KUTUKAN KOMEDIAN! MARAHNYA ARIF BRATA TETAP DIANGGAP LUCU! - NGOBROL DI WA EPS ,19

I'm going to be doing a lot of work on this. so so We're going to have a special guest. He's a famous actor. He's a famous actor. He's a famous actor. He's a famous actor. He's a famous actor.

He's a famous actor. He's a famous actor. Oh my God! Oh my God! This is amazing!

When I watched it on Saturday and Sunday, I watched the closing, and I saw,

wow, there were so many people.

I'm not the only one. I'm not the only one.

There were so many people. There were so many people standing applause. The standing applause is flat And long And it's in the appearance of Arief Brata on the last day I was nervous when I was standing applause

I was nervous because the AC was definitely on I was nervous That day and that night I DM Arief, right? Yes, that's, I DMed Arief I asked him to turn down the AC I said, Arief, you're so cool Your looks are amazing

From the beginning, with unpredictable jokes Your calm attitude

Everything is so good. It was so good.

I was so impressed.

Thank you.

Do you believe it or not? Because I saw your performance, I told Ajis that I want to be in Stand Up Face in 2027.

I want to watch the VIP version again Stand up, stand up

But I was like

At Jambore, I felt like

I was done Because it was so heavy I felt it But when I saw the appearance I was like, damn I should try again

Was it hot? Yeah, I felt it How did you feel when you saw the actors, I was like, damn, maybe I should try again. It's hot, too, sir.

Yes, it feels like it's going down.

How did you feel when you were DMed by the comedian last night? Last night?

Last night?

It's different.

Yes, it's true.

In the industry, he's a senior.

But in stand-up, he just started.

He just started.

I thought about it that night. After you sent me messages and all.

I thought about it. To 2027, I want to come to the community. I want to try open mic. That's how far it goes. Really. He said it many times. I want to come to the community I want to try to open mic Really? Yes

It's been said many times After watching Stand Up Fest

Why are you so great

You can make a simple premise But it's fun

Let's tell it first

From the beginning, Ajez showed you as the headliner Oh yeah, from the beginning If I'm not mistaken 6 months before Stand Up Fest For the announcement for the headliner so Mr. Ajis made a video I was reviewing the car

and he said, Ji, he called me Ji not Haji, but he called me Ji because I'm Makassar so he called me Ji, let's review this car so I got in the car okay, this is Ari Prata's car

this is the headroom and he is the car This is the headroom And he is the headliner So I didn't know that I just got the call I was in the head I was like, okay, the legroom is good

I was shot I was confused I was like, sir, later our headliner Turn off the camera You are the headliner I be on camera When the camera is off, you'll be the headliner I said, why me, Wang Ajis? No, I'm sure

But if I'm not mistaken The first or second day Later, the third day, you'll be the headliner That's it The announcement made me Really think

If we want to stand up, we have to swear For example, if we want to go on stage We have to swear I was about to go on stage, but I was already nervous. I was like, this is just the beginning. There are so many people. I was so nervous.

I told them, it's okay. Because the first and second day, the most memorable was the third day. It was the closing day. I went up to the poster. I looked for the first slide. It it, but there was no first person

So I was like, I have to go The second one, G The last one, I was like

I was like, uuuuuh

Uuuuuh

What is this? Every night Until my son He was about to sleep, he heard me talking to myself.

I'm going to throw up again.

He must have said that. Every night, I was in front of the mirror, and I was like, I was getting fit again. Until finally, I was a few pounds less. The fun thing about stand-up is

the comedy with my friends. That's what makes the comedy room and the new perspective open to my friends. So that's the best part. We were having a conversation, and I said, Oh, the venue was really good yesterday.

I vomited again. I mean, I was nervous again.

I want to see the comed. I was so nervous. I panicked. I was like, why did he choose me? I'm a bad guy. But I didn't want to waste the opportunity. I didn't want to waste the opportunity. I didn't want to waste the opportunity.

I didn't want to waste the opportunity. I didn't want there in the notes. Because if I'm riding a motorcycle, I think, why is it like this? Just write it down on the notes. Oh, that's your habit? Yes.

Collecting the premise from there. Collecting the premise first. Like, asking in my head. That's why the beat opening is just asking in my head. Why is that? But, in your opinion, is that one of your biggest stages in your career?

In my career, I think so. I've been to Jakarta for the first time, Street Comedy. I've been to the stand-up fest, but I don't know what the rest is. I think there's more. More than yesterday? Yes, and the laughter was... Wow.

It was so exciting.

Especially in my line-up,

the comedians were all pretty good.

There was Panji, there was Zawin,

there was Nope, Primawan.

That's crazy.

Wow, that's crazy. That's so cool.

But now, Ari Brata's persona is starting to... ...become more and more... ...or growing... ...with other versions. Because if we scroll Ari Brata's Instagram... What kind of?

Now it's like... ...fashion, influence.

From FB, FB.

Then suddenly became Fitra Eri. Then also became... ...fashion, influence. From FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, FB, I never made a content that was like, I'll just make a sketch, never. It's just because I wanted to run, I wanted to exercise. I wanted to exercise, so I posted it. So there's no long sketch. I don't know yet if I want to make it.

But because running is quite fun, and also, my head is full of questions I could talk to myself while running I think running is a good thing You can run in the morning or after you take your kid

So fashion is a chaos When he came in, I was like, is my outfit okay?

Oh, that's it

I was so scared

Is my outfit okay? Sometimes I want to make a content on my Instagram where I wear a shirt

and a skirt

The transition

When I meet fashion influencers like that I'm like, what? What's the package? The transition? Yeah, the transition.

