okay, it was on the 5th. I asked someone else to monitor him. He was normal from the 5th to the 6th, 7th. On the 8th, he disappeared.

Who disappeared?

Sarah, that woman.

That woman disappeared?

Yes. You're so smart. Don't fight with your sick mother. You're so smart. Don't fight with your mother. It's painful. You're wrong. The woman disappeared.

On the 8th?

Yes.

She disappeared on the 10th.

Where did she go?

I'll tell you later. She disappeared. So I contacted her father. I contacted his father. I pretended to be a campus person. I said, I'm from the medical team.

The father of this girl? I made sure if she was from the village or not. She was from the village, not from Baru. I made sure. I said, I can't be caught, doc. I don't want this.

I'll beat her up. I was so nervous. It turned out he was in the village. I was nervous for the first time. I told him I didn't want to. I had to make sure. I was not a single-bodied person.

I had my own body. I couldn't go to different places. I had to make sure. If he was in KL, I would have left. He said, I will attend the doctor's funeral.

Sarah is in Medan. His parents knew Sarah was in Medan. They knew where she was. Okay. You are in KL. On the 11th,

on the 11th, he was not seen. On the 12th, he appeared at 5 a.m. I had just found him. He appeared and went back to his house. I didn't sleep that morning. I didn't sleep since the 8th.

I searched for him, but I didn't sleep. I didn't sleep. When I searched, I couldn't sleep. When I looked for her, I couldn't find her. The next day, I found her. I left. I prepared my son, my mother, and I left for the boarding school.

When I left, the woman was on the phone with one of the women in the apartment when I was looking for her in Malaysia, in front of the bathroom. They were on the phone, and I took her phone. The door was locked.

She was sleeping, and I took her phone. I said, Sarah. She was silent. I said, do you know who I am? She said, yes. Are you still communicating with Ronnie? I said, do you know who I am? He said, yes.

Are you still communicating with Ronnie? I said, no. He was just... I'll tell you later, Doc. Then, he said, no. Are you honest? Where are you from? I said, no, I'm from here.

Are you honest? Then he said, do you have my father's chat? He knew I was the one who chatted with his father. He said, don't ask any more questions. If you want to ruin everything, we will. If you want to ruin everything, we will.

I said, I don't want to ruin anything. I don't have any more contact with your husband. Open your phone. He had his phone in his hand. He opened his passport. He didn't want to.

He said, the phone is a privacy. I said, privacy is between your property and your parents. Your property and your siblings. Your property and my husband is not your privacy anymore. What proves that he is my husband is this. I brought the wedding invitation.

I said, he is still my husband was the one who brought the wedding invitation. I told him that he was still my husband. He didn't say anything. He was using the bathroom to take a shower. I threatened him. I told him that I would meet him at the police station. I told him to let his parents open his phone.

I told him to call his parents. I already knew his number. I told him to call his parents and tell them knew his number. My husband's in-laws, please come to the court, we'll settle this here. That was the first plan. Finally, he was persuaded. That's why there's a video of my mother's hand waving to him.

That's what persuaded him to open his phone. My alibi was only to prove in court. I wanted to divorce my husband. I asked him to open his phone and I asked for his SS card to prove my innocence. He finally agreed. I knew everything from that moment.

First, he didn't admit that he slept with my husband. It turned out that he was in Malaysia from August 8 to 11. I was looking for him, he was missing from my radar. He was there. And how many times did he sleep? What was his conversation? The netizens said,

maybe he was calm.

No, he wasn't.

I was shaking. While scrolling, I was shaking.

Did you read everything?

I read the messages.

So you knew everything when you first called? Yes, I knew. They promised to go to Kuala Lumpur. I knew. They also checked the messages.

After I called him, my husband said, I'm afraid to be here. He's afraid of Medan. Because he's been looking for me. Then my husband said, just go. So they left. And they booked a hotel.

They were like honeymoons. While I was...

I was supposed to be the one who was calmed down. I thought, well, he's a honeymooner, while I'm...

I'm the one who should be calmed down. My husband knew about it, but he still continued the honeymoon. Well, I was finally responsible for everything. You were responsible for that. It turned out that the wrong prediction was actually there. It's just that he wasn't in the bathroom. Because he had already moved to another room.

But he admitted it.