When I meet fashion influencers like that, I'm afraid they'll be like,

No.

No.

If you're afraid of them, don't. Just buy your shoes.

Or else, your outfit will be ruined.

True. Now, it's simplicity. It's sincere. But, when Andika was first inboxed, I was like, I'm just kidding Now it's more simple and classy But when Andika was first inboxed I was like, wow, Durian's shoes

I was like, that's it

I was like I was like, funky

Funky The Paris hotmode hasn't started yet Andika is the one who started

Durian's shoes

It's for Ramayana Cipinong!

Influencer in Indonesia.

But, I see it from the perspective of... the creative industry. This is actually... you do it to... be adaptive to the era. You... try to develop

and not stuck in one place who do you follow? Actually, personally and content creators also understand that usually it's influenced by parents

if I, my father and mother teach differently my father teaches taekwondo My parents are different. My dad is a teacher. He only teaches one thing. But my mom is more adaptive. That's why I have the courage to adapt. I used to be a presenter,

then I became a comedian. I tried to be adaptive. I got the influence from that. What about you, Ari Berata? I try to be adaptive. I get the influence from that. If someone... What's the result? I'm successful, I'm successful.

I think it's just a role. Because we can't feel comfortable. I'm this good. Even in comedy friends. Comedian friends or play with the community.

We can't see, this person is not funny yet. Because there must be a momentum, get a funny click, then big. Well, usually there is, I used to see him, still this. Well, as far as possible, I lost that feeling. We have to keep learning. If I run out, the HVAP academy has been pressed out. I try to avoid that kind of feeling We have to keep learning

If I'm done with HVAP academy, I'm done with it I'm bored It looks like there are viewers

I'll just go with this

No need, let's try something more automated And lastly, because It's said that there are three mantras And the closest one is the personality What are we? If I teach community building I think it's the three mantras and the closest to our personality. I teach them community building.

What do you like the most? For example, you like to run, show it to your followers if you like to run. Because the followers will know if you like it or not. Even if there aren't many, it's okay. The important thing is you like it. That's where the growth comes from.

If I keep forcing FVP Academy, it will... There will be a downfall. There will be a downfall. My friends, content creators, the first Apoz,

he was a leader, and then he became a leader, and then this. So, it has to keep growing and improving. So, I think I'm a foodie.

To find food.

To find food, what else?

But you think...

Roughly. You think of everything by yourself, or there are people... Who help you? Help you to think. I think it's time for you to... Change...

Your... Your... your...

your attitude. Change your attitude. I think so far... I've been helped by my friends. But your brain is still in you. What if we make this?

How about we make content every day? Even though the premise is a holiday. Right. The opportunity to make content is funny to suddenly It's funny to make content We see what's funny to make content But sometimes the body sometimes refuses

It's like, I'm always like this

Is there a burn out phase?

It's like, I'm always content in my life There is already at that point I mean, it was a little viral We parodied this We parodied this Comica friends I used to be like, we're gonna make a parody of this we're gonna make a parody of this and my friends

would be like, it's so lame, so lame now there's a lot of it, what's the issue? it's good, we're gonna make a parody of this but in my heart, I'm like,

just do it, no need

there's someone who's whispering just focus on something else Because it's tiring

It's tiring because even if you're loud

it doesn't affect anything

But I like him He's an adaptive person Because every time there's a new phase you have the creativity in exploring your point of view. But, this is just your personal opinion, why is it that there are stand-up comedians or comedians who when they play in their pool, you were able to break it.

You gained a lot of respect. But when you were in a comedy show, which is in the industry category, you couldn't survive. Why?

That's true.

Maybe...

If I were him, I would feel or nervousness. Really? If you were invited to La Porpa, were you still nervous?

I was still nervous.

You still saw it? Yes. I think it's a good thing that La Porpa members are funny no matter who joins. Because in the support, for example, if one throws a thin ball,

he will be punched, and the other will be punched too. So, we're funny. That's the support. For the funny comedians in the community, maybe their strength is verbal,

writing material, but for Tiktok, not all comedians can do it. Not all. For example, ah, it's like this. What should it be like?

What should it be like if you, the audience, already have it in your head, the library, right? If we're being judged like that, who usually just write material,

what should it be like? Hello! Hello!

That's a joke.

That's not normal. That's right.

You can't learn that from TikTok. But, the Ramadan event was a comedy, right?

Yes.

What?

What did you face there?

What did you face there? I wrote it down. Wait, let me see I'm not fishing But have you signed it? What?

Have you signed it? No, I haven't I should have discussed it But it's just Denny Chagur who said He said, Riff, you say this, and that.

Oh, he supported me. He supported me once, and he also taught me. That's when I said, how can someone like this, like that... But even with your long flight hours, you still met...

Still.

The fear?

There's still fear. First, it's the language. I have to choose Indonesian language. I have to understand it. Because I still have to think about the language. What is the choice?

In Makassar, in Kalung, What is it? In Kalung, it's keselak. It means to be annoyed. I'm like this when I annoyed, but I'm like, I was waiting for the empty space But there was no empty space There was no empty space Because they couldn't make the space empty

I said, huh? I was captured and the comment was funny Ha, you're eating a blind man's salary on a Friday night I was just kidding But if it's empty for 1-2 seconds, it's a dead air

That's why Especially in seconds, it's a dead air. That's why.

Especially in comedy, you can feel it. I can feel it. I'm waiting for that. I have that feeling. I have to perform again. So, every time I go home, I think about it.

Do you make yourself feel down?

I don't make myself feel down. But if there's an offer, I think about it. But if there's an offer, I'll think twice before I accept it Oh, you mean the offer of being hungry? Yes, I'm hungry I'm too...

Too what? Too greedy? Yes, too greedy Did you eat the food the day before? 3 hours Maybe I saw it and thought, maybe I should replace someone

For example, there's a guest star that I can't get So I changed

But sometimes, at 12 noon, you still can't get a guest star

Really?

That happens often Because we get a complaint. Not a complaint. It's a complaint. From the creative friends who are looking for a guest star... for the episode that he handles.

Not many people want to come to Lapor Paku.

Because they're afraid.

It's hard. The burden is to be funny. As an outsider, what's the burden? You've been here 3-4 times What's the burden? Playing with us?

We're at the briefing table We're open to anyone who comes The burden is First, Laporpa is an event that just aired, and there are already a lot of cuts on TikTok, Instagram,

so the possibility of reaching the family is fast. So if we're funny, thank God. If not, what are you doing in the suburbs like that? That's it. That's what might make friends who are invited, like, I'm not a villain That's what makes the guests feel embarrassed That's why I think it's better if it's a girl

I'm just like this And the others are like this That's funny and good But I can't be a girl So the comedians feel like Is it funny that I'm in La Porte Passe?

On the other hand, it's a great portfolio for us. Especially for those who have a career in the industry. So, you're worried that you might fail or not perform well. You might fail and not get another chance. Yes, that's right.

If I'm invited with a normal costume It's hard That's why I'm always in Laporpas I have the costume I have the costume Suddenly you're a superhero

Superhero I'm good with that I'm played with by my friends

Who? I'm played with with my friends there Who?

Kiki Sabutri too I've been using that superhero for a few times I've been using wings Kiki Sabutri was fishing I was like, here's your mom After that, the second one was fished again

She was like, mom, I'm done It's not the time yet

You don't have to fish me again

But maybe in Kiki's head

Not yet or something Still be fished But maybe in his head, he's like, I haven't or what? But are you one of those comedians who is a bit anti-repetitive?

Yes.

Really? Yes, really. I'm sorry, sir. Yes. Before this, I was invited to talk at WA.

Honestly, I was a bit afraid. Because I was afraid that the conversation would be repeated. And the jokes would be repeated. So, I was afraid that... I was embarrassed. You DMed him, right?

Yes, I sent him a WhatsApp. Before that, I contacted him from the team. I was embarrassed. I think he didn't reply. When he sent me a WhatsApp, I'm embarrassed, so I don't think I'll reply. When he texted me, he said,

I'm ready to play.

I immediately left.

I immediately left.

Because on other YouTube channels, for example, Arbrata from Makassar. This one, right? When he was being punched I would get a lot of jokes repeating

What I avoided was the YouTube videos So now I avoid long conversations on YouTube But if I'm with my friends, you're still ready.

No, but I mean, it's good. Because my concern is the same as Rika. We're having a hard time choosing the guest star. It doesn't mean that we don't have many, but we're trying to avoid... repeating the conversation. Repeating the avoid repeating the same conversation repeating the same jokes

repeating the same stories but the questions are different That's why we hope maybe from the beginning before we talk for a long time we only have 23 minutes

we haven't discussed anything yet

We haven't discussed anything yet

We haven't discussed anything yet

We'll start from you, who wants to tell this story?

We'll ask you later

Instead of talking like this There's someone who repeats How much is the lighting? It's not bad Not bad Alhamdulillah

Because WA is successful In my opinion I can buy this. Alhamdulillah.

With my own money.

But when I see this kind of lamp, I remember Pandika. Why? I still remember when G-Con Fest was held. Do you remember G-Con Fest? Pandika's stand-up. Yes.

I'll explain about it. I think that was the best and calmest delivery I've ever seen. Like, the punchline was there and funny, but the delivery was so good. The one I talked about the lights? Yes. The punchline was also crazy.

The lights were worth hundreds of millions

Yeah

Buy a wife

The analogy is better to buy what? Better to buy a car Yeah Get Avanza Yeah, get Avanza If you want a lamp, just look at the Avanza lamp

Yeah Isn't it funny?

Isn't it funny?

The lamp is worth hundreds of millions

Better to buy Avanza

There's a lamp?

It's funny, I think it's funny.

But Andika is a cool guy.

He's the one who set the lamp. I know Andika has done stand-up comedy before.

And he's also a host.

I'm also a host. I'm helped by the institution. So, sometimes when I write, I don't memorize the words, just the points. So I know if there are words that are not in the right place, I know the points.

Because memorizing the words is a bit of a burden. That's right. So I stand up with the audience. Even though I was in a bar before, but the audience was not organic organic, yes

using UI amateur but the face was so old there was a discussion audience in Suca if I'm not mistaken I was a guest

so there was someone who wore was wearing a Makassar shirt I asked him, how do you know Makassar? He said, I don't know, I was invited Oh, you were invited from the village?

I thought you were from the village

But he was a Sucal and a Suci I thought you were from the village

But he was Suca and also Suci Suca and Suci

Suca joined and Suci joined too

Suca was already a fanatic at that time

Yes

He was really good at making people mad when he was on stand-up What did I say at that time? That was a stand-up for a few minutes The long talk could on for hours.

It was like a TV show.

Yes, I was there at night. It was the last session. The gimmick was to call my parents. I called my parents. How are you doing in Makassar? Can I call you?

Yes, you can. I asked. We were about to be called by the Indosiar. Can I call him? I asked him. I said, we'll call the industry. He said, Alhamdulillah. When can I leave? He said, don't open the door.