He admitted it.

How many times did he admit it?

He admitted it in the video for the first time. Because I hadn't opened the chat yet. After I called him, I've become friends with him since he came back from the boarding house. We've become friends, we're besties. We call each other every night.

That's his trick, Doc. Why does he still want to be with my husband? I've forgiven him. I call him my little brother, Doc.

Oh, so you're close friends with him after that incident?

Yes, yes.

So you're mad at your husband, not at him?

Yes, at first, Doc. After he still communicated, I was mad, Doc. So he lied to me, right? At first, I was mad at him. I thought he was a victim too. Even though I knew he lied to me first. Okay.

Even though I knew he lied to me first. Even when he called me, he said, uh, sis, we, uh, we, uh, Sarah wants us, uh, my brother on your side. Until there was my language like this, how can I be on your side, we we be on the same side?

You've slept with my husband before. We even had a conversation. Sometimes I can't accept it. We had a close call. It was like a brother and sister call. He asked Elgar, what are you doing?

That's it.

But he turned out to be... Maybe he was looking for information to calm me down. Maybe that's my husband's business or something, I don't know anymore.

But behind that, he still has a relationship with his husband? Yes, still.

Wow, this is f***ing sexy.

That's what I said, my mediation is considered like a cute couple. Like, what am I so small in their eyes, I'm so small, Doc. Like, why is it like this? It's been a year, the chat has been read.

It's been read.

It's like you can be in touch every night, call.

So you're not just apologizing to him, you're also angry with your husband.

Yes, I was angry with my husband. I even said, do you want a son-in-law with a man like this?

What did he say?

No, I don't want to, I don't want to. I don't want to ruin my future.

That's it. So...

What is it? What is it? And you know that she still has a relationship with her husband. Do you know where that comes from?

I know. I know, I feel it, and her friend also said that. Her girlfriend Her friend. Sometimes we don't know, Doc. We don't know where the help came from. I've been told everything since I was young. Her friend, Doc. Her friend can tell me. Her friend can tell me about his behavior.

If it's about this, my wife is already FBI level.

And they called me a lot. Where are you, honey? Have you eaten, honey? So when I came with my son, he was crying. What was with my son. We were crying, doc. We were playing a movie. I was confused.

I was like, what should I do? And then, what happened? The third mediation. I called his parents.

You?

Yes. Doc, before I...

You're a patient wife, aren't you?

I still want to save my husband.

You called his parents, right?

I called his parents, but I couldn't get a reply from one of them. I had to see the proof. If there was any, I sent it. I sent the set of the video of me throwing him in the pool. I sent it.

You did?

Yes. I sent the video of him throwing him in the pool to his parents. The response was only, Good, ma'am. Good, ma'am. That's it.

I waited for days. I waited until I was about to go to the doctor's office. At the doctor's office event, yesterday, I was about to go, and my interlocutor called his father. I wanted to meet him, but before the doctor's office event, I didn't want to be late.

I didn't want to be late after the doctor's office event. I had threatened him when we met at the hospital. Please leave my husband. If not, the doctor's oath and the Wisuda will be destroyed. He also promised me that if I still want to repeat it, he would destroy everything. He also said in the video, we have made a promise,

so I don't want to, after the doctor's oath, I want to do it before. I asked my interviewee to call his parents, no response. I was told that this is a holy interview,

I want to talk, I want to meet him, my family, his family. I want to meet him, and no response. Not beautiful, doc. Okay, finally you took ... My family is his family. I met him, and there was no response. He didn't like me.

Okay. So you took...

I took that path. Even though there were thousands of words that came into my ears, like, insults, or something. I thought, I'm right.

I'm the one who was hurt. Why do I have to think about their crimes again? That's it. The worst thing is, if only, if only, I'm not afraid of the law, I'm not afraid of the police, if only that had happened,

to save my self-esteem, I'm okay, no problem. Do you understand, doctor?

You're willing to be punished?

I'm willing. Because my self-esteem dignity anymore, doc. I've come, I've mediated. She's already kissed Elgar's head, doc. That woman. She kissed Elgar's head, she apologized, she promised she wouldn't do it again, she prostrated on my feet.

But it's the same. I want to save my marriage.

In what way?

Yes. I was with the man. The netizens were asking, why not the man?

Are you angry with your husband?

I don't know anymore. I'm far from him. What can I say? Men can only say, yes, I'm sorry. No more. The woman, that's it. I told you, this is my child I won't do it again. The woman said, it's okay.

I told you, my son is still like this. What if it happened to you? You're still like that. My son, my doctor, and everyone who did this to me, everyone who did this to me,

I got Elgar's last immunization yesterday. He only had one ounce, only one ounce. Two months. The doctor said, at his age,

he should have five ounces of milk a month. I was like, why me and my son? Why don't you guys like it? Why are you so happy?

It was sad, Doc.

Elgar is so thin. People say I should calm down. How can I calm down? I know my husband is sleeping with a woman. How can I calm down? Who can calm me down?

Honestly, I want to run. I want to run. I want to go away, but I couldn't leave Elgar. I wanted to run away, I wanted to die. I couldn't look at Elgar's face. I thought my son wouldn't be sent to school by his father. He wouldn't get his father's milk.

He knew he had a father, but he couldn't get the milk. We wouldn't be in the same house if we got divorced. I mean, think about it. Think about it, Elgar. Don't think about your lust for my husband. I've forgiven you. I've forgiven you.

It's over. Stop. It's over. If I'm the one arguing with my husband, and I was crazy. He kept saying, no, no, you're overreacting. I was crazy. So, all I could do was stop him. You have a future. That's it.

Maybe if she was a woman, like a woman on the side of the road, I wouldn't be as harsh on her. But because I knew she had a future, I try to make her realize that. We are both Batak people. It's impossible for her to destroy her self-esteem like that. But it turns out she's still fighting.

She's still fighting to this day. There are words she said, if you love me, fight. He told my husband to fight until it went viral.

Oh yeah?

Still?

Yes.

He still told my husband to fight if he loves me.

And the narration that you said earlier, that your husband said earlier that he asked the girl, the female doctor, to report you. How did you know that?

From my husband's relatives. They communicate every day. He always talks to his female relatives. He always asks for a solution. At the point where he wants to report me, his brother was already... Where's your mind?

You want to report a wife who's taking care of your child. Do you think about who will take care of him next?

It's viral. That girl contacted you? Yes. Oh, she... Not viral yet. viral I'm gonna put on put it to see on ya. My lemmy a minta lindungi my media meet a deeper john even so I'm a come on

Did you could yet my can you do a orange or chocolate? Some awesome you have to go get to my lemmy a minta Minta, Aku Dan Ananya Minta Aku to come Bali Pagina Mola Porin did a kuyong kaya orang gilanya dog

chappie I was going to report it in the morning. I'm the crazy one, I'm tired.

If I'm alone, if I don't have a child, it's okay if he makes me crazy. I have to survive. What if my child is sick and I want to be healthy? I have to...

I heard that video. Let's rewind it. He asked for forgiveness, did you call him?

Yes. I called him from wherever I could.

Open it. Where was it?

Here.

He was in my place. He was crying and saying, please forgive me.

Before you sent him the video, it wasn't viral, right? Not that viral. I'm gonna go.

I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go. I'm so sorry.

The house you destroyed is not a house. It's a house of a neighbor.

Yes, I know.

I didn't realize it.

You told me yesterday that your parents had met the host. So what are you doing now?

No, I can't.

None of them are here yet.

None of them are here yet.

None of them are here yet. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry.

I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. If it's like this, he will ask for a fight tonight. He said, if you love me, fight me. I don't understand, Doc. That's why I said...

I... It's hard to save you. I don't have a profession. I'm sorry for the name of my profession. But it... I'm sorry for the name of my profession, but it doesn't reflect the profession I have.

Yes, Doctor.

Of course, the name of my profession is as close as my other friends. Of course, we don't want to do it either. It's far from a moral action. If I were to represent my friends, we'd be embarrassed. And this has nothing to do with profession. This is really pure to the person.

I don't know.

After it went viral, did he contact you again?

No.

What was the last news that you knew?

I don't know. The last news was about that woman. I know that she didn't have a divorce. That's all. I don't want to know anymore, Doc. We want to know because we still want to find out.

What else do we want to find out, Doc? It's not happening anymore. I'm still looking for answers. What else can I say? It's all gone.

It's all gone?