You can't leave.

You can only call him. I picked up the phone. He was there. He had a long beard mistaken, he was wearing a long arabah and it was funny and it was a good sign on TV

he was talking about his PES his rental PES I was like, oh, what should I do? it was night time we were in Makassar for one hour here it was 11

there it was 12 I was here at 12 I finished I was there at 12. I was there at 12, and I was there at 12. I performed, and I got a call at 12. It was 1 AM. I got a call. Okay, let's call Ari Brata's mom.

I can't pick up. After that How are you, Arief? I got a message on WhatsApp saying that my mom is sick

I said that

Why did you lie?

I suddenly lied I said, mom, my mom is sick Oh, I see The gimmick is not funny After that, I called again in the morning Why couldn't I pick up the phone?

My friend is sleeping until 11 AM.

Why did you pick up?

You only call her in the morning. So, I lied to her. My mom was sick. And Andika, I mean... I think I'm the right person for him. He's really smart.

He can make a gimmick or a segment It can be very long If you were a police, you meet a detective Even though he's not guilty The detective will say, when he talks to him Fix, sir, I'm the culprit

Even though he's smart I'm evil, sir

I like to live in jail You're so smart I'm so smart I'm so bad

I like to stay in jail

But the atmosphere is different Yes

Between Sucy and Sucy, what do you think?

It's different, for Sucy, it's stand up It's a competition Yes, stand up, and the host doesn't take too long and that's it, the evaluation If it's funny, then it's good, if not, then it's done. It's about the evaluation. If it's funny, then it's done.

If it's not, then it's done. For me, the audience is... I mean, the industry is so big. What are we doing in this area... to know the techniques and all that?

The important thing is to have fun. One of the fun is... from the conversations. So it's interesting And not everyone can play in a boat Yes, that's right Not everyone

So sometimes it's already prepared I mean, it's prepared in the sense that when we meet A, we discuss this We discuss this, right? We have prepared the gimmick We have supported the property

Or for example, we have to call his family Everything is prepared But sometimes there, there are things that... I don't know, there are things that seem like they don't want to be processed, or they hold back. It seems like that, right?

It's not cooperative with the gimmicks that are prepared for them. But there are also things that are difficult. There are. Until I did some comics at that time. I was like Uya Kuya, Dekte Cinta Kuya. So for example,

I'm next to Arif. I'm using a WHM. So, if I do this, you can't hear anything. For example, a comment from Radit. Radit asked him to answer his question

And he was like, yes, yes, yes I was like, just answer it, I was covering it I was once told to do that Really? I was told to do that And it was funny, luckily

Because if I was told to do that, it's not enough

What's the point of doing that? Oh, it's not enough it I didn't realize that But it's funny

Because you already know If this one will be on the audience You already know where it will go Even the one I whispered

It didn't get it

There's a lot And you can see If you want to be funny, it's not enough. It's better to be honest. Is that how you do it? Yes.

Why? Be honest, but a little weird. Add on from the host.

Why is the answer like that?

So funny. But if you ask and it's funny, the answer is...

That's it until now. I'm still confused. said, Wow, really? That's what I'm still confused about.

Why?

There's a gimmick of cutting the sausage. Cutting the sausage of Pandu. Pandu? Because all the participants were donated by Soima. Oh, I didn't get it.

For example...

You're the only one who didn't get it.

I mean, Soima wasncha 2, So-ima didn't get it Yeah, I didn't get it

So-ima donated it or something Anyway, someone donated it Then I whispered to Pandu,

Do you dare to take off your shirt? I'll give it to So-ima Oh, from Pandi? Then suddenly, He said, If this is okay,

Can I get 2 million for a half-cut of gummies.

I said, really?

2 million, I got it. And Pandu is also good at playing with it. He answers it plainly.

Like Arafa, and Nifa.

And Ciresti. I got AC, fridge, bed. I got the whole house. You guys are shooting in Electronic City

What's the time?

2 PM

But who do you think is the most influential stand-up comedian in Indonesia?

Who?

Radit

It's okay if he doesn't have a founder, it's okay

He must have a founder

Like this

Influenced

Don't be like that

He doesn't need a founder

That's right

And he feels like he owes money It's okay, you can say Akim Bagil

We believe you

Akim Bagil

He's already in the report, right?

Yes, he's already in the report

Weird dog He's already a reporter, right? Yeah, he's a reporter He didn't watch the show When we were at the stand-up fest I watched it from the morning

I understand But the one who inspired me The question was about the one who inspired me Yeah, the one who influenced me Radit, in my opinion Is someone who can be neutral on Instagram

And his stand-up Is funny for his followers And for me it's still funny Because he's a father He changed from being single To being able to be twisted by him

He's so close to his material now And he's also a salesman He's a stand-up comedian Even though I saw his vlog with Panji He said, why do I have to make a tour? I'm tired Now he's in every city

From Mulai Cerita Apaku to Cerita Sial Yes, Cerita Anehku That's what I said, oh this is it If you want to live from stand-up comedy I think it's him or Panji who's really inspiring If you want to live from a stand-up comedian, I think it's him or Mas Panji. Who is very inspiring.

But your stand-up style is different from Radit, right?

Yes, it's different.

You're a storyteller, right?

Storytelling.

I like storytelling, Abdul, the kind of comic, Abdul, Bang Jegel, I really like Bang Jegel.

He's like, on's on stage, he's on stage, he's just the same.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

He's the same. I think Awek is a genius in finding punchlines that... Oh, how did he find this? He knows the things that tickle. Do you watch the last one, sir?

Watch Awek?

Yeah, that one.

He's a genius. He's a genius.

That's right. He's a child who is trapped in the body of an adult. So, he found it again.

If it's Jegel, it's the opposite.

An adult who is trapped in a child's body.

He's the one who's content.

He's the one who's content.

A small child.

Your hope as a stand-up comedian. Now, back then, maybe the era of Suci. When there was Wadah, but the community wasn't that big yet. Then, suddenly, Suca came up with Wadah Baru. The community was getting bigger.

Many people were brave enough to rely on their dreams, their stand-up comedy. Now, Wad a time for you to be a salesman? There are not many of them. Not many, right. What are your expectations?

My expectations are like what Mr. Wendy always makes. I mean, stand-up competitions are on people's YouTube platforms. The stand-up competition or... I mean, the stand-up performance of people. So, people can go there and there. People who want to open mic.

Because, last time I met someone in the workshop. Then, he said, Abang Arif, yes, stand-up. My son won the stand-up competition in high school So now, he's teaching stand-up in schools There's an art called stand-up

That's what I told my son

No, you're not funny

You can watch your father's videos. But, you can get a premise from your son. How do you see the moment and make it a premise?

How do you decide the premise?

For me...

For people like me who want to learn... or people who have been given a chance... but still want to live a hard life. They've tried to be a stand-up comedian. Of course.

Lugas 1, right?

Yes, that's right. The winner of Lugas 1, a house worth Rp 15 million, was taken by his wife for Rp 14.5 million.

Is there anyone? He's smart. He knows where the stand-up is.

I think...

I was amazed.

He didn't know stand-up. I didn't know where he learned it. Because I was free. You were in Lugas, right? Was it season 2 or season 1? I think it was season 2.

Okay, season 2. They were in season 1. I mean, they can do it. But I wasn't in the show. So, what was it like? I'm curious. Getting the premise.

How was it?

It was the closest. And I always asked questions in my head. Even though it's a common thing. But you see your kid everyday Like, for example, the premise that you caught from Sabit Your kid is doing something at home

Then, how can you catch that

This is a funny moment, so it's a premise

How to explain that? What is the last thing that Sabit did that can get into your head That seems like a potential What is the last thing that you can think of? For now, I'm really careful with my kids' development. I mean, I don't want them to miss the right moment. Actually, it's not...

Wait, you don't want them to miss the right moment because it's your responsibility as a father, or you feel like, this is my premise

not that, it's about the father

about the premise, we can wait we can decompose it first because, in my opinion every night, I feel like I don't want to sleep, and I see him sleeping until he measures his height.

I was that tall. Maybe the seniors already knew how it was to have a kid. Especially since my kid is in elementary school. So I always held myself back, like, I don't want to sleep. Because tomorrow is a day shift.

I was like, I was passing another day with my kid. I was always nos moment with my son. I was so mellow about my son.

Wow, you're that mellow?

Yeah.

Even on Friday prayer, he was in elementary school, and it turned out that at school, There's a must to do Friday prayer. There's a must to do Friday prayer at school. So I didn't know if it turned out that

a few weeks ago, that was the last time I moment of prayer last Friday. After that, after he entered elementary school, he walked and walked, like someone was missing. He was still in school,

but usually we discuss here, there is a chicken coop, usually there is a rat there. The jokes kept repeating with him, then he ran, entered in front of the mirror. It was like it was empty.

So when I was praying on Friday, I didn't pray at the mosque near my house. I went out on my bike. Because it's not... So that's what I think, those moments,

that I remember, if the story is close enough, it's easier to find the comedy. So the premise doesn't have to be funny? No, it doesn't have to be funny. This one, maybe you can find it, like, it's not Friday prayer,

or the moment, it's not Friday prayer, maybe, that's just a matter of time We'll find it later But what's like that I always feel like that Because he's close to his mother again

If with me One day with my father One day with my father Play at home After that he's eating There's a schedule, eat Just relax We were playing and then she was eating.

There was a schedule, so we ate. We were like adults, just chilling. But when her mom came home, she was like... She was like, I want this, I want that. Why didn't you say that to me? Why didn't you feel...

In Makassar, it's called jabe-jabe. You were so rough to me. He's not like that. He's very patient. So, when he's alone, he always complains. He's like, Abid, you're too much.

But when he's with me, he's calm. That's what I need to learn. Does he hold back? Is there a limit to his love? Have you ever get angry? No, I haven't But I'm too funny Too funny?

Yes

For example, there's a mistake I get angry like that I'm angry in my heart I'm funny, he laughs

I'm too funny

So you don't have self-esteem

So you don't have self-esteem That's right So you don't have self-esteem You don't have shame Once, I was at my neighbor's house I was about to go in He was about to take off his sandals He was thinking

My neighbor's father He said, just go in Just wear your sandals He was thinking I said, it's okay, just go in.

I was waiting for you to ask me first.

It's okay, just go in. Wait a minute, okay? He ran to my house.

Can I not wear sandals to enter someone's house?

I have a proof!

I have it!

He was like,

Oh, you don't have your own value, sir. You don't have your own value in front of you.

That's it. No self-worth, sir. No self-worth in the future.

That's what I feel sad about. Do you always cross the line when you make a decision for your kid? For example, a simple example. Your kid wants to eat chocolate. If his mom says no, his dad says yes,

he'll be confused.

Do you do that often? Yes, I do. I say, no, you can't eat that. You can't eat that. You can't eat that. There's a lot of sugar today. I said, tomorrow can be another day. Just eat it.