It's all gone.

But at least you're a little bit better now? Or is it still hurting?

It's still hurting. Even though it's viral, it's still hurting. No, it's not. It's because of my internal problems. My marriage. Even though it internal problem of my marriage. Even though it's viral, my marriage still can't go back.

It still can't be good. Not going back, but good. It still can't be good. I can't be good to my husband anymore. Even though it's viral. Even though we say it's viral to the outside world.

For example, we say. What about your husband? Why hasn't he come back yet? He's not brave enough, doc. He told everyone he's not brave enough. He wanted El and his mom to come here. He's not brave enough, doc.

He said he's been attacked by the whole of Indonesia. He's not brave enough. He doesn't know where to put his face. He said that to his brother. That's what he said.

Men are responsible. It's wrong to face it. Why did you go there?

So I was wrong to judge him as a responsible man.

I don't know.

Ouch. I was wrong.

Ouch. But if he comes, kneel and apologize. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry.

I'm sorry.

I'm not going to be the type of woman who keeps blaming him. Because it's already happened. I don't think I'm good enough for him. I'm not good enough for him.

Mental health. I feel like I've been lied to. If it's just once, there's still a little bit left. Two times, three times. Until you have issues.

Yes, that's right. One of my friends asked me this. There's trauma. I'm not traumatized by other men. I was traumatized by seeing him. I felt like I didn't want to hear his voice. Sometimes I was blank.

I changed my son's diapers. I didn't see his diapers. I forgot what I was doing. My mom came and asked,

what are you doing?

Then I was like... Confused? Yes. My mother came and asked, what are you doing? I was like... I was confused. I was like, I'm still young. I have to do this. So if I continue with him,

the doctor will see me on the street. So I thought it was enough. I wanted to save myself. A lot of people, I'm okay, I'm okay. I want to save myself. Many, many, especially my family. This is viral. My husband said, I'm ashamed,

ashamed of my family. His family didn't ask about me, didn't ask about my heart. They talked about their feelings, about disappointment, about being ashamed, that his brother didn't want to go to school. It wasn't just their family, it was my family too.

Who's family is not embarrassed now? My family is embarrassed too. It's like their child failed, their child was embarrassed. Even my family in the village, in the village, in the village knew about this. I heard my father was dropped off. He was going to the hospital.

Not because of the viral. He knew that his son was treated like this. Not because of the viral. He said, not because of the viral. He said, not because of the viral, not because of his shame, no.

Because my son was treated like this.

Yes, like this. Because when he wanted to marry me, my family didn't demand anything. Didn't demand any dowry, didn't demand anything. Just asked, don't ever hurt him. I'm his only child. Don't ever hurt me. I'm his only child.

Don't ever hurt me. If he doesn't like me, then let me go. Don't be like this. Maybe if he doesn't like me anymore, he doesn't love me anymore, he doesn't love me anymore,

he can let me go, and we can raise our kids together. What about now, Doc? I already hate him. I don't want to see his face again. I thought he was the only man who could protect me. But he was the one who had the potential to kill me.

I felt like I was going to die. Sometimes I couldn't eat. Sometimes I thought El Garitum't just increase by one ounce. I don't know when I eat it. I've tried Elgar to go to Suvor. He vomited.

So this is not just affecting me. And he was just happy with his girlfriend, we say.

You have to be strong, Suci. I can't help you with anything.

Yes, doctor.

I just want to pray, doctor.

You want to raise Elgert on your own? Yes.

I think I can do it better.

Lastly, I'm sure your husband and family will watch this.

What would you like to tell him? I just want to say that he's not doing this to ruin my future. He's ruining Elgar's future. Elgar, his victim.

I don't know, Elgar will the victim.

I don't know, Elgar will ask me later. Why is he not like his friends? Why doesn't he live in the same house as his father and mother? I'm not ready to answer that question. But I'm also not ready to live with my husband anymore. I, tomorrow, or next year, or whenever, I can meet other men. Elgar.

That's what I love. Why don't I think about Elgar? About me, who lacks't think about my wife. I hope God will judge me. But I never left her and Elgar since I got married.

I want to give you a message for Saga.

I have a lot of words for him. I can't say anything else.

If you need any help, just let me know. If you need any help, just let me know.

Thank you.