There's even a watch schedule. Watch schedule. Watch schedule. It's very limited with my wife. But if there's a moment when we're together, so we can talk more closely,

while watching TV I turn on the TV and he turns off the remote No, no, no, not on the day we're watching I said, I already

I bought the TV

I bought it

There's still the kiss scene

That

He's very respectful

to his mother.

I said, no. I'm not like that. You said that you always joke around with your son. The opposite is true for me. Especially my son. I try to be a father to the person who was bullied by him.

But he always said, what should I do? Like yesterday, my son suddenly, recently, went to the gym.

Because he saw his dad going to the gym. In the first grade of high school. Daddy, do you want to go to the gym? Yes, let's go to the gym. So almost every day he went to the gym? I said, yes. So, I went to the gym almost every day. But I always asked him, do you want to go to the gym tomorrow?

I asked him if he wanted to go to the gym tomorrow. I was afraid he was tired. Two days ago, at night. I asked him, do you want to go to the gym tomorrow? He said, not now, dad. By the way, he said not now, dad.

Because I was tired. I said, I'll be there at 7.20. I said, I'll be there at 7.20. I said, I'll be there at 7.20. I said, I'll be there at 7.20. I said, I'll be there at 7.20. I said, I'll be there at 7.20. I said, I'll be there at 7.20. I didn't expect my son to be like that You want to be... I see that you're trying to be a good father

for your son to build a relationship I met my son who's a man He's always like that He always breaks me

What do you think I should do?

Stand up or me?

You're my senior, I'm standing up

No, I'm not I'm your senior

You managed to make your step as a fun father I'm afraid I'm not fun for my son Maybe in your son's eyes For example, if you go home, you want to be a father who's a good father. You're different from your version on TV. Maybe your son just watches it.

He doesn't have to be a good father.

He can be a reporter and become a TV host.

That's it.

That's it. That's the need of a comedian. Whatever he does, serious or whatever, they still do it. They talk in their head.

They're not funny.

That's it.

There's that.

But you've talked to your wife.

How to get... trust from your child? That if I allow it, it's enough. You don't have to go to... Have you ever? I have. Then he said, well, we often talk to each other,

and he said, if this is not allowed, but you have to be strong. Don't... Don't be soft. Yes, I mean... Stubborn, I mean... He's firm

No, when a kid is sad, we should be gentle Don't be too easy on him It's okay, he'll get used to it But I'm not strong

Even when he was last, he couldn't...

What do you mean? I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

What I can't say anymore... Okay. That's what makes me sad. Because he... negotiated with my wife.

Mom, this is Abid. He said, this is Abid. Why did you stop him?

I couldn't do that. I cried. I felt sorry for him I just wanted to breastfeed him

I just gave it to him, I couldn't do it

But you told your wife to tell your kid, right?

Yes

So your status won't be reduced I feel bad for him I felt so sad. But have you ever... had a moment that made you... stop and...

stop at a point? No more comedy break? I have. I think when I was angry... my wife was... we didn't have an ART at home.

So my wife... cooked and then she said, this is a toy box, don't break it again. Even if it's broken, I'll fix it again. She just said yes, yes, until almost sunset, right there. I asked,

and then she answered, like, repeated my sentence with a mouth like this I was like, why are you doing this to yourself? I can't talk to my parents like that, it's not good The good thing is to remember, the good thing is only to our family, at home only Outside we never know what people are like

If you are like that, other people get angry I can't hold it, I can't monitor 24 hours I'm always angry There's no comedy at all I'm already angry I went into the room, quiet

He suddenly gave me a photo The photo was hidden in the door My photo pushed taken when he was still a kid on a stroller I said, oh, this is how you play

This is how you play I'm crying

I can't

I was given this Because there are photos in the fridge I put it in His photo was taken when he was still a kid on a stroller Because there are photos in the fridge Yes, I know He put it in His photo is still small, he's pushing the stroller That's the result of the photo

from someone who's like, I'll take a picture of you He gave it like this Wow, you're playing with your face But I didn't tell him about it until tomorrow I just talked to him That's the moment I didn't give him comedy

But at that age, you already you knew how to make your dad cry at that age? I didn't know. He watched YouTube.

I didn't know.

7 tricks to find your dad's weakness. But what made you so afraid of losing your son? Of course, it's because... Yes, of course. I want to be in a relationship with my father. It's already decided. People, especially my generation, I think many people are not close to their fathers.

Because it was always one way, right? Yes.

The government.

The government.

You can't. Why can't? The reason is unknown. Okay, you can't. So? Because I didn't know the reason. I said, okay, I can't. So that's what made me, as I grew up, I didn't want to be kissed in high school.

I was embarrassed by my dad. I compared him to my friends. My dad was more handsome than my dad. I had that feeling. So, until I was an adult, I didn't get close.

Right. Until I grew up, I didn't have any relationship When my parents got divorced, I went back to my house Where my father lived alone He had a stroke I was so confused He came home and had a stroke He just said

How was it? Did you get wet? Yes, I got wet Okay, sit down Did you get wet yesterday? Yes, it did. Okay, sit down. Did it rain yesterday? Yes, it did. We kept talking.

Because it's awkward. You're not used to talking. I'm not used to it. I'm not used to talking to my friends. I don't have that. So, I said, that's enough.

With my son. I'll be more cheerful and deeper.

But, did it rain?

It's the same

It's the same

It's the same This is what keeps us going

It's just a different tone

It's the same

It's important to decide on something like that It's important But. But it's important. Deciding on something like that is important. But not a lot of people... ...apply what they got. Apply what they got from their parents to their children. Even though there are some things...

...that are heard... ...that are not in the same for a father and son relationship. But there are people who still remember, I used to be like this, that's why I can be like this. Oh, yeah. It depends on what education you had, sir.

Maybe it's hard, but the father's hard is clear. If only...

Yeah, that's right. I'm not sure if I'm the only one who's been punished. I'm not sure if I'm the only one who's been punished. I'm not sure if I'm the only one who's been punished.

I'm not sure if I'm the only one who's been punished. I'm not sure if I'm the only one who's been punished. I'm not sure if I'm the only one who's been punished. I'm not sure if I'm the only one who's been punished. My mom, I mean my mom, my mom, my mom, my mom He's rejecting you That's what I took from him No matter how angry he is

He's only punished by being locked in the bathroom

Locked in the bathroom

It's only for a week, but... But he still feeds me, of course I'm sorry, but if your parents him. I'm sorry if you're in your parents' room, and you go to the bathroom, it's not a punishment for a week.

You just need to renovate.

A week.

But the challenge will be increased when Sabit has a younger brother. That's true. The challenge will be increased. Please, my temperature. Because yesterday, I was in a dilemma. There was an Please, my temperature. Because I was in dilemma.

There was an incident in my house. Bontot was playing with his sister. He was playing with a titan. Because kids nowadays talk about titans. Bombardillo, crocodile, burrito, sahur, and all that.

My son was having fun playing with me. Using his power. And all that. But I haven't come home yet. They were playing with me Using the Ternogal And stuff But I wasn't home yet I was on the way

I was playing with my wife They were playing together Maybe the older brother Couldn't measure How fast he was When he pushed his younger brother

With just a little push

He fell He fell and sat down with a little push, maybe it was too fast for the little one Yes, yes

The little one fell, the little one fell and sat down

Oh my

My wife immediately, she was afraid, right? Why? Because of the tailbone, right? Finally, she was confused She was holding on to the problem Her brother cried because he felt guilty Then my wife also hit him.

It seemed like... Maybe she thought that... my mom blamed me because I'm her brother. She couldn't take it. But the one who couldn't stay still was... Her brother.

Her brother. When I got home, I was confused. So, I had to... First, I pulled Bontot. What was the story? He told me.

I was standing here. Then, he pushed me.

Wait, before pushing...

What were you playing?

So, I was playing this and that. Who pushed me first? I pushed him. Maybe he felt like he wanted to get back his strength But he was too strong That's the story

And he was still crying He was so mad I want to tell you Don't blame yourself too much This is not entirely your fault That's it You'll find out later

if he has a younger sibling I think I also learned from that We shouldn't judge directly if the person who pushed you is wrong Because

there must be a reason and the position might not be right So, did you have any friends I was like, why is this happening? And maybe the position was not right.

So I fell.

Did you have any friends involved in school? I had some. But my wife asked me directly, how did it happen? She told me, because Abid said this,

but why did Abid say that? Because she knew if Abid was wrong. Or his old friend. If your son was wrong, what would you do? I would apologize. No, I mean to your son.

Oh, to my son? Yes, if in the context of this Balita's son. Then, what would you do to your son? If your son was wrong. I he's the one who's wrong. I told him not to do that. Don't.

Because... I always tell him... we never know what people think. What if he's always mad at Abid? If he's like that, try... I usually tell him...

try to give Abid like that. The other way around. What if Abid is like a B, what would happen? Then he understood. But fortunately, he's not as shy as me. Alhamdulillah.

Why are you so shy? Makassar people are mentally strong. He's 20 years older than Makassar.

Don't say that.

I'm younger than Makassar You're from Dodia, right? I'm from Makassar Even though my wife is from Telokan

But I was born in Makassar People from Sulawesi are more like this

If we're going to go somewhere We're like this Slowly, then like this If we're going there, we're like this

You just came in here, sir Yeah, because... Have you checked your DNA? I'm afraid you're Javanese.

That's right.

It's more like... I'm shy because I've met a lot of people. So, I'm not shy anymore. But, when I meet seniors feel like it. But still, when I met the seniors, I felt a bit shy. In the community, I was like,

Hey, you! Take me, Airaq!

Take me, this one.

But I didn't.

Because my last kid, he was bald. Near his house, his friend shouted,

Hey, bald!

And he responded like this.

I'm bald. Why? I said, if I were him, I would run and cry. But he answered like, you're cool. So, mentally, I think I'm like his mom. She's so tough

What about your wife? She's from Makassar too Makassar is a very tough version of her She's tough She's like a wife

She's the strongest master on earth

How old are you?

I'm 7 years old. That's why I'm in elementary school. But we have to be careful when we communicate with our kids. Because they literally understand what we're saying. There's an example. I was in a relationship. It was boy's time.

We were talking to Kauki. He was really funny. He didn't know where the gender of this person was. We were talking. We were both men. Was it high school or elementary school?

High school.

High school. Were you 3 or 4 years old? We were both men. I'm a man. I admit I'm a man. I admit I'm a man. I mean, I'm 4 years old, I'm serious. I admit I'm a man. I admit I'm a man. I admit I'm a man.

I admit I'm a man. Far away. Far away. Girls can't work. Like me. I'm the one who works. As long as I can work, my wife is at home. Taking care of the kids. So, girls can't work.

The next day,

the teacher calls.

Mom, why is this? Why?

The teacher told me to go home.

He's just making it up.'m not going to do it. He did it.

He did it. Literally, he did what I said.

So, when the teacher comes,

he'll be like,

what are you doing here?

You're going to teach, right?

My dad said, girls can't work. They should stay at home.

Oh, God. Where's your interest? You can't work, the girl is at home He was swimming, he liked to swim And he played soccer but he didn't continue because Every time he was operated, he held it with his hand He said, no, no, just keeper He was told to be a keeper but he didn't want to, he said his shirt was different He can't be a perspective like this When you're fixing cars, you're not curious? I like it In the picture book, I like to draw cars and robots But you're serious about automotives?

Just a little bit Why do you like old cars? Maybe because I like the shape And now the models are futuristic I like the design

I like the design It's a bit thin, but... Why did you pick up old cars?

Maybe because I like the shape and now the cars are very futuristic, right? But... Don't you think... He just picked up Astina, right? Astina is one of the cars that... Back in the day, when we were kids, we saw the car and thought, wow, it's cool. That's right, my dad's era.

The lights can be like this. That's my dad's era. The lights can be like this. That's my dad's era. I think that's it. I mean, when I was young, my dad didn't have a car.

But he understood. This is 4x4. He knew it. But he didn't have a chance to buy a car until he died. So I was like, this is what he used to talk about. I had a chance to buy a car so I was like, oh this is what he was talking about

I also had Astina, Astina

there used to be a tabloid, auto every modification of the car was included there every day, what was the heartbeat? it's the same as a soccer magazine he likes to buy he likes to cut it, stick it

like that so with Astina's model I've seen it and the sticker, and so on so with the original model I've seen it before and the model is also the classic one, but the price compared to other cars

that have pop-up headlights this one is the cheapest but the price of the cars you've bought you tell your wife the real price? real

real is real because it's an appropriate price A real Real Real

Because it's a probably

That's the point

I discussed with him This will be a content He knows the value It will be useful He's open He doesn't know what his hobby is

I said, yes, try it I even asked him to his hobby was. Your wife? Yes, I asked him to join me. He said, just play with the pedal. But he ended up playing tennis with his friend. Because he was always free. His hobby was watching live stream stream on Tukoran

and he kept watching it while someone was sleeping while recording the screen

so the host was sleeping okay, bendak, bendak, if you...

there were a lot of people, 2 AM

1 AM it was a holiday

like, try it, poor people looking for a job at night. He said that. But it was on the screen. Poor guy, he's looking for a job. So, don't ever complain.

You're the one who recorded it.

Does he like to shop? Or he likes to be a shopper?

He likes to shop. He likes to shop. But every time, he's live, he's not on purpose He was talking, and there were a lot of people who started selling at night Because people were sleeping, and they were about to sleep, but they were still using their phones I've seen him

He was on the table So I think he was thinking about his home Where's the key, where's the key, maybe on the table He said that, but it was in his mouth And his eyes were empty Just take it out, ma'am.

It's funny. And that's the skill. You can't be like that. You have to fill it in. So, the sentence is automatically templated. Okay, ma'am. I want to check it. Okay, I'll spill the stuff.

This is the stuff.

Okay, ma'am.

It goes on. She's good at controlling his breath. My wife doesn't have any hobbies. She only plays tennis. But if I want to buy this, I want to try running. She supports me.

But you don't ask her to do things together. Like, let's run together. You can do together Like running, you can do it together Yes, we can do it together But if he runs, it's just a little bit And then he's tired

Almost everyone is like that Except for Andika If Andika is tired, his wife is very fast

Oh yeah

It's a different level

It's already phase 3, phase 4

It's a different level Oh yeah That's me If Andika It's like PS3, PS4 It's a different level

That's my wife If Andika is fighting with his wife, he will run away

He will be chased by his wife

Where are you going?

He can't He can't run away So what do you do with your wife? Usually, Rif? She's already 7 years old

Do you go out with your wife? Yes, we go out. We watch stand-up comedy You like it?

But it's your world too

I learn from time to time

For example, you ask your wife to learn how to ride a bus She doesn't have the skills

Black science Mountain riding That's right, because I was because I was invited by Zawin. But it turns out that he's also a beggar. He wanted to invite his wife. But, as he said, the quality time... is watching Paling Up or going to the mall.

That's it. But you still often... I mean, let's go together. No need to bring your kid. Yes. You still often do it often? I still do it often, but it's a bit difficult at the time Because I don't have a babysitter

Not that one

This time I have one

If I don't have one, I'm confused So I don't have one There's a freelance one So I have to set a schedule I can't stay at home, I have to go out Like that So if you're on a stay first I can't stay at home That's how it is

So if it's a staycation with your wife It's obviously impossible

Yes, it's rare

You don't have any thoughts about your sister? I have thought about it My wife also wants to

So I gave her

She didn't want to before? She was a little scared Because she's a cesarean And she's a cesarean because... He got a neck injury? But he was wearing a sling

He was traumatized because he was sick So he was coming home from the hospital, I saw her stomach was hurting. I was like, what's wrong? It turned out that there was a nana in her stitches. So, she had to be discharged. I always accompanied her to her schedule.

So, I saw that, but I held it in. I was like, I have to be strong. If I'm weak, but I held it in I was like, I have to be strong If I'm weak, he's weak too But there was one time I think the cistern was still new Or maybe it was a new one

So when he first came in He was pushed, and there were a lot of them He was like He was standing on the wall like this

What's wrong, sir?

It's okay, I haven't eaten yet

I haven't eaten yet.

I haven't eaten yet.

Then, his friend said... he was afraid of blood.

I said, I think he's new.

So, he was like...

He's a nurse.

Yes. Yes.

Maybe he thought